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anonymous
writes:i was with my ex boyfriend for 10 months on and off. however at the end off last year we split for good and a few months later i got with someone else and i have recently been told that my ex has now got a new girlfriend i was pleased for him however i was upset as he was my first love. i love my boyfriend of 3 months however when i spoke to my ex he said he did not have a girlfriend and that he still loved me and he even started talking about getting back togehter. please help me im so confused and dont know what to do i love my boyfriend and i still love my ex??????
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2007): i have a boyfriend that treats me good but hr is leaveing to go to the army and i dont know what to do and then my ex with i have kids by was not good to me
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reader, kellyO +, writes (17 April 2007):
 Hi there,
I understand there must still be an attachment with your ex. That feeling is never going to go off like that. It never does. It is difficult to close the chapter to a relationship for alot of people than you think. It is important to weigh things and go with your instincts. Who makes you more happy? You relationship with your ex has some worth been unstable for 10 months. That alone must have been emotionally draining.Do you want to go back to that. What caused the problem in your last relationship? Is that issue resolved? Going back is going to bring up alot of issues, are you ready for that again? WIll it ever work between the two of you?
When you have answered all these questions I'm sure you will know what to do. My own advise will be to give your boyfriend a chance and don't look back.
Goodluck dear.
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reader, Ashley18  +, writes (17 April 2007):
hard decision but good luck... do what your hurt tells you and what is better for yourself...i hope you chose what makes you the most happiest just remember most people dont get second chances and when they do they dont take them and they dont ever get that chance ever again. do what your heart tells you to do....Good Luck!!!
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