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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He wouldn't take NO for an answer..was this a form of abuse or was he just pushing his luck?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - hi, I'll get straight 2 the point, when I was eighteen i was in a relationship with this guy who was really bad at taking no 4 an answer (he would carry on at me til i gave in cause i wanted 2 go 2 sleep or stop being kept on at) and he would do what he wanted. I wanted 2 try 2 ... (146 words)

Do you start taking the pill when you are on your period or can you take it before??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - Do you have to start taking the pill when you are on your period or can you take it before?... (20 words)

I like her but she can't seem to tell me how she really feels! What can I do?

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11 October 2006 (M) - Hi, i got this girl's number on saturday night an wen i asked for it she was good about it lol, however tonight we was talking and i sort of said i liked her and all she said was lol, but her best friend said she does like me but just not sure if she feels the same, i'm... (81 words)

My bf's Xbox machine is wreaking havoc on our relationship! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend has grown increasingly attached to his xbox. I can't remember the last time we had a conversation because he literally plays on it from the minute he gets in from work to the minute he goes to bed. We are having sex once every two weeks if i'm lucky!! I don't know ... (58 words)

Does anyone have any tips on how to swallow?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

11 October 2006 (F)

- Hi everybody After a conversation with my bf he mentioned that he would like me to swallow. i have never done this before and was wondering if anyone has any tips. When i take him in my mouth i sometimes gag a lil bit he makes me feel really relaxed and comfortable, ... (124 words)

I am in love with a boy, but he hits me and spits in my face.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

11 October 2006 (F)

- i am a teen and i am really in love with a boy, i have performed oral sex with him and he has done things to me but after it he says he doesnt fancy me anymore !! when we was alone he said he only said he didnt fancy him because i annoyed him. so i did it with him again and he ... (167 words)

Will he know I am a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - heya this lad im seeing thinks im not a virgin! but i only told him iv had sex twice b4, will he know im a virgin or not? ... (30 words)

My bf keeps askin me for sex. I am only 13, am I too young?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - i am 13 and my boyfriend moved away he is coming back to visit me and wants to have sex i told him im not sure but he keeps asking me am i to young??... (35 words)

It's been 3 years since he asked me out--do you think he might still like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - I know this boy who's a really good m8 to me, he did ask me out in yr7, Ever since then i started likeing him and i jst woundered if he still likes me(it's 3 yrs now since then). I do catch him looking at me all the time, n wen ever he has the chance to talk to me he does. do u ... (72 words)

I'm confident and love talking. So why do I feel shy in front of this guy I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - Normally, I'm usually loud and confident whilst talking to my friends...but this guy who I have a crush on...I just can't talk much in front of him. And I feel really shy and stuff...Can anyone give me some tips on how to act normal? ... (44 words)

I love this guy and now that he's dumped his gf..I thought we'd hook up! But he's playing mindgames..why is he doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

11 October 2006 (F)

- hello i was just wonderin if yew could help yew see ive fallen really madley in love with this great boy and hes only pretty much just seen how much i love him after 1 year ! lol so he finally realised that he had feelings for me to so he dumped his girlfriend who lives in a ... (167 words)

He stayed at her house and his excuses were pretty weak. What's he really up to..any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - Need advice. Don't know if I am being cheated on, or if I am just in denial of the whole situation. My man and I have been together for over 3 years. We got pregnant early on in the relationship and unfortunately our daughter was stillborn at 36 weeks. Well after the birth, ... (438 words)

She left me, I still love her. I help her a lot so do you think she is using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (M) - Im stuck between rock and hard place.An update on my situation (my girlfriend and son left me while i was at work)is im seeing my son often.But im rearranging everything to fit in her schedule that she doesn`t want to explain. Im trying to help and give support but then she ... (168 words)

What exactly is a yeast infection and what are the signs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - what exactly is a yeast infection? what are the symptoms/signs? how do you treat it/ get rid of it? is it preventative or how do you avoid getting it, if possible??... (34 words)

My bf thinks I love my pet dog more than him and he's threatening to leave! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend is threataning to dump me just becuse i love my dog more than him. That dog has been with me for so long, Has shared all my best memories with me and always been there for me when i needed him most. Some people will think i'm pathetic for loving my dog more. Don't ... (177 words)

So unhappy in my marriage! And now he's working 2 jobs to help financially! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my husband for 10 years, married 5 yrs. We have 2 kids together. But I am so unhappy in my marriage its like I put his feelings into consideration but he doesn't mine. He is so selfish. His mom comes before me, also out of the 10 years he has kept a job down ... (339 words)

Is cybersex over the internet considered cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

11 October 2006 (M)

- Cybering Over The Internet Cheating Or Not? A Month Ago me and my girlfriend got in bed and i was so tired i couldn't keep my eyes open i touched her up and then said sorry i'm to tired (stupid i know) then she couldn't sleep when i went to sleep she went downstair's to g... (257 words)

My period is late and there's no way I could be pregnant..so what else is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F)

- Ok, this is probably nothing to worry about but thought I'd get some feed back as this is a highly unusual occorance for me. I am nearly 2 weeks late for my period. ('Ah she's pregnant' I hear you say....) No, absolutely no chance of that as I have not had any sexual relat... (135 words)

His ex gf claims to be pregnant with my bf's child! She only did this because she hates me..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half we have a 8month year old son. Hes 36 and im 22, I love him dearly he has an ex girl friend (10 year relat) that harrasses him all day long stalks him and unfortunately he cant shake her off no kids but the tie that keeps them ... (180 words)

He got drunk and went to a brothel! He's now so sorry. Am I being stupid to stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - my partner of 5years and a brillant and trusting relationship went out got drunk with his friends and ended up paying for sex in a brothel. he is sorry and knows how much hurt hes caused. am i being stronge by working at the relationship as i love him or am i being stupid ... (54 words)

He went of to uni and now has changed! I am afraid he might dump me..what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - Please some one help me i need some advice. I am sixteen years old and very mature for my age i also look alot older, i usually get mistaken for being about 19-22. i have a older boyfriend who is turning 20 on Monday, he has recently gone back to uni. Before he left he used ... (282 words)

His ex wife can't get over the split from my bf and calls him constantly. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend's ex-wife calls him constantly! They have no kids together, no property. He gave her $30K to move. She now lives in GA. We are in FL. We are planning to move in together. She cannot get over him and calls his cell 3x a day (sometimes more sometimes less) begging, ... (211 words)

Is my bf having a gay relationship on the side? What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - i have been with my b/f for 9 months now hes 34 and im 31 but he dosent come near me sexually. Theres this guy he knows, who he won'tlet me meet and every time this guy calls the phone my b/f starts an argument with me and takes off for a few days. I support him financially and ... (87 words)

He dumped my friend because she wouldn't send him nudie pics. Now he likes me! Any advice on how to get rid of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - My best friend was recently dumped by a seemingly mature and intelligent boy after she refused to send pictures of herself naked on MySpace. This boy could only be described as a normal, funny, genuine kinda guy until you got to know him and realise he has a twisted, big-headed ... (95 words)

Anal sex with my lover is very painful.. what can I do to reduce this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (M) - I'm a male to female crossdresser and have homosexual relations with one of my boyfriend we are childhood friends and loves to be in touch with each other Sometimes he wants to f**k me in my ass and I allow him to do so but this ass fucking is very painful, please tell me what ... (81 words)

We bicker constantly and I'm trying to change..so why isn't he? Is this relationship worth saving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about three years and we live together with friends. We are very much in love, and even though we are both in our mid twenties our sex life is nothing to be envious of. This is almost entirely down to me, I have insecurities and do ... (249 words)

My bf can't control his expenditures and I end up bailing him out! This is getting to me..what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - I am in a great relationship with this man. It has recently dawned on me that since day one of our relationship, I've had to pay one thing or another for him, sometimes his car has a problem, debts from people, put fuel in the car, buy lunch, buy food for his house, borrow ... (216 words)

Could I be up the duff?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - Hi. I recently changed my contraceptive pill and had unprotected sex during the week i was 'unsafe' does this mean im pregnant? What should i do now?... (27 words)

She was size 10-12... But she can't stay away from cakes and chocolate and her weight has ballooned and I don't find her attractive!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

11 October 2006 (M) - Im 21 and i've been with my partner for just over 4 years now. We've been together since we were 17 and i think we have a good relationship, but i feel very unattracted to her now. when we 1st got together she was a size 10-12 now she is a size 16+ and i cant enjoy sex with her ... (189 words)

My bf's family keep bringing up his ex's name and it hurts! Why do they do that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

11 October 2006 (F)

- Why is it that other family members from your partner's side always brings a little bit of your partner's past up in front of you when it were from 13 years ago it really bugs me as its not to do with me and it hurts me to hear the exs name. ... (52 words)

Is it possible to love one's 2nd wife more than the 1st wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F)

- DO YOU think it is possible to love your second wife more than your 1st wife... (16 words)

Is he into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - Dear Cupids, I have been seeing a guy nearly tow months and I think he really likes me. I have met most of his friends and he has told some of his family about me, well he has told practically everyone he knows about me. Also as I still live with parents he was even wi... (130 words)

Married with kids but not sure I love him... don't even want to hug or kiss him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - I dont know if i love my husband anymore we have been married 7 years and have 2 children 1 age 4 and 1 age 3 I dont even want to kiss him or hug him but I am indecisive because this happens after a few years of being with someone and I dont want to go through it all again?... (61 words)

Can you get hold of the contraceptive pill anonymously?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F)

- Is it possible to get hold of the pill anonymously and without yor family GP knowing?... (16 words)

We were long distance for 6 years, why did he continue to live with his wife but claim to love me ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - hi..i am a 27 year old female, was living in a long distance relationship with a man, 33 now, for 6 years.can someone plse help me understand why cant a married man, who claims that he loves someone else yet continue to live with his wife ( married for almost 8 years and no ... (169 words)

My husband of 12 years feels he is missing the intimacy we once had and needs this through sex, please help I cant stay in the bedroom all the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6616 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - My husband and I have been together 12 years. He feels he's missing the intimacy we once had but the only way that he can get intimacy is through sex. But afterwards he's still not happy and thinks that if we do it again then he will feel the intimacy again. But that never ... (120 words)

He spends time with his ex and round her mom's house!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been been together for a year now. But when we first started seeing eachother, he was in a relationship with another woman. He stopped seeing her so that he could be with me. Everything was going good, or so i thought, a month into our relationship, he ... (269 words)

How do I find out if my girl really loves me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6616 days ago

11 October 2006 (M) - how do i find out if my girlfriend really loves me?... (11 words)

Is it possible for a woman to have sex with someone and not want it! and can she have sex with a guy and not realise it ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (M) - Ladies, is it possible for a women to have sex with someone but not want it? Also can a girl have sex with a guy but not know it is happening until it is too late? Because of hurt, alcohol, surprise, and confusion. Can a man just violate a woman so fast she doesnt know it ... (69 words)

Im always so incecure and think it stems from a guy friend I really like!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F)

- Please help, my insecurities are driving me crazy!!! I have noticed that in the last year or so, I have this tendency to be needed to be told that I am loved every single minute of the day. If that doesn't happen, I get really insecure and down on myself and think bad things a... (407 words)

She used to initiate contact all the time but now has stopped! What has happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6616 days ago

11 October 2006 (M) - I was seeing this girl in another city. We went out a few times and I though we both really liked each other. I know she felt something because I was not the one that always had to initiate things. She would reach out for me or kiss me just as I would her. Then the last ... (117 words)

How do men get free sex without having to pay for it?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (M) - Hi!, i need to ask a question that eveyone escapes from or ignores, without being offensive. How do men get free sex without having to pay for it. More and more men are struggling to get free sex. Its a growing problem that needs to be solved, its upsetting because you never ... (76 words)

My husband and I fear he may be fired, due to a new manager. Andy advice on how to deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

11 October 2006 (F) - I am really worried about my husband. Last night after work he told me that through the grapevine he heard that his new manager has it in for him and wants him fired. She sits around most of the time and has only warmed up to one other female member of staff. I am now really ... (126 words)