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Archived questions from: 14 October, 2006 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do you know if alad likes you??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6491 days ago

14 October 2006 (F)

- How dya no if a lad likes you?... (8 words)

I want to leave him but I can't...what can I do???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6642 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - Hi my name is steph, please please3 help me!! ive been with my boyfriend for bout nearly two years. im only 17 and iv just moved fom hull to lincoln with him, i havent got no family or friends here. I feel like i want to leave him! well i have done for ages, but i just ... (134 words)

I've been reading this book about how to talk to women and the things that are a no are how I am!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6642 days ago

14 October 2006 (M)

- Im currently reading a book 'How to talk to women' The co authors seem to know a lot about this as they seem to have done many years research. They talk a lot about how you should not take the mick about yourself when joking with women as it sounds wussy, and also believe ... (101 words)

What do I do if my mother won't let me see my boyfriend anymore???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6590 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - What do I do if my mother wont let me see my boyfriend anymore?... (14 words)

I haven't heard from him in two days...has he lost interest??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - im new to the dating game and haven't been part of it since i was a teenager ten yrs ago because of a past long term relationship.anyway my dilema is that i recently went out to a nightclub where i live and met someone,his really nice and we get on great. since i met him we ... (172 words)

How do I ask her for a sex only relationship??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6642 days ago

14 October 2006 (M) - i want to embark on a sex-only relationship with a girl i know. how should i introduce this concept to her?... (22 words)

My ex called me but I don't know if I can return his call as I still love him!!!

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14 October 2006 (F) - When should I call him back? out of blue, my ex-bf called me this afternoon and left a message after 3-month non-communication. Basically he just wanted to check up with me,but I did not have anything exciting and new to update my life except I have a new bf now. The r... (517 words)

Does anyone know the best position to help in conceiving a baby??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

14 October 2006 (F)

- iam trying for a baby with my partner we both have children from past realtionships but now want one together but been trying for a few months nothing as hapend so does any one now wat is the best sex postion to be in wen trying to concive and when is the best time to have sex ... (57 words)

He is just so set in his ways that he buries his head and pretends it's not happening!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - I have been married to a nice man for 15 years. "nice" is the word everyone uses to describe him but this includes a bit boring maybe. he is 10 years older, I was young when we met, and I was already feeling a bit dissatisfied in that I am havin a bit of mid life crisis. ... (241 words)

Do I carry on like normal or tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - help me please i like this boy but i don't no how to tell him do i carry on as normal or just go and tell him! but if i tell him i am scared ov loosing our friendship i have been thinkin about this for a while and i just cant get the answer.... (56 words)

He wanted us to try the long distance love but keeps ending things!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - I met this guy January and we began a relationship right away. I was moving to another country shortly after we met and told him so, but he insited we still date to "see what happened". I am not a person who gets attached, probably cause I've moved every 2 years since I was 10. ... (163 words)

Is being on the pill killing my sex drive??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - hiya i was just wondering if anyone could help me. does anyone know of someone or maybe even yourself(females only) that has lost thier sex drive through taking the pill? i'm on the pill(im 20) and have been for over a year now. before i started to take the pill i was pestering ... (138 words)

He has a twitch and seems he is doing it more because he knows it annoys me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - My husband has a twitch which involves making a noise in his throat and muttering under his breath. He had it when he was young and over the past few years it has come back again. I am very concerned as I have a nine month old and I do not want him to pick it up. I have talke... (353 words)

I really like him and he asked me out but I'm not sure what I should do!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6642 days ago

14 October 2006 (F)

- well this guy i really like asked me out but im not sure, and since then we hae been sending eachother sex texts, and then he said to me that we wud b gr8 togeva. I dont know what to so shus i say yes or no?..... (47 words)

What if you know you can't live without your partner but do you go out of your way to find out how someone else you have feelings for feel the same??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (M) - say if ... you have been in a long term relationship for 5yrs..and say if you kno that you wudnt ever be able to live with out your partner..but on the other hand..youve always had feelings for some1 else..n then say if..in 6 months time you are going to get married to your ... (118 words)

I'm torn between my ex and my new love!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - Ok so here it is... I am confused as hell. Torn between my "X" that I love very much...we have been on and off alot over the last 15 years. And now feelings for a new man in my life....but only 2 months in and he has fallen so hard it scares me. I have tried to be honest ... (272 words)

When someone is drunk are they likely to be more honest or to lie? What do you think?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - When someone is drunk are they likely to be more honest or to lie?... (15 words)

How is sex defined?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (M) - just a general question....how is sex defined? Do you have to cum for it to be classed as sex? or would it still be classed as sex if there was only penetration? thanks... (34 words)

How can I reach a better orgasm through masturbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6346 days ago

14 October 2006 (M) - hi evryone. can anyone give me tips on how to reach a larger orgasm when masturbating.... (19 words)

Can shaving cause thrush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6639 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - I get frequent flare ups of what I assume to be thrush every couple of weeks since I became sexually active. However, I broke up with my bf and no longer had a sex life but the thrush still came back. I had just assumed that it was caused by my boyfriend because we have sex ... (116 words)

Why do I still love my boyfriend of 1 year, even though he hurts me so badly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - Why do I still love my boyfriend of 1 year, even though he hurts me so badly.Choose to respect your partner and make some different choices. You have more power in your love, respect, personality and magnetism than you do in control. You can't make him come home, but you can ... (68 words)

I saw my boyfriend with another woman. I can't get it out of my head. What so I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - Hey... i guess i have a story to tell. I have been going out with this guy for about 7 weeks now, and everything has been going great. He's my best friend's brother. Anyway, tonight we went to a "get together" at a friend's house and I ended up getting rather drunk. At one ... (290 words)

Making good changes in my life by getting out to meet new people but I'm scared of being hurt! How do I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F)

- My family asked me to prepare for an job exam 2 times telling me it would be not very difficult for them to give me a hand with it I studied quite hard and I didn't manage to succeed despite I did quite good in the exam because experience counts a lot and I graduated only a ... (194 words)

I graduated 2 years ago but I'm still in love with my gym teacher! Will fate ever bring us together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6642 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - i graduated 2 years ago from highschool and in my sophmore year i fell in love with my gym teacher. we always would talk, not on a intimate basis, but we have deeep convos about anything. i really trust him..and when we talk he looks deep into my eyes and i really feel ... (225 words)

Question relation investigation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - Hi, Can you please answer the following: I had been accusing my partner of lying about why he had not answered me one night and I want to know whether his reply makes sense IN RELATION to the question being asked. I then asked 'How do I know that you not answering me r... (180 words)

Is it a yeast infection, or is it something else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - for about a week now i have noticed more of a whitish...sometimes yellow color on my panty liner... and i tend to have like a substance there too. what is this? is it simply a yeast infection or could it be something else? here are some facts about me: im a virgin i sh... (118 words)

How do you know if a 15 year old boy fancies you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - how do you know if a 15 year old boy fancies you? Does it sound like this boy fancies me? He says to his friends 'She fancies this 80 year old man' infront of me as a joke. He talks about sex and sexual things, like, 'She lost her viginity to an old man' to his mates. (a... (113 words)

I am crazy about a girl, but she has a boyfriend. Why is she confusing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6628 days ago

14 October 2006 (M) - i live with this girl that i'm absolutely crazy about. and i know she likes me too, as we talk about it. problem is, she's with someone right now. but their relationship is rocky though, and might end. they've been discussing just being friends, as he likes someone else, ... (248 words)

Why is my ex still hinting that he wants sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6636 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - hi im confused with a ex of mine he keeps coming back and hinting he wants sex but i dont understand why he keeps coming back to when i dont give him any is there a deeper reason why he comes back 2 me?... (44 words)

I still love him and I think I want to be with him again. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - Ok, so this is a really complicated long post and i'm sorry, but the information is needed to get the full picture. I've had an on/off boyfriend (call him S) for about a year and we broke up last sunday. It was all left well, the reason we broke up was because he was depressed ... (514 words)

Could we have a relationship in time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - When my boyfriends mother moved across the country he decided to go with her. We stayed together and our relationship went through a rocky time. He moved back to make things better but it just got worse. He just couldnt make enough money here so he decided to move back across ... (110 words)

Do you think he will leave his family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - I have been married for 16 years and have a 14 year old son, I have been friends with a man from work on and off for 10 years, lunch now and then and friendly chats nothing more than that, although I have been attracted to him since the first day we met. Then about 6 months ago ... (178 words)

I am scared of being hurt, should I give a serial heartbreaker a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

14 October 2006 (F)

- dear cupids, i know this boy called *john* and he is in my class at school he says he fancys me and i like him alot but he has a repuation as a serial heart breaker he says that if we went out he wudnt hurt me but im scared hes going to. he goes out wiv girls thn dumps thm for ... (79 words)

My bf is jealous and controlling. I found out HE has been cheating. How do I bring up the subject?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6105 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - I am in a very confused state at the moment and I dont know what to do or how to approach the subject with my boyfriend. I have been seeing my boyfriend for the past 4 months now it has been a lovely realtionship where he treats me well and treats me like a lady, something ... (252 words)

I found out my bf had cheated, now I am pregnant. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - my partner has treated me very badly for a very long time, telling me he loved me, then he didnt etc... i feel like ive been through hell and back with him. when i had just come out of hospital a few months ago he had to go away, he came back from this trip and i just knew ... (319 words)

My bad hair day stops me from talking to girls, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

14 October 2006 (M) - Hi every one, i have one huge problem. i am 14 years old and i have short curly/wavy hair, it makes me look like a complete idiot and a baby, whenever i talk to the girl i like:( is there anything i can do(straighteners dont work!) please help.... (51 words)

Is he being distant because of his religion? I don't understand.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - hi, ive been with my bf for 6 years and he was my first everything and i was his. we both come from different cultures and he is very religious, which has caused problems but nothing that i am not willing to work out. recently ive been trying to get him to talk bout our future ... (154 words)

Will I ever get over him??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

14 October 2006 (F)

- hello i was just wonderin if you could help. you see i have recently just asked this boy out ive been in love with for over a year and it took me this long to ask him out. i am very confident but thats was the first time i had done it and i was so happy. i said it and he said ... (174 words)

I fancy this boy, he likes me too but also fancies 2 of my mates. What can I do?

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14 October 2006 (F) - hi, my name is georgia im 13 years old and i really like this boy at school.I told one of his friends i really liked this boy(dean) and his mate told me dean likes me 2 but the problem is dean also likes 2 of my closest mates help what do i do ?? thanks xx... (70 words)

I don't feel accepted by his family. How can I get him to become my fiance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6639 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - i have been dating my boyfriend for two years. we are older and both widow and widowers. my family is fine with it because they want their mother to be happy. his family is another story. one of his two children{both of them are married} has always had a problem with it. she ... (400 words)

I don't drink because I don't want to and yet my friends and boyfriend won't stop going on about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6642 days ago

14 October 2006 (F)

- I'm 17 and have recently been feeling a LOT of pressure to drink alcohol lately. This pressure has been coming from many people at my part time work (most of them are over 18- the legal drinking age in australi), one of my close friends and my boyfriend. Some backgroun... (582 words)

I don't have feelings for him anymore so why did I start crying when we ended?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - split up with my long term partner yesterday we agreed to stay friends as we have a son together.see i wanted him to leave because there was never any love or romance and he took me for granted.when he left i starting crying,he wasnt upset and was looking forward to the single ... (67 words)

When I fall for a girl I fall bad and get serious...why does this happen to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6644 days ago

14 October 2006 (M) - i am a 22 years old guy, and my problem is that i very often get serious with every girl i feel in love.i mean i as soon i get in to a relation i start thinking about marriage and all that stuff.i am presently in love with a girl and i am dam serious about it and because of ... (127 words)

we broke up and she's with someone else now so why does she still call me and try to keep a part of me in her life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (M) - My ex broke up with me over a year ago from a over-two-year relationship that eventually became one more based on physical attraction and sex than shared views on each other's lifestyles. She was my first and I haven't dated or had sex with anyone since then, she however has ... (174 words)

My boyfriends cousin doesn't like me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - my bf cousin doesnt like me, which is fine but he constantly puts me down and says nasty things to others about me. my bf knows about this but doesnt want to do anything about it as they have not spoken in two years and have only recently resumed their friendship and he doesnt ... (120 words)

Fallen in love with my Christian friend... How can I "hook" him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6644 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - Hi, I have become really close friends with a guy at my university, we are barely ever apart! I have fallen in love with him and I recently told him so and he said that he just wants to be friends. We are both Christian and we share the same interests, I'm not ugly so that can... (132 words)

I don't know how to act with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - Im just wondering....I am 15 yrs old and I have no problem talking to my guy frineds but i don't know what to say or how to act!! Help me! I don't want to break up with him but i don't know how to act....... (46 words)

Fallen in love with my married gym-teacher!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - i graduated high school a couple of years ago and in my sophmore year i fell in love with my gym teacher. not just because i had raging harmones, but i feel like there can possibly in the future be something between us. he doesnt outright flirt with me at all. but in his soul i ... (137 words)

How do you know when you've found the one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6644 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - how do you kno when youve found the 'one'? ... (9 words)

Why does he not answer? Is he really my "boyfriend"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - Do you think that you can call a guy your boyfriend, if you only see him about once a week, he doesn't call you rarly, and same goes for txt messages pretty much? And when i do try to call him, he answers it maybe 1 out of every 10 calls i make to him or it just go's straight ... (96 words)

Would having sex with my married male friend...change things between us? If so, how?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

14 October 2006 (F) - To those people who answered my question about 'how im friends with a married guy', to me its not really a 'sexually thing' as such but i dont know. But i definatly dont call it an affair because im not cheating on anyone, so how can u call it an affair on my part to the guy ... (140 words)