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30-35,
anonymous
writes:would you forgive a boy who cheated on you and lied to you for your entire relationship?he told me he had never done anything further than fingering a girl. 2 years later i have found out he had oral a before our relationship started a couple times.during our 2 year relationship, we had some arguments and breaks. our last break was in february when i went to france. we had guidelines though. he came up with them. "keep it in your pants." i came back to hear that he got head from several girls... a couple times in public in front of others in group settings.he is begging for another chance... but i dont think he deserves one. what do you think?we are both 18 y.o.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2007): you are still very young, if he is lyingto you drop him and i can assure you the right one is still out there. keep on searching.
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reader, 7up  +, writes (16 April 2007):
 Hi babe,
please do not forgive him! once a cheater always a cheater - have you heard this phrase before?
Ive just found out that my now ex bf has been cheating on me for 8 months of our r'ship he came home when we'd only been together afew months with a love bite on his neck and yet all the way through i believed his lies......
You deserve a man who is honest and loves you deeply, any man who is 'in love' wouldnt cheat...you have to ask yourself if you do forgive him and stay together would you really be able to trust him everytime he goes out or your away?......
I hope this helps and you make the right decision
C. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2007): Your message is all about sex and there is no information other than that about him at all. Your description is of a very immature boy not a man and it sounds as though he is a waste of time and energy.
I would not bother with someone who sees sex just as easy recreation, good men have some reverence for this act which is private, personal and which should ideally be with a person who you really love.
You should not waste a moment on him and perhaps should look again at your own needs and motives. What kind of man is good do you think? List your ideal qualities. The way you wrote your question and the things in it make it look as though you think it is all about sex. Should he be kind, honourable, funny, clever, solvent, gentle etc etc? Or are you just looking for someone who can keep it in his pants? I would have though that should be taken for granted...it is hardly an admirable quality, more something you should be able to expect as a minimum standard.
Don't think you can change him or that if he has you he won't fool around. He is the type who always will.
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