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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What does it mean when a woman sheds a tear after the first kiss?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6552 days ago

29 October 2006 (M)

- Here's something I've never experienced before...a grown man at that! What does it mean when a woman sheds a tear after the first kiss? This happened to me the other night and it's thrown me completely! Can anyone answer that?... (40 words)

My wife is HIV positive. Should I continue a relationship with her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - I meet my wife after six months we got married within another six month later, she got pregenat, and within two weeks she was diagonised for (hiv)positive. I was confused and afraid, i went for my own hiv test but as God will have his way, i was confirmed negative. She gave ... (95 words)

Will I find an attractive, clever and friendly girl at the university I am going to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (M)

- I know this sounds a ridiculous question but I have to ask. I like this girl at high school (who's clever and attractive and friendly) I asked her out once but nothing really happened (we're kind of friends now) I would ask her again but I'm taking a year out and she's in her ... (124 words)

Want a electric lady shaver to shave pubic hair. Not sure if I'm comfortable buying a razor for this reason!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - im 15 and don't like pubic hair either i read the answers given to a question a few days ago and one said to get a electric lady shaver, as im only 15 will shops sell me them, as i don't really think that its a convrsation i would be comfortable having with my mum? please help!... (57 words)

My unhappiness over our breakup has caused me to drink a lot!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - Two weeks ago I split up with my boyfriend and I still can't stop thinking about him and it's getting me down all the time and I am so unhappy. I recently started drinking as this makes me happy. How can I go about getting over him before I start a real problem off?... (54 words)

He left all my belongings in bin bags outside my door! What should I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - need some advice plz, i phoned my bf yesterday to ask him what time he was coming to pick me up and he said he would pick me up at tea time which i said that was fine. so at 7.45pm he still hadn't picked me up so i phoned him again and he was in the pub he asked me to get a ... (290 words)

He said he thinks I'm lovely...so why did things go wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - I have been divorced for 3 years and have not wanted to get involved with anyoneuntil 10th Sept when a man came into my place of work. We chatted for some time, and some 2 hours later he phoned me, saying he would like to see me and left his mobile number. we saw it other 5 ... (341 words)

Why do boys like porn so much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - why do boys like porn so much!? i've got a long term boyfriend (18) who looks at porn regularly (practically every day) but i don't know why! does it mean hes not happy with me? we have an amazing relationship and i know he thinks so too and i just don't understand why boys ... (74 words)

Any advice on how I can get my confidence and social life back and make new friends? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

29 October 2006 (F)

- This is probably a stupid question and I feel a little embarrased asking for advice. Basically I feel that I have no social life and find it quite difficult to be sociable and make friends. I find it very hard to join in and hold a conversation. I have lost contact with a few ... (227 words)

I gained a lot of experience from my last bf. This new guy isn't as experienced and is friends with my ex. Is it seem okay that we date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - I'm 16 and he's 20. He's a virgin, and very inexperienced with girls (he hasn't kissed anyone for 4 years). I've had lots of sexual experience, pretty much everything you can think of I've done it (but all with only one guy). Is this...ok? He's quite old and I'm quite young, ... (92 words)

Should I trust my boyfriend?? He said it's not lying if he doesn't tell me what he's up to!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

29 October 2006 (F)

- Should I trust my boyfriend or is he taking the mickey? He recently said that if I dont ask him a specfic question ie are you going out with X then its not lying if he doesnt tell me what he is up to? ... (44 words)

How do i flirt without making myself to obvious but so that he notices me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (F)

- How do i flirt without making myself to obvious but so that he notices me?... (15 words)

How do you get a guy to orgasm without actually having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - me and my bf of 6 months have done everything but sex and each time he has never cum.am i doing something wrong? he always tells me im great at it and that he realy enjoys it but he has never cum.we have talked about it together and he says its more likly to be him, rather than ... (80 words)

I feel so rejected and abandoned by my husband right now! Can anyone help me cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

29 October 2006 (F)

- Hi, its 3 months today since my husband and I split up, it was not what i wanted but he seemed to be unable to commit to the future i wanted, having a family (even though he said he wanted this too, numerous times). I am finding it very hard to get through this, my thoughts ... (149 words)

She wants sex everytime I sleep over? How can I say No without hurting her feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - me and my gf been goin out for nearly a month and already slept together and now she wants it everytym i sleep over hers how can i say no 2 her with out hurting her feeling or making her think im goin off her?... (45 words)

Do I have the dreaded "pencil dick"? What do you all think?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - Is my penis too thin? My penis measures 4.5 inches around when I'm erect and I've heard 5 inches the average. I'm worried because I've read women care more about girth than they do length. Am I OK here or do I have the dreaded "pencil dick?"... (47 words)

How do you know if you fancy someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6547 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - This is probably the most vague and stupid question in the world, but how do you know if you fancy someone? I've often been confused about the exact emotion you're supposed to feel when you have a serious crush on someone. I mean, just because you find someone attractive ... (77 words)

Anal sex with my husband is painful and I bleed a lot. Any tips to make it more comfortable for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - i can't have anal sex with my husband it hurts me a lot and i bleed. is ther any solution for this problem?... (23 words)

He stares at me all the time...do you think he fancies me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - there is this boy at school that stares at me and always makes eye contact with me as i pass him and i can always see him lookin at me but we have never spoken.do u think he fancies me?please help... (41 words)

I want to be more than just her friend...the sexual tension is driving me crazy. What should I di?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - i'm completely at a loss here about what to think and i need help. i've been best friends with this girl for nearly a year now. we spend a good deal of time together, and we have a great deal of fun in each others company. but since the day we met, we've had a VERY awkward ... (390 words)

I love him but get tense when he touches me! What is wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - I have two boys aged 9 and 11 years old from a previous relationship I got married last june to another man and had a baby daughter 4 months ago. I cannot get close to my husband and he is getting really fed up and has been looking at porny on the internet. i want to get clo... (135 words)

I like him and we had sex 7 times. Do you think it's too late to suggest having a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6251 days ago

29 October 2006 (F)

- I been talking to this guy for like two months we had sex about 7 times it like he only calls me on the weekends because he acts like he have so much going on because he hangs out side alot he told me he didn't have a girl friend and now I want more of his time and dont no how ... (77 words)

Any tips on how to get a boy to kiss me and maybe even go out with me?

This question has 111 answers - newest was posted 3814 days ago

29 October 2006 (F)

- i am 14 and i haven't kissed a boy all my friends ever talk about is how is the best kissser any tips on how to get a boy to kiss me and maybe even go out with me?... (39 words)

He's sweet, he's kind and he's available. I need tips on flirting with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (F)

- i have known this guy for over a year and he is really sweet and kind and funny and i really like him and he just became single 3 weeks ago and he is over his ex coz he is looking for a gf but i dont know if he likes me or not help? And could u also give me tips on how to ... (68 words)

I need to get 2 teeth pulled out and I'm petrified! How can I cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - hi im 13 and i due to get two adult teeth pulled out in a couple of days and im petrified! iv had teeth out before and i hate it. what can i doo???? please please help!... (39 words)

This boy in my calss really likes. Any tips on how to flirt with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6596 days ago

29 October 2006 (F)

- Hey Guys i really need ure help! There is this boy in my class and i know that he likes me but i have tried flirting with him and it's not working coz i know that he is single and so am i so could u give me some flirting tips plz?... (55 words)

Seeing my ex brought back emotions for me and now my fiancee is upset.What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

29 October 2006 (F)

- I've been in a relationship with my Fiancee for a little over 2 years, but before that I was in a serious relationship with someone else, we'll call him T. for over 5 years. However, our relationship was very rocky and he cheated on me and got himself arrested more times than I ... (317 words)

How do I start a conversation with this very attractive brunette?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - Hi, well i need some sorta advice here lol! i work for a railway company am 18 and there's a newsagents within the stn and recently i've been in there and there's a reeli attractive brunette girl, i'd say in her 20's (early) and well i've seen her a few times like an s... (103 words)

Why she is manipulating me?? Can someone please explain??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - Okay I have a bit of an ordeal atm. I just got back from holiday I had been away for a short while and i had missed my girlfriend quite a lot and wanted too come home early too see her. When I got back we had planned too see a movie together however she had her doubts about ... (541 words)

Don't want Peter around me anymore but don't want to explain things to him. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

29 October 2006 (F)

- A boy in my gang Peter caused problems between my ex best friend(Susan) and I as they started to try to go out in secret Which I do not know why meant my best friend started to be upset with me and his atittude to me(peter's) was very unkind. My best friend left the gang and ... (211 words)

I'm hurt and frsutrated with the way people treat me! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - I am feeling a bit down and frustrated with myself because of the way I let people treat me, mainly regarding my boyfriend but also a few of my friends. I was quite hurt by the way my boyfriend treated me on his birthday (he initially invited me to his birthday do but then his ... (948 words)

My husband turned down my offer of sex! What's going on with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - my husband came home tonight after going out riding around, i texted him and asked him when are you going to be home so we can have sex, he said no thanks not in the mood. ... (36 words)

How long do I make my bf wait before we have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been officially together about a month. Before that we were "together", but not official for about that long too. So we've been kissing and stuff for awhile. In the second week we were officially going out, he wanted us to have sex. I said no, I'm ... (191 words)

HAving a hard time dealing with our breakup. Any tips or thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6462 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - my girlfriend broke up with me because she said that her feelings for me had gone i still love her so much. its been about a month since she broke up with me and i still feel the same way if not stronger with my love for her. she said that we can stay friends but when she ... (84 words)

Ladies...do girls mind it if they know that males masterbate?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - hi do girls mind if males masturbate. i do it about 3 times a week but i can't help thinking that girls dont like this.... (26 words)

Thought he was taking me for granted so turned him down for a date...now I haven't from him! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (F)

- thers this blokes whos 25 and im 18. he says that he likes me and wants to get to know me. hes always takes me out and this has been going on for just over 6 weeks now. but hes still not mentioned a relationship! also friday just gone he let me down as we were ment to be going ... (296 words)

We are drifting apart and I 'm worried she is losing interest. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - Ive been with my g/f now for 6 months,the start of it was perfect i thought nothing could go wrong.4 months in the relationship it started to go wrong for some reason,i dont have an idea where things have gone wrong.she isn`t:spending as much time together,calling/txting each ... (202 words)

How do you know if a guy really loves you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

29 October 2006 (F)

- How do you know if a guy realy loves you?... (10 words)

His friends told my bf they saw my profile on a website. Now he thinks I am after other men! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (F)

- Hi. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now, we are very much in love, or so i thought. Everything has been fine up until last month... His friends saw me on Hi5, a friendship profile website and have wound him up i am searching for men on there which is t... (218 words)

He dumped me to date other girls..but now claims he loves me and wants back in my life. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (F)

- to all cupids, me and my bf went out for about 3 months then we got into a big arguement which ended in him dumping me. we stayed away from each other for a few months then he emailed me saying he wanted to talk. so we talked it turned out that he used the arguemnet as an ... (209 words)

His new gf is fat and busty. Should I be insulted that he chose her over me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - My ex has a new girlfriend. She's fat and ugly, massive bust, and not very similar to him in personality. I'm slim, average looking (although since we broke up I've been getting a hell of a lot of offers from guys!), my chest is quite small but in proportion to the rest of my ... (136 words)

Developing too quickly and getting stretchmarks. How do I get rid of them?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

29 October 2006 (F)

- dear cupid, i am a 15 yr old girl and over the last month or so my boobs have been getting bigger which i am very happy about as i have always been very flat chested but as my boobs get bigger i have began to develop more and more stretch marks they are horrid to look at and i ... (78 words)

If your friend starts dating your ex gf...is he still a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - Hi everyone if you dated a girl then you's broke it off as your male friend was then dating your ex, you couldn't see him as a friend anymore could you?... (31 words)

They say your "first' is unforgettable..does this mean I could be uncomfortable having sex with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - I've only ever had sex with one person and I chose him specifically because I loved him and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. However, we've broken up. I want to be sexually active with someone else, but my ex was the only guy I ever did anything with, and he was an ... (110 words)

Is it wise to date this new guy when I still care for my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - My ex and I broke up 4 weeks ago, except we have still been fooling around until this thursday. Now it's definitely over because he has a new girlfriend (however, they started going out on Tuesday and we have had sex since then). I posted a few days ago as I was confused about ... (350 words)

I'm 28 and have ejaculation problems. Any advice

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6596 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - I have a problem of ejaculation. very fast in small time. As my age is only 28yrs(male). Please give some solution.... (21 words)

Is it normal for my little 9 year old sister to enjoy bathing with her 9 year old friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (F)

- hey all cupids, i have a very weird question, but here just a lil bak ground info first. i am 15 yr old and my lil sister is 9(laura). we share a room and we r very close. she has a best friend(danny)also 9. they are togther all the time which is normal but the other day i ... (166 words)

I respected her and cut off contact with a female friend but now...she won't do the same for me with her male friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - Me and My gf are going out for 9 months now.Problem started when she asked me to break my relationship with a good friend(girl) and i did it.Now she has gotten close to friend(boy) and i asked her to do the same,she wont do it.Also she tells me i dont talk to her a lot to ... (168 words)

mY friend told this man I liked him and now...he thinks I am a stalker and I am so embarrassed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (F)

- OK really difficult situation...any insight is needed, thanks in advance...What do you do when a dumb friend of yours (without permission) went off and told the man of your dreams( very 3rd grade) That you absolutely adored him and that this guy should go after me... And now he ... (226 words)

My bf gives another a lot of attention and I'm jealous! Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6074 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - is it normal to be jealous if your bf gives another girl some attention?... (14 words)

I have friends I like to hang with. My gf has no friends. How do I priorize my time to be with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - 10 month relationship, its good, but i always would rather just chill with my friends, they dont have girlfriends and i always have a good time with them. I come home to my girl and friends thursday-sunday. My girl has no friends, i try to prioritize but its hard. what can i ... (55 words)

Blood and brownish spots in my underwear...what does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - Ok, i have this problem...for like a couple weeks i have been having blood in my underwear, but its not like a regular period tho, and i am like a month and a half or two months late, but i have like brownish spots in my underwear everyday or sometimes just blood, what does ... (56 words)

Falling for this girl! She laughs at my jokes but acts differently at other times. Does she like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (M) - Im 15 years old and I am falling in love with this girl. We are the same age and i knew her for a year. I want to ask her out but im afraid to pop the question. She laughs at my jokes and smiles at me alot but at times she acts totally different. Does she love me??... (59 words)

My bf demeans and cuts down my children! Will this get worse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - i have been dating a man for over two years who i completely adore. i am divorced with two children, and would like to have a "complete" family again. problem is, that my bf isn't so bad to me, but always seems to demean, cut down, or try to punish my children. is there any ... (64 words)

He never takes me anywhere because he says "I act weird". What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - is something wrong with me or him? been dating for over two years. waited for him while he went into the military, but since he's been home, it's like pulling teeth to get him to spend time with me. he says he won't take me to his company picnic, no questions asked. he wants to ... (117 words)

How do I tell him to cool it on the kissing, without hurting his feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - Hi, I have a question for you about relationships. My boyfriend and I have been going together for 6 months tommorow. I waited for 5 months for him to kiss me. He finally kissed me and gave me a heart shaped ring. He told me that it resembles him giving me his heart. ... (102 words)

Opinions please .... I'm 14 and he's 15 and we are getting to 3rd base!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - okay, wat is everyone's oppinion on this, me n my bf av been together for 6 months, he is 15 n im almost 14, we trust each other n he really loves me n i love him more than anything.i av gone to 3rd base with him (sucked him off) n he has gone to 2nd with me (fingered) he ... (197 words)

Condom split and 4 days late coming on my period....Can I be pregnant???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about two months now. We use a condom every time, no exceptions. But we are worried now because on one occasion about a month ago, we were having sex and the condom broke. He did not ejaculate, and since we both realized immediately ... (155 words)

Everything about him is great apart from his underwear!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and am getting obsessive about his underwear. He's kind, funny, good-looking and sexy. But he wears the most revolting old Y-fronts and grotty briefs and the sight of them turns my stomach. He thinks it's funny and just shrugs that ... (68 words)

I want opinions on whether he holds feelings for me too!!!

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 6569 days ago

29 October 2006 (?) - This is about a certain teacher who I feel that I am in love with. My question is however not concerning my feelings towards him or even perhaps whether or not a relationship between us is possible or even morally wrong. I would like to describe some events which have recently ... (655 words)