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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

It has been year since we broke up and now he wants to meet back up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - help... i'm still in love with my ex though it finished over a year ago. He finished it and I was very depressed for several months. I bumped into him recently and he chatted to me all night then asked if we could meet up "for a cup of tea". The problem is - it hurts so much ... (109 words)

I need tips on how to ask out the guy I like!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6529 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - Is it okay for a girl to ask a guy out and whats the best way to do this without looking desperate/needy/clingy? And how do you find out if a guy is really interested in you when you THINK he is because you always catch hinm looking at you.... (52 words)

I'm 21 and just can't move on from my past crush!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - I'm nearly 21 years old and I’ve never been in a committed relationship. When I was 19, I was seeing this bloke and he told me he didn't want a relationship. At that time, I didn't want a relationship either. Then as time went on, he was flirting and showing an interest... (407 words)

I'm 20 and have feelings for a 15 year old!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

25 October 2006 (M) - im 19 coming on 20, i have strong feelings for this girl who is 15/16, we are really good friends and get on extreamly well with each other i like her company. she has told me that she likes me and she is always flirting with me, and i too with her (so iv been told) i wan... (136 words)

We broke up and he saw how upset that made me - has he asked me out again out of pity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (F)

- hey... me and my boyfriend split up just over a week ago becase he told me he felt uncomfortable because im 2 and a half years older ... after a day or so he kept askin me if i was ok becuase to him i was acting stange.. and he told me because he saw what he had done to me by... (98 words)

How long should I wait for this boy I like to say yes to my request?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6631 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - I like this guy from a high school art camp this summer. We lived at a local college for a month and became close. He is a sr. and I'm a so. We sat at lunch together and held hands and played soccer at night. Then about a week after camp we no longer talked. We recently began ... (134 words)

Should I leave him alone and let him decide if he wants me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6631 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend split up with me two weeks ago claiming his feelings had changed for me. I saw him last weekend and he told me he still loves me and that he needs to feel how he did when he first fell in love with me again in order to make a go at things. If I leave him alone and ... (80 words)

Time has not healed how I feel about him - even though he is in love with his GF!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6518 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - Recently this year I was involved with a guy who had a long-term girlfriend. He was my perfect guy and I was convinced throughout that they were going to break up and he was going to want me to be his girlfriend. Of course, I was fooling myself - because he loved her and I was ... (192 words)

I'm 16 and he's my 33 year old tutor! He's flirting one day and ignoring me the next day! I'm so confused by this

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - Hi, the problem is my tutor, im 16, he's 33, big gap i know but hey!. he keeps being flirty, but he has some days when he will completely blank me, n some when he seems so happy 2 c me he won't stop smiling! wa should i do, he is taking the class on a sleepova to a haunted hou... (102 words)

It's been 23 yeras and I can't get over my first love! How do I stop these feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - it's been 23yrs and I still feel I can't get over my First Love. We lost contact for many years but know we are in touch with each other. I do think I was his true love also. But how do I stop these feelings... (51 words)

Who comes first? The spouse or the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - Traditionally, I have always believed that in a relationship where children are involved; be it children from outside the relationship or not, your partner/ spouse comes first and the child second to the unity of the “adult” relationship further, what's best for the two adults ... (137 words)

I want to be sexually active but still a virgin? Will he be able to tell I am inexperienced?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - im still a virgin but i am now sexual active! i really like this lad im seeing and i want things to happen between us, but im scared incase i mess up and im usless at everything!!! as i havnt had much expericane will he be able to tell? im not student i know how to give head ... (76 words)

Mt gf hates my Mom-I can't even mention her! Why should I have to tread lightly about my family??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - my girlfriend and i are having problems understanding each other. she hates my mum and now i can't mention her because otherwise she goes wierd on me and gets in a mood. also, i feel that i have to tread carefully so's not to annoy her but when i'm annoyed, she dismisses it. ... (55 words)

My heart hit the floor when I saw my husband's profile on AdultFriendFinder!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - I got home from work last night and i was trying to find a wed site i was at the other day, so I went into the "history" part of the computer and found that my husband signed up for adultfriendfinder.com and alt.com, is he thinking about cheating on me has he already? i don't ... (83 words)

Does this guy want me or am I being taken for a fool?? What do you all think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - Hi Guys, Apr06 I wrote to you about a married man who still wears his wedding ring. Well developments - He doesn't wear it anymore, and is divorced. He Kissed me, but we only seem to get friendly when we are drunk. I thought I was over him, and relieved when we remained frie... (157 words)

How do I tell my online love, that the girl in the photos aren't me?? What should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6628 days ago

25 October 2006 (F)

- I've done something kind of stupid which has all blown up in my face. I registered with an online forum just for fun and to kill some time really. I put photos up of a random, gorgeous girl and said it was me. I just thought it was harmless fun at the time. Obviously i didn't ... (200 words)

He wants a relationship with me but I'm not sure! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - Am 22 yrs and he is 29 yrs. he's a family friend and his mum is a very good friend of my mum. the problem is that he asked me for a relationship, he says he loves me so much and wants to marry me if my parents agree to it. but i don't know what to do because he stays 3 houses ... (99 words)

My gf told me she's torn between me and her ex! What should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

25 October 2006 (M) - My girlfriend has recently expressed to me that she is now torn between me and her recently divorced ex-husband. She feels that a lot of the bad blood from him was just him getting back at her for leaving him. Now the two are getting along, and she has been spending more time ... (266 words)

how do I impress the new girl at work? Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (M)

- Hi, well, at my workplace there has been a new girl around, i have been told she is one of the office girls daughters, and i think she is only a year older than me, if not the same age. Ive taken a bit of a liking to her, even tho ive only seen her a few times, and dont get to ... (204 words)

Ladies...How do single/married females view separated/divorce man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

25 October 2006 (M) - Hi, I just got separated, after six month of marriage which was nothing but hell. well I am going through so much emotions, and it is hard, but deep inside me I know it would have never worked out, and it was just a big mistake. she wanted everythings her way and that was... (133 words)

After just not contacting me and cutting me out of his life he is back around me and I don't know what to do!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid Please help!! I've asked about this problem before, but the plot just keeps on thickening...so here's my latest dilemma...(apologies for the lengthy nature, but please do read!) 1) The Background ------------------ I fell in love with my next-door... (984 words)

He wants me to move in....I don't understand why I am feeling scared!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - my boyfriend wants me to move in with him i am 42 and he 48 we are happy together but i dont understand why i am feelinf scared plz help me... (31 words)

I'm a virgin and she's already had sex so why now does she want to wait til she is married!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6619 days ago

25 October 2006 (M)

- This is actually two questions I need answers to. I asked my girlfriend the question about if and when we should have sex but she says she wants to wait until she is married. I think that's a bit hypocritical as she has been in a sexual relationship with 2 guys before me, and ... (110 words)

Someone told me recently that someone like me shouldn't be with someone like her...are they right???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

25 October 2006 (M)

- I have been in a relationship with my gf for a year. She is attractive as i have seen guys ogle at her when we've been out. We're oth at uni so she's fairly smart, and I'll admit I think I'm a nerd but she said that I'm just really sweet and clever. However one or two guys cam... (94 words)

Cheated on my boyfriend with an old friend now I think I maybe pregnant!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - I have been with guy L for 8months and we have been engaged for 5 months. Well just recently I ran into an old friend we started talking then one thing led to another before I knew it we had slept together. Now I think I may be pregnant what should I do? ... (53 words)

If I was her current boyfriend I would be put off by the way she is behaving!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

25 October 2006 (M) - Hey guys, I didn't get a lot of response to this one (thanks for the advice for those who did). Thought I'd ask again, still driving me a bit nuts... I'm still in love with my ex girlfriend and we hang out on occasion even though she has a boyfriend and has for like 8 month... (343 words)

In two weeks, I will be marrying this guy who I think is arrogant and stubborn? Advice needed...quickly!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - Please can you answer this ASAP - im in a bit of a state. I am due to get married in less that 2 weeks. My fiance is driving me totally mad. I know the run up towards a wedding is stressful enough but he is impossible. All the traits I knew he had and I didn't like I ha... (255 words)

Wearing the sexy nurse's outfit didn't work--so how do I spice things up without looking like an idiot?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - i need your help me i decided to surprise my husband and buy my self a sexy nurse outfit as my husband had dropped a few hints so i got my mum to have the kids for the night and after having a lovely meal at home i go upstairs and put the outfit on but when i came down stairs i ... (100 words)

I worry myself silly when he goes out to have fun without me! How can I stop being this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - Hello everyone CAn you tell me please is it normal to get a sinking feeling in your stomach when your boyfriend says he is going out that night with his friends? I know I will sit at home tonight and worry about what he's up to, and wont be able to sleep unless he texts ... (137 words)

I was thinking of dumping her but she dumped me first..now I am shocked and gutted! How do I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

25 October 2006 (M)

- A few days ago i told my g/f i was unhappy and stated a few reasons. I told her she didn't make me happy, but i wanted to work at it and not split. Now, after 3 days she has come back and said " you are right, i agree, i thought i was happy , all these things are wrong so lets ... (169 words)

When I call him..he's busy! Do I just wait for him to call me then?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6380 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - whenever i call him he is busy he never even bothers to call me back,for him his family is more important than me, but 4 me he is everything and he knows it.should i keep calling him or just wait for him to call me?... (45 words)

Do guys mind if the girl phones first? Do they see that as desperation on the girl's part?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6380 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - Hi, A guy I have been seeing a couple of months has not contacted me for a few days when he said he would, do you think I should contact him or will he think that is a bit desperate?? Do guys mind if the girl phones first? x... (55 words)

Sex with my new bf, hurt more..is it because he was bigger?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6380 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - Yesterday I slept with my new partner for the first time. He is the second person I have slept with, but I hadnt had sex for over a year (b4 yesterday). Basically when i lost my virginity and on the six times after that with the same partner) it didn't hurt nad I didnt bleed. ... (125 words)

I'm in love with a girl I am related to! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

25 October 2006 (M) - dear cupid i seem to be in love with a girl who i am related to (cuzzin through grandparents), before i used to have feeling for her but they usually go away after a day or two, but now i seem to be thinking about her non stop, and i would like to know should i say that i lov... (96 words)

I can't lose weight...Will girls go for a fat guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

25 October 2006 (M) - dear cupid i am having problem losing weight, i mean im on diet n i walk 20 minutes everyday and do gym, but am not losing weight, ive been doing this for a year. my other concern is that i heard girls will never go for fat guys, is that true?? bye... (61 words)

My new wife ended up being a nightmare--how do I put this horrible marriage experience behind me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

25 October 2006 (M) - Hi everyone, well I have been here before and some very kind people have given me some very good advices. my story is very sad, it is like what it only happens in the films and I can't get over it, I think I am going mad. I married about six months ago, we had our... (641 words)

I was wondering if agony aunts get paid?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - could you please tell me do agony aunts get paid or is it a service they provide for free,thank you.... (20 words)

I'm in love with my affair who only calls me when he wants something!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (F)

- I have been having an affair for the past year, and I fell in love with the man. He was most romantic and he made me feel beautiful. After a while he asked me to buy him a reel which he could not afford. I bought it for him, but told him that he needed to pay me for it. When I ... (244 words)

His mom's death is making my boyfriend seem distant! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

25 October 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend is 30 years old and he has 5 siblings but have to take care of 2 younger ones after his mother’s death 5 months ago who died tragically. I understand it is a great loss to get over I had lost my father too so I know how it feels like loosing a loved one and I also ... (514 words)

We been married for 15 years and want to spice up marriage with threesome!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - dear cupid, my husband and i have been married for 15 years,and we are very secure in our marriage.but we need to spice it up a bit.my question to you is it cheating if we have a threesome? thanks... (89 words)

I'm 17, he's 29.. we get along well, should I end it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - As of late, around a month ago I began going out with this guy. Now everything is fine, we get along well, or as well as I've ever gotten on with anyone at the beginning of a relationship. We love each others company and being around each other is our chance to get away from ... (96 words)

Can I get in trouble for having sex with a 16 year old girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (M)

- The age of consent is 18 in california. The question is this: if I'm 16 and I have sex with a girl who is also 16 and we had no problems, could i get in trouble?... (36 words)

Is there something between me and this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - I'm not going to say exactly how old i am, but i will say i am in my mid-late teens. There is this guy i REALLY like... he's a few years older than me, he's really sweet, charming, good looking, great smile, has his life planned out and we have alot in common. Only problem is ... (223 words)

I liked this girl, told my friend, he's dating her but treating her like crap!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

25 October 2006 (M) - Istarted liking this girl that i grew up with in church about my freshmen year in high school. Well of coarse i talked to my best friend abuot it. Well about two months after he asked her out. Yeah i am still friends with him but i also am still in love with this girl and we ... (162 words)

Is he using me for sex and getting more on the side?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - i have asked my bf to focus on foreplay more, but he just seems to want to get like 5-10 mins of foreplay (if that), and about the same of sex just til he cums every time and he doesn't seem to think about how i may feel. Just be straight out and honest with me - is he using me ... (157 words)

I saw him first and am in love with my friend's boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - help im in love with my best mates boyfriend, i met him first and had a brief fling with him, a year later and my best mate is dating him. I cant help looking at him wishing i was with him and not her. What should i do?... (48 words)

I am bored with my bf's gal friend and he thinks I don't like her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (F)

- hi, my bf and have been together 5 years, i am 18 and he is 24, there is this girl we both know , he is more friends with her and has more in common with her that what i do, which is ok, the thing is i find it hard to make converstation with her as we have nothing in common and ... (249 words)

Slept with my ex, I still love him but he says he's gay!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - Hi all, i hope you can help me with this, I am 16, and recently i slept with my ex bf (whom we had only just broken up because we never saw eachtother..he dropped out of school ect.) anyway he moved to victoria and now he has just moved back, he has said that he is gay, but i... (121 words)

I fancy a girl at school but don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

25 October 2006 (?) - i fancy this girl. we dont know each other. we only met once before properly where we had a good chat and got on well with each other! otherwise at school i just say hi. how can i ask her out? when? shall i get her number? but i cant phone her? because it will make it look ... (93 words)

I want to show my boyfriend affection without scaring him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6633 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - I've been going out with my bf for a month now, but we've liked eachother for about 5 months. I really like him and he says he likes me, but i don't know. I really want to start physically showing my affection but i don't want to scare him. He's 17 and i'm his first real gf. ... (84 words)

I want to find the right guy for me...not a guy who just wants to fool around because I look hot!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6633 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - ive been with so many guys, and my friends are starting to tease me about it. I just want to find the right guy for me. and I just cant every guy out there is my type or im not theres. What is wrong with me? guys say they think im hot/gorgeous/cute/pretty... (192 words)

I found some cross dressing, gay sites he's been on. Is my husband gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - I dont know what to do,I found these sites:local gay personals in my city, meeting men who crossdress, ladies underwear, feminizing men on my computer . I went and questioned him he said it was either his friends or sites that just pop up when a key word is typed that it ... (93 words)

He's a wild guy...I'm not that way. I'm trying to figure out why the heck I'm with him. Help me here!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6633 days ago

25 October 2006 (F)

- Everybody's been telling me that I really have to break up with my bf (b4 he does anyways), we've been 2gether for almost 8 months and things have been up and down...until recently they ve been v down, he no longer calls like he used to and I'm no longer his priority... The th... (452 words)

My husband missing underwear! Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - My husband came home one day without his undies on, when I knew he left with them on. I found them hidden, I asked him where are they , he said he didn't know then told me the hidding spot that I'd had already found when I confronted him. Then he told me that where his undies ... (75 words)

I have sexual dreams about my ob/gyn! He flirts with me and we exchange e-mails..and we're both married! How can I shake this feeling off?.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - I'm in love with my OB/GYN (perinatologist). Unfortunately, we are both married. I met him in June when I became his patient because of very severe complications with my pregnancy. He was the most caring doctor anyone could ever have. I was hospitalized for 2 weeks and he came ... (330 words)

Hello! Any guys out there who can restore my faith in you?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

25 October 2006 (F)

- A question 4 the guys! now im a strong woman i am who i am and proud of it! not constantly worried about how to make you guys like me! but ive lost faith in you guys! i dont wanna generalise but i dont have to date women so im not worried about them! are their any nice ... (83 words)