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writes: Am 22 yrs and he is 29 yrs. he's a family friend and his mum is a very good friend of my mum. the problem is that he asked me for a relationship, he says he loves me so much and wants to marry me if my parents agree to it. but i don't know what to do because he stays 3 houses away from my house. i don't think it's something that is good enough. i like to have a relationship i'll be proud of. i love him so much 2 and don't have a boyfriend right now. Reply to this Question
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reader, Toria +, writes (26 October 2006):
 He loves you and you love him I don't see the problem apart from possibly the fear of something going wrong and causing problems with your mums and the fact you live so close but isn't love worth the chance? and only you two can determind whether you allow this to cause problems.
Good luck :o)
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (25 October 2006):
 Have you even dated yet? If not, what the heck is he talking about marriage for? Just keep dating for a while, you'll know whether he's the one or not. Just get to truly know him. Have fun and don't even think about marriage right now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2006): Hey girl,
you are very young. Give it time and enjoy your life there is no rush to marriage. Good Luck!
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (25 October 2006):
 He seems a little too forward for my liking. When I first started to read your question, I was going to say you should give him a chance. He is mentioning marriage to a girl he is not even dating, I would steer clear until you have guaged his intentions fully. I don't trust this guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2006): you've already answered the question yourself hun....
There is always going to be :something or someone better:, but if you live your whole life always looking for that something better you'll end up missing what is right in front of you. A great guy who loves you dearly, and your parents already know and accept him. And really, what have you got to loose? dateing is not a solid commitment, it's a trial and error thing, if things don't work out you don't HAVE to stay with him. Trust your instinct, no random person on a computer can tell you what to do with your life, in the end that's your descion.
Best of Luck Hun, xoxo
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (25 October 2006):
 if you love him i think you should just go for it! the age gap isn't too big, and if he's friends with your parents maybe they'll be ok with it because they obviously know him and think he's a good guy or they wouldn't be friends with him. don't sneak around though or do it behind their backs cos it'll look worse when they find out. i think you should do anything at all that makes you happy. and if your happy now with him - be with him!
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