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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I love to laugh and joke -my bf is so moody and this bothers me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6071 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - He doesnt seem to laugh or joke around with me...im 21 but im a child at heart..im also a very traditional gal..i dont like too much of that mushy mushy stuff..but i do like it wen a man charms his lady..at first things wid me n my man were good..but after 3/4 years..as much as ... (125 words)

Bf and I are still virgins and want our first time to be with each other. Any advice before we do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend and I are really close to having sex! We've been together for about five months and have a really strong relationship, both of us are virgins and we want to share our first sexual experience together. We both accept that the first couple of times the sex wont be ... (140 words)

How do I chat her up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5939 days ago

20 October 2006 (?) - i met this girl on my mates birthday. we were there for 3hours. she is 16 and i'm 14. i'm gonna be meeting her on my other mates birthday next week. any hints and tips on how to find out if she likes me? i fancy her aswell. any thing i should do? when i meet her shall i hug ... (119 words)

They all seem to be trying to split us up...I'm 16 he's 13!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

20 October 2006 (F)

- Hey guys im 16 and ive got a bit of a problem. for starters everyone is trying to split me and my boyfriend up because he's 13 and i no that sounds bad but we had a long chat about it and were not going to get too seriouse becasue of the relationship but no 1 will listen and i ... (145 words)

I'm 18 and a virgin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - i am 18 and a virgin! lol what does a girls first time feel like? will it definatly hert? ... (19 words)

I can't stop these crazy thoughts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - I need help on how to get over thoughts. EVERYONE has crazy thoughts but some people that could have OCD obsess over the thoughts. Ok, you know how little kids do crazy sexual things when they are young. Well, i thought i raped another kid when i was a kid but everyone tells me ... (203 words)

Sometimes I trust her so much others times I don't know if I can trust her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

20 October 2006 (M) - ok me and my girlfriend have been going out for 13 months and we have been through alot but we are still together. i keep having these suspiscions that she might be cheating on me. there are times where i can really trust her..then there are other times where i dont know if i ... (156 words)

Since he came back to me he has changed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6605 days ago

20 October 2006 (?) - My man and I have been together for the last 17 months we have split many times mainly over my drinking but the last time i went on a bender was around 6 wks ago when i found out he posted him and me on a few sexual sites without my knowledge he has since returned home and i am ... (176 words)

We're not together anymore but I am still a virgin and have the option to lose it with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6574 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - This is going to sound really weird. But last week i split up with my boyfriend of 6 months. It was my first relationship, but we never had sex (he was very patient with me). I am a virgin (i am in my mid 20's) and although the thought of having sex scares me, i feel the ... (214 words)

My fiancee or my ex bf?? Whom do I choose?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - My fiancee and me are great together 95% of the time and I love him. Recently however, I've been talking a lot more to my bestfriend who happens to be my ex-boyfriend and he told me he still has feelings for me... the is problem is that I still have feelings for him ... he was ... (205 words)

I have bad vaginal itching! What could be the problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - Hi, this is really embarassing. I've got very bad vaginal itching and I can't figure out why. It's always the same time in the month (two weeks before my period, and the whole week) It always goes away. I've been tested for STDs and it was all negative. What's going on?!?!... (56 words)

I am still worried I could be pregnant even though I just finished a period...what's happening with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

20 October 2006 (F)

- Ok, I've been sexually active since 22nd of July this year, I've had my period every month since. I've always suffered from menhorration- bleeding heavily each month and this has not changed. I had a pregnancy scare in September, which thankfully turned out to be me worryin... (126 words)

What's the average size of an adult erect penis?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

20 October 2006 (M) - What's the average size of an adult erect penis? I measured myself and I'm 6 1/4 inches long (measured from the top) and 4 1/2 inches around. Am I considered average size, bigger than average, or smaller than average?... (39 words)

I have brown discharge in the middle of my cycle...is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

20 October 2006 (F)

- i have a bit of a problem im in the middle of my monthly cycle and have been seeing brown discharge. i have been on numerious contraceptive pills in the past because they havent agreed with me and have eventually found the right one and now im seeing this could this be ... (68 words)

How do you get a boy to like you? Any tips?

This question has 51 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - hi im 15... how do u get a teenage boy to fancy you?... (13 words)

Any suggestions on what type of 'curlers' I should get? Any good tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - hi i want curlers for my 15th birthday in a few weeks but not sure which ones to get. i would like ones that you heat up with different ends to put on. like one end to make big curls and another end to make small ones etc. but im not sure which ones to get cos i cant find any.... (89 words)

My guy always dyes his hair outrageous colours and it's embarrassing. Am I being shallow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (?) - I'm in my 40's and have been dating this guy (my age) who plans to dye his hair a crazy color - from dark to bleached blonde or blue or bright red. He used to do this a lot. I'm a professional and to be honest would be embarrassed to take him to office functions, to meet ... (88 words)

My fiancee moved out and started seeing her Father's best friend! Is she gone off the rails here?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (M) - My fiancee's father recently died after a short illness. Our wedding had been scheduled for next Summer. A month after the funeral, she has moved out and started seeing her father's best friend, a man who, to my mind, is a younger version of her father in almost every way. ... (97 words)

I found the strength to stand up to my Mother...thank you for all of your advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (F)

- This is a huge thank you to all of the aunts who helped me get back control of my life from my mother. I wanted to tell you all that I took your advice and I'm doing great. I took the advice of giving my mom one last chance. Long story short, the electrician they... (392 words)

How do I make this married guy leave his wife and kids for me?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - i am currently "dating" a married man that i work with. i too am married. he told me that he loved me almost 6weeks into the relationship and i returned with i love you too. he has 3 kids and i have 1. we see each other maybe 2-3 times a week and talk almost every day on phone. ... (247 words)

Is grinding with guys going to make the guys think I'm not a nice girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6589 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - Is grinding with guys going to make the guys not like me or think I'm not good? I love dancing, all kinds, but I don't want to give anyone the wrong impression. I don't drink very much and I don't have sexual relations with guys, so am I leading them on when I do this. Am I ... (70 words)

He lied about loving his ex gf. Now I am wondering-am I just a replacement...second best to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months. He's amazing and we love each other and he has helped me out so much. We come from completely different backgrounds, so I know nothing about his past except what he tells me. The other day, I found that he still has ... (190 words)

Should I eventually tell my kids I was raped as a teen?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - I was raped at the age of 14, my husband knows about this, and is very supportive of it, should i tell my children, when they are old enough?... (29 words)

He gives the pretty girls more attention than the ugly ones....should I worry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - me and my bf are together for almost a year. he's perfect and very handsome but ever since we gone to the uni he's been talking to beautiful girls. (there are a lot of pretty girls in our uni) there are a lot of girls that flirt him talking to him unecessarily, asking him to ... (189 words)

I thought we had chemistry but now he's back with his es gf. I'm confused-so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - Hey! Well my issue is.. I'm 27 and I have feelings for a friend of mine that is 20. We've been friends for about 6-7 months now and we have such a great time together. The first 3-4 months of our friendship, we'd spend every weekend together hanging out or staying in and watch ... (260 words)

We broke and decided to be sex buddies. But we stopped as he has a new gf, now! Why am I upset about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - Hey Everyone, I've been friends with the guy for about 5-6 months. In the beginning we were getting to know each other and I decided that we should just stay friends because He seemed like he was the playa type. Anyway, four months later our friendship is really good, we talk ... (175 words)

Why is masterbating while laid on your front dangerous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

20 October 2006 (F)

- dear cupid, i have always masterbated by lieing on my stomach but now ive heard tht this is dangerous y is this dangerous? cculd i be in dangering my self?? plz help anyone im reali worried thnx xx... (38 words)

Why do I keep getting this pain followed by this mess?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

20 October 2006 (F)

- dear cupid, i have a real icky problem but here goes. recently i been feeling werid i get a twinge in my lower abdoman and then when i look in my knickers i have a very gooey mess its clear and it does smell or anythin but i gt loads of it wat is it and is it serious??? any ... (66 words)

We split up and he still wanted to have sex....after turning him down he kisses someone else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - i have been mates with a lad for over a year we met on line an recently met an ended up toghether relationship was brill then 1 day it just cum to an end so we stayed mates then few months ago he asked me for sex an no strings i ad to say no just didnt wanna get hurt each time ... (119 words)

I love her but our relationship just isn't the same nomore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (M) - have a good gf, but our relationship isnt the same. been wit her for a year. shes perfect except she annoys me and is very clingy, shes perfect and i wont find a girl like her but i dont really love her and i know this because ive been in love. our relationship hasnt been the ... (66 words)

We broke up but I still her, she has a boyfriend so I don't want to tell her and be selfish!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (M) - me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago, and i have accpeted the fact that were not together and that were now friends, but the thing is, im still in love wit her, and i would tell her this, but she has got a new bf and i dont wana be a jackass and be selfish, we still see ... (143 words)

He's been violent and cheated and just treats me real bad in general!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - bin with me partner 5 years i was 17 him 25, bin pregnant 10 times have 2 kids. he has been violent and cheated and hes just a twat in general.doesnt have the kids never done the night feeds and doesnt class what i do with the kids as being work. hes just got a job but on his ... (169 words)

I think my husband is up to something or thinking about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - i know my husband is up to something everytime i ask him straight out he makes an excuse and has to go somewhere or hides behind the kids how do i bluff him so that he has no option but to be straight when anyone comes in he's very attentive to me always complimenting me but ... (341 words)

When he goes out I always wondering whether he is cheating especially if he doesn't text me when he gets home!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - Hello online friends... Im having a long distance relationship, and find it really really difficult when my boyfriend goes out with his friends. He has never given me any reason not to trust him, he tends to text while he's out and when he gets home. However, he's really good... (253 words)

My Internet guy says he loves me... but I'm 28 with a child and a boyfriend, and the 'net guy is 18 and 6 hours away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - hi, well ive met this guy on the internet and he keeps saying he loves me,dnt know what to do im 28 with a child and boy friend i dnt get on with this guy is only 18, and says im right for him i do really like him he also live 6 hrs away ,plz help dnt know wat to do x... (64 words)

He said he doesn't get much time off but took my number...was he just being friendly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - I met this guy,i've seen him a few times and he he is always talking to me,he works at a club i go to,well yesterday i saw him again and before i went home,he said i suppose your off home to your husband or boyfriend now,so i knew he was fishing to see if i was attached,so i ... (130 words)

I should be glad we are going to see more of each other but after I see him things are worse as I get upset and over emotional!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6605 days ago

20 October 2006 (F)

- Hi everybody This might be confusing but ill have a go. My boyfriend works away Starting begining of november i should be able to see him once a week This will be great because before now we have gone up to 6 weeks without seeing each other. The problem is I miss... (194 words)

We got along pretty good then we started a friendship with benefits until he flipped at me and now won't speak to me!

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20 October 2006 (F) - why is he acting like this?...i met this one boy named eric *not his real name* like about a month ago. we got along pretty good and we would hang with each other and some friends almost every weekend. then one day he called me and came over my house and things happened that ... (117 words)

I'm going to a gig and he will be there how do I make a good first impression?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (F)

- I Was about to get with this guy but it all went wrong. Anyway before i met this guy i had been talking to another guy online and we have loads in common. He stopped talking to me for a few weeks so i figured he wasnt interested but now he's talking again he hadnt ignored me ... (166 words)

What does she's trying to play me out mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - can anyone tell me what she's trying to play me out means???... (12 words)

I was confused about my boyfriend so I tried to talk to him online as a guy...he now knows it was me!

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20 October 2006 (F) - I know this may seem bad but in the beginning i was so confused about my boyfriend and there was things i didn't like about him so i made up a different myspace and pretended i was a guy and then i said things like "you talk gay" or "if you didn't run weird maybe we could ... (116 words)

How can I stop her shaving? I prefered it how it was when we first met!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (M) - how can i stop my wife shaveing her bush? i've tryed everything even told her i will leave i hate her being so smooth.....i wish she would have a nice thick hairy bush like she had when we first meat....... (42 words)

Why doesn't he want to take things further?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - me an my boyfriend do most things but oral and intercourse what is stopping him from having sex with me. we have been dating 3 months... (27 words)

I don't understand why my ex is acting like this! does he still like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - ohk so there is this guy i really really really like i mean we were friends and then lovers then friends then lovers then we broke up now he has a gf but he admitted last month he still had feelings for me he just for some reason didnt want to go out with me...and i think he ... (328 words)

We dated for a couple weeks and then he went weird! Said he doesn't want anything serious..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i went out for 2 and a half weeks, everything was amazing and going great,then he just starts acting wierd, and says that he doesnt want a serious relationship and wants to go out and have fun and is afraid he will hurt me and all this stuff, he still likes me ... (65 words)

After 3 hours of talking to her..I have feelings for her. How do I get to know her better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

20 October 2006 (?) - i met this girl who my mates birthday for the first time. and we had a good chat in the restuarant and she sat with me in cinema. she was so sweet. well i have discovered just after 3hours of knowing her i have feelings for her. she is 14 i'm 16. i saw her in school 2days ago ... (104 words)

Do girls like it when a guy plays with their hair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

20 October 2006 (?) - i just wanna know do girls like it when guys play with their hair? i usually play with this girls hair. she never say's anything to me she doesn't move away, just she like it? how do i know if she likes it or not? any other flirting tips? i'm 16years old. as much help possible ... (60 words)

I want a kiss from him...how do I let him know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6229 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - i really want my boyfriend to make out with me but i dont know if he wants to kiss me so i want to know what i can do to let him know i want a kiss without actually asking for one?... (42 words)