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writes: Hi all, i hope you can help me with this,I am 16, and recently i slept with my ex bf (whom we had only just broken up because we never saw eachtother..he dropped out of school ect.) anyway he moved to victoria and now he has just moved back, he has said that he is gay, but i think he might just be confused, everytime we see eachother its like we fall inlove again, i need to know what i should do, its really hard trying to get him out of my mind, i love him so much.please any advice on anything i should do or say i really dont trust myself at the moment!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2006):
If you love him so much then I think you should put how he is feeling first. If he really does think he is gay, you will be confusing him by sleeping with him and the best thing you can do for him is to let him go and for you to move on with your life.
You're young, the last thing you need in your life is someone who isn't even straight; it's confusing for him, and confusing for you.
If you broke up because you never saw each other, it should make it all the easier for you to move on. Don't believe that just because you have these feelings for him now that you will always feel the way you do. You will move on with your life, your feelings will change and you will eventually meet someone new who cares about you in the way that you care about them.
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