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writes:This is to all lads, men any age of male.What is the perfect girl?What really matters?Do lads feel the heartbreak we do?How can you tell a lad likes you?Thankyou Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007): The perfect girl and what really matters
I'm 16 and the perfect girl to me has to be attractive in my eyes (this doesn't necessarily mean that the girl is attractive in the eyes of other men). She also has to be funny and sohpisticated to me. When I see this girl she has to blow my mind and at this moment a girl does fit this bill for me. The perfect girl though is different to every men. Some want curves or some like girls with no curves. Some men may also like a girlwho is shy. To me a girl has to be compatible personality wise if I'm going to make a move.
Do lads feel heartbreak to?
Yes we do. When I went through being dumped I felt terrible- it felt like my heart has been ripped to pieces. I felt so sad but you have ot get over it in the best way possible- its hard but it has to be done.
How can you tell a lad likes you?
It depends- they may look you in the eye but be incredibly shy when there near you. Others may be more outgoing around you. Personally if I'm around a girl I really like I'll be incredibly shy and I tend to be lost for words.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007):
Hi Girl14,
What is the perfect girl?
There isn't such a thing, it's the little imperfections that make someone a real person. I seriously don't think anyone would be happy with perfect. If I had to suggest some words that are good qualities in someone (guy or girl) I would say, happy within themselves, honest, faithful, caring, supportive, confident, funny, are to name but a few.
What really matters?
I think that depends on the individual. People have different priorities in life, they focus on different things and put different amounts of importance on each of them. When you get together with someone it is good to be with someone that believes that the same things matter as you do.
Do lads feel the heartbreak we do?
Men and women have the same emotions and feelings as each other and so they feel heartbreak just the same as women. They often don't show and respond to emotions in the same way though. Part of maturing and growing older and having relationship experiences is to understand your own feelings better and to then understand your partners feelings.
How can you tell a lad likes you?
He would want to spend more time with you and seem to really enjoy spending that time with you, he'd make you feel good about yourself. I would guess it would seem a little like friendship but there would be more of a chemistry feeling as well. Most guys would probably make it known that they felt something more for you, but some shyer guys may not say anything.
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reader, zgeek  +, writes (17 April 2007):
 a perfect girl all depends on who it is that you are asking. Every guy has his own perspective on what their perfect girl is. Some is the model type, some is a...plump person, some is just an average girl, and others don't have an image of a perfect girl....they take life how it comes if they meet someone yay wonderfull. if they fall in love with someone even better. There really isn't no universal "perfect girl" just be yourself.
The things that matter are again far and many. I personally like courtesy, devotion, love, thoughtfulness and of course beauty. But every guys views and wants are different. Everyone has there own views on beauty....some look at the eyes some look at peoples faces some love boobs some love buts others like fatty people some love skinny people. It is all in the eyes of the beholder..........again...just eb yourself
Yes we do feel heart ache as much as you do society has just told us to hide it guys don't cry guys don't get emotional it shows weakness...well we feel just as much as girls do.......we just never show it.......we cry in the dark........we are just as suceptable to heart ache or a broken heart as much as the next girl.
hm....how to tell a lad likes you......well they will definitely flirt with you allot they will probably hit on you allot.........look at you allot...........be kinda shy around you......um....yea sometimes completely ignore you.....lol
well hope this helps you
ZGEEK
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reader, rk06 +, writes (17 April 2007):
 Perfect is an abstract term. It changes from person to person. Just be yourself, dont EVER change for someone. You are perfect the way that you are.
What really matters is that you dont try to change the way you are to suit someone.
Next, yes we feel heartbreak. It really sucks. Like really. lol
Last but not least... just be honest. Something along the lines of "I understand that you might not feel the same way, but I need to tell you that I am interested in you."
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