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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I (of 6 yrs) have been on a break for the past 2 months. It started after a huge fight which was all because of a misunderstanding. Now that things are cleared up, he is still in the "grey." He says he needs time to figure things out, but I miss him a lot. I do give him is space and we only talk once in a while. Sometimes he calls, other times I call. We txt each other sometimes, and other times we will email each other but its all pretty much at the "friends" level. I love him a lot and cannot stand this time apart. Should I take it as being over and move on? Should I just sit here and wait? This is so heartbreaking, I can't even describe it. Why cant he just call me and say he loves me and that things are difficult, but we will work it out? Why does he need a break if he still cares?
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reader, xcharlottex  +, writes (16 April 2007):
Sometimes when you've been in a relationship for a long amount of time, you start to take the other person for granted and your feelings get confused. I am sure though that he will soon realise how much he needs you & how much you meant to him. Just try to stay and act positive towards him, because there's nothing more unattractive than someone who is negative and needy. hope this helps. xx
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