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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want the singer to notice me!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

23 October 2006 (F)

- I'm going to a concert in a few weeks, and I know this is stupid, but I want the singer to notice me (or just other people going to see him) What should I wear to a Lil Chris concert that I'll look super sexy in? And does anyone know how to get invited back stage??? ... (64 words)

I've never had a boyfriend or done anything with a boy!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6633 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - i feel really sad becuase i have never had a boyfriend and never snogged any1 or touched any 1 it makes me feel down because every1 picks on me because of it but there is one boy who i asked out but he said no becuase i have 2 many spots even though i only have 3 plz help me ... (65 words)

She emails me and says she is crying while writing it but not prepared to do anything about it!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6633 days ago

23 October 2006 (M) - long story short...me and the x fiance broke it off about 8 months ago..many reasons contributed to the break up..but the final thing is when i found out she was going out behind my back and i found pictures of her with another man..she denies cheating, but i could never ... (265 words)

Should I tell my ex everything that happened with me and some guy???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - Should I tell my ex boyfriend, who I'm still associated with, the full details of what happened with me and some guy he knows? I met this guy at a local social event and we hit it off, he was a real gentleman, giving me his jacket because I was cold and walking me home at 10 at ... (266 words)

My daughters boyfriend now thinks we hate him when he couldn't be more wrong!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - My daughter has been seeing her boyfriend for just over a year. My husband and I love him. Recently they had a bump in their relationship, but seemed to have gotten over it. While my daughter was hurting, I was there to listen to her, trying to be careful not to judge anyone. ... (153 words)

We keep spliting up and getting back together...work at it or time to move on???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

23 October 2006 (M) - My girl friend an I have been together for two years and we keep breaking up and get back together. should we try to work things out again or should we move on? ... (33 words)

While on a cruise I cheated on my boyfriend...I don't know what to do!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6521 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - I have a huge problem. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he even had gone through stages where he broke up with me and wanted to have sex with another woman. He did not do it and we worked it out. We have had many ups and downs, one of which he is an alcoholic ( not ... (575 words)

What can I do to make things better in our relationship???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - hi ive been seeing this guy for the last 7 months we are quite serious and i really do love him. however i have this undenyable 'thing' for his unidenticle twin brother who seems to be the perfect guy hes kind funny and a real gentleman who i love spending time with. i really ... (124 words)

He is the best boyfriend in everyway apart from helping pull his weight regarding bills!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6633 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - I am still crazy in love with my ex boyfriend. I think about him all the time and when i see him it's like no time has passed between us. He is the best lover I ever had, he is nurturing and gentle and took care of me in everyway except pulling his part of the bills. The ... (219 words)

Do you think my teacher really liked me or was just flirty???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - Hi! Im fourteen and I had a teacher that seemed to really like me. He always looked at me, would always stop in the corridors and talk to me,and he seemed very flirty around me. He was my teacher last year and I was kinda attracted to him but he talks to me less often now. ... (72 words)

Can't get past the age difference...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

23 October 2006 (M) - Hello, I am a 27 y/o guy that is in love with a wonderful, truly unique 19 y/o girl. We've been close friends for almost a year (met at work), and we like each other's company a lot. However, anytime I am with her, all I can focus on is the age difference and how guilty I... (517 words)

Why won't she have sex with me???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6498 days ago

23 October 2006 (M) - Why wont my girlfriend have sex with me? we have been together for six months, and i thought that we should me more sexual than once a month.... (28 words)

I got roses from my internet guy...now my mum and her partner are paranoid...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (F)

- well this morning i got sent a dozen red roses. I was really happy but now im not cause my mum and her partner are going crazy they didnt like how i had been sent them. But the guy who sent them is a really nice guy (although i met him on the internet). They start... (116 words)

How do I get over him???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - This guy and I were together for 2 years but were talking for 5. And we broke up 7 months ago for complicated reasons, we still talk once in a while and he's been talking to another girl, but I still can't get over him. I've tried everything. I even tried talking to someone ... (123 words)

How do I go from casual to real relationship???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - how do i get a guy from a casual relationship to a more committed one?... (15 words)

I've been feeling ill and don't know what to do....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6192 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - why do I always feel so unwell? i've been feeling not 100% since late June, either stomach ache or feeling sick, and my eating has changed. I tend not to eat as much now, though I wouldnt say I under eat tho i have lost some weight,not loads. I just cant think of a valid reason ... (99 words)

Should I move in with him???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

23 October 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend has been through a divorce about 2 1/2 years ago. His ex-wife cheated on him, and decided to leave him. It was really hard for him to go through this. To the point he, along with the rest of his family and friends, believe he will be single forever. We started ... (174 words)

Is it safe to take one extra week of birth control???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6628 days ago

23 October 2006 (F)

- Do anyone know if it's safe (baby-proof as well) to continue to take one extra week of birth control pills? To clarify, I'm suppose to have my period next week, but I want to delay it for a week(going on a trip), can I just open another package and take one more week of it? I... (79 words)

Is he right or just using me??

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

23 October 2006 (F)

- Im seperated from my husband and i have 3 children.I have been seeing my lover for over 3 years but he has a partner (he's not married to her.They live seperate lives and sleep in seperate bedrooms as she is alot older then him and doesn't want sex anymore.My lover has told me ... (164 words)

Being gay and brought up in the UK makes me find it difficult to understand why people do this!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

23 October 2006 (M) - My partner and I have been together for six years, recently he stated that he thought being gay was a desease and that people like us should not be able to have any rights and that he puts his family first before me. This came as shock, but he is a muslim and of late has been ... (174 words)

Is it a good idea to ask a guy out??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (F)

- Hi I would like opinions on whether or not it is a good idea for a girl to ask a guy nearly the same age (although he is months older) out and what would be the best way to do this without looking desperate - guy opinions definitely welcome here. Just that I like this guy... (159 words)

Partner just doesn't seem interested in me anymore. Am I being silly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - Hi I’m really new at this i mean i just cant count on my friends to understand or tell me the truth. i have been with my partner for a year now and its so hard for me to explain what its like. He is a very jealous person but never shows it only every now and then he never ta... (229 words)

Sex can be really painful. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (F)

- I have irritable bowel syndrome and regularly get constipated. However, when it gets really bad, I've noticed that having sex hurts sometimes, when we're in a position where his penis goes in very far. Is this normal or is something wrong? It's not excrutiating, just a bit more... (60 words)

Is it ok to have sex at 14? Please advise

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - isit ok to have sex when your 14? i know im under age but i would like to have some teenage advice about it... (24 words)

Am I over-reacting to the noisy neighbours?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

23 October 2006 (F)

- We rent a house in a lovely peaceful area. Peaceful excpet for the children next door who wake extremely early and scream quite loudly. Peaceful apart from the other neighbour who plays his music loud and until late at night. Back in June, with the weather being warm, the wind... (388 words)

I am getting the silent treatment because of finances. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

23 October 2006 (M) - Last night, i had an argument with my fiancee over money issues about our new house that we are moving in to in 2 months time. She said she was afraid I was turning into this person who always thinks and worries about what Im paying for the whole time with money. While we agree... (414 words)

He said he would finish the affair but I confronted her and found he was lying to her too!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - Should I stay in this relationship? I have been with my fiance for almost two years, he has been a wonderful father to my daughter and has helped me raise her since she was 8 months old (he is not the father). About six months into our relationship, I fell into some sort of ... (323 words)

He denied calling her until I showed him the evidence and he is still contacting her!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

23 October 2006 (F)

- i found out my BF has been texting and calling a girl for upto 6times a day, when i confront him he says it was a lie and when i show him the evidence he said she was a friend. i want to finish with him but he is begging for me to take him back but i am sure he is cheating... (177 words)

Re: reply to feedback from my previous question given!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - Toria - I remember when i got home, cos i recall getting a cab back home that night early hours of the morning. And no i didn't log on to the internet when i got back either, i went to bed soon after getting home. .....Trying to think back over the last month or 2, i can't ... (94 words)

There is nothing between us and we are still mates but I want something to happen again!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (F)

- hey all cupids, A few months ago me and one of my best friends were out down my local area when we met one of my male friends mr x. we walked around for a while and me and mr x got very close we were holding hands and touching. when my friend went home me and mr x got alo... (108 words)

In responce to a reply from my question!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - For the female reader 'Toria' who replied to my question yes i have seen a picture of him with sun glasses on in the pic with his profile. And no i dont have a picture with my profile online. I replied to his message asking him a couple of qu's eg; if he knew what my name was, ... (160 words)

Is she really in love with me or am I losing her???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

23 October 2006 (M) - my girlfriend has changed her mind on me saying that she needs a break,but i still love her and want her back.Is she genuinely in love with me or am losing her.... (32 words)

I want to know if we will ever get back together!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (F)

- I just returned from my ex boyfriend's house where I spent the weekend. We have been broken up now for 3 months and when I was there this weekend he was staring into my eyes and saying that he thought I was beautiful inside and out. I told him that I don't want to lose him ... (184 words)

I really like this girl but I don't think she is that keen!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (M) - hi im 15 and i really like this girl we see each other regularly and we often kiss but we dont get on well when we go out with each other. i really want ot have sex with her but i dont think she i that keen. Any help please ... (55 words)

I'm 15 and never had a boyfriend!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - i'm a 15 year old. i've never had a boyfriend and all my other friends do. i'm quite jealous. but i'm so afraid to go up to guys and it's much harder because i go to a girls school. i really want a boyfriend but i don't think that i'm attractive in the least bit. What should I ... (59 words)

What can I do to help my lover have an orgasm???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (M) - what can i do to help my lover have an orgasm... (11 words)

I get talked into things easily! How do I stop being a push over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - How do i stop being a push over? I have been seeing a guy for 4 months and things are going steadily down hill. He comes to see me and we always end up having a good time, then he stays over, i don't want him too but he gets all moody and starts stamping his (not literally)when ... (285 words)

My boyfriend keeps telling me about a girl that wants to have sex with him and another with a crush on him...he's quite ugly so I don't see how they would!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6633 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - hi im 14 and going out with this 15 year old boy. we went out to the cinema the other day on out first date and he kept telling me stuff about other girls. he said that this girl on msn asked him to have sex with her. why did he tell me this? im obviously not going to like it... (223 words)

He hugs me then acts like I don't exist! This guy has me confused...any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - Hi, I am a 21 year old and I have never really had a serious boyfriend - surprisingly. But I seem to have found someone I really, really like. Well, first of all let me explain. I ran into my old, old guy friend at where I used to work, then I quit working there and he got ... (507 words)

Can't read the signs here...does this guy really like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6518 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - Here's the problem, i have never really been good at reading the signs that boys chuck at us! So can sum1 help me out, he keeps looking at me when he thinks im not looking and has tried to catch my eye when there was about 3 of us in the room.(me, him, n my m8) He got extremly... (118 words)

Are we or aren't we ...together? He acts like we are but says "No we aren't". I'm confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - Dear Cupids, Been seeing a guy for nearly two months, I am 25 him 29. We have been getting on really well, sex is good, we have a laugh together and there doesn't seem to be any awkwardness. We have been seeing each other a couple of times - 3 times a week. However... (366 words)

Does my bf have no confidence? Is he scared of women? Advice needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - Hi there, hope you can help. Im in love with my male friend and he is aware of this has been for months and it doesnt scare him at all and at times im proper full on. The problem I have is we have this really strong bond, there is alot of physical / sexual chemistry between ... (306 words)

Long distance romance-I'm annoyed because I make all the travel plans and huge efforts...he doesn't! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - Hi everyone... long distance relationship advice please???? My boyfriend and I see each other every two weeks - we live in different countries. We have been doing this for two years. I always feel like I have to be the person who organises when we will do our trips to see... (255 words)

I loved him but left him because I have fallen for someone else! Is it normal to do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6575 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - I've been in a relationship for the past two years and nine months. I still love him, but I had to break up with him recently because I have fallen for someone else. I'm not certain if I truly want to be with this new guy or not, but I couldn't stay in the relationship because ... (146 words)

Do I follow the girl of my dreams in hopes that it won't become a nightmare?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

23 October 2006 (M) - i need some help trying to figure out what exactly is going on in my relationship with this girl. we've been friends for a good while now, but have always had a weird connection with each other, but never got together because we both had ties to other people. anyway, we're ... (245 words)

I am in love with my brother and having sex with him

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 6147 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - I am a freshman at the university this year. This is the second year at the university for my brother Steve. Our parents decided to get us a two bedroom apartment for us to share. We have always gotten along really well and its been great. Three weeks ago Steve was sitting ... (284 words)

Should I dump this guy because he is a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6629 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - i'm 18 and i'm seing a guy who JUST turned 18 today. He's still a virgin but i've already had 3 partners and done other things with other guys. He doesn't know much about sex and I feel so awekard because my last boyfriend has been with 7 other girls before me and he knew what ... (131 words)

I can't get her to orgasm!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (M) - I am having troouble getting my gf to have an organsm. She said she has never had one. What tips or suggesttions do you have to help me with this. I have heard everyone can have an orgasm.... (40 words)

He just makes me so angry with the way he is behaving!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - Last night I was fighting with my boyfriend because i'm trying to tell him that i'm so annoyed at him because everytime he's in college he does not answer his phone. He knows I don't trust him because he's lied to me about things in the past and I think he should be earning my ... (858 words)

This will be our first time...how can I make it as painless as possible for her???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

23 October 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I are both virgins and have been dating for almost 9 months now. We really care about each other, and although we haven't exactly discussed sex, we know that we are both ready to take the leap together. I know that girls experience pain the first time. Is ... (114 words)

I need ideas for a bachelorette party in Atlanta! I'm desperate..help me out here!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6635 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - HELP PLEASE!!! I know this probably isnt the place for something like this but I am beyond desperate and I don't have much time left. I'm the maid of honor for my best friend and I have to throw her bachelorette party. I live in Louisiana, the party is in Atlanta in two ... (157 words)