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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My galpal's husband hates her being friends with men. Should I continue with this or let it go?

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2 October 2006 (M) - Ok sorry for the length. I've got a time bomb waiting to happen but lack some confidence here. Ever since leaving my old job I've been in contact with a married older female colleague (she's 46 I'm 26). We spend a lot of time together socially. But recently its come to light th... (336 words)

I'm falling for my cousin's cousin but we don't want to cause problems in the family!!!

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2 October 2006 (F) - im falling for my cousins, cousin. he has just moved to the area recently and i see him whenever i go round my cousins house. the problem is, we had a little thing happen a while ago and now i think im falling for him. my cousin has already accused us of something goin on ... (167 words)

My boyfriend wants to do something with his life yet he doesn't make the effort and lets computer games get in the way!!!

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2 October 2006 (F) - Hiya, everyone ... Alot has happened over the past few days, for me, so I'm going to try and keep it as straight and in order as humanly possible, but it might be a little jumbled, so sorry in advance: I'm currently 17, and my boyfriend is a 23-year-old, who works part-ti... (787 words)

We broke up and stayed friends yet...she says she doesn't want us back together but she is playing games with me!!!

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2 October 2006 (M) - Hi, i need some advice here, me and my girlfriend split up 2 weeks ago due to the distance between us, me living in Manchester and her living in Cumbria. however we decided to remain best friends and that seems ok until when i told her i fancy another girl who happens... (254 words)

I went on the pill behind my boyfriends back now he feels I am hiding other things from him!

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2 October 2006 (F)

- I started going on the pill when I start having sex with my bf (last November). It was recommended by my doctor and she said I don't need to tell him about it (as many girls don't). From last November to recently, my bf used a condom. I always felt bad not telling him as we ... (264 words)

Why do some people react better when mistreated?

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2 October 2006 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 3 years.CONSTANTLY TOLD I WAS NEVER THERE,UNROMANTIC,NEVER PAID ATTENTION,etc.yes,it wasnt unfounded.I decided to change this,only to be met by the same behaviour.Constantly let down.When,i raised this it was met by an attitude of so ... (91 words)

My new boyfriend wants what I want from things but I still have feelings for my ex!!

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2 October 2006 (F)

- Im mixed up at the the moment.I finished with my ex because he didn't want to live with me and my children after being together for 3 years but he still txts me to meet up.I met another man who has one son where my ex has never had kids...and he has strong feelings for me and i ... (88 words)

She said she loved me and we could be together after she isn't with her boyfriend anymore until she met my best friend!!

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2 October 2006 (M) - im a lad and i have known a girl for about 3 years, i was realy good friends with her then we didnt speak for about a year then we started speaking and about 6 mnths after i realy realy love her, she claimed that she loved me but she was with someone but would go out with me ... (102 words)

I can't get past my ex cheating and it's interfering in my current relationship and now he has betrayed me too!!

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2 October 2006 (F) - Hi all, So I'll start from the first time I was ever betrayed by a guy. About 3 years ago I was in a relationship with a guy for about 6 months and this was my first serious relationship experience. This guy was a nice guy and very sweet but since we started dating I kind of... (1200 words)

I constantly hear voices and see spirits..am I gifted (psychic) or just schizophrenic?

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2 October 2006 (F) - I think that i am schizophrenic. Either that or i'm actually medically insane. I'm so scared of myself I see and feel what i can only define as spirits all the time, and constantly hear voices and noises that other people cannot hear. I'm scared to make a big deal of it because ... (205 words)

HIs addiction to porn has affected our sex life!

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2 October 2006 (F) - My husband is in Iraq he said he masterbates every 2 to 3 days while he is there when he was home we had sex every week and a half to two weeks. I want to know why he can do that but not have sex with his wife more often. Also he is addicted to porn but they are all cum shots ... (75 words)

I want him to show more little displays of affection! Am I being too needy to ask for this?

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2 October 2006 (F)

- I have been living with a great guy for about 1 year now. He's hard-working, open, honest and seems to care about me genuinely. The problem is, he's not very affectionate and I'm the type of person who likes to have affection. You know little things like holding my hand ... (312 words)

When I like a guy, I come on too strong! I don't want to seem desperate so what should I do?

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2 October 2006 (F)

- I need help. I can cope without a boyfriend for a bit but then when mates start to talk about guys they like i get a bit upset. I look around sometimes and all i see is couples. I know i shouldn't need a boy to be happy and this makes me seem desperate but i cant help it. I ... (129 words)

I really want to talk to this girl at work and it's doing my head in!!

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2 October 2006 (M) - The thing is, i have seen a few girls recently that i would like to get to know more, but i dont know how to engage in conversation with a complete strager. Im 17 and the last time i wanted to speak to a girl was this morning on the bus, where i was looking at a girl stood up ... (273 words)

I'm 15 and pregnant! I can't tell my parents...What shall ! do?

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2 October 2006 (F) - im 15 and pregnant! what shall i do??? it was a mistake, im not with the father of the baby, i got drunk and got carried away! help, i cant tell my mum or dad or anyone! how am i gonna tell them!?! they will be crushed! ... (49 words)

Will vomiting cause the "pill" to be ineffective?

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2 October 2006 (F) - I'm on the pill and i just want to know, If I vomit will my pill be ineffective? I was pretty sure it will be, but my bf thinks otherwise to now I'm not sure.... (35 words)

Is it wrong for a girl to call a guy and text him first? Guys opinions wanted!

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2 October 2006 (F) - boys this is 4 u, is it wrong 4 a girl 2 call a guy and text him first eg. im seeing this guy but havnt heard from him 4 2 weeks i wanna text him or talk 2 him but i dont want it to look like im chasing him, i just basically wanna know whether u think thats being easy or ... (65 words)

I'm 38 and have loved this guy since year 8 at school! What should I do about this?

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2 October 2006 (F) - i love this man but i meen love i have loved him since year 8 at school and i am now 32 but yet i still love him what shall i do ... (35 words)

I went dancing with my guy friend and my bf's upset. Why is reacting this way?

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2 October 2006 (F)

- I used to take ballroom dancing lesson with my best friend (a guy) before I met my bf. There are 2 things that bothered my bf partly because of his experience with his ex in the past. 1. drinking with friends 2. dancing/going to dinner one-on-one with other guys. It might sound ... (388 words)

We are drifting apart due to distance...what can I do?

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2 October 2006 (M) - My girlfriend has just moved to manchester to start her new 6th form college. I live near Bristol and it takes 4 hours by train to get up there. We're both 16 nearly 17 and we both say we're in love with each other, and I know I am absolutely in love with her. we both are ... (142 words)

In love with my married boss and pregnant but the bad thing is--I'm still in another relationship! Help!

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2 October 2006 (F) - My boss and i are having an affair though he's married.Well i got pregnant and it's really depressing.He acts as though he really likes me but i not sure.He told me once he feel comfortable when he's with me.He acts really worried about me.He says he wants to be in the baby's ... (97 words)

We met on holiday and now that we're home he acts weird...

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2 October 2006 (F) - Hi, i met a lad on holiday this summer, and we got on really well! we just clicked! he told me how me felt and it was how i was feeling, we didnt have sex! but things happened! and i asked him if he had a GF cuz he went quiet! so then i started 2 worry! and he said make sure ... (145 words)

Does it hurt the first time a girls gets fingered?

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2 October 2006 (F) - i have never done ne thing sexual im 16 and now i hav a BF so hopfully we will be soon! so... does it hert the first time girls get finger-ed? ... (31 words)

He loves me but bores me to death! Should I leave?

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2 October 2006 (F)

- Here's my dilema: I've been married to a wonderful, but somewhat boring man for about 20 years. (We married very young). When I think back to the things that attracted me to my husband in the beginning, it was never about sex, or physical chemistry. He treated me well. He ... (361 words)

My bf found a lump on his testicles...could it be cancer?

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2 October 2006 (F) - hi my best boy mate found a lump on his 'private parts'(his balls). he has gone to the doctor and is waiting for the results. :( do u think it could be cancer? (he is only 16) ... (40 words)

How come I worry about 'being alone for the rest of my life"? What's wrong with me?

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2 October 2006 (M)

- I'm 19 and yet I'm worried about being alone for the rest of my life. What's wrong with me?!... (19 words)

Husband doesn't appreciate me so should I leave him for my 20 year old guy friend?

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2 October 2006 (F) - hi, Long story coming up! I am 34 with 3 children. Have been with the same guy for 20 years and married for 15 of those. He is in the army and we haven't really been together for the past few years. He dislikes the weight I have put on and makes sure I know about it. I... (379 words)

My bf parties all the time without me as I have a curfew...is that unfair?

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2 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend is 19 and goes out to partys nearly everynight. Im 17 so I have a curfew and only go out on the weekends. On weekdays he will come see me for a while and then go out. Even when we do get to party together, I still always have to go home first and then he goes out ... (216 words)

My ex bf dumped me for her and now...she wants to be friends with me!

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2 October 2006 (F)

- Hi everyone. Ive posted lots of questions on here about a boy who I loved but he left me for someone else. Anyway, I havent seen my ex or his new gf for a year and then the other night I seen them at a party. All the old feelings came rushing back and I felt really hurt to s... (210 words)

His comments about my breasts really offended me! Should I have been offended?

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2 October 2006 (F) - hi im 16 and i told my boy mate that i fancied one of his mates for a joke lol. and my boy mate went up to his mate and said will you go out with her? and then he said no cos it was all sorta like a joke between us. then my boy mate asked another boy out for me just cos he ... (171 words)

How do I get my wife to allow me to fulfill my fantasy??

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2 October 2006 (M) - How do I go about fulfilling my fantasy of watching another guy do my wife? We do roleplay this, but I wonder if she would ever actually do it for me. ... (32 words)

Not long had a baby now I'm pregnant again, what do I do??

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2 October 2006 (F) - I'm 19 years old and I just had a baby at the end of June. So she's three months. I went to the doctor the other day and found out I am 4 weeks pregnant! I am just totally nervous. I mean there is NO way that I will give it up or have an abortion but what do I do?... (61 words)

He's talking of having a vasectomy but what would a life without kids hold?

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2 October 2006 (F)

- I'm 23 and my bf is 25. We have been going out for a year and is very serious about our relationship. My bf had a kid when he was 19. He married the mother of the child but was divorced because she cheated on him. I understand he had to force himself to mature quickly after his ... (275 words)

My whole life revoles around him, and he just keeps dishing the crap at me! What should I do?

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2 October 2006 (F) - I'm extremely frustrated with my husband. Yesterday was his birthday. I had planned to make him breakfast, a cake, then a nice dinner. His 21 year old daughter was going to come over for a while as well. We got up at 2:30am and went shopping for our dinner and some other things ... (1184 words)

How can we teach our messy 11 year old son, responsibility for his own messes if Grandma keep cleaning up for him?

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2 October 2006 (M) - Hi, Every weekend my mother-in-law comes for dinner. Every time she arrives she thinks she has the right to go upstairs and tidy around. We have been having problems with her grandson who is 11, trashing his room and misbehaving at bedtimes. We have asked her not to do this bec... (108 words)

He needs some space and he was thinking of me everyday. Now he's ignoring me! What should I do?

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2 October 2006 (F) - My bf and I broke up about 6 weeks ago. I'm not really sure why we broke up as I had talked to him the night before and all was good. The next day he didn't answer or reply to my call/text and for the most part is still not. He's text me back maybe 2 since then, and called me ... (388 words)

Met a man who is 40 (I'm 22)...should I date him?

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2 October 2006 (F) - Hi I need some advice from someone who can help. A few weeks ago on a night out I met a man who I just clicked with. We talked for hours. Later on I found out he is a lot older than me I am 22 he is 40 but doesnt look it. He has been married before and he has kids. We have te... (136 words)

To Spit or Swallow? What is normal thing to do?

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2 October 2006 (F) - I need help! When people say "Spit or Swallow" when giving head, what is the normal thing to do? Isn't spitting rude, but swallowing pretty disgusting? Help!! xXxXx... (28 words)

Am I a pychco jealous girlfriend or is he cheating?? Any opinions would be helpful.

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2 October 2006 (F) - my boyfriend of 3 years has just moved down to university, which is about an hour from my house, he comes home to me at weekends beccause he works in a bar. Also at uni is a girl who works in the bar with him and recently he has been getting texts and calls from her at the ... (141 words)

I want to do a 'strip act' for him..but am scared he'll reject me. Do I ask him first if he would like it?

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2 October 2006 (F) - Guys, I need some advice please!!!! I bought some sexy underwear, suspenders etc to try and spice up my sex life with my boyfriend. But how do I go about wearing these?!?! I cant imagine me marching into the bedroom with them on - I would feel really stupid and he often isn... (117 words)

I was cheated on by my ex boyfriend...now I can seem to get past the worry of my current boyfriend doing the same!!!

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2 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for nearly a year. My previous boyfriend cheated on me (i lost count of how many times and with how many different people) this effected me very badly as i was blind and thought he was 'the one'. Since this happened i have been very insecure ... (346 words)

He used me so his ex would want him back and give him all he wanted...now I want revenge!!!!

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2 October 2006 (F)

- Revenge. Hi everyone. The last time I wrote was back in August when I told you that my ex of nearly 4 years wanted to get back with me. We did get back but it only lasted 4 weeks. He decided he wanted to go back to the woman he had left me for. Well now I want some revenge ... (359 words)

Not sure if I can trust my current bf! What should I do?

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My mother is controlling my whole life and I can't get her to stop!!!

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2 October 2006 (F)

- Hello, I am in my mid-20’s and my mother does everything she can to rule over my life. I am married, own a house, about to go to school for my master degree, and I have a steady job (for now). Whenever I share anything personal with my mother, she tries to only bring up th... (774 words)

I don't know how to win back my girlfriends trust!!!

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2 October 2006 (M) - how do i get my girlfriend to trust me? I have lied in the past about relationships and she has found out. Now she says that if we are to stand any chance i need to find a way of getting back her trust. I have been thinking of a solution for ages but I have not got one yet. can ... (74 words)

He says he loves me just needs time...am I being taken for a fool???

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2 October 2006 (F)

- I just spent the weekend with my ex boyfriend whom I haven't seen in about a month. We had a really good time togehter. He was telling me that he loved me and he missed me. Also, he was saying that we will get back together again soon and that we we're practically together ... (122 words)

Whats wrong with her!? and Am I wasting my time ?

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2 October 2006 (M) - After going through so much trouble about her cybersexing younger guys (she`s almost 42),i walk in unexpectidly and shes on a dating site.The search was seeking males 18-35.For 3 years,i`ve been accused,and been the backlash of insecurities.Her method of retaliation is to carry ... (133 words)

Did he get the wrong impression of me because of this other guy, who was stalking me? What should I do?

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2 October 2006 (F) - There's a man that I've liked for quite a long time. We always smile and say hello to each other but had never really had the chance to have a conversation. One night when I went out I happened to bump into him we started to chat. He seemed really nice but I thought his ... (411 words)

How can we get rid of his destructive ex ? its upsetting us both!!

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2 October 2006 (F) - This is to know if somebody has any advice or past experiences on ex girlfriends like this...my boyfriend and I have been together for almost three months now....Everything is wonderful but one thing...his ex is still making his life miserable even after all she put him ... (189 words)

I dont feel we are financially stable enough to have a baby, but he thinks its okay! I want a baby but I'm scared!

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2 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my partner for 19 months now, we are engaged and living together. When we had been together for about 6 months I had a miscarriage, even though we were very upset about this, we knew it was for the best. We were still at college and we lived with our parents ... (216 words)

He told me he cheated with my friend, what should I do ?

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2 October 2006 (F) - i am quite young and have a steady boyfriend of four months n the other day he told me that he has cheated on me once with my bestfriend me and my friens=d are still friends but im not sure what to do about him... (45 words)

His depressive bouts drove him to drink and drugs and another women!!

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2 October 2006 (F) - Mine is a rather complicated situation. I will try to be brief. I met my partner 5 years ago on the internet. He moved in with me, 60 miles from his kids (then 5-15yrs). After 2.5 years we moved closer to them. We had ups and downs. He could be moody, binged drank on occasion ... (861 words)

He said he wanted to sleep with other women while away at Uni and then come back and marry me!!!

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2 October 2006 (F) - Hi, I have a problem with my boyfriend. We have been friends since we were 11 and best friends for about 4 years and 10 months we started going out. It has been amazing and I love him so much...until he told me that while he gets his uni degree overseas he wants to sleep w... (148 words)

How can I take his comments in my stride??

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2 October 2006 (F) - Hi guys, I would love some advice to help me deal with these awful feelings I have. Be warned - I will sound pathetic. My boyfriend is great. However, I dread him commenting on other women - which in fairness, he doesnt tend to do, except for celebrities. He mentioned on t... (207 words)

How do I ask my casual guy for more??

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2 October 2006 (F) - Hi, I have been seeing a guy casually for a few months now, we only get to see each other every couple of weeks at the moment, and keep in touch via text during the week. I have started to develop more feelings for him, and think we could have something really amazing t... (290 words)

My family are fine with my sexuality but how do I tell the boy i fancy??

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2 October 2006 (M) - hello, I have recently came out as gay 2 my family and they are fine with it and everything, but i have a problem there is a boy that lives by me and i really fancy him but dont know if he is gay and i just cant find the right words 2 say 2 ask him. please help ... (62 words)

He told me that if I had a threesome it would prove I love him!!!!!

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2 October 2006 (F) - Hi Im currently in a relationship with a man of 37 I'm 21 We are engaged and living together 2 years. He has 2 children to a women he was married to ten years, they split up 2 years before we met. I have cheated on him in the past and I deeply regret it as I love him with all... (169 words)

How can I make him see Im sorry for cheating and that I want him and he can trust me!!!

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2 October 2006 (F) - I have been in a relationship 2 years, We are engaged and living together. I have cheated on him in the past which I'm sorry for and I would'nt do it again, but he now wont trust me at all, How can I make him see I want him and i'm sorry ?... (53 words)

Together 4 years and on the verge of breaking up! Im really close with my boyfriend but at the same time feel so apart!! what should I do ??

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2 October 2006 (F) - Hi My boyfriend and I are on the verge of breaking up. I have been with him for nearly 4 years. We moved in together after 1 and everything started to go down hill from there. He was at a very low point in his life and I hurt him even more with my nasty comments. I did... (302 words)

My boyfriend has supported me throught alot, just lately Im angry and take it out on him! How can I stop!?

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2 October 2006 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much hes such a good man, and hes great to my daughter. I was In an accident 7 months ago and still not back to work, and hes stuck with me this whole time, and lately I have been in a funk, and have been taking it out on him. I dont mean to. What can ... (73 words)

I had a thing with my mates friend for a while, we moved on and he didnt want anymore to do with me, I since slept with my friend, but feel I should tell his friend it happend so he wont think bad of me!!

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2 October 2006 (F)

- I feel so guilty. In February I caught up with a mate of mine, lets call him CC, who I had been friends with for about 2 and a half years. He had another friend of his there called DD and he happened to have been a guy I met at a nightclub 5 years previously, nothing much ... (657 words)

He cheated but this was last christmas, should I give him a second chance ??

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2 October 2006 (F) - i have been dating my boyfriend for over a year, and i was dying my friends hair and she told me that he cheated on me with another girl. and i was like ya ok and i didn't believe her, so when i was finished i called him and asked him and he denied it at first, but then admited ... (94 words)

I only seem to like him sometimes, is there something wrong with me ??

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2 October 2006 (F) - I have a crush on my best guy friend, but it's as if I only like him every other day. He has asked me out on numerous occasions, but everytime I say No. Is there something wrong with me?... (39 words)

My bf accuses me of looking at other men. How do I convince him...I want only him?

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2 October 2006 (F) - my guy constantly accuses me of looking at guys under 30,no matter where we go,he is 45 and want him only but he wont accept this... (26 words)