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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm 14 and my middle aged neighbour seems to follow me wherever I go!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - Um…how can I start this? This problem started long time ago. There is this guy who follows me a lot, he’s middle aged man. I know him, because he’s my neighbour. He has a wife and two lovely kids. He seems to follow me a lot-everywhere. I didn’t notice it at first; I thought... (118 words)

His ex wife cheated on him and I'm now suffering for this!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - been married for 1yr.no sex unless husband wants it if i do tuff know love or effection treats me like grap.all he says is its me.but hes been hurt of woman his ex wife slept with his bestmate.and i suffer for it im 33 good looking sexualy fustrated.... (48 words)

We have nothing in common..we can't even have a decent phone conversation but the physical attraction is there! Is there any hope for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - Daer Cupid, i recently broke it off with my boyfreind becasue it seemed like we had nothing in common and our converations on teh phone would only last 2 mins then it would be quite where no one is talking and he started to hint to it while we were on teh phone so i made the... (181 words)

I still love my wife a lot--but am afraid to tell her in case she doesn't feel the same way! Help..any advice for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (M) - I have been apart from my wife for 4 years. We even divorced becouse I thought it would help me "move on". We have two beautiful little girls together and have remained friends. I have had several relationships, but I still think about her every day, several times a day. I ... (142 words)

Can enlargement pills solve my erection problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

17 October 2006 (M) - A year ago I got an erection while wearing an underwear,because there wasn't enough room for expansion my penis went limp. Six months later my penis got back to it's usual length but it's not as hard and stiff as it use to be. Can enlargement pills solve my problem?... (53 words)

He keeps talking about other girls and I'm not sure if he is doing this to push me away or get a reaction!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - I am trying to understand why my boyfriend is acting a certain way given that he was the one who pursued me so actively. We got together a month ago having been very close friends for 9 months. 3 months before we got together he stated that he really liked me and that he was ... (1003 words)

I know I'm straight but I can't get this girl out of my mind!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - im so confused!!!! i know im stright cause iv always liked boys! but last year on holiday i met a girl (just friends like nothing happend) but its odd i still think about her all the time and i think i fance her wats wrong with me? and we havnt kept in touch either ... (54 words)

How do I show him that I want to be more than just friends/ And..do you think he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

17 October 2006 (F)

- So like, I've known this guy for 3 years now cause we're always in the same classes and I've always had this thing with him since I first met him really, but it's only just grown on me now. I sit next to him in one of my classes this year and we get on really well and can talk ... (157 words)

Need advice on how to put my relationship back on the right track again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

17 October 2006 (F)

- Hi I am in a relationship which is a very good and honest one. We both love eachother very much, I think. Everything has been wonderful since the day I got with him. We have had our fair share of arguments but have always managed to come through them with a happy ending. ... (194 words)

I think my freind is 'addicted' to this guy who is no good for her! Any advice on how she can get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

17 October 2006 (M) - My best friend has been in a difficult relationship cycle for two years. There is a guy at her college that she is somewhat attracted to; he apparently has feelings for her, and is quite open about it. However, she feels strongly that he is not the right man for her, and ... (331 words)

He went away with his buddies and came back...acting cold toward me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, im 28,I need some advice, my boyfriend whos 27 ended our relationship just over a week ago and im totally devestated. We have known each other for years, and was going out for 3 months. He was totally smitten with me, told me he loved and wanted to us to spend t... (171 words)

We are sex buddies for now but I want to give it another go! Should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - So my bf and I broke up a week or two ago. We've been on and off for a year, and we really did love eachother. Then life fell apart for both of us and we both neglected the relationship without even realising it for a good month or so. We're still really close, as we're sex ... (213 words)

My periods are bad...will the pill help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6582 days ago

17 October 2006 (F)

- I've heard that if you go on the pill, it tricks your body into thinking your pregnant, and you won't get your period. I have really bad periods, bad bloating, unbelievable pain, terrible moodswings, constant tiredness, etc.etc., would going on the pill stop all this? Ple... (53 words)

We've been together 9 years! He doesn't want a baby, he doesn't want to marry and he goes out till all hours of the night. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - i'm 40 years old. i have a bf and he's 35 we've lived together for over 9 years now. we both live in my parents house but my parents have moved to another village 5 years ago. now it's just me and him and his parents now living with us. he comes home late at night and ... (141 words)

Does this mean that I am related to the guy I've fallen for ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - I don't know what to do, I think I may be related to this guy that I've fallen for. So if you can understand this, please tell me if we're related or not. He is my: Dad's uncle's wife's sister's son. So, my Dad has an uncle named "Bob". Bob is my great uncle. Bo... (128 words)

Feeling very low that we dont have sex so much, what can I do to make him see how much this means to me!?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

17 October 2006 (F)

- Hi, Im really concerned about my relationship. We are both in our 30's and have been together 3 years, We are very much in love and do anything for each other but.... Things feel like they get worse rather than better and I dont know how to fix it! The last time we ha... (1014 words)

Im really happy with my first BF of 8 months, but My mum keeps telling me to get out and date more!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - Hi. I've been dating my bf for about 8 months now and things between us are great. We love each other and we're happy together. However, my parents, my mother in particular, is always saying that i should get out there and date more to see what else is out there. I should ... (180 words)

Im really shy so how can I get her interested in me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (M) - hi, ill keep this short and simple. theres a girl i like in year 11, im in year9. i only have a year to get her to like me. she dosent really know me that much yet, because im to shy to talk to her. my time is running out. please help me!!!!!!!... (56 words)

Any way I can straigten my hair, as these curls make me look silly!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (M) - hi, i have a big problem. my hair is short and curly, it makes me look stupid. is there any way in which i can streighten my hair(streighteners dont work), as this makes me fell unconfident in talking to the girl i like at school:( please help!... (48 words)

I'm in civil engineering..what is my career prospects like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (M)

- Can someone help me. I'm doing civil engineering at university and I was wondering what my career prospectus was. Also can anyone give me a website on the highest average salaries in the UK (newspaper website for example)... (38 words)

Whats the definition of a "break" ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - What exactly is the definition of a "break" What can and cant you do while in one? Thanks =)... (22 words)

I feel sick about what I've done! I just want him back..what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

17 October 2006 (F)

- this is a really lobg story but i need to get the point across im 19 yrs of age just last summer i was going out with this guy (20), he was nothing but nice to me he treated me like a princess and made me laugh every day and i treated him really badly because no one had ever ... (347 words)

Update on falling for my best friend's gf! She's coming on to me..what should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

17 October 2006 (M) - Hello, update i asked a quetion about me falling in love with my best friends girlfriend and that it looked like they were never going 2 split up. Well know she is telling me that she thinks he's boring and all they do is argue, she is seriously coming on 2 me what do i do??!!... (56 words)

I want another baby, but now my husband says no to that! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - My husband and I have been happily married for 10 years. our daughter is 3 and we always talked about having other children, but now my husband is adamant that he does not want another. I am gutted, but love my husband and daughter too much to leave. How can I deal with this ?... (55 words)

Should I tell him how I feel and get it out in the open??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (F)

- okay, so i wrote a question a couple of days ago about what to do about this guy i really liked, n i got some good advice.but now im wondering whether i should just tell him my feelings, because no matter what else i do i just cant get over him.its not as if we have a ... (118 words)

What do I say to the boy that pulled down my skirt at school??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - today someone pulled down my school skirt at school and it came right down to my calves so all my thong was showing! i don't no wot to do or say 2 the boy who done it help me !... (40 words)

She told a friend she likes me and knows I like her so why does she just want to be friends??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

17 October 2006 (M) - How do i win the affections of a young lady, that i have known for a while? Last year we flirted, and got really close, she has even told a mutual friend that she likes me, a lot.Yet she says that she only wants to be friends. I have strong feelings for her, and keep sending ... (89 words)

I want some tips on making our sex life more enjoyable!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - Hiya! im wonderin if anyone can help me (again) im in a long term relationship and my bf and i have had some problems which are now sorted thankfully but i want to make our sex life more enjoyable i dont think handcuffs, whips or blindfolds are for me or stockings and nurses ... (73 words)

Why do I feel emotional after we've slept together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - I have noticed that when I sleep with my boyfriend I feel all emotional and vulnerable for a few days.We cuddle afterwards which is always good. But when he leaves me I sort of feel really low, during this time, when I may not see him for a couple of days because of work, ... (152 words)

My boyfriends dad keeps flirting with me!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - Im a 19 year old girl, and have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, basically the problem is that his father(53) flirts with me, well i think he does. The only problem is that my boyfriend always suggests that im the one leading his dad on and flirting with him, when yeah i do ... (507 words)

Am I wrong to snoop on my daughter's relationships? (via myspace etc!)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - I am a "way too overinvolved" mom as my 17 year old daughter puts it. But I need input from other parents as to my "over involvement". She has been "married", as she puts it, for the last 2 years, pretty much since she started dating, with 2 different guys. With the ... (125 words)

Should I visit the doc before I do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - Do I have to or is it a good idea to go to a female sexual health doctor before having sex? so they can do anything they may need to do...tests...prep me for anything...etc. Also I'm nervous I don't want to go to my boyfriend "um...i heard this ky jelly stuff will make it less ... (73 words)

Is he ever going to get serious with me or am I wasting my time???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (F)

- im 19 and ive been seeing this guy for a short while, its nothing serious and i have known this from day one. we only see each other most weekends and i am kinda ok with that for now, i think he likes me too but im not sure i dont know if this is because of my paranoia and my ... (170 words)

I want to wait for him and prove to him that not all women are the same...how can I do this???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - Hi ya, Im after a few pointers on how to show a guy that you love him. This guy is my best friend, he knows I love him and it hasnt scared him away or given him a huge ego. He isnt ready for a relationship and thats fine with me because I would rather him get over his ex than ... (270 words)

Why do I bleed during sex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6639 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - When having sex why do i bleed? It is only in small amounts and is found on my partners foreskin. Although it is only when im on top.... (28 words)

More questions on my boyfriend who doesn't shoot his load inside of me anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - Hi guys. i posted yesterday about the fact that my boyfriend doesnt seem to want to come inside me any more, but instead wanted me to finish him off with my mouth or hand, or else would do it himself while doing something to me, if you know what I mean. Thanks for the a... (172 words)

How hard have you got to pull to get the foreskin to retract!!??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6641 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - hi! can anyone tell me how hard you must pull to retract the foreskin. when i do it to my husband i can get it back when it is erect but i dont think that it stretches enough and seems to be very tight around the tip of his penis. no matter how hard i try i cannot pull it b... (84 words)

How can I move on from him, been having an affair for a year, but he wont leave his girlfriend, but cant stay away from me!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6637 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - I was seeing a guy from work for about a year although he has a girlfriend of 3 years. They have a weird relationship and hardly see each other and he has always said to me and others that he has never thought she was the one but he has been with her for such a long time. I ... (367 words)

I cant get past relationships and being badly treated, I dont trust and its ruining me life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (F)

- there is this boy ive been seeing for the past few months i only see him at weekends, i really really like him but i think hes using me, he has made it clear he doesnt want anything serious, but hes asking me to have sex with him, i want to but past relationships (all of which ... (116 words)

My boyfriends sister has got the girl my boyfriend cheating on me with coming round do we go??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - Just wondering what to do in this situation. I’d been going out with my boyfriend for a year when he two timed me (snogging a girl at a club) but it was a girl from his work. We split up and nearly two years later we are back together but I have never forgiven that girl (I ... (148 words)

How much does a virgin actually bleed after sex ??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6499 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - Hi, I have a question: How much does a girl bleed after having sex? Ok i know some do and some don't and the amount varies but I want to know is it a lot? Am I gonna have to run out of the room and get something afterwards? What is it in comparison to your period. I'... (83 words)

How can I get the approval of my parents and make them proud of me!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (M) - No matter how much i try, i cannot win approval of my parents, especially my father and this makes me depressed and i feel to be worthless and guilty. My father had huge ambitions from me which i find difficult to fulfil. Please advice.... (44 words)

I feel stressed around anyone of power in my family and its making me uncomfortable!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6639 days ago

17 October 2006 (M) - When i am around members of my family especially my father, brother or some cousins, i feel immensely stressed. I feel they are all obsessed with power, wealth and grandiosity and give very little importance to emotions. I feel they try to own me or control me and i makes me ... (121 words)

I feel like we are growing apart and have different things in common now, what can we do ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (M) - I have been going out with my girlfriend for about three years, including a break-up and separations due to school and work. We have always reunited and been very close to eachother - in love actually, I believe. Lately things have not been so good: we are both insanely busy ... (233 words)

Shes says there is no spark!!???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (M) - hi everyone what does it mean when a girl g/f says theres no spark... (14 words)

Anything wrong with a 20yr old dating a 16 year old ??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - Is there anything wrong with a 20 year-old dating someone who is 16 or 17 years old? Some people say the minimum age to date some with a 3+ age gap is 16, while others say it is 18? I live in the United States and this is confusing me.... (50 words)

Im so hurt she has found someone else, I cant bare not to have her friendship!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (M) - I have a very best friend of the opposite sex who lives in another country. We had a very close and intimate relationship for over a year, however because of the distance between us we tried to be rational and made the painful decision that we should persue other relationships ... (280 words)

My bf got diabetes and now he's depressed! I'm not sure if I should stick around or get on with my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6641 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - I'm 21 years old and i've been with the same guy since i was 16. Things were great at first then he became diabetic and life went downhill. He does't want to grow up and move out and now he does't work he works when he wants to and i work everyday. he does't have any friends ... (306 words)

Do I tell her I really like her or...just ask her out on a date first and take it from there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6641 days ago

17 October 2006 (M) - Hi, I really like this girl that I met two weeks ago at college. We see each other around every evening in the bar and I talk to her most evenings. Should just I tell her I like her, or be less blatant and ask her out on a date first? Thanks for your help!... (59 words)

I love her, but she cheated and I want to trust her again. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (M) - Okay, i know this is pretty long and im sorry, but i need some help. Im having problems with what to do. Im 17 I've been in this relationship for a little over 2 years now (its a long distance relationship right now, though). We've always had a happy relationship, we... (765 words)

I like my guy friend..should I tell him and then ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6639 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - i have a guy friend and after a while i really like like him but he dosent know it so what do i do and if i do tell him and hes okay should i ask him out? help me out!!!!!!!!!!!!... (55 words)

What should I say, when my bf says I'm beautiful? What's a good response?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - how do i respond when my bf says im beautiful? i never know how to respond! i either thank him or smile and giggle! but i never know really what to say back!! i want him to know that i think hes hot, but he doesnt really like that word, and idk how he will respond to the word... (103 words)

My ex bf wants me again but there's this problem-he has a new gf! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6641 days ago

17 October 2006 (F)

- I am eighteen years old and I have had a secret crush on my ex boyfriend since we broke up, almost three years ago now. He is my best friend and we spend a lot of time together.. or we used to. He recently joined the army so I haven't seen him for a few months. Before he left ... (271 words)

I'm desperate for a relationship! I'm ready to give someone the world! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (?) - what can i do? i had a girlfriend when i was 10 and that lasted a week! since than nothing i'm 16 now. i believe i'm a nice person, kind, loving, caring. i hate myself for this. it's always me fancyin someone and never anyone fancyin me back. i'm desperate for a relationship. ... (76 words)

Met a girl, one year younger than me and I like her. Is it wrong to like because she's younger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (?) - i went to my mates birthday. i met this really nice girl. i've just turned 16 last month. she is turning 15 next month. she is really pretty. we met first time and she was so sweet. she chose my food for me, she talked to me the whole time, she sat with me in cinema. but i've ... (183 words)

We are good friends but lately she is ignoring me and I am hurt! What should I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6383 days ago

17 October 2006 (?) - i have a very close female friend who has a 8months boyfriend. she was really upset 2weeks ago because of her boyfriend. i was always there for her when she cried comforting her. she is fine and happy now. but she hasn't talked to me for 1 week now. i see her at school but she ... (258 words)

He irritates me somedays and then other days, I really like him! ! Am I actually falling for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6638 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - Hi i'm in my second year of uni and very confused, on my first day i met and totally connected with this guy who slowly pissed off every 1 in our friendship group over the year. We were very close especially in first term where dispite his supposed g/f (most of our friend ... (205 words)

I get these crushes on guys, but when they get close to me, I don't like them anymore. What's wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - I am 18 and I haven’t dated anyone. YET Here goes the problem; I have crushes on a lot of guys. I can’t seem to stop my self for liking any good looking boys that comes across me, in library, in school, teachers or even builders (I know I am sad!). When I like someone,... (279 words)

Eating disorder has caused me to have irregular monthlies...will the Pill help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6641 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - Hello! I have had an irregular monthly cycle for a year due to an eating disorder. Now I haven't had it for 5 months, which I know is bad but anyway, I was considering to take the pill now and I bought one but it says that one should take it on special days during the period..... (82 words)

My gf self-harms and I am very concerned! How can I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6641 days ago

17 October 2006 (M) - Subject - Grave concerns over self harming girlfriend I and my girlfriend are teens and have been together for several months and love each other very much. Everything is working well in the relationships exept that over the time we have been together I have become gradually... (255 words)

While hubby is in Irag, the old bf shows up on the scene and old feelings have come back. What on earth do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

17 October 2006 (F) - Ok my storys kinda complicated... Before I got married to this guy Ive been with for four years, we were having problems and we started seeing different people. At the time my girlfriend had introduced me to her brother who is still currently in a relationship but he is v... (360 words)