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writes: it's been 23yrs and I still feel I can't get over my First Love. We lost contact for many years but know we are in touch with each other. I do think I was his true love also. But how do I stop these feelings Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2006): Why do you have to stop the feelings? If you're married with kids, then yes, I can see the problem. To be perfectly honest, I don't think you can ever get over feelings like that. That relationship will have been fundamental to the development of your adult character and a major part of your life. Could you maybe accept that you'll never forget about him or her? Strangely, I found this more use than trying to forget.
If you're not married or with anyone, you could try meeting up and see how it goes. Who knows???!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2006): tellll himmm..what have u got to loooseeeeeee..its the love of ur life....dont let it go...uve alredy lost 23 yrs..if hes with sum1...i suggest u ring n ask if u can meet up for old tyms sake..n tell this person that those days were the best for u...good luck...keep us posted...freind x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2006): why do you have to stop these feelings? is there no way you two can be together again if he felt the same way you do? anyway, i don't know if you ever truly get over your first love. it's just kind of the way it is. they'll always have a piece of you forever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2006): well if your single and hes single maybe you wont have to stop the feelings. But if you have both moved on then I think its just your old memories giving you that warm feeling inside. we all have that feeling when we think back to our first love, I was lucky I got back together with mine later in life and we're married with a Son. But dont be fooled into thinking it was the fairytale relationship I had Imagined it would.
Most of the time we only remember the good bits and when reality kicks in its not as dreamy as we thought it would be.
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