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writes: Hi,A guy I have been seeing a couple of months has not contacted me for a few days when he said he would, do you think I should contact him or will he think that is a bit desperate??Do guys mind if the girl phones first? x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2007): When I was 15 to 22 the only way I dated was if the girl called me. I was smart, nice, kind of good looking, but scared of the turn down. I know it was stupid but I could not call a girl. Girls called me, and it worked.
Call him and ask him to lunch. Find out what he is interested in and then ask him about it. Ask a mutual friend to tell him to ask you out
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reader, Toria +, writes (26 October 2006):
 I don't see the problem with a girl calling a guy..if it's the first call between you then I would say wait abit longer as he could be playing hard to get but you've been seeing him a couple of months and it's already been a couple of days so I would call him as he could be waiting for you to wanting to see that you are prepared to make the effort and show him you feel the same.
Good luck :o)
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reader, ogga +, writes (25 October 2006):
i would prefer my girlfriend to phone me more often rather than vice versa because i seem desperate. no it wont just do it just dont phone constantly
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reader, bellachic385 +, writes (25 October 2006):
 Call him something might be wrong waiting 2 days is not desprite and he will be happy to see that you like him enough to call him to. It is not hard and from my experience it works.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2006): if you try to call him, make it a casual friendly call. don't nag or pressure him. say that you enjoy and appreciate his company then invite him to a movie or show or fun event but prepared to pay for it. but don't call him on a regular basis. now if he doesn't call or respond to you after a week. then it's your call to stay or leave the relationship. all men are different, but mostly men like the challenge and the chase only if that 'man is into you'
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