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writes: help... i'm still in love with my ex though it finished over a year ago. He finished it and I was very depressed for several months. I bumped into him recently and he chatted to me all night then asked if we could meet up "for a cup of tea". The problem is - it hurts so much to see him and I don't know if I should, though all the signs I picked up off him were that he still loved me?? Should I meet him? Is it possible for a man to finish a relationship and want you back over a year later?
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (26 October 2006):
 I say meet with him and see were it goes. What do you have to lose. You know you can live without him and if you get back together its what you want, but be sure to hash out all the reasons you broke up in the first place. Don't be nieve to believe everything will just be perfect because those issues will arise again. I wish you the best.
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (26 October 2006):
 Its clear to me that you already know what you want to do. I suggest you go ahead and meet up with him. To be honest, noone can tell you whats going to happen or where this is going to lead you. You say you still like him a lot, and theres a high chance this guy still fancies you as well, so why not just take the risk and satisfy your curiousity once and for all. If it works, it works, if it doesnt, oh well, you've been without him for nearly a year already anyway, right? Its a win-win situation I say! But not like you havent already thought about that aye? Good luck!
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reader, Tilly1 +, writes (26 October 2006):
Tilly1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you - but what if the cup of tea leads to us getting back together...that's good and it's what I want!
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reader, pica +, writes (26 October 2006):
Possibly, but what would have changed between the two of you that would make it any different? If the break-up was that bad for you I think you'd be best to move on. Do you want to put yourself of risk of going through it all again? You've already caught up by chatting all night - where is the tea leading?
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