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Is he using me for sex and getting more on the side?

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Question - (25 October 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 October 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

i have asked my bf to focus on foreplay more, but he just seems to want to get like 5-10 mins of foreplay (if that), and about the same of sex just til he cums every time and he doesn't seem to think about how i may feel. Just be straight out and honest with me - is he using me for sex only? And no we haven't been out together as in public, he always says he's got no money but the next thing i know is that he's just spent $1000 or whatever or his car. So how can he say that he's got no money then? I dont understand! I also suspect that he has been seeing and or incontact with another women 4 the past few weeks, could this be possible?, keeping in mind he only sees me like once a week despite he only lives about 10-15 mins away from my place???

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2006):

I agree with "Camille" it sounds like he has one thing in mind and you know exactly what it is!.

So do yurself a favour and get shot of him, find yourself a real man.

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A female reader, camille United Kingdom +, writes (25 October 2006):

camille agony auntDump him! You've talked to him but he hasn't taken it on board. If you're in a relationship, it should involve more than just sex, so if that's all you're doing in the one time you see each other, it doesn't sound like he's too committed to this relationhip. I'd get out and find a nice fella.

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