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writes: I no longer know how to deal with feeling sexually frustrated all the time. I have talked to my partner a few times about the lack of action in the bedroom but he doesn't seem to think it is that big a deal. He tells me he doesn't feel like it as often these days and telling me that seems to be his solution to the problem. We love each other very much but this is driving me crazy. I feel like I am going insane. I wake up horny, I go through the day horny and I go to bed horny only do the same all over again day after day. Waiting until the end of the week when he might be interested feels like an eternity. Yes I masturbate for sexual release and probably ten or so times a week but it just doesn't do it for me. I don't know what to do as this frustration is starting to overtake my life.
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (16 April 2007):
He needs to be understanding in all this. Just because he walks away with a smile on his face does'nt mean you do.
Its easy for a man to be satisfied and much harder for a woman. He must know this, most men do; some ignore it and others act upon it.
If he loves you he will try and see that your not happy with the sex. If the sex was better would you crave for it as bad?
He needs to cater to your needs more and place more emphasis on you so you reach the heights he does. Tease him so he has to please you first, you take the reigns.
Dont put the focus on the amount of sex you have, rather than the sex in general; and how it can be more than it is already. Everyone has different sex drives, you both have to respect each others.
Get him motivated so he sees your passion if u havent done so already.
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