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anonymous
writes: I've been going out with my bf for a month now, but we've liked eachother for about 5 months. I really like him and he says he likes me, but i don't know. I really want to start physically showing my affection but i don't want to scare him. He's 17 and i'm his first real gf. I've had several boyfriends and have done everything bar actual sex. How can i move the relationship to the next step without making him run a mile. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, tux +, writes (25 October 2006):
Pheww... just be lucky this is your only concern. :) But you shouldn't be afraid of showing him affection but always remember sex is not necessary to show your bf affection. Being afraid to show him affection may scare him off more than your showing of affection would do. but if he does run, something tells me it wasn't meant to be.. or he may just be scared to accept affection. either way.. it'll work out in some fashion.
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