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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We snogged and she took it seriously. Now she's being real clingy! How do I tell her I just want to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - Theres a girl i've been friends with for about a year now. Shes a bit fragile and I don't want to hurt her but I don't know what to do. A couple of Fridays ago, we both were pretty drunk and ended up having a bit of a snog. I just took it as a one-off, but she took it a lo... (112 words)

Once we slept together, he wouldn't answer his phone. But I still like him so how can I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I met a guy a few months ago and i slept with him, but once we slept together we lost contact for a bit and he wouldnt answer his phone to me or anything, then a few weeks ago i bumped into him again and we got chatting again. I still really like this guy but dont know if he ... (118 words)

I'm 14..he's 17 and I want to have sex with him. Can he get into trouble with the police if we do have sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - HI, Im 14 (nearly 15) and im going out with a 17 year old. And i want to have sex with him and he isnt putting pressure on me although i know hed like to have sex aswell. im just worried about it as i know the lagal age to have sex is 16. so if i do have sex with him can him... (79 words)

Can anyone give any tips on coping with failed relationships?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6398 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - Can anyone give any tips on coping with failed relationships? I am a 33 year old attractive and intelligent woman, who has (unfortunately) had the worst luck when it comes to relationships. I've been broken hearted more times that I care to remember.... ...To the point... (201 words)

He's married but...what signs should I be looking for.. to tell if he wants more than friendship?.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I am married, but am no longer in love with my husband, i have developed feelings for a friend of mine, who is also married, although more happily than me, we spend quite a bit of time together, he is my training partner in the martial arts that we do, and when we are together ... (225 words)

My bf hates my family! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - my boyfriend seems to hate my family and is really against them. i really love him and want him to love them back. what should i do? please help me... (30 words)

I'm online dating and have met two guys who seemed nice, but never got back to me. Why did they do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I am hoping someone could help with this. I have been on a online dating service for about four months now. My boyfriend left me about a year ago and I am trying to get back into the swing of things. I have met two of these guys face to face and both seemed like nice guys but ... (114 words)

When I told him how I felt..all he said was 'he was glad'? What on earth does this mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 October 2006 (F)

- well. i met someone at college he is a really great guy. i told him i liked him and he says he is glad i told him. what does this mean?... (32 words)

Fell n love with him and now he wants time apart! I am hurting..what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - So, I recently met this guy and I feel as if I fell head over heals for him. Thing is, he just got out of a marriage a little over 3 months ago and is/was starting to get strong feelings for me as well. Now, he just wants to have time apart because we are getting too attached. ... (103 words)

My gf was upset because I didn't see her the minute I got back from my holiday! Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6625 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - I just got back off holiday and i missed my girlfriend lots and wanted to come home early especially to see her. I wanted to see her as soon as possible but she was busy working and stuff so I went out to the cinema to see a film we had previously planned to see but I went ... (171 words)

I think he may still like me! What are the signs that a lad likes you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - 3 years ago a lad asked me out i did like him then as well but just felt to young to beb going out with some one at that age.Anyway ever since then i started falling in love with him evan my friends said ask him out he might still like you.I have noticed him looking at me in ... (105 words)

Found out he cheated on me a week before we broke up, but want to still get back with him! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I've heard from a close friend that my ex boyfriend cheated on me about a week before we broke up, kissing a girl in a public place with onlookers (one of them being my friends bf). I'm in the process of trying to get over him as he has a new girl, but I like to think that ... (224 words)

Worried I may have thrush..but is it normal for females just to have an ordinary discharge?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I've had thrush in the past whilst I was sexually active, but I'm no longer with that guy. Is it normal to just have a discharge? It doesn't smell or anything, it's just that I didn't have it when I was a virgin. I don't think I still have thrush because i'm not experiencing ... (81 words)

I liked him but he only talked to me for fun..not because he felt the same way. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - well i m here again. the guy i luk called simon well sed he was a playboi n tht he only talked to me for fun he made me cry so but today i found out tht it wasa ll just an act he put up to tell me tht i deseved better than him wat do i do? he doesn't know tht i kno this.. m... (105 words)

I came to work hungover and this guy I liked, asked if I pulled someone else...does this mean he's interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I really like this lad I work with but the trouble is I don't know if he feels the same. We've been working together for almost a year now and we have a laugh together and can talk for ages on the most random topics. He always seems to make time to talk to me and always helps ... (204 words)

He has a pregnant gf now and I can't get him out of my head! What should i do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - This guy and i have been friends for a while and for the last year became closer. He would call or text all the time we would hang oiut on a daily basis. and i started to have feelings so i hinted to him thst i had feelings so then he just moved. no word from him in 3 months ... (121 words)

She loves another and not me! She regrets having 2 kids with me...any thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - I have 2 kids with my girlfriend of 7 years we lived together for the last 6 years we broke up 5 months ago i lived in a differnt room in the house 3 mths ago she told me she was dating someone from church and she thinks she is going to marry him. I decide to change my life and ... (155 words)

What is going on with this boy who bugs me in school? Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - there is a boy at my school that i never used to know.but after the summer he was in some of my classes.as i was walkin to one class he said what ave we got now and i said the subject but he was already walkin der so he new were to go.and in another subject he would like blow ... (101 words)

I wnat to break up with my bf but it will break his heart. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I have been going out with this really lovely guy for almost 2 years, But recently I have started to have feelings for my best guy friend instead of my boyfriend. I know the right thing to do is to break up with my boyfriend, but I know that he loves me and that if I left him ... (74 words)

I asked her to lose her male friend and she won't. I feel doublecrossed here...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - I started going out with my gf 9 months ago.My gf is a chatterbox and i am the quiete kinds,but i talk,not as my gf expects but i say what i have to say,sometimes on time and late as well.Trouble started when my gf in 5th month asked me to cut off ties with a friend(girl) and i ... (492 words)

I like this online guy but am heartbroken that we both have to be just friends, due to the distance.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6615 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I met a guy on a chat site... and even though i wasnt looking for love... from the very first day speaking to each other..we just "clicked"..and even though I know that he feels the same way... the fact that he lives 6 hours away.. has made a relationship between us ... (132 words)

I lost my virginity and found out sex with my bf doesn't do it for me. Is this normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 October 2006 (F)

- I lost my virginity, to my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago, we've had sex twice since then. He enjoys it but it doesn't do anything for me, is this normal? ... (31 words)

I'm not quite sure how to make myself happy....any advice???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

30 October 2006 (M)

- I need to ask is the story I'm about to give sound sad? I used to get bullied badly at school and was too scared to tell the teachers AGAIN as the bullying got worse. Although thats over now, since then and after my girlfriend broke up with me after she used me (March time) I ... (112 words)

Do women really like to cuddle as much as they like sex???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 October 2006 (M)

- I heard somewhere that women really like cuddles. Almost as much as sex. Is this true? ... (18 words)

I don't want to put the pressure on him about me moving, so what should I do???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - Guys - I will try to keep this short. Any help is so much appreciated. So, I have posted before about my boyfriend who lives in Ireland. I live in the UK. WE have been together two years and the general consensus is that I will one day move to ireland. A few months back, w... (370 words)

I just break down and cry sometimes, is this normal???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - Hey guys, My gf broke up with me around 2 months ago, we've been together for almost 2 years. Im 22, shes 21 and we moved in together after just 2 months when we were stll together. I loved her so much, i still do but she doesn't have feelings for me anymore and broke up wit... (316 words)

I thought he was taking me for granted, but now I haven't talken to him!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 October 2006 (F)

- thers this blokes whos 25 and im 18. he says that he likes me and wants to get to know me. he always takes me out and this has been going on for just over 6 weeks now. but hes still not mentioned a relationship! also friday just gone he let me down as we were ment to be going ... (296 words)

Completely lovesick over my Cypriot. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - i have just come back from a holiday in cyprus and met this gorgeous man who worked out there. he took me out and didn have to pay a penny. he said it was a miracle to meet me. i haven felt like this about anyone he was so romantic, and caring and everytime i think about him i ... (109 words)

Left our spouses, but now he doesn't know what he wants....what should I do???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I got married August 2006 after living with my partner for 5 years, our relationship was more a convenience that anything else and I always had strong feeling for someone who worked at the same company as I did. Having been married for 8 months I met up with this guy I worked ... (443 words)

My boyfriend cheated because I had an abortion, now I am pregnant again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I am a 21yr old female whose been in a relationship for 3yrs this past August.I am currently pregnant with twins for my boyfriend.At the ending of the 1st yr we meet i went and got an abortion dispite what my boyfriend wanted (he wanted me to keep it).After doing so he broke up ... (194 words)

Is it ok for your ex to date her friends ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - Hi, everyone when you ex girl dates her good friends ex boyfriend, isn't that ruff?... (15 words)

Is my boyfriend interested in this other girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6495 days ago

30 October 2006 (F)

- I need some advice! I wanted to ask people whether they thought my boyfriend could possibly becoming interested in someone else. Being emotionally involved its hard for me to make a decision about whether he is or not! Why I think he is, is because hes taken 3 photos of he... (367 words)

How do I convince my ex wife to be checked by doctors? She says she is too busy.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6591 days ago

30 October 2006 (M)

- My ex wife has lumps in her breasts, yet refuses to seek treatment. She is quite small chested and is worried that her breasts will not fit onto the mammogram machine. She is 26 and has 3 children. She also has never had a cervical smear, despite countless letters to have one... (100 words)

Do I risk it all for a younger guy, with no certain job prospects that I love with a constant desire I have not felt with my bf? Is this a long-dull-period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I fell in love when I was 19 and have been with the same guy ever since (now I am 25). 2 years ago he went overseas to pursue higher education and we've been dating long distance in the meantime (I stayed on to study locally). We always planned to get married after we ... (307 words)

I think I scared him. Should I back off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - Hi there, I am so unhappy. I have been seeing a guy a couple of months and have started to really like him. He has been in several relationships beforehand but nothing serious in the last few year. I met him the same week I split up with my boyfriend of 4 years which had ... (242 words)

Should I break up with my gf of 2 months? She kissed her ex because he is depressed and lonely.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - Hi there Ive been going out with my gf for 2 months now things were going gud. I live 3 hours away so i do get to c her that often mayb once a month. Last week i went over and she told me that he xboyfreind had kiss her. She did not like it but she said she did it because h... (93 words)

How can I contructively deal with negativity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I am feeling abit down and frustrated with myself because of the way I let people treat me, mainly regarding my boyfriend but also a few of my friends. I was quite hurt by the way my boyfriend treated me on his birthday (he initially invited me to his birthday do but then his ... (899 words)

24 year old virgin. What will guys think? I need advice.

This question has 77 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - im 24 and ive never had sex. how lame is that? what will guys think when i tell them? i pretty much have no experience..i need advice.... (27 words)

Caught my fiance looking at porn...with local girls!!!. Should I be worried?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my fiance for over 3 years now I recently caught him looking at porn.The thing that bothered me the most was that he was looking at girls in the same town.I love him to pieces but I am so confused.Should I be worried?... (47 words)

He doesn't want to be my bf yet. I think it's because he still likes his ex..Am I right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I think he still likes his ex. It's been 3 months sincve they broke up and he still thinks he;s not ready for another relationship soon. When I asked him if he misses her he said yeah, sometimes. He said he's not ready for a relationship cuz he just got out of one. Well it ... (97 words)

Will he forgive me? Can we still end up being friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - i ran upstairs as fast as i could, i need to find him it was my last chance and then in the classroom i saw him standing in the corner, he's eyes glisten in the morning i was so thirsty inlove for him i ran to him holding his hands but was trying to let go i got down on my ... (365 words)

He still likes his ex..is that why he's not ready to commit to an exclusive relationship with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I've been seing this guys for about two weeks. I like him and he says he likes me too. We're exclusive and not seing anyone else, but I wanna make it official. I want him to ask me to be his girlfriend. He said it's too soon, and that he JUST got out of a relationship and ... (179 words)

Guys...do any of you think it's funny when a girl is making noises whilst she giving you a blowjob?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6224 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - Okay this is for all the male readers. I have been seing this guy lately and he's still a virgin. My case is different because I've had sex with three other boyfriends in the past, and have also done other stuff with other guys. Well, when this guy and I hooked up it was the ... (342 words)

He says his penis is 'big' around...I have fears he won't get 'past the gate' down there! Should I check with my doctor before attempting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I am a 65 year old woman. My new friend is 61. He says he is 7 inches long and 6 1/2 around. I'm not that "spacious" downstairs (comes with growing older, too) though with guys of smaller size it hasn't been a problem to "accommodate" them for intercourse. I have fears of ... (78 words)

What should I do, if I want to have the best chance of my gf coming back to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - Hi there, I am getting the sense that my ex-girlfriend's current relationship is coming to an end. I alwyas felt that it would as the guy was the complete opposite of me, had little in common with her, and was of a different religion and she's from an Italian-Catholic ... (138 words)

Is there any way I can convince my gf to try anal sex? I want to see how it feels!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been going out a while. She told me that she would never have anal sex. Is there anything i can do to convice her to try it? I just want to experience it and see how it feels. I just don't know how to make her want to try it..Any suggestions?... (60 words)

My husband needs to grow up and put me and our baby, on his priority list. We hardly see him! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6628 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I've been married for 5 years and we have a baby daughter. My husband owns his own businesses and works hard to provide for us. We decided that I'd give up my career and stay home with our daughter. I loved that decision and am happy to be home. We recently moved into a ... (448 words)

We all have annoying habits! So how does one stop thinking that a loved one will reject us, if they knew about these habits?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - Don't you hate it when you have thoughts like getting into a serious relationship or getting married and thinking "i bet they wouldn't if they knew things like am afraid of the dark, pick your nose, scratch your butt, ever did anything with other girls, having something like ... (163 words)

After celebrating our 5th anniversay together..he just picked up and left the next day! I am so distraught..how do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - Hi, I have been crying for a week now and I have just started to cry again now I am writing this note. I have been with a man for the past 5 years. In the first couple of years, I did not take the relationship too seriously. However, he went away to work and I missed him li... (482 words)