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writes:Hello,I have recentely parted from my partner, she is six months pregnant. (Please note) that this was my partners decision. For a while we haven't been getting on, there are lots of reasons as to why, but the reason why i write this is because, yes i want her back, and yes i really need to be there for the birth of this baby as she has already stopped me from being there for the birth of the first baby. We live a couple of hours apart, and i did ask her if we could try again, but she said she's not sure, and that she may feel differentely after the baby is born. I know i should just carry on with life, but need some opinions from others. Please help.. Reply to this Question
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reader, shama  +, writes (26 April 2007):
I did the same thing to the guy I'm pregnant by. I kicked him out twice. Before I was pregnant I could not be without him. My hormones are going crazy. This will be my last pregnancy. I have two children already. Like the other person said she just needs time. For me, my partner does not give me support or attention. It's like he is pregnant. He complains about his back, his stomach, how sick he is and how tired he is. I never get a chance to complain about those things. Every time I said I'm tired, he would say you’re tired, I'm the one that is really tired. So I gave up and gave him to boot.
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reader, Midge +, writes (16 April 2007):
 She is pregnant so her hormones are all over the place. And a little time out will do her and possibly you, a whole lot of good.
She hasnt said that she isnt prepared to get back together, which means that she obviously has feelings for you, otherwise she would have just told you to get lost. So, youre still in with a chance!
Give her a little space. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, and trust me it does.
I'm sure she will allow you to be there for the birth of your baby if you mention to her that that is what you want. And I'm sure that you being there for the birth will make her realise what she has been missing. But give her a little space to let her hormones get back to where they should be, and also for her to sort out her feelings!
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