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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do guys enjoy giving a girl oral and whats the best way to go, shaved or not?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend tried to give me oral but i just wasnt ready so we didnt go through w/ it. Well actually the thing is we've been together a year and we have an awesome relationship but that is one thing that i've never done so i dont know what to expect. I want him to do it ... (139 words)

How can a man who professes to love us so much just drop everything and clear off for 'a better life'? Am I a blind fool?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6621 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - My husband of 10 years, with whom I have 3 young children, has decided to opt for a better lifestyle on the other side of the world as he's fed up with his job, the UK, the weather, etc...He professes to love us deeply and is expecting that we'll go there for a visit, fall in ... (196 words)

I like this guy but he is the quiet type - how should I approach him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6621 days ago

4 October 2006 (F)

- I have recently returned to college to do a higher level course. I have met (well, not actually spoken to as of yet) a guy who is a little older than me (a year and a half at most) but he seems really quiet. Thing is, I used to be really quiet (couple years ago, back in ... (392 words)

My BF won't let me go places without him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - Ive tried n tried to make our relationship work, but sumtimes I get so frustrated! My bf is always telling me that he doesnt think its a good idea for me 2 go places and says its becuz hes over protective and cares bout me but sumtimes I wonder. l I mean, sumtimes I can c... (272 words)

I have fallen in love with my friends girlfriend but he is threatening her if she leaves him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (M) - I have a male friend. We hung out for a week , and in that time i met his girlfriend once. Anyways she found out a week later my email and emailed me to met her one night. I went and met her alone and since that night weve hit it off. We fell in love. TRUE LOVE and her ... (105 words)

I just don't think I can continue being with my husband after he looked at these vile porn sites!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

4 October 2006 (?) - Im really stuck and so far ive been given good advice. Ive posted another problem on the site. My partner went on the net to the most vile porn sites you can think of I'm broad minded and the sites made me sick. I showed them to a close male mate and he said they were sick. No... (155 words)

Been together 7 years but I just don't know if I want this anymore...

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4 October 2006 (F) - My partner and i have been together for 7 years, living together the whole time. Im tired, he used to drink, stopped three years ago but he is still selfish. Sometimes he is really sweet and he says he loves me. I have 3 girls from a previous marriage [he died]. I dont know if ... (76 words)

Why do guys prefer girls shaved 'down there'?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

4 October 2006 (F)

- I have now shaved my vagina but one thing i still dont understand...why do boys prefer it shaved?... (18 words)

Been together a year and I think he is bored of me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - hi there! i was just wondeing if anyone can help me?! I've been with my boyfriend just over a year now and i'm begining to think hes got bored of our relationship. He works shifts but we see each other every night after work but recently i found out hes been texting that O2 ... (146 words)

I'm 14 and having regular sex with my BF - does that make me a slut?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6405 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - I love my boyfriend and we have regular sex. I am only fourteen but we have been going out for six months and i adore him. We did most oral sex in the first month and like now its moved on. Am i a slut?... (47 words)

I got drunk and allowed this other guy to finger me! If the truth comes out I will lose my bf...help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - Okay, I have a boyfriend, but on saturday night i got really drunk and this boy who nearly all my friends fancy, fingered me and i tossed him off. I love my boyfriend more then anything - bit too much. But if the truth comes out i will lose my boyfriend and all my friends! ... (75 words)

Going to supper wat his parent's home...should I take flowers or is this inappropriate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - I've got to meet my boyfriends parents! I've never been introduced to a boyfriends parents before, or felt the need to introduce them to mine. Im a bit nervous. Any advice? I would like to take some flowers for his mum, as she is cooking dinner for us, and I normally t... (80 words)

Isn't it a man's duty to most of the work in bed? He want's me to be adventurous but what's the point?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - my partner wants me to be more adventurous in the bedroom, i think its a mans duty to do most of the work as it seems to be only about them, he sometimes try's to involve me more but he prefers to try to please me after he has come,by then i just wonder whats the point.... (57 words)

Am I ugly?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6488 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - No boys want to snog me because someone asked them and they said no, and then said ewwww. They will snog my best mate but not me. :( Am I ugly?... (31 words)

I'm 15..he's 24. WIll he get bored of me and find someone close to his own age? What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

4 October 2006 (M) - Hi, right i really fancie this guy, he is 24 and i am 15... i dont see anything wrong wid the age gap but he has asked me out and i really dont know what to say. he will be my first relationship let alone b/f, but i think that he will get bored of me and try for someone of his ... (113 words)

How can I tell my bf his interests bore me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm in love with my bf and we have been together for two months. The problem is that he always seem interested in political issues, world crisis, climate change. These are stuff that i find quite boring. Once he get's a go at these topics he never seem to want to stop. He... (76 words)

I am 14. Am I in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6621 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - I am a normal fourteen year old, thing is i think im in love. I cannot go a day with thinks about him. We have been like together since but like last june but been on and off. Yesterday we had a row, and coming to think of i need to get over him. I felt really bad because i ch... (152 words)

He teases me a lot in school...do you think he fancies me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - hi im 15 and this boy the same age as me in my school is always talking about people i fancy. he is always saying in front of me to other boys "she fancies you". i just laugh and say "no i dont lol". he says it to different people like everyday, do u think he fancies me? i dont... (74 words)

How contagious is genital herpes? I need to know as my bf has this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

4 October 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend has genital herpes and it's freaking my out. He's got a sore at the moment and, everytime he gets one, I get more paranoid about catching it. We've been together for 6 months and always use protection. How contagious is herpes? Can it be caught when he hasn't got a ... (75 words)

My MSN girl is starting to ignore me, please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (M) - hi there is a girl that i like in school shes in year 11 and im in year 9 she hasnt met me yet but i got her msn address i talk to her but she is starting to ignore me, please help... (44 words)

I feel unaccepted by my husbands family and friends. How do I overcome this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - My husband is from a very different and quite a closed to outsiders kind of community. While his family has been totally off, some of his close friends (also v set in their ways even though they are younger) have tried to accept me a little but somehow I'm not their "Type". I ... (75 words)

My 19-year-old son is dating a 38-year-old woman; I'm worried the age gap is way too large

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6614 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - Hi there I've got a problem which I've never dealt with before in our family: age gap relationships. My 19-year-old son is dating a 38-year-old woman; I'm worried the age gap is way too large. My husband is the same age as me, so I've never dealt with any age-gap relati... (107 words)

Can anyone suggest any resolutions to a couple who moved in together too soon?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over a year. I just graduated from grad school a couple of months ago and we were put in a situation where I was going to move back home until I had enough to get my own place and then he said that I could move in with him. ... (208 words)

Do girls really like guys that treat them bad or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (M) - I really don't get it... I've been dating my girlfriend for 2 years now and just broke up, before i was dating her she was with this other guy for 3 years. That guy, treated her so bad, he doesn't kiss her or hug her or do anything for her. She even told me that he sometime... (328 words)

How can a man have sex with someone else, while he claims he's in love with you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

4 October 2006 (F)

- help me understand please why is that men can have good loving sexual relationships with other women when he is in love with someone else is it just the animal thing ? confused... (34 words)

Am I about to make the biggest mistake of my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - Am I about to make the biggest mistake of my life? My boyf of 6 years broke up with me 6 months ago and I've tried really hard to move on but now I've lost my job and with nowhere to live I'm living back with my parents (I'm 28!). I've just heard I've got an interview for a job ... (152 words)

Does my fella really love me or is he only after sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (F)

- Iv split up with my boyfriend because our relationship wasn't going anywhere,i was with him nearly 4 years but i wanted more committment and he liked things the way they were.Anyway he's been trying to contact me with phone calls and txts saying that he still wants us to be a ... (141 words)

Is it possible to sustain a healthy family from 2 different religions ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (M) - Hi everyone.. i was curious what way can you sustain a healthy family with 2 different religions... (17 words)

Lots of relationship problems! He said he didnt do anything wrong as it was all my fault. Any opinions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6621 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - I'm writing this question, I need some opnions about what would of been the proper thing to do. At the time when I met this youngman, I was 39, he was 20, pretty big age differance I know, I was not looking for a serious relationship, nor was he, we agreed on a friends with ... (645 words)

He doesnt seem to get a full "hard on" has he got a problem ??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6613 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - Hello there, I have been seeing a guy about a month and we recently starting sleeping together. We are both in our late 20's. The first time we had a bit to drink, (well quite a lot actually),he was not able to get a hard on more like a half hard on. In the morning we... (160 words)

At what age do parents let go of their children ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - At what age do parents let go? I have an 18 year old daughter (just turned 18). She isn't making the best decisions about drinking (underage) and who she dates. Is it wrong for me to still check up on her and tell her she has to call home? At age 18, she is of legal age for ... (111 words)

I confided in the person he likes, she has stirred it up and now they both wont talk to me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - I'm in a bit of a pickle and I don't know wot to do!! I have feelings for one of my best friends and made the mistake of confiding in the person he liked! He asked her out on a date for the 5th time and she agreed to go! I couldn't understand why she had agreed to... (180 words)

Holding hands?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6398 days ago

4 October 2006 (M)

- Holding hands? Is holding hands juvenile? When should you hold hands? Do some people just not hold hands? Is it too "couple-y"? What do you do?... (33 words)

Is 18 and 29 too large an age gap?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - What do you think of an 18 year old female (just turned 18) drinking and whatever else with a 29 year old male? I know she is of legal age for the dating part, but I still don't approve. I personally think an age gap is okay, when you are older, but not 18 and 29. Any ... (68 words)

Hes only in England for 6 months of the year, Im pregnant, can this work ??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, Im 18 years of age, I have a boyfriend 23yrs but lives in antigua as he's born there. He comes to England for the cricket season to play and gets paid, which is about 6 months a year. I'm 3 months pregnant. can this work or will i have to go against my morals a... (63 words)

Is my age affecting me sexually?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (M) - i am 46 year old male and have sex regularly. Of late, my semen has become thinner and the quantity is much less. The exciting pulsating sensation at the orgasm is also diminished. Can someone help?... (37 words)

Is it important to mix with people of the same social class when choosing future partners?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (M) - I wrote on here a while back about meeting a girl who was in a different league so to speak. I'm from a well respected family with good standard of living etc. She was from lower social class and there were some reports of stealing in her family circle so the family has a bad ... (168 words)

I'm engaged to the guy I met online, recently I found someone else and I like him too!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - im engaged to this guy i met online ive been with for months now and i know i love him i swear to god i love this man. im 16 and my parents adore him..but lately ive been seeing this other guy and ive sort of started to like him you may think im crazy because im so young. ive ... (167 words)

Is there anyway I can find out how she truly feels about me ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (M) - I kinda liek this girl that i have just met but i am pretty sure she doesnt liek me...there have been the odd sign there and then but apart from that nothing...is there anyway i can find out if she lieks me without making it feel awkwared as i am seeing her probably next week ... (92 words)

The new guy excites me but im comfortable with my ex, which should I go for ??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - Should I give my ex another chance of stick with "the new guy?" I broke up with my ex boyfriend in Jan after living together for 3 years. I started dating another guy a month later. I really like the other guy and its obvious he likes me, but my ex wants to get back together ... (115 words)

Im tryng to get back with my ex, shes having doubts! Should I keep trying or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (M) - Hi well im trying to get back with my ex girlfriend since we broke up cause of my fault. She dumped me because i had done twice already and told me she started to have feelings for another guy. This last monday was her b-day, got her some ballons to her school. After that i ... (189 words)

My bf likes to perform oral on me, but I take so long to orgasm, is this normal ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - My bf likes giving me oral pleasure as I enjoy receiving it as well because its the only way I can orgasm, but I always take too long to reach that point he always finishes of course but it always takes anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour. Lately he says his jaws lock on him, ... (73 words)

He eveicted me from the house telling me that he need space and I moved out> What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - i met boyd in 2004 and he was just seperating from his wife and has two girl 13 and 8, we dated for 1 year and it was great living apart and he was over all the time i was feed him, clothes and etc. we decided in sept 2005 that we were gona move into together cause my lease was ... (706 words)

Im 25 and just want to be alone, I dont want any interaction from Males at all, is this strange ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - Hi there, I am not even sure that I can narrow this down to one question; I'm looking for wisdom, in whatever form it comes. I lead a busy, mostly unfulfilling life. I am a mother, a student, an employee, and I'm deaf. I'm not interested in sex..... or touch, perio... (113 words)

I still love him...should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6623 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - Ex-bf returned to Univ to recruit, shall I call/text him? We broke up 5 months ago. He did not see me in the crowd and he did not know I am also back in the University this week. We remained talking/emailing for about 2 months after the break-up, but we have not talked a... (191 words)

We've been broken up 3 years, she is engaged to someone else but gives me the impression she doesn't want him!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (M) - I'm 38, she's 30. We were together 7 years. It was the dream relationship. Perfect. Except, I cheated. I didn't love this girl, but she was strong willed, and I gave in. It broke me and my ex up. We were engaged. I am devastated. But I am still seeing this girl. My ex is the s... (279 words)

I kissed my best friend's bf and now he likes me more! My best friend hates me now..what can I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - oh god i dunno wat 2 do i need help guys. i did a really bad thing i kissed my best friend's boyfriend. it just happened and now he likes me he wants to dump my best friend i dunno wat 2 do she found out and she's not even talkin 2 me i tried 2 cal her da other day she picked ... (141 words)

I am a teen virgin-my bf wants to have sex. Should I shave down there?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - hi i am a teenager and i am a virgin. my b-f wants to start having sex...I need to know is it better to shave down below or not?? ... (29 words)

My stepmom is threatning to leave and is making my dad choose me or her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6623 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - Ok... im a 15 year old female and my problem is about my relationships at home. Well my stepmom is threatining to leave us (my family) because i am a very bad person ie: i cant control my self at times ,i have a big mouth etc. I dont want anything to happen but at the same tim... (115 words)

He asked why I was with him, I said because he makes me smile & happy, but that answer wasn't good enough!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6619 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now. We often joke with each other. However just the other day he asked me why was I with him? I replied because you make me smile and i'm happy around you. To him the answer I gave wasn't a good enough answer. What does he expect me ... (63 words)

Our cleaner accused me of stealing money from her and now my family are taking her side!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6623 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - The other day, my cleaner accused me of taking money from her bag. I didnt do this, but my parents refuse to believe me. I have now been totally outcast from my family and i don't know how to make them believe that it wasnt me. Please someone help me becasue its breaking up my ... (57 words)

I slept with my best friends ex AND I work with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6623 days ago

4 October 2006 (F) - help! i slept with someone that i work with, plus they are my best friend's ex-boyfriend, i now really like him and i think he likes me, but i dont want to hurt my friend. what shall i do?!... (39 words)