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Having a hard time with know my gf had sex with someone else before me! What can I do?

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Question - (16 April 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2007)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I'm having a hard time with the fact that my girlfriend has had sex with someone before me. I really have no room to talk, as I penetrated before her, I just stopped myself, and was out immediately. I also have done everything except sex previous to our relationship.

I really do not want to feel this way I know that it is selfish. I just cant get it out of my head, and it hurts. I need advice as to how to get this jealousy thought out of my head.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007):

Well, you love her don't you ? when you love someone, you accept them just the way they are.You have to try to get over this hang-up and stop thinking too much about her past.Would you rather not have her at all ??? someone else would surely be happy to have her.It's either you want her or not just make your mind up. Good luck

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