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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I am a single guy and have strong belief that i could not be happy with a women unless she is physically attractive to me. In other words, the moment i find her not of much of an attraction physically, i loose interest in her and there is nothing much remaining that would keep things going. I have seen this happen to many men in my society who, after their marraige, once their wife had kids, lost interest in them. I guess the main reason being, the women loses her physical attraction after having kids or become fat etc. This is a single most important factor that leads to frustration for men in a long term relationship like marriage. I believe that most men judge women based on her appearance, and so do i to an extent. And this anxiety prevents me from entering in to a committed relationship with a women. Any advice will help. Reply to this Question
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female
reader, trueheartconfused  +, writes (16 April 2007):
I believe men are capable of giving love and making commitments. After all men need love just like women.
You are still too young , you just havn't found your true love
yet, true love will never fade.
The fact you ask this question kind of tells me you do want
to be in a committed relationship , doesn't it.
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female
reader, xcharlottex  +, writes (16 April 2007):
To me, you just sound like a typical guy at your age. Although perhaps the problem is you just havent found the right woman to take that leap into a commited relationship with.
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