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writes: I'm nearly 21 years old and I’ve never been in a committed relationship. When I was 19, I was seeing this bloke and he told me he didn't want a relationship. At that time, I didn't want a relationship either. Then as time went on, he was flirting and showing an interest in me. He was the first bloke who made me feel attractive and wanted. I even had my first kiss with him. Things were great at the beginning until he started messing me about. Sometimes he would text and other times he wouldn't. I didn't know what was going on but I was going to tell him how I felt. I remember my phone weren't working because it was corrupted and I gave him my email address for him to contact me. He didn’t have a computer but he used he’s mates computer to contact me. We arranged to meet up and I was going to tell him how I felt. Anyway, he never turned up and I tried to contact him but I couldn't get through. Sadly, he never contacted me again so I just got on with my life. As the months progressed, I felt bitter inside and I didn't feel attracted to guys anymore. Anyway, he contacted me seven months later and he apologised. He said the reason why he didn't contact me was that he lost my number and email address. I've course I didn't believe him but I still had feelings for him. He said he wanted to see me. I said to him that I didn't want anything to do with him and then two weeks later I emailed to him and said maybe we can be friends but we'll see how things go. We were going to meet up again but he couldn't meet up with me because he had some financial problems. He said he could see me another day. In the end, I didn't bother contacting him again. Until this day, I am still single. I sometimes think about him and fantasize about him late at night. Am I ever going to move on? Sometimes I think if I told him in the past how I felt, things could have been different.
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reader, brooke5426  +, writes (26 October 2006):
 you will move on and one day you'll meet someone who treats you with respect and a lot better than this guy did. I think your finding it hard to move on from him cos he's the only guy you've ever felt like that about and the only person you've ever really been with so its like you don't have anything to compare to. But he wasn't good for you and didn't treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Somebody will and you'll be really happy with him and you'll be like "i can't believe i was so cut up about that other idiot....what was his name again?" hehe. its always the way!good luck.
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