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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My son's father came back in our lives and now he's dumped me again! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - i was in a 3yr relationship from 13 to 16 with Aaron i fell pregnant and he left me when i was 4 half months pregnant it destroyed but i had our beautiful son i moved on and met lee and i was with for 3yrs until 2 weeks ago i ended things he took on my son and loved me for who ... (138 words)

Do I stick it out with this current guy or should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - I last posted that I didnt trust my bf because he was communicating with his ex who still have feelings for him. Well lately i've drifted as far as my feelings. I want to have kids and get married and he already has kids and i'm not sure exactly how he feels as far as marriage ... (141 words)

I like my friend's bf and he likes me! Should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - hey i need help! i used to really fancy this male friend of mine and i know that my friend did as well so i decided to set it up for her and now she is with him but i still really like him and he isnt happy with her and keeps making passes at me. if he finished with her i would ... (83 words)

He treats me like crap! What should I do/

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - My boyf is changing..its been 3yrs...and jus bcuz ive been there wid him thru thick n thin, he thinks its ok to treat me like crap. he yells at me.. dusnt matter where we are...he makes me feel low..and wat drivez me crazy is that at one point i was one of them 'strong,fight ... (149 words)

My friend is having a tough time getting over an ex! How can I help her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (?) - What advice can i give my friend about getting over her ex?... (12 words)

She's going to make herself sick, as she can't let go of her ex bf. How does she ease the pain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - I need help with giving my friend advice about getting over her ex. she's really down on herself and she gets in a really depressed mood when she thinks about him. He's currently in another relationship and no matter what i tell her about not needing him she still thinks she ... (110 words)

He touched my breast and we are not dating! What did that gesture mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - What does it mean when a guy touches your breast, thought you're not dating him?... (15 words)

Is the way this teacher is behaving normal? Or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - Hi, um..I have a problem here, I don't know if that is minor or not. The problem is my teacher flirts with me, well that's how I see it. he smiles at me whenever I say anything, stares at me and jokes with me. He even touches me; like patting my back or graps my arms when he is ... (110 words)

I'm thinking of other girls rather than my gf..one of which is her sister! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 October 2006 (M) - Hello everyone hope I can get some good advice to this! Basically I have been going out with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and we've been close even though I don't find her the prettiest girl in the world. She went on a holiday for a week with some of her friends. All... (221 words)

Is an age gap of 8 years too big?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6629 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - hey i recently met this lad when i was out and we exchanged numbers etc he has text me asking do i want to go out sometime, its a good chance to get to know him better but the only prob is that he is 8 years older than me im 18. is that age gap too big? or do i go out with him? ... (66 words)

Still too hung up on my ex...it was a horrid break up. How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - i went through a terrible break up this year and found my life to be shattered. i lost friends, people i considered family and numerous material possesions. i lost my future, i had it all maped out and it now seems to have been cruelly snatched away from me, i have no self ... (210 words)

One guy treats me badly but I like him..the other guy is nice but I don't like him. Who do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (F)

- Which is the best way to find a proper bloke? do you think it's better to go out with a boy who likes you but you don't have a crush on or with a guy who doesn't treat you properly? Is it better to wait fot Mr Right, do not try and stay home sleeping? thanks... (59 words)

Do women like their man to be strong or does she like being the strong one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 October 2006 (M) - Hi all, I was hoping to get a females view on this one... Me and my girlfriend of 4 years get along great. However, she seems to wear the pants in the relationship. I'm not a wuss, and I am strong and supportive, but I think when i show my emotional side she gets uncomforta... (163 words)

Hand-job timings?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6144 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - How long should a girl keep going for before stopping when giving her boyfriend a hand job?... (17 words)

I want to make a career in fashion..anyone got any tips on that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - Hello hi , im nat im 16. Well i've just finished my first 6 weeks at 6th form and yeah, it's ok, but i'ts given me second thoughts. I want to do something with fashion i've been told i have talent i've done abit of making and i have a portfolio etc but i dont know whether to ... (158 words)

Sex was too fast and I told him to slow down! Now it takes over an hour! Is this normal, too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - My bf came around last night, and as i've said in previous messages, we only usually do it including foreplay and sex about 10 mins. It's not me its him. And so when i talked to him about taking things slower from foreplay onwards he was cool about it,and thats what happened. ... (93 words)

I lied and told this guy I 've had sex 3 times but I'm still a virgin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - Can people tell if your inexperienced sexually? i have done things once! but im still a virgin! i told this lad im seeing iv slept with 3 people!! and i havnt lol!:S but i told him as I've only had sex 3 times it still kinda hurts! Help please ... (49 words)

Bf lacks confidence and it's breaking up our relationship! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. He is 22 and I am 19, but we act a lot older, which is sometimes good and sometimes not. I honestly love him very much, and we have plans to get married when we feel we're ready. (That's whenever we have a solid feeling ... (387 words)

What's the difference between HSV 1 (cold sores) and HSV 2 (genital herpes)?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - Hi. I have a question about the herpes virus. I know that HSV 1(also known as cold sores) is generally located on the face, oral muscosa and sometimes nose, while HSV 2 is located in the genital region and is sexually transmitted. If a person with HSV 1 gives oral sex to ... (122 words)

Who should have the last say on this abortion?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 October 2006 (F)

- Hi there. If a couple is pregnant, married, and has the means to bring up the child well (financially speaking and in a good neighborhood with a good education, etc), and one partner wants to have an abortion and the other doesn't, what should be done? Should the per... (178 words)

This married guy thinks I'm flirting with him and I wasn't. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - I've been giving out lots of flirting signals to a man such as playing with my hair, eye contact and smiling at him. this is entirely by accident though because i play with my hair when i'm bored and i use eye contact as and smiling with everyone. The thing is hes started ... (106 words)

Was asked to be best man but his wife-to-be has banned me from the wedding!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 October 2006 (M)

- Quick question. Should I be angry when my best friend is getting married and tells me that I am the best man. Well, the reason for my anger is he called me today and said that his fiance says she doesn't want me to be in or at the wedding. I have a child with her best friend ... (195 words)

I told him I didn't like the idea of sharing a hotel room with two cute blondes, one with big breasts who he's slept with!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (M)

- Last week a woman called and left a voicemail for my boyfriend, stating that she would be in town in a few days and wanted to see him. I grabbed the phone before she hung up and introduced myself as his girlfriend (he wasn't at home at the time). When I gave my b/f the ... (288 words)

Does he like me or not? How do I find out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (F)

- I can't stop thinking about this guy in my form! Its really weird as the other year he really upset me, But now im trying to talk to him at every oportunity! What should I do? I want to know what he thinks about me, but I dont want him to know that I like him... Its a ... (90 words)

I think someone at work fancies me but I dont fancy him and dont want to ruin our friendship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - i think someone at work fancies me but i dont fancy him and i dont want to ruin our friendship. where i work there is a group of 5people who get along really well, these 5, one of which is me, are the young people at work. we are 18-23 and get on so well. well lately ive noti... (159 words)

Can being fingered break a girl's hymen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - i got fingered the other for the first time, i was woundering is it possible for the hymen to get broken or do you have to have sex!! ... (28 words)

How should I act with this shy guy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - HELP NEEDED ASAP. I am going on a 2nd date tonight with a guy who i like. He says he's interested in me but it doesnt seem like that when we are together. reason for this is he seems withdrawn, shy and doesn't seem to ask me any questions about myself. As I am quite confident ... (85 words)

My brother is 27--and he still acts like a bratty kid! What should I do?

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26 October 2006 (F) - I have a 27-year-old brother who refuses to grow up. I understand that there is a part of every person that will not grow up all the way, but he acts like a very immature bratty little kid, and it drives me crazy! I have tried to tell him that, but he never seems to listen to ... (58 words)

My parents are mean--has anyone else had the same experiences with their parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was wondering if any of your readers known some very nice people who have very mean parents? Because I have, and I was wondering if anyone else has too?... (33 words)

18 and craving for a baby... how can I stop feeling broody?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6502 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - Ok help. I'm 18, been in a very solid relationship for 2 years and everythings great. We're moving in together soon and everything. But I'm craving for a baby. I know I'm young and not exactly financially stable and all, but I really want a baby. I would never sabotage ... (67 words)

I'm staying friends with her as I'm hoping to spark her feelings for me back up!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6624 days ago

26 October 2006 (M)

- I am 21 and have recently mutually split from a long term relationship (4 yrs) where everything appeared to be lasting for life with ambitions of marriage and kids as we both loved each other immenseley. She fell out of love with me over a long period but didnt talk to me about ... (223 words)

His ex hates me and doesn't want the kids around me. I think he should stand up to her! Am I right?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - please help! i've been with my bf for 4yrs, thing is he has 3 kids to his ex wife she's an alcoholic and is never sober. well one night the police called my bf to say that they were bringing the kids down as his ex wife was lying blacked so my boyfriend who i live with had to ... (327 words)

He doesn't want anything serious just fun...I don't want to give up on him!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - Hello... Ive fallen for a guy that i really want. He's just recently become single and is a couple of years younger than me (20). We got together recently and we've txt since, but im not sure where to go from here. He doesnt want anything serious but fun, i like him ... (73 words)

Do I just leave it and get on with my life or fight for my man???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6592 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i were going out for 3 years and we have a son. last year i cheated on him it was a drunken mistake and i feel really bad he found out and he was ok till one day he kicked off at me and said that he didnt think he loved me anymore and thta when he looks at me ... (176 words)

I know he doesn't want anything serious but I don't want to lose him!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - Hi there... Ok this is really embarrassing.... ive been after this guy for about a month, he's recently come out of a two year relationship and has warned me he doesnt want anything serious. The other day we watched a film together and one thing lead to another, we didnt ... (146 words)

He cheated on her with me...do I find a way to tell her so she finishes it so I can have him???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - A guy i'm into cheated on his girlfriend with me. They've only been going out for 2 days. I know that if she found out what we did they'd break up and he would be free for me to have him, but I know that he wouldn't be all that pleased with me. If she found out somehow without ... (106 words)

His Mother keeps his old wedding pics up on her wall! This has upset me..what do you all think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - hi im the one who thinks my boyfriend is ashamed of our relationship . i forgot to tell you about his mum decorating their house . when she decorated their house i thought when it was finished she wudnt hang up his wedding picture again but she did . they have been divorced for ... (202 words)

To be with him he thinks I should leave my faith and join his!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and i have been on for about a month now. He is very kind, spiritual and pure. But that is the problem really. He expects me to imitate him and has strict standard that i really dont think i can keep up with.I really didnt know he had such high st... (170 words)

Should I be worried that he now works at the same place as his ex of 7 years???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, my bf and I have recently got engaged. Its been a tough yr for both of us and we're happy.However, my partner has accepted a new job working for the same company as his ex of 7yrs. Now he's saying how weird it is bumping into her and how he thinks he's ok? She ... (91 words)

I am finding it hard to deal with the fact he has got alot of female friends!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6612 days ago

26 October 2006 (F)

- Does anyone else's man make a lot of female friends and how do you cope with it? My boyfriend has always made friends easier with women than men and I knew that when I got into the relationship but I still find it difficult to cope with when a new name appears. An a... (416 words)

We stopped being friends and sleeping together when he got a new girlfriend til the other night...Whats going on???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6629 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - I broke up with my bf 3 weeks ago. We then had a complicated and stupid situation of being sex buddies/friends. He said he wanted to stay single and so do I, even though I know that if he wanted to give us another go i'd jump at the chance. On tuesday he rang me and told me he ... (266 words)

Women...do you get the urge to cross examine your boyfriends after a night out???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - How do other women resist the urge to question their boyfriend about his nights out? Who was there, what women he was speaking to, etc? My boyfriend is always very untalkative about nights out and it makes me suspicious. I always want to question him but know i sound like an ... (66 words)

I don't look at him and find him as sexually attractive as other guys!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (M) - My boyfriend fancies me more than I fancy him. I've been seeing a guy exclusively for the last two months and we're now talking about potentially living together. I really enjoy spending time with him, I like all his friends and feel like we could do anything or go a... (174 words)

I feel he is ashamed of us because he never comes round when the kids are awake and hides the fact when he is here!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - i am going out with a guy for nearly 2 yrs i love him very much but there are times i feel he is ashamed of our relationship because i have 3 kids from an sbusive relationship he is divorced himself and has 2 kids. he never calls round in the day when my kids are awake he says ... (163 words)

Is it acceptable to stay friends with an ex???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - HI I was wondering if people thinks its acceptable to stay friends with an ex boyfriend, even if you are unsure about whether he is over you? My ex finished it 6 mths ago after i made it clear i wanted marriage and kids (he is nearly 40 and has done it before so time w... (285 words)

When should I phone her and what should I say???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (?) - if i get this girl's number when can i call her? we both go school. i'm 16 and she is 14. i suppose when i get the number it's only generally askin just in case i need it! but i doubt she will be expecting me to call or will she? what can i say when i phone her? i really like ... (119 words)

She wants to have sex but doesn't want to seem a slut...what can I do???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (M) - Hi everyone I have a little question, how do I get my girlfriend into a sexual mindset? Its that stage of the relationship when would want to get physical. We've kissed before and grabbed ofcourse. She wants to have sex but she doesnt want to seam like a slut, its her first ... (75 words)

I love her but she is already with someone else!!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

26 October 2006 (M) - im in love with a girl thats already going out with someone. what should i do? please help... (18 words)

He would rather end the relationship than talk to me about whats really wrong!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my fiance for nearly 2 years now and we moved in together 2 months ago. Most parts of our relationship are great but we have little fall outs that turn into big arguements because he would rather say its over than talk to me about whats on his mind. We had a ... (99 words)

I'm getting mixed signals!!!! Should I keep trying or give up???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (M) - Hi, i,ve been getting signals from this lady for about four weeks, after two weeks she gave me her number and we txt each other a couple of times a week. last sunday i asked her out on a date, she accepted without any hesitation, and said she would txt me about a avenue to meet ... (106 words)

What are the signals as to whether someone fancies you???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

26 October 2006 (M) - how do you know if a girl fancies you? what are the signs? thanks... (20 words)

It's just basically sex and talking...I'm scared and feel sick when I think of it being anything more!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - this may sound stupid, but i think i may have a problem with intimacy. not sex, but being emotionally close to another person. the reason i say this, is i've been "seeing" this guy for a coupld of months, which is basically just sex and talking...nothing more. until last nig... (207 words)

His ex has control over him....I'm worried about marrying a man that allows her to do this!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6631 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - I recently became engaged to my boyfriend. We have been in a relationship for three years. He is a wonderful person and treats me like a queen for the most part. I have one concern about marrying him. His ex-wife still seems to be able to get under his skin. So much so that ... (469 words)

I'm afraid my girlfriend will cheat on me on cruise!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

26 October 2006 (M) - Well, me and my girlfriend have been going out for 8 months. She has a history of lying sometimes, and its hard to trust here. Well anyways her and one of her friends are going on a cruise together. Well i'm concerned about her cheating on me on the cruise. She says she ... (76 words)

I don't think she's the one for me but don't want to hurt her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

26 October 2006 (M) - I've been with my girlfiend for 2 1/2 years and she is by far the best friend i've ever had. However i don't have feelings for her the way I used to and don't think she's the one for me. What should I do? I still think she's totally in love with me.... (53 words)

Is he really over his ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - Hi,there's this guy who i dated for awhile...after some stuff that happened with us,we realise it's better to be friends. However friends meant...he would still call everyday and let me know what he's doing. We were still very close even though we never had sex before...and I ... (213 words)