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Archived questions from: 19 October, 2006 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I am 14 so am I too young to be in love ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - I am 14 am I too young to be in love ?... (12 words)

My sister is addicted to ice meth and we don't know what to do to help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6567 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - I'm not sure if this is the place to ask, but maybe you can direct me. I have a 33 year old sister who is addicted to ice meth and has has 2 children. Children Protective Services will not help unless the children are being physically abused. We've already tried to report it ... (167 words)

Everytime I want to go out with my friend he goes mad!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - Everytime i want to go out with the females my husband gets mad and it makes me feel like he only wants me to be friend with his best friends wives what should i do..... (35 words)

Why does my ex always start fights with me and bring up the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6592 days ago

19 October 2006 (M)

- why does my ex always start fights and brings up stuff from the past even tho i try my best to be nice to her? alot of the time we are fine but she randomly starts fights. Shes back with her ex btw, and is happy with him.... (48 words)

He gave me the impression he was single but he is engaged!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - Theres a guy who is older then me, I meet him in a house party. We got along well, and spoke loads, though he did give the impression he was single at the time. I found out he is engaged a few weeks later, I asked him a direct question. I have feelings for him, and I know "his ... (112 words)

Are these calls on the mobile to another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - I was in a relationship for four years. Last month my fiance broke ur relationship. I dont' know what to do. We have being argueing for the past years and a half. We kept telling each other that we were going to change and we never did. However, this time he is serious and I ... (605 words)

We've had sex and we went to France for the weekend...so why hasn't he asked me...to be his gf?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

19 October 2006 (F)

- Please help me! im 18 and soo confused! This bloke who is 25 is always taking me out and recently took me to france 4 the weekend but he hasnt asked me 2 be his girlfriend yet? we go out for dinner and cinema all the time and we have slept together but this has been going on 4 ... (89 words)

I feel miserable...should I date to alleviate that or wait until I work through these painful feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (M) - I hate myself for liking girls... it was so easy until i was 17 I just really wasn't interested; in my own little world. I had hormones and certainly found girls attractive but I never felt any compulsion to check them out as I passed by or to even give any notion of having a ... (334 words)

My buddy is planning to dump his gf..and I like her. Would it be wrong of me to date her once he let's her go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

19 October 2006 (M) - I've been friends with (Bob) since we were kids. Bob's been dating a girl but says he's thinking about ending the relationship soon because he's not in love with her. I became good friends with his girlfriend, and realized she's my ideal woman in every way. Would it be wrong ... (94 words)

Dating 3 months and she's talking engagement rings and marriage?? She's my 1st gf, so is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (M) - Hi i am slightly confused. Since me and my girlfriend met my girlfriend from a very early stage (3 months) started saying things like 'When we get married' and stuff. And i found it very strange as she's my first girlfriend and i didn't think in relationships girls said that ... (206 words)

seventeen and ready

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - Ok, im 17 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for nearly a month and we want to strat doing things but i have no idea what so ever what to do like blow jobs and stuff. Please may i have some advice and ideas please... (47 words)

im going off on holiday soon but i will miss her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (M) - Im off on holiday on saturday until the following saturday and while it will fly by, i am going too miss my girlfriend. I was just wandering if there are ways too help me not miss my girlfriend the most i've not seen her is 5 days and i missed her sorry its a silly question... (73 words)

what does first base really mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

19 October 2006 (F)

- a simple questin...what are all the bases..ie. 1st base 2nd base etc.?... (12 words)

My fiance cheated on me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - I am actually asking for advice i found out that my fiance of 3 years is cheating,but the thing is he wont confess to me even though he knows that i know he really did it. One day he told me that he thinks i should leave him because he hurt me and he cannot live with him self... (85 words)

Trapped

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - I'm 18 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, things were great when we were first together, but recently I've been trying really hard to work and save money and do something big with my life. He doesnt have the same feelings, he has OCD (obessive complusive ... (133 words)

Hanging with the old skool!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

19 October 2006 (?)

- I went to a skool for 2 years but then i moved to a different one. Now I have moved up to high school i am meeting up with all my old friends from my old school. Especially one boy. We were really gud freinds and stilla re but when one of my mates asked him out. He is really ... (122 words)

What does oral sex mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - everyone keeps talking about having oral sex! i dont know what it is! my bf even asked me if i wanted to have oral sex and i couldnt say yes because i dont know what it is! what is it?... (42 words)

The pressure is mounting upon us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my partner for just over 1 year. We fell in love very quickly. I had seperated from my husband 9 months previous which was extremly messy. My friend and family became protective and felt it was too soon. They are also very jealous, as they wanted my for their ... (275 words)

boy of my dreams

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - i really like this boy and we have been friends for 9 years. i'm not sure if he likes me though. how can i see if he likes me without being too forward?... (33 words)

my boyfriend plus his ex - something doesnt add up !!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years and he has a child that is almost three with another woman. She is still "in love" with him and has already told me that she believes they are destined to be together. In august he went to court for child support which is in ... (184 words)

Im 16 and really want a boyfriend!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - i am 16 and really wanta bf. im not unpopular or anything most boys like me at school some fancy me but they just aint my type. i have a personal quality to flirt and people think that i fancy them but it just do that because its me. i am not all girly girly im quite tom ... (94 words)

Im really young, and me and my bf have done a few things, im ready to sleep with him, but my age is stopping me, what do you think ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - me and my bf are pretty young, but weve gone pretty far (slow hj,fingering,dry humping, etc.) and sometimes i feel like i want to go further, but then i think about my age, and it makes me really frusterated! i mean im not totaly sure if he wants to or not, idk. its like i w... (118 words)

Am I just being paranoid about my friend or is she not making the effort ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (?) - my close female friend has never called me and rarely starts a conversation msn until i start it first. when i do she talks to me normally, and we can go on forever. at school the same thing applies but she never starts a coversation with me. it's been a week now since we had a ... (150 words)

We met on holiday, we were gonna take things further but he never turns up and says hes too shy!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - I met a guy on holiday. We got on so well and I have never felt like this for anyone before. When we were on holiday together, although I was really up for taking it furthur when we both got home, he seemed to be too. Since we've been back, I have been the one calling him and ... (231 words)

Bf of six has parents who won't accept me! He refuses to tell them we are dating. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for six years, and his parents dont accept me because I come from latin america, and we are now living together and he refuses to tell his parents. I feel very bad cause I feel he doesnt want to stand up for me? when his family comes he even asks ... (69 words)

After lying at first, my wife admitted to having lunch with a guy from work. Should I trust her in that nothing is going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6578 days ago

19 October 2006 (M) - One day my (attractive) wife and I planned on lunch at her work's cafeteria. She cancelled. A friend of mine at her work told me she had lunch with a bigshot in the company. He asked her out to a lavish restaurant. It was odd because she only has 30 min for lunch (just enough ... (266 words)

Periods are 2 weeks late! Am I pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - Ok, my period is almost two weeks late and this really isn't normal for me because the most I've ever been late is a day or two. I've taken two pregnancy tests, one when I was a week late and this morning. Both negative. I'm not stressed so I don't think that's the reason I'm ... (130 words)

I really miss her, but Im not sure what actually happend and she wont tell me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

19 October 2006 (M) - Im lost without her - hi people, i need help ok i have just broken up with my girlfriend and moved out on my own about 2 months ago but miss her sooooo much - ok were together for about 1 n half years things were great - we knew each other(worked 2gether) before we ... (542 words)

How many guys have taken back their girlfriends after finding out they cheated? If you love someone, you wouldn't cheat...right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (M) - pliz help!!! How many guys have taken back their girlfriends after finding out they cheated? my girlfriend cheated on me 6 months ago I found out 1 month ago, we are in a long distance relationship. I want her back but I'm battling with my pride, I still feal I can trust her, ... (217 words)

I'm having a hard time...seeing my bf only once a week. I miss him so bad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (F)

- hi Im prob gonna sound really daft saying this but here goes I only get to see my guy once a week.Due to work commitments I wont be seeing him next week. I have gone much longer without seeing him in the past as we were previously longer distance (we are still long dist... (146 words)

Trust is an issue with us because she's good friends with 3 of her exes!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (M) - So, my current girlfiend and I have been together for 9 months, and been living together for about 7 months. It's been very good except for one HUGE problem. TRUST. I have almost no trust in her, mainly because of things that have happened. My main problem is my girlfriend... (450 words)

Are we sex addicts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - Ok i need some advice guys...! Ive been with my bf for almost a year now, the relationship is up and down, due to the fact that he doesnt seem to trust me fully and jealously issues AND we argue a ALOT!!!.. but our sex life is CRAZY, we see each other 6 days in a week (we dont... (213 words)

Had oral sex with a friend when I was drunk! He asked me to be discreet but it all came out in the local gossip.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

19 October 2006 (M) - i had oral sex with a friend when drunk and its comes back to bite. He is not out, made clear it was a one off and asked me to be discreet. anyway when one of my other friends came round she had a line of speed for us both. I told her soon after and we got drunk. then in t... (319 words)

Is it safe for my gf to fart during anal sex or can this cause harm?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

19 October 2006 (M) - Is it safe for my gf to fart during anal sex or can this cause harm?... (16 words)

Im going to give her the ultimatum, its me or the friend!!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

19 October 2006 (M) - PLIZ HELP!!!follow up to the earlier question about my girlfriend and male friend. You see I've already approached her and asked for moderation of the relationship between her friend, but shortly after she's saying I miss you to the guy, saw the message in her male like you ... (265 words)

I don't think he contacts me enough when we're not together... am I being over-sensitive?

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19 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now i'm only just 20 and we only see each other 2 or 3 times a week when we are together he's very attentive we always have good sex and he does so much for me, like he bought me a laptop when i was moving to spain and filled it ... (126 words)

I know guys like the chase but It's his birthday! Should I go ahead and plan something special? ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - Dear Cupids, I have been seeing a guy for nearly 2 months now and I think we are exclusive as the other night he said his older cousin had mentioned he was happy to hear he was with a girlfriend. We are both in our late 20's he is is a couple of years older than me. ... (201 words)

Are you single? Please reply here!

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

19 October 2006 (M)

- Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here.. Just doing a poll to see how many visitors to the site are SINGLE and would be interested in a (free, of course) DearCupid dating service. Just reply to this post. Thanks! A.... (52 words)

My bf hardly wants sex anymore. Is this because he sees me as a long term person who he wants a proper relationship with, or because he is going off me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

19 October 2006 (F)

- My bf has said that 'we are not just about the sex' and doesnt wanna do it as much as we used to We have been together 6 months Maybe im just being a bit insecure at the moment He kisses and cuddles me loads when i see him (we only get to see each other about once a week)Play... (128 words)

Is there something going on between my girl and her male friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (M) - I've been dating my girl for over a year now and its a seriuos relationship, we both intend to take it to the ultimate i.e marriage one day, but there's one problem she's got this male friend that I feal is a big threat, at first I didnt think it (their friendship) was a big ... (194 words)

I broke his heart because of what people thought. I still love him, but he won't get back with me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6585 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - i broke up with my ex because what people thought and i broke his heart, i still love him and he still has feelings for me but doesn't want to get back with me. does he still love me and will we get back together? i love him so much it hurts!!... (59 words)

I swallowed, but was violently sick during the night. Is this common?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (F)

- Hi everyone Ok, last night I swallowed with my boyfriend for the first time. I really liked it at the time (he has a healthy diet and im told that helps) but in the middle of the night I was violently sick. We both realy enjoyed it and id luv to do it again but dont wann... (88 words)

How can I deal with the distance, and his 'new' friend better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 9 months, and recently we both started different universities. I am having a really hard time dealing with the distance and separation, and on top of eveything he has made this really good friend at school who is a girl who is a ... (103 words)

After we broke up..he still flirts with me! Does he still have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i just broke up about a month or two ago..we werent always kissing or making out or ne thing like that we would go to the movies flirt hold hands hug kiss u kno all that we went out for a total of 5 months we told each other we loved each other but after we ... (90 words)

I am scared to french kiss! Will it come naturally and how do you do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - ohk so there is this guy i really like and he has an eighth grade girlfriend and he said that he likes to move fast but i heard he never made out with any one but the other day i heard he made out with his gf and he ditched class to do it i was so totally jealous but then i ... (91 words)

Does he still have feelings for me?? What should i do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - what does a guy mean when you go out with him then become friends then go out then friends again and then he starts flirting with a lot but he has a girlfriend and if someone asks him if he was flirting with me he says hell no then the next day he still flirts then out of no ... (271 words)

14 yeasr old and I'm pregnant..what should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - im 14 nd ad sex wit ma ex now i think im preganant wat shoudl i do?... (18 words)

We've decided to have sex....what turns girls on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

19 October 2006 (?) - me and my girlfriend have decided to have sex on weekend. we love each other. were both 16. she's has had sex before but i havent. she said she likes to have sex hard and fast. what does she mean? what turns girls on? and how do you know when they climax? boys have cum come out ... (74 words)

I don't know whether to tell my best friend how I feeling feel and what I want to hear back from him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6608 days ago

19 October 2006 (F) - to call this guy my best freind wud be a understatement..he means a lot to me..i dont think he realises it..however..im with sumone who i also care for a lot..i think im going to meet my boyfreinds family soon..and soon der might even be an engagement.i want it all..but theres ... (140 words)

We don't want to have sex yet but she wants to enjoy dirty phone calls with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

19 October 2006 (?) - me and my girlfriend want sex but not yet as she is a bit uneasy with it. that's fine with me. were both virgins. she wants to enjoy a dirty chat on the phone. that's fine with me if it helps her. have you got any ideas of what really turns on girls? what can i say? any idea... (69 words)