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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm in a long distance relationship and I ended up kissing another girl....I've been given a second chance but I don't know if she will go back to the way things were!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 October 2006 (M) - I met my girlfriend over a year ago. We broke up about two times. But got back together. Its a long distance relationship, but I go too see her when I can. Only 3 hour train ride away. I got her a ring and told her I love her. She said it back. We was so in love with each ... (194 words)

My friends ex keeps asking me out but I'm worried she ain't really over him!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - hey, my best friend dated a guy, they were going out for a year, but they broke up. She's pretty upset about it, but she told me she got over it. The problem is, after about a month, the guy asked me out. I secretly had a crush on him when they were going out, but nothing... (132 words)

I'm comfortable with how things are...but I'm reaching a point where I would like more!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 October 2006 (?) - I think in my own mind I know the answer that this could never be anything more than casual but I'll ask it anyway. I've been seeing this guy for a year once a week or couple of weeks, nothing serious just great conversation and comfortable evenings. I've met some of his close ... (113 words)

He has started acting how he did before we got together and I can feel myself slipping backwards!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - i need help... i'm good mates with me ex ... but i can feel myself wanting him back. we are good mates still...but he's been different with me recently.. hes knows what makes me laugh and smile so he's started using this to make me laugh. he flirts too and started calling ... (202 words)

Sex wasn't all that wonderful but now we have split up and just sex buddies it seems 100 times better!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - I'm a bit confused. I was in a relationship with this guy for 4 months and I lost my virginity to him. Sex itself wasn't really all that wonderful because I couldn't reach orgasm very often (I've never told him this) but I still loved it because of the closeness and intimacy of ... (104 words)

I don't want to drop out of college as I am intelligent but everything seems so much effort!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - I need help. I feel dead inside. I'm 16 years old and i've felt like this since I started college at the beginning of September. That place just sucks everything out of me. I ended a relationship with the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with because I just stopped ... (155 words)

I am really attracted to my best friend but don't know if he likes me back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 October 2006 (M) - Hello, my best friend is a midget and i am really attracted to him, usually dwarfs and such scare me, but i made friends with him at college two weeks ago, but his really big hands are intimidating. but he is so beautiful. what should i do? please help, i am unsure if he likes ... (73 words)

Does this all mean he is going to or want to take things further?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - If a bloke fancies you and flirts with you from time to time when he sees you, does it necessarily mean that he's going to try and take things further. So far with this person I have experienced over the last two years (arm round the shoulder (once), arm round the waist ... (119 words)

Sex wasn't a problem when we was having an affair with each other so why is it now???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - Help.... I am at my wits end. My partner and I have been together for three years (12 mths of this time we were having an affair for the past 12 months we have been living together) The problem is he doesn't want sex. It seems there is always an excuse, tired, too much to ... (154 words)

I really like him and can't stop thinking about him but he doesn't like me back!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 October 2006 (F)

- I like this guy and i cant stop thinking about him, but the thing is i know he doesnt like me back, but i cant get over him, no matter how many other guys i have found, i still only want to be with him, but he doesnt feel the same, i dont understand why he doesnt like me, and i ... (129 words)

We work together but I am now liking him more what should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - I am a Team Manager in a call centre type office. I work very closely with another Team Manager and lately have been seeing him in a different way. I have always been close with him as the nature of the job means we spend alot of time together in the office. He has just split ... (315 words)

My insecurity and drinking is causing so many issues in our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 October 2006 (?) - Hi there ive got a problem thats eating me up.Every relationship I have ever had some how and some where down the line the guy has cheated on me leaving me extremely insecure. I met my new partner approx 18 months ago and i truley trusted him but my major problem was my ... (255 words)

I don't get much pleasure from masturbation but still achieve a good orgasm!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 October 2006 (M) - hello ladies. i am a 16 yo male and my fore skin doesn't retract. if i do pull it back i can only take it back a small bit and if i touch the glans i get a sharp pain. i have seeked medical advice a they say i am ok. i can still have erections and ejaculate. the only thing i... (111 words)

If he still loved me wouldn't he want to make it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - I was in a long distance realtionship. He was away working at a job that he does not want to leave. We broke up because he said it's to hard and can't be alone anymore. He still told me he loves me... But if he truely loved me wouldn't he want to make it work or give up the ... (60 words)

His girlfriend has found out about us sleeping together now he is sending me nasty messages!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - I have had a very on off relationship with this guy for th last three and half years. it didnt work when we went out but we were always drawn to oneanother and started sleeping together. we have however never gone back out officially. late last year we had a miscarri... (341 words)

She doesn't seem to want to know us when she is hanging around with her other friend!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - my best friend and I are both 16. Lately, things have been getting weird with us because she started hanging out with this other girl. My other friends and I notice that when this girl is around, my friend more or less ignores us or goes off with the other girl and leaves us. ... (205 words)

What does it mean when someone blows in your ear??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - okay, well i was just wondering what it means when my boyfriend blows in my ear???... (16 words)

I've decided it hurts to much being with him but I don't know how to tell him without breaking down and crying infront of him!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - Hi, Can anyone offer me any advice on how to keep my emotions at bay? Tonight I am going to tell my ex (who I have been seeing occasionally over the last 3 months)that I feel too much for him to keep seeing him unless he wants to seriously work at a relationship with me. I h... (246 words)

She got with me because I looked just like her ex...I want her back but she is spending time with him even though he treated her bad!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 October 2006 (M) - Guys, i've been trying to forget about her but it just isn't working.... Me and my ex have been together for 2 years, im 21 shes 20. After a year we moved in together, today is exactly 1 month since she broke up with me and left me. I loved her alot, i still do, and i know t... (560 words)

I really like this girl but my friend has liked her for longer...what do I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 October 2006 (M) - i like a girl n she might like me but one of my friends has liked her longer what should i do? and when i mean like her i think about her non stop please help me ... (39 words)

What does first time sex feel like???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6121 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - I am a virgin, I am wondering what first time sex feels like?... (13 words)

I went into his email account and found out he has been meeting girls on a sexual basis...how do I bring this up without letting him know how I found out???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for the past 4 months now it has been a lovely relationship where he treats me well and treats me like a lady, something I never had in the past..until recently I did not realise just how jealous he was and controlling. He hide it well to start ... (223 words)

How can we be together without comparing the relationship to how it was??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - Ok so I finished school in the summer and am now at college.At the beginning of the summmer holidays I got back together with my ex, who I was in love with. We had the greatest summer ever, the best time of my life. But as circumstances changed and I had to go to college, the ... (120 words)

If we continue to just have sex I can see whether he is ready for a relationship with me....Is this wrong on him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - My bf and I broke up last week. I want him back, but not yet as i need to be single and sort my head out a bit beforehand. We are sex buddies which I know is a bad idea in general as separating feelings from sex is really hard, especially when you're ex lovers like we are. I ... (175 words)

More information regarding question...are people more honest when they are drunk!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - Ok so I posted 'are people more honest when they're drunk?' yesterday and a few people wanted more information. So if your ex boyfriend who broke up with you a week ago tells you he loves you and acts like your bf again for the whole time he's drunk, is he showing his true ... (66 words)

Do you prefer to give handjobs or blowjobs and how would you give them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

15 October 2006 (M) - ladies. Do you prefer to give handjobs or blowjobs and how would you give them?... (19 words)

How can I break up with the boyfriend from HELL??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 October 2006 (F)

- eurgh cant break up with the boyfriend from hell!!! I really need help! im 16 and have never really had that much luck with boyfriends. My friends totaly over took me...im not repulsive or anyhting just a little picky and didnt want a boy-for-a-day relationships that all my ... (242 words)

I still love my boyfriend a little bit, but I really like this other guy. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6383 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - ok so heres the start of my problem. iv bin with my boyfriend for over 3years now and i thought i really loved. about 4 weeks ago now we had a huge fall out which left my boyfrined wantin to leave me. that same day before the arguement i recieved a text from my boyfriend which ... (398 words)

My hustband told me he was in love with my friend. How can I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - my husband informed me he was "in love" with my friend 2 1/2 years ago. i still hevent been able to forget or move on. we do heaps more together now but he still goes to work everyday where she also works and we are volunteer ambulance officers in our small community. how do i ... (70 words)

What is the most romantic way to ask my GF of 12 years to marry me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 October 2006 (M) - I want to ask my GF of 12yrs to marry me. What is the most romantic way to go about doing this? Thanks!... (24 words)

He is taking everything so slow but I want it to speed up abit!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now--depending on when you count the relationship as starting. I don't see him very often because he lives 30 minutes away, and our schedules don't usually allow it. I see him about 1-3 times a month. We ususally talk over the ... (333 words)

He doesn't say he loves me back and we only talk 3 times a week!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - I'm very much in love with my boyfriend who I've been with for about a year now. We're taking things very slow and are still not having intercourse. The problem is that when I tell him I love him, he doesn't usually say it back. He explained to me that he thinks saying it ... (246 words)

How do you ask someone why they are acting weird without causing offence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - There was someone at work that I asked out but he decided against it due to the fact that we worked together, however it started a mutual friendship. The thing is that he left work for another company and I thought our frienship was growing but as soon as I ask him out, which ... (167 words)

I'm with a guy 14 years older than me and it's killing me keeping it a secret from my dad!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - I'm 17, my boyfriend is 31. I guess I'm just looking for someone to reassure me that everything is OK. We've known eachother for a year and a half, are taking things slowly, and we still have not had sex. My mom knows about us, my friends know as well. The problem is that ... (378 words)

I really want her back, even though she's with another guy. Do I talk to her about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 October 2006 (M)

- Hi, well me and the girl i was seeing broke up a month or so ago, at first i was really depressed cos i really really liked her and we got on so well, we still talk and we both say we will miss each other, and we say we are gonna stay friends because theres no point wasting ... (298 words)

How do you deal with the fact that someone doesn't love you anymore?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - Ok. So, how do you deal with the fact that someone doesn't love you anymore? I had never before been in love cause I never let anyone in (never wanted a broken heart, cause I am not that strong of a person). I finally let this guy in...and I love him more than life itself. I ... (225 words)

Help me...how do I break up with my current bf to date this other guy I like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6603 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - I need help breaking up with my boyfriend? Well im in love with this guy that ive been talking to for about two months now and i have a boyfriend that ive been going out with for 6 months going for 7. I love my boyfriend but i really really love this other guy. I want to b... (858 words)

Two lumps on my penis and I have no idea what they are! Any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

15 October 2006 (M)

- I have two lumps on my penis, but they are both very very different lumps but I have no idea what they are. One is just near the top, very hard, under the skin but it doesn't feel like it is attached inside, i've had it for about 3 years about 2 monthes before I went to ... (187 words)

Should I just be his friend or try to interest him into something more???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6612 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - How can I initiate a long distance relationship? I met this guy who live in a neighboring country on a holiday.We keep in touch,but not as often as I would like. He means a lot to me,yet I wonder should I be his friend or should I try to interest him in something more?... (55 words)

She says she loves me but keeps breaking up with me saying she isn't ready!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6301 days ago

15 October 2006 (M) - I've liked this girl for about a year, and about two months ago I heard that she like me too. I'm kind of a nervous person so I asked her out on msn and she said yes, but then she said aslong as we dont tell any body, and then I realised thats what I have heard from most of my ... (241 words)

Added information to question regarding how I can make sex last less time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6610 days ago

15 October 2006 (M) - how can i make my penis more sensitive? well i wacked off today and i didnt really want to do it because i was gonna have sex tomorrow. well everyone knows that when a guy cums hes less sensitive so he lasts longer. well i want the opposite. i want to last less. the thing ... (390 words)

I want to buy her a diamond engagement ring but I don't want to pay the prices!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

15 October 2006 (M) - I want to buy my GF a diamond engagement ring. I know they are way over priced/marked up at the jewelry stores. Does anyone have any tips on how to haggle to get the best price? Has anyone ever purchased one at a discount site online? What would you recommend? Thanks!... (53 words)

I need to know how I can not last as long with this new girl tomorrow!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6612 days ago

15 October 2006 (M) - What can i do to get my semen faster? well i messed up. I was trying not to wack off but i guess i couldnt help myself. Well im suppose to have sex with this girl tomorrow and i had told myself not to jerk off until i had done it with her. I had lasted around 3 weeks up until... (203 words)

She isn't happy about me giving her oral....how can I make her happy in the things we do???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6548 days ago

15 October 2006 (M) - well me and my gf had the house to ourselves for the first time. we are both young (im 15 shes 14 ) and she gave me head. which i came very quickly in,but anyway when i asked if she wanted me to lick her out at first she said it was best we didnt which was fair enough incase my ... (296 words)

He says he will leave me if I don't have sex with him....I'm a virgin!!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - I am going out with this guy, he is 18 and I am 16. I really love him. A LOT. We've been going out for about three months. He wants to have sex, but I don't. I am a virgin and I am kinda scared. He says he's gonna leave me if I didn't give him what he wants. I don't know what ... (134 words)

He wasn't interested in me having this baby...I don't know whether I should contact him now I've had the baby!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6583 days ago

15 October 2006 (F) - I was on a relationship with a man that was 14yrs older than me I feel pregnant while at uni we had a child together and lived together for about 1 yr. When my child was 6 months old he decided to go abroad to be a lawyer a month after I graduated. This made me very depressed ... (731 words)