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Archived questions from: 13 October, 2006 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I can pleasure her 15-20 times but I feel nothing during sex!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 October 2006 (M) - How can i find a way to finish faster? Well ive had sex with this girl and she was my first. She had sex way before me so she's arleady experienced and she knows wats up. Ive done it with her and i honestly thought that she would be a little lose because she had done it ... (450 words)

I'm a virgin but when I do have sex I want it to be good!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

13 October 2006 (F)

- Im still a virgin, but when i do have sex i want to be good if that makes any sense. can anyone give me some advic on how to wow him?... (31 words)

I think this guy I like is gay...how can I tell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

13 October 2006 (F)

- I absolutely like a boy who works in the gym but I suspect he could be gay despite he loves flirting and eye contact with me any tips to know? love ... (35 words)

I need some tips on how I can pleasure him this way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6611 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - i want to give my boyfriend a handjob but the only thing is that he cannot retract his foreskin. he says he can still feel sensations and ejaculate. how should i give him the handjob? ... (35 words)

How do I get this girl that I like..to break up with her bf??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

13 October 2006 (M) - Why wont she break up with her bf? Well Im in love with this girl who has a bf. She says she loves me and I actually do believe it because when im with her its different but when she's with her bf she acts as if i dont exist. She's all up on him when im not with her and whe... (459 words)

He's unhappily married and wants me to give him "a happy ending"! What should I do with this guy??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - a man that I really like wrote me a letter which was vague and said "that he wanted a happy ending". I know that he is unhappily married, and like him too but would never want to break up a marriage. He ended the letter with " p.s Don't forget the happy ending " What shou... (69 words)

If I date this guy then that means we have to snog and I don't want to do that! What shall I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - Hey, I'm a 13 yr old girl and this lad fancies me quite a lot. I like him a little bit. He's just asked me out but I really don't know because I know if I say yeah, I'll have to go with him (snog him) but that's a reason why I don't want to. Because I've never done it before. ... (117 words)

I think of him all the time...is this a crush or what?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - hi im 15 and whats wrong wiv me!?! im not sure if i have ever fancied someone cos basically... i have a mate thats a boy and we are quite good friends. the thing is i have started to think about him when im not with him all the time, and i mean ALL THE TIME! but i dont und... (99 words)

Two boys I like-one is my best friend's crush-the other is dating someone. Do I leave them alone or risk breaking some hearts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - i like two boys, one i introduced to my best friend whom i love with all my heart and don't want to hurt her in any way by telling her tht i still like him, as she is going high over heels for him. And there is another she troduced to me, he is the most nicest boy i have ever ... (128 words)

I have trust issues from my past relationship--so how do I stop doing this before I lose my current bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - I am a single mother who just got out of the relationship with my child's father in April. I dated around for a while and in May I found a man who is what I have been looking for in a guy. He loves me and we have both been hurt by our exes in the past by being cheated on. ... (174 words)

What does it mean when a man winks at you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - What does it mean when a man winks at you?... (10 words)

Nothing is going right-I'm an exhausted mother who wants to continue having a good relationship with my man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - hey, how can i survive as a exhauseted mom and continue having a relationship with the man I love when it seems there is nothing going right.As parents of 2 small children it seems we are totally wiped out and seems to take it out on each other.... (48 words)

My bf wants a threesome but I'm scared! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

13 October 2006 (?)

- Ok people so this is a common problrm but its somethin i cant seem to get my head around. my bf wants me to have a threesum. well he wants to watch me havin sex with another guy. now the thought of the fantasy does turn me on its just the thought of the reality. im sca... (216 words)

We broke up a month ago and he had sex with another girl. Why do I feel so hurt over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - I have a boyfriend for 5 years and we had just broken up a month ago because he said that I don't accept him for who he is. Now I want him back, and I asked him to come back to me and I am ready to accept him for who he is. Then he told me two weeks after we broke up he had a ... (186 words)

I'm unhappily married yet...so do you think this man I like is backing away because I am married or is there another reason?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - I am currently married but v unhappy in my relationship - we are in the process of splitting up... Aside from this, a few months ago I met a man who I also have some business dealings.. The first time we met we were both very drunk and he made a pass at me (even though he ... (316 words)

She twiddled while thinking of another man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6580 days ago

13 October 2006 (M) - My Girlfriend and i have a rather healthy sex drive, we usually have sex 2-3 times a week. But just the other day on the way home from a trip to her moms house she admitted to me that she was not satisfied by that days love making and had masturbated, this didn't upset me as ... (112 words)

She has this special bond to her ex bf and I don't like it one bit! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 October 2006 (M) - I have been seeing my girlfriend now for 8 months but she still has contact with her ex of 9 years they split 4 years ago they had a special bond which she seems to want to keep hold of i have issues with her being in touch with her ex and feel threatend by it all she says to ... (159 words)

He wants me to strip on cam for him or he will keep pasting my email addy to everyone!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6149 days ago

13 October 2006 (F)

- well this lad added me annd i ended up arguing with him cos he was really racist ((a didnt no him)) and i blocked him, thn all i get is LOADS of ppl adding me, lyk 50 every minute or summit stupid, he's basically put my addy up on a syt, en loads of ppl have added me.. ppl a ... (145 words)

I act all silly and giggly infront of the guy I like!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - hi im 15 whenever i tlk to my crush i always get ova exited and have like a really high pitched voice! but i want to be calmer cos then i think he will like me more if i dont have a really high pitched voice and if i was calmer. he always says to his friends that i fancy pp... (110 words)

We think our friend was raped but she's refusing proper medical testing, to be sure! How do we talk her into this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - my friend was out last friday night and suffered a really bad beating that has left her unrecognizable basically whoever did this to her left her for dead, she was left lying in a waste ground for 3hrs unconcious when she was found she had no clothes on which makes me and my ... (202 words)

Why do they not commit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - what does a man get out of withholding a commitment and engagement from a woman that they are in love with?why is it that they keep changing the goals that a woman much reach before they get to the point where they make the committment? why do men always want everything they ... (156 words)

He's my boyfriend but he's not....how do we work things out??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

13 October 2006 (F)

- I dread being alone. My boyfriend who is not my boyfriend the same way as was real seem to think there's a real possibility we could get back together as a couple, though he's been seeing another girl "occassionally." But in the mean time, how do we work things out whe... (65 words)

We've broken up now he wants a casual relationship with me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6593 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - I broke up with my bf of four years six months ago because he cheated. It wasn't the first time, so all my trust was broken and I had a bad time of it. I found it hard to move on but am in a place now where I quite enjoy being single. Not that I am looking for anyone at the ... (250 words)

How do I reach out to my adult son, who appears to despise me? What can I do? Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 October 2006 (?) - I am a woman in my early 50's. After 25 yrs married, my husband up and left me and our family in Nov. 2000, which had rocked our lives to the core. I have a teen boy, (still at home), one adult son (25) and one adult daughter (27). When the initial breakup occurred, my husband ... (661 words)

He cheated...what next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - i've recently found out that my boyfriend of 4 years was cheating on me,he appologised though and wants me back in his life. we;ve been trying to work aorund it but now i feel like im forcing things because sometimes he seems like hes not interested anymore,hes got ... (162 words)

How do I get the relationship I want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - I'm really messed up at the moment! A lot of my friends seem to have boyfriends but I've never been at all interested in having one. There's this boy im friends with he's lovely and we have done some stuff together (not sex) but I was at a club and he saw me chatting to some... (159 words)

Love or lust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - Hi ya, I feel a bit silly asking this but i cant tell if I am in love or just infatuated with somebody I cant have. I have these feelings for my best male friend that I cant describe. I think about him all the time, speak to him everyday whether it be by text or by phone. If ... (230 words)

Why does he think it's embarrassing that I like him??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - hi. there is this guy in college we are on the same course and in the same tutor group, he is 17 and im 21, and thats not much of an age gap - its 4 years. but the thing is he knows half the people round my street, who i know to and he is mates with my sisters. hes recently... (108 words)

Am I being an idiot here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - Guys, opinions please?? If you are going out with someone for maybe six months and then you get crabs ( havent cheated with anyone) does this mean they have cheated? He noticed he had it first and asked me about it, raised a few questions about whether i had been cheating. T... (113 words)

I love somebody....but they refuse to speak to me!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - I love somebody. . . but they refuse to speak to me, how can i tell them how i feel if they wont even look at me?... (27 words)

I feel lefted out by my Dad's new family!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 October 2006 (F)

- I FEEL LEFT OUT AND PUSHED OUT i have tryed to tell my dad a thousand times that i feel he puts me to one side when it comes to his girlfrid of ten years for exsample they may go out for a meal with her kids ,and i never get asked .when i go down and see my dad his girlfried ... (154 words)

I've broke it off with my lover but how do I now behave around him as we see him all the time!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - I've broken up with my lover, of more then a year, to stay with my boyfriend. Don't know if I did the right thing. When I started having an affair I was in a very rocky stage of my relationship, we were broken up. I got support and friendship from one of his friends and we ... (287 words)

She broke my heart but still flirts with me!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 October 2006 (M) - So what do you do when your girlfriend broke your heart, but still flirts with you a lot ... (18 words)

I have a good male friend who is married and he's been coming on hard and fast! What does this all mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - I've been good friends with this guy now who's 26 now for about a good month or more now, but the thing is that he's married and we catch up usually 1-2 times sometimes more, a month cos he's so busy with work. But what im trying to figure out, he says that were good friends ... (188 words)

Why do I take so long to orgasm? How can I make it more pleasurable for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

13 October 2006 (M) - why do i take so long to cum? I dont really masterbate that often maybe like once every two weeks and maybe now and then once a week but still....I had sex for the first time and i didnt cum.....I had sex another time with the same girl but this time i lasted 3 hours an... (180 words)

I've decided to let my crush go, wrote him a letter but have received no response!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, Last Wednesday, I made the decision to accept the fact that my crush just wants to be friends and nothing more with me (in other words, I finally decided to let him go after nearly two years of constant pining over him). Well, on Thursday, I wrote him a ... (181 words)

Do men generally wear engagement rings?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - Is it true that men don't usually wear their engagement rings? ... (16 words)

I feel like I'm getting all the pleasure and he is getting nothing from the sex with have!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

13 October 2006 (F) - why doesnt my bf feel anything during sex? My bf and i have had sex but he says that he doesnt really feel all that much pleasure. He goes at it for 3 hours and yet he doesnt cum. He makes me cum around 15 times and he doesnt even cum yet. He's bigger than average in l... (206 words)

I love this girl but I don't know if she loves me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

13 October 2006 (M) - i love this girl but i dont know if she loves me I love this girl who says that she loves me but she has a boyfriend. She says that she loves him too but why would she say that she loves me as well. We've had sex already and that makes me believe that she loves me but th... (308 words)

We have a big difference in our financial positions...how can I talk to her about this getting rid of any doubts regarding my motives and intentions??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6614 days ago

13 October 2006 (M) - I have for some time been corresponding on line with a mature divorced woman. We seem to havea real rapport and interest in each other, tho' we have a way to go. I like this person a great deal and it is important to me to be open and honest with her. there is clear... (102 words)

This girl has a BF but she sleeps with me and tells me she loves me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

13 October 2006 (M) - I love this girl who says that she loves me but she has a boyfriend. She says that she loves him too but why would she say that she loves me as well? We've had sex already and that makes me believe that she loves me but then again why is she still with her boyfriend. She's cr... (296 words)