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writes:I have alot of trust / jealousy issues and am looking for some help! My boyfriend is very good to me, and trustworthy, and I have known him for a long time before we got together (he is my bros best mate), yet I still find it really hard to trust him! I hate the thought of what he might get up to if i'm not around, and I drive myself mad with imagining things that may oneday happen!! He is an actor too, so I know in the future he will be away alot, and most probably working closely with very beautiful women! He has never given me any reason to doubt him, so I don't know why i feel like this! I also get really jealous about porn, or even mens mags / TV programmes with sexual content. I wish I could just be more laid back about it all, but I don't know how... and I'm scared I'm going to end up getting hurt. I know I will drive him away if this continues! Any advice would be great! Many thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007): I think that you are going through these emotions becasue of the fact that he works with beautiful women and all that. But he loves you, it really sounds like it to me.Cherish him, and don't do anything to push him away.Feeling good about yourself is another thing, have confidence in yourself, he is with you because "HE LOVES YOU " okay !!! Sweetie, take it easy and enjoy your love.
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reader, kenny +, writes (16 April 2007):
 You have got to stop these feelings you are having otherwise you will drive him away. I was dating a girl about 4 years ago and she was really possessive like this. To the extent that i coulden't look at another girl walking down the road, i coulden't read mens magazines, like FHM, and had to read the daily mail instead of the daily star,and coulden't even look at a waitress the wrong way if we were out for a meal. These are just a few things, but at the end of the day it split us up because i felt suffocated, like i coulden't move.
Your boyfriend sounds like a nice guy, and he has never given you any reason to doubt him. If you want to continue your relationship with you boyfriend you must abolish these thoughts and insecurities you are having. They are things that will probably never happen, so stop beating yourself up and enjoy your relationship.
Good luck x
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