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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She's broken my heart three times! How do I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

16 October 2006 (M) - I have been seeing this lady for 7 years. She is married with three children. Her husband has in the past treated her badly. When we met in the begining there was an instant spark between us. We made each other laugh we enjoyed all the good things of a new relationship as is th... (284 words)

It's my my friend's word against his...who do I believe?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - hey i have been dating this guy for a while now but here lately we have been arguing alot. we were best friends before we started going out and he told me that he loved all of his other girlfriends and now he tells me that he really does love me??? well should i beleive him? ... (148 words)

We haven't had sex and he masturbates in his sleep! Is this a sign of trouble in our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - This isn’t a problem as such but I just want to know what you guys think and whether this happens in your relationships. I have been going out with my boyfriend for a month and I have just stayed over his house for the weekend. This is the first time we have slept in the same ... (548 words)

How do I find a way to stop being attratced to my bf's best friend? Any good tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - Hi, this question isn't going to be quite what it sounds like at first so be sure to read everything! I'm 26 and I feel as though I've been in enough relationships to understand how they work and what helps to make them work. I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years, a... (287 words)

My marriage is over and now my online bf says our relationship is over, too! I am devastated! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6609 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - I need some advice I have been married over 15 years, but in that time my hubby has had 3 affairs. The first when I was pregnant with our first child. Then again about 3 years ago whilst he was on a break from a 6 year affair. I now realise that the only reason I took him... (678 words)

He had sex with me and when I went to a party..there he was kissing a girl in front of me! What can I do to make him want only me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - what shoudl i do? i've been going out with a guy for about 6 months, we're not oficially dating, but kind of, the thing is that we broke up because he was not ready for a serious relationship, the worst excuse,, i know but every time we meet (once a week), we have sex! last w... (92 words)

My guy freind's new gf hates it when he communicates with me! What should I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - hi, i know this man for almost 4 years. we are very good friend from the very start.i been alone at that time and also him but we never out of our limits being good friend. we are so open to each other we dont have any secret and when we write a letter or sms to each other we ... (147 words)

I love my bf so much but I am attracted to his best friend, too! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - I'm 26 and in love with a guy who's been through a lot of things with me. We're serious, and have even talked about getting married. The only problem I have is, that no matter how in love with him I seem to be, I can't stop a very strong attraction I have to his childhood ... (114 words)

We broke up and decided to stay friends. Now he's over attentive and flirting with me like crazy! What's up with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - hey... i'm a bt confused about my ex. i'm really good friends with him still... we work together. we split about 2 months ago now on a mutual thing cos things werent the same anymore. recently he's started acting different...just like he did before we went out. he's probab... (216 words)

She tells everyone I am gorgeous...do ya think she likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

16 October 2006 (M) - There is this girl who pulled me up to dance (repeatedly!) at a party recently. She kept looking at me. She is now trying to phone me and she seems quite desperate and tells everyone that I'm gorgeous. Does she fancy me or not? Thanks... (54 words)

He wants me to shave my fanny and I don't know how!

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - hey i met this guy when i went to austria with the school and hes coming over to see me but he wants me to shave my vagina and i really dont no how to go about it please help its really embarsing!!!!x:X:x ... (43 words)

Our sex has waned a lot...so does that mean he's not into 'me' anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6296 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together on and off, but mostly on for just over three years now. I am 25 and he is 22. We had a great sex life for the first year then we had some rough times, he had fallen back into smoking pot on a regular basis, like multiple times a day. Well ... (249 words)

He's 56 and in a loveless marriage. I'm 40 and he and I have had sex..am I doing the right thing?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - I am 40 well nearly 41 is it right to date a man of 56 (old enough to be my father) he is in a loveless marriage and loves me no worships me, we meet when we can in secret of course, we make wonderful love, we have so much ic common. We live in different villages but I spend a ... (100 words)

I'm 21-she's 13. I fallen in love with her and I think she likes me. She's self-harming to get my attention! What should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

16 October 2006 (M) - Hi, I’m a 21 year old lad who has fallen deeply in love with a 13 year old girl! I asked for advice on here a couple of months ago, read what people said and tried it but with no success and now the situation has got worse! Some people said don’t see her but see goes to... (463 words)

Gambling, misogyny, porn...all he does makes me feel low down and bad. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I are always on/off. He looks at porn all the time but ONLY lesbian porn.. sometimes mature women sometimes younger. Sometimes I have gone to bed and he is still at it.. I have unfortunately caught him with his trousers down. I fear he is a misogynist. He ... (579 words)

I'm starting to give up on waiting to have sex with the right person! Should I visit a prostitute?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6500 days ago

16 October 2006 (M)

- I'm starting to give up on waiting for the right person to have sex with. I can't a girlfriend because I'm unattractive (my parents say thats not true but it is) all my friends are having sex and I'm theonly one who hasn't. I read a question on here and since it doesn't seem to ... (68 words)

Should I go back to Jim for the sake of our child or be with Bob-who I am in love with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - Hi all anyones help will be great. Here is the problem I have been married for almost four years now and have a beautiful three year son. However, a year ago my husband we will call him Jim and I split and have just started talking about trying again. Then out of nowhere my ex ... (266 words)

What can I do if a person finds my ID and wants more than on line relationship without my consent? Help..advice needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F)

- What happens if a person gets your ID from internet, can he find out where you live or find a way to harm you? What can I do if a person finds my ID and wants more than on line relationship without my consent? thanks a lot... (48 words)

I feel like my behaviour is becoming so reckless that I'll end up causing hurt to my bf...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, since we were in high school. Now we're both in our 3rd year of university, and I've found myself drifting away, or maybe growing out of the relationship. We took some time apart earlier this year as I had gotten involved in a lot ... (314 words)

She gave birth four years ago and we haven't made love since! My confidence is pretty flat so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (M) - I've been in a relationship with my partner for six years. We've never had an overly exciting love-life, and my partner was a virgin when we met. four years ago we had our son, and since then we have never made love. There's been what I'd call a mature foreplay, but nothing ... (145 words)

We broke up and decided to be sex buddies,,now he's jealous because I have sex with other guys!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6565 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - So me and my bf of 4 months broke up last sunday. We decided to be friends. Then we decided to be sex buddies.Then he became jealous of me fooling around with other guys too. We're currently friends who have sex who are exclusive. Complicated I know, and not too different from ... (292 words)

I really like this guy..should I tell him feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - i fancy this boy who i used to go out with a while back but im not sure whether he fancies me or not. When he asks me who im talking to on msn and i tell him n if im talkin to another boy he will start asking questions! I see him staring at me at school sometimes and i really ... (82 words)

She still brings up the STD I had that broke up apart! How can I get her to trust me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

16 October 2006 (M) - Well I guess I didn't explain the question right. The deal with my ex and me is we're still in touch with each other and seems when we're with each other and around each other we connect very well. Sometimes, like anyone else relationship, has ups and downs. There was an STD ... (166 words)

He hasn't orgasmed inside me for ages and always wants me to finish him off, orally or with my hand. Why is this???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - Hi there -this is one for the guys. Any help gentlemen would be very much appreciated! And women too of course, if you can offer advice! I have been with my boyfriend over two years, and we have always had a pretty good sex life - though not as exciting as it used to be, norm... (216 words)

What does the saying..."dont wear your heart on your sleeve" mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - when this thing happened between the guy i like, in my catering course, two weeks ago, he found out that i like him and somthing happened, as the guys mate, who is also my mate. well the guy i like his mate came over and said stop staring at him, its annoying him. well i got ... (128 words)

I want him but don't want to rush him! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - Hi there.... okay heres another similar prob hehe! I met this guy a couple of weeks ago, he's absolutely lovely and has been completely straight with me, he's two years younger than me and has not long come out of a 2 year serious relationship. He said he is ready to move on... (271 words)

I went as far as losing my virginity to him but he doesn't seem to want a relationship with me. What's happening?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - My problem is sorta complicated. I'm 17 and there is this boy i have strong feelings for, i might even love him. I have done things for him that i wouldnt normally do wit any one my past boyfriends. This boy lets say his name is John is not my boyfriend right now. He is very ... (252 words)

My girlfriend only ever talks about herself and her life and never bothers to ask me how I am or ever interested in me and my life!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6460 days ago

16 October 2006 (M) - Why does my girlfriend talk and talk about herself and her family and her part time job and does not talk about 'us' or me and stuff. When I pick her up after work she just talks and talks about her shift and what she did and its gets too much. She doesn't ask if i had a g... (79 words)

My girlfriend of two years recently broke up with me...she says that she doesn't have feelings for me anymore!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

16 October 2006 (M) - My gf of 2 years recently just broke up with me, she says that she doesn't have feelings for me anymore... I really love her and do not want this relationship to just end like this... She says i don't give her space... She moved in and lived with me... what space can i give... (420 words)

I have sensitive glans..so would a handjob create a lot of pain for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (M) - hi my problem is that i have a sensitive glans if i touch it i get a sharp pain that can make me scream. the doctor says that i should be ok. if i was to recieve a handjob would it be painful or would it be easier having sex? if you get a handjob does the foreskin ha... (74 words)

Dating an Asian-Muslim girl..what kind of barriers and problems could arise from that?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

16 October 2006 (M) - Can anybody help me with problems arising from having a relationship with an Asian Muslim girl?... (16 words)

Can a fulfilling relationship between 2 people work, and be successful with a lasting future if there is limited or no sex taking place?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (M) - Hi, I have a question that id like to ask of those that would know or have experience of out there. Can a relationship between 2 people work and be successful with a lasting future if there were limited or no sex taking place? We are both in our 30s, nearly 2 years toget... (280 words)

Fallen for my best buddy's girl! I don't know what to do...any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (M) - I have just fallen in love with my best friend's girlfriend, they really love each other and dont look like they will ever break up. Shes told me she fancys me 2 and i dont know what to do, what can i do??... (43 words)

How do I stop being needy and clingy? I constantly need reassurances. Any good tips?

This question has 114 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

16 October 2006 (F)

- How do I stop being needy and clingy? I am easily hurt and easily disappointed and I constantly need reassurance and unconditional love. I know unconditional love is practically non existent but I need it. If I don't get it I start to feel depressed and empty inside. Like I am ... (289 words)

I'm always the matchmaker and never get the boys! How do I change this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F)

- I know this question is often asked, but I'm sick of being the match-maker, or the 'friend'. I'm told by lots of my female friends that I'm really pretty, and nice. I'm not bitchy, or fake or anything like that. But I never get boys. I'm always the one doing the match making. ... (142 words)

Ex gf is casing stress in our relationship! How do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - My partner left his on/off girlfriend of 7yrs to be with me. we've been together seriously for 1 1/2 yrs now. He said that he didnt feel connected with his ex anymore and that we are much better suited because he can now show his emotional side and is comfortable telling me ... (424 words)

Hi lack of respect toward me is frustrating..so how do I handle myself when I see him tonight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was very disappointed by a friend’s behaviour this week-end. To tell you the truth he’s more than a friend; I have fancied him for a very long time and he has expressed the same feelings towards me over the last few months. We met at the gym a couple of years ... (345 words)

Gf is mad because she thinks I want to spend xmas eve drinking with my mates and I don't! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (M)

- I need help because my girlfriend is driving me up the wall. Yesterday at some point she said she hates Xmas eve because she's 17 (I'm 21) and therefore too young to drink (in the UK) at the end of the day i text her saying do you mind if i go out Xmas eve (i honestly forgot ... (132 words)

Bf is giving me confused messages about getting back together. How should I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - what do u do when you was seeing some one and they want you to go and see then so you do and they say that ya back togeter and in the next breath he tells you that he has been in love with a woman for a long time but he dont wanna be with her and he was drunk at the time of ... (67 words)

Our relationship is more like a friendship. Should I stay or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - One for the girls. As my other half isnt much interested in sex i now lost my sex drive and dont want to have sex at all with him when he does once in a blue moon. So many times I feel like leaving as i see that were more like good friends than anything else but im confused ... (139 words)

I see a future fir us, he takes this day by day..any hope we'll make it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for a year and two months now. I'm 17, and he's almost 20. (The age difference isnt that bad) But I keep thinking about our future together, getting married, having kids, getting a house, and he says thats what he wants to do as ... (95 words)

What do you say if a guy calls you a hottie?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - if i guy tells you your hot! whats the best way to compliment him back? ... (15 words)

Now that his ex has found out about us she wants him back and won't stop at nothing til she gets him....including threatening me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend since i was 15 and we have a 1 an 1/2 year old son, we have been together 5 years i recently found out he had another girlfriend and lived with her when i was younger they were together for four years she claims, i have accepted this and tried to make ... (462 words)

Is it wrong for me to get turned on by what my girl did with her exes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (M) - I have very good sex with my girlfrined however sometimes I ask her to tell me what she did with her ex-boyfriends or one nights stands in the past. sounds daft but I get aroused by this, almost like hearing a dirty story..however it involves someone you are involved with. ... (65 words)

I always seem to drive men away! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6609 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - Hi everybody, I hope somebody can help. Basically my insecurities are tearing me apart and are driving people who I love and care for away. 6 years ago my 9 year relationship ended very badly where my ex left me for my best friend and it affected me in a bad way, I ended up ... (283 words)

He wants to date again but I said No-because there is no trust.. But I'm having a hard time moving on from him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F)

- He asked me to go out and suggested he would love to have sex but I refused as I told him I no because do not trust him, he answered in a joke tone his girlfriend wouldn't matter now I phoned him, 5 DAYS LATER and tells me he is watching a movie in bed with his girlfriend ... (116 words)

There is problems accuring in my group of friends because of who wants to be with me!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F)

- Two years ago I went to a party and there was a friend after me, David, and my ex around; both wanted to get off but I refused in a friendly manner maybe I flirted a bit with my ex and a girl in my gang, Ann, was there, she told my friend David that I had been chatting with my ... (341 words)

Am I just needy or is it a result of bad past experiences??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6611 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - It seems that with every boyfriend I have that after the first week or so I start to get the feeling that I'm being neglected or that he doesn't like me enough unless he is showing me affection all the time he is with me. I don't like this feeling though because it makes me ... (107 words)

I'm 23 he's 35 but I can't tell my parents as they will think he is too old for me!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

16 October 2006 (F)

- Hi I have started seeing a guy i am 23 and he is 35, the age difference does not bother us but i can't tell my mum and dad as i know that they will think that he is too old for me! We are mad about either and we have been for over year and we only got together a coupl... (100 words)

I have raised my grandaughter for them and now they won't to ruin everything I've done just because it suits them!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6609 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - my son has a resident order on his daughter he since found a new g/friend with 5 children who are under supervision from social services he left to live with her and left his daughter with me she is 2 1/2 i have looked after her sinc eshe was 8mths old her mother who is now a ... (215 words)

If I know she really doesn't want kids and I do is that a big enough issue to think twice about our marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (M) - I know I want kids, she's not 100% sure nowadays. We've been married for 6 years now and were starting to get serious about having kids. Yes, we probably should have been on the same page before we got married, but I thought we were. She's got some issues about being a go... (145 words)

Most my friends seemed to have abandoned me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - Hello, It was my 37th birthday in March of this year and this question feels like something a teenager would be asking. I celebrated my birthday with a big group of women I was proud to call my friends. These women ranged from 29 to 53, each with a history and meaning which is... (234 words)

Hooked up with my ex again and we were all "in love"... But haven't hard for 2 texts and 2 calls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - Ok, I ran into my ex of 2 months in the bar Thursday night. I asked him how he was and he said fine and kept walking. I was like screw it I'm done w/his confusing on-off BS. He ends up texting me an hr later asking where I was and what I was doing. I said I was drinking at a ... (370 words)

Will it lose it's effect since I've already taken the 20??

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16 October 2006 (F) - Hey, I recently took 20 Yasmin pills while i was depressed. it's been like 1 week and I want to take it again, do any of u have any idea if the Yasmin will take effect or will it lose its effect since i've already taken the 20. Pls assist. Desperate for help... (53 words)

Should I call him or wait for him to chase me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - Ok I meet this guy at a party sat. night.I thought he was pritty hot and he was nice.Also he knew my cuz so I thought that is a pluse.so I got pritty messed up, and slept with him.What am I crazy I dont even know the guy.well I thought maby we can at least be freinds after ... (115 words)

she doesn't want him to have any contact with me!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6609 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - I have been involved off and on for the past four and a half years with this man. I know our relationship didn't get started out on the right foot because he was at the end of his marriage. Well, the last year was more off than on. We both dated other people and often he and i ... (235 words)

Is it wrong to not want to carry a child myself and have a host mother do it for me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

16 October 2006 (F)

- Ok This is a weird question- But is it morally wrong to want to have a host mother have your kid instead of you having your kid( ie your usbands sperm with your own egg, but another woman carries it till birth?) Even if you are slightly infertile but dont want to carry it? I am ... (301 words)

Received a hurtful email from my ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of over a year and I broke up over a month ago he wanted to continue talking everyday after he broke up with me..but we haven't had contact since ( my decision). Just the other day I received my first e-mail from him and it was so mean and hurtful. He hear... (100 words)

Do I cheat on my wife to get the extra sex that we are not having??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

16 October 2006 (M) - I have been married for over 25 years and I love my wife very much. Our sex life has slowed to maybe a once a week and I am not sure why this has happened. I still have the inclination but she is always too tired. Now for the complication: A woman I have known for many years ... (102 words)

He tells me everything I want to hear then disappears after we sleep together!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - hey there im a 17 yr old chik and i got a problem a yr ago i had sex with a boy.. he said that he loved me and all this other romatic stuff so i falled for it.. then after it happened he went cold and didnt talk to me. just recently we had started to speak again and he was... (167 words)

He is cheating on my friend but when I told her she accused me of being jealous!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - My friend is going out with this guy, I didn't really like him, but I was happy for her anyway. One day, I was walking down the mall, I saw the guy. He was talking to his mates. he didn't see me, but I heard a bit of what they were talking about. I found out that he was chea... (222 words)

I am with a guy and we love each other but I can't seem to ignore the feeling that I keep finding girls attractive!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - I date guys, I've been in couple of intimate relationships with them. However, there was something that was bugging me lately, I strangely find girls attractive and I am kinda drowned to them. I am NOT a lesbian. This started to happen a month ago. Everytime I see a pretty g... (109 words)

I'm staying with my parent for the sake of my daughter as I can't financially support myself!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6609 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - I want to leave my partner.....we have a 4 year old little girl. I have not been happy since my daughter was born. I do not love my partner and am only staying because of my daughter. Financially i cannot leave...we struggle living in one household let alone paying for 2 if we ... (197 words)

On this one time he wanted to finish inside me...why would he want to do this??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6609 days ago

16 October 2006 (F) - my bf wanted to finish inside .what does that mean? me and my bf are very stable and going ou for more than 4 yrs. we never cheated on each other but were goin on and of lately. our relationship was troubled becuase he wanted to hang out with his buddies... he's 23 im 21. w... (216 words)