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Does she want me or not, I'm confused!!?

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Question - (16 April 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *izzlepops2007 writes:

i have been in a relationship with this lass for 8 months i meet her through a friend she was once going with, he was sent to prison but they had split up before he went so we started to go out together!i am a lesbian and it is her first time. he has now come out of jail and moved back into her home, she is telling me so dont wanna be with him and wants to be with me but he is taking her and his 3 children on holiday!my head is messed up with it all does she want me or not?

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A female reader, sizzlepops2007 United Kingdom +, writes (16 April 2007):

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thank you for the advise, she does get hit also i am just really scared that she will never come to me at all. but i will take your advise into consideration x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2007):

I've been in a similar situation before. It was my first time with a woman and I was very nervous about commiting fully. I was afraid to leave my fiance as he used to hit me. Eventually though I did and commited myself to my girlfriend. Maybe this girl wants to but is afraid to commit herself fully. She may be afraid of her boyfriend and of her families reaction. My advice is talk to her about it then take a step back and let her come to you when she's ready. If she doesn't then unfortunately you will have to move on. Hope this helps! xx

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