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*oTrineyxo
writes:Im going to make this quick. Theres this guy, Boy we'll call him. Hes much older than me... 4 yrs. Im twelve hes sixteen. We have been freinds forever and I invited him to this chocolate fondue party.He was in my room eating chocolate. Apparently there was some chocolate on my lip he started to move in. I thought he was gonna wipe my face with a napkin. And then he dove in and started licking/kissing it off of me! And im pretty chesty so he started sticking and rubbing his hand into my shirt! And I told him to get off but he didnt but he finally did.I dont feel i can trust him anymore and yeah i liked the kissing part ( but who wouldnt) anyway i know he could be dangerous but my parents would think im craving attention please help!
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reader, jmac1344  +, writes (24 April 2007):
 He's 16, you're 12... And this happened at a chocolate party...?
He's definatley a creepy guy, if I were you I'd stay away from him.
Trust me, any guy whos 16 and doesn't see anything wrong with making out with a 12 year old is one messed up guy.
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reader, xoTrineyxo +, writes (21 April 2007):
xoTrineyxo is verified as being by the original poster of the question Dear Everybody,
THANKS!
My only complaint is that the female anonymous the one that is talking about how she shoudlnt be talking is getting on my nerves because i didnt say i was dating him. He barged in!! So honey you better shut it before i find you! Dont answer unless you completey l understand the question!
Sincerely,
Triney
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reader, xkimx  +, writes (17 April 2007):
 my mates has a little sister and she is only 12 , now i also had these other friend that where 15 ahnd 17 now they got together one night and got her drunk and she had sex with both of them twice now they are getting done for rape , event though they didnt rape her , beacause she is so young it is classes as rape , be careful boys that age only want one thing
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (17 April 2007):
 dear xoTrineyxo,
The best thing for you to do is talk to him about it and tell him how you feel about this, just put it to him and tell him i liked the kiss but when i tell you to stop doing something stop, and if he cant accepet the fact that you dont want him to do something then you are better off not friends and if he contuines to touch you tell your parents cause they will under stand just dont go next to him alone have a friend with you that way he dont force you into anything else! well good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007): You were right to push him off of you. He has no right putting his hands places without your consent. But my advice to you, is that you are only 12, i know that you have feelings but, at that age, you may not know when or how to stop, if you indulge in making out.
I would suggest that you not be alone with this guy. He may only want sex from you, trust me.Don't have him in your room or anywhere private, you are asking for trouble.Guys at that age, are mostly thinking of sex.You should respect yourself and not allow anyone to incourage you in anything that you may regret.Be careful and good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007): I might be the wrong person to say this since I'm dating an older guy, but I really think he is way too old for you at the moment.
4 years is nothing when you're 18 and he's 22, but 4 years is everything when one of you is in high school and the other hasn't even reached her teenage years yet.
The truth is, 16 year olds are in relationships that are a bit more advanced than the ones pre-teens are used to. Generally speaking this involved physical contact.
You're clearly not comfortable with him and frankly I find it a bit odd that he's dating someone so much younger at this point in time. In a few years it's no big deal, right now it's huge.
My advice is to date someone your own age if you feel the need to date at all. Personally I think 12 is too young to date in general but if you really want to, stick to someone only a year older or less.
sorry if that's not what you wanted to hear.
Good luck xx
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