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writes: im still a virgin but i am now sexual active! i really like this lad im seeing and i want things to happen between us, but im scared incase i mess up and im usless at everything!!! as i havnt had much expericane will he be able to tell? im not student i know how to give head and that but as i havnt has much experiance will he be able to tell? ADVICE PLZ :D
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (25 October 2006):
 Everyone is a virgin at some stage of their life and it is normal to be anxious! You are not supposed to know everything or be an expert. The chances are that your boyfriend won't be that experienced either so try not to worry. I would tell him before hand because (a) he should be flattered and (b) a little understanding as you are bound to be nervous. You have to look at things a bit differently. Everyone is different with their likes and dislikes in the bedroom and the way partners optimise their sex lives is to talk about it and show each other what they like. Therefore if you are going to have a good time with this guy you should be prepared to talk to him about anything and everything.
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