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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I really like him, but he says he just wants to be friends and is scared of ruining what we have. What is the real problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6619 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - im a 16year old girl who really likes this guy whos in my college and does the same course as me, and we told eachother we like eachother, but the other day he told me he wants us to remain friends because he doesnt want to ruin our friendship or the course. i understand what ... (84 words)

I am his back up plan, how can he do this to me? What should I do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6619 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - Hey, im kinda having a bad time right now.. cuz my bf just recently started likeing his ex again.. and he wanted to go on a break and see wat happends with her.. and if it didnt work out he would come back to me.. and he was saying he would come back to me as soon as he had a ... (344 words)

How can I tell this girl that I think I am in love with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6619 days ago

6 October 2006 (M)

- Hi Im going on a night out with some friends soon and the girl i wanna be with is also going with us. Im gonna make one last attempt to get with her even though i dont know if she wants to be with me. I have told her how i feel about her in the past but she wont tell me if ... (118 words)

If she wants to see other people, why doesn't she just let me go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6619 days ago

6 October 2006 (M)

- Well my worst fears are realized. My girlfriend has been playing me all along. But even though I caught her in the lie, she won't admit it. I tried so hard to break it off cleanly, but her protests kept making me think that maybe I was wrong. See, her closest frie... (289 words)

Boyfriend proposed, then retracted. How can I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6619 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend recently proposed and then took it back two weeks later. He said he couldn't follow through with it. I don't know how to handle this or trust him in the future. I feel he is unsure that he even loves me anymore. He seems very confused. I don't know what I ... (56 words)

I love this guy, but so do 2 of my best friends. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6618 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - I went out with this boy for about 2 weeks. I never really loved him but he seemed so happy. Now about 5 months later I am madly in love with him. I want to go out with him but 2 of my bestfrends fancy him aswell. So I'm stuck in the middle. I want to be happy but I want 2 of ... (79 words)

I can't stop cheating on my husbands, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6617 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - I can't seem to keep cheating on my husbands. I have been married three times and all three times i have had an affair. I just can't seem to control myself. I think It's a lack of self worth. I feel that I need the attention from men to validate myself. Please help.... (53 words)

I had sex with a chav, now people want to beat me up.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - the other week i was at a party and got really drunk. i ended up having sex with this chav, which was a really big mistake. i went back to school and all these other chavs now want to beat me up because he has a girlfriend (which i didnt know about)and there all after me! i ... (84 words)

I really like this guy at work, he likes me too, but he has a girlfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - I have worked with a guy called carl for 4 years and ive always really liked him but ive dated other people as he as a girlfriend. When i went on my 1st works do his best friend told me that carl loves me but he cant and wont do anything as he has a girlfriend. I was quite ... (131 words)

I have had numerous sexual encounters with a work mate. I would like a relationship, but feel it will end in tears.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6619 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - I recently worked with this guy at work and thought he was quite good fun but nothing more. Then people kept telling me he fancied me but I thought he was trouble being ten years younger than me and very confident. so I kept him as a mate until one night when I went out on a... (240 words)

I am 12 and my bf is 14. People call him a pervert. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6619 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - im 12 and my boyfriend is 14. he's in year 10 at skwl and im in year 7 at skwl. when ever ppl see us at skwl thay call him a pervert, What shud i do?... (38 words)

Do some bad-boys become "good" once they find a woman they really love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6619 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - Do some bad-boys become "good" once they find a woman they really love? Here's my dilema: my b/f has always been a bit of a bad boy, he drinks, he smokes, he likes rowdy sex and porn. In the past, he has dated strippers and girls with tattoos. Which is one of the things that ... (173 words)

I feel like I am making love to a dead body, but my GF thinks it is a mans duty to please. Help!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

6 October 2006 (M) - my girlfriend thinks that its a mans duty to please a woman and that all she has to do is lay back and enjoy. for the one year we have been together i do everything oral sex and romance. she just lay there, do nothing and let me do what ever i want. it was fine with me in the ... (95 words)

I regret breaking up with my boyfriend, but he has moved on. How do I win him back? Please help!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6619 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up beacsue I thought it would be awkward with me going to a college far away and I thought i wouldnt see him anymore so we decided to break up I no its crazy because I still really love him but hes moved on and is supposedly gettin with someone else ... (144 words)

What is the quickest way to get over a boy?

This question has 121 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

6 October 2006 (?)

- hey, i need help! im a 16 yr old girl. i was in love with a guy, proper in love, we had soo many gd times together bt now all ive got is a broken heart. he used to tell me he loved me and that i was 'the one'. and i believed him and fell for him. we broke up nearly a month ago, ... (118 words)

My ex was asking me to do things with him, ever since he was with someone else. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

6 October 2006 (F)

- A long weekend's ahead and part of me is happy, but part of me is dreading it. My sort-of-ex boyfriend had been asking me to do things with him more than ever since he divulged his interest in someone else. I don't even know when he has time to see her! So does he think he... (93 words)

I did things on webcam at the age of 12, now I regret it. How can I forget it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6619 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - since i was 12 ive done bad things i used to show boys on cam myself naked, now i really regret it. how can i forget about it? was it illegal? i used to do it cos i was ashamed with my body and they used to say they loved it even tho i was flat chested now im 15 plz help... (65 words)

I met the love of my life before finding out my wife had cancer. She is now clear and I want to leave her. Do I go or stay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6570 days ago

6 October 2006 (M) - I have a wife who has had cancer but it is now clear. She has a 40 to 60% chance of the cancer reappearing. I met the love of my life 1 month before the diagnosis. If I go I will feel very guilty, if I stay I will loose my dream relationship. Do I go or do I stay?... (64 words)

It's been 2 months since we spoke, should I call her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6619 days ago

6 October 2006 (M) - DEAR CUPID I AM 19 year old man i have been in this relationship with my girl of 16 for about a year now.things cahnged when i left for varsity (no calls nothing) she thought i was cheating(what should i do)its been 2months now should i call her... (52 words)

Am I being overly picky?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - Am I being overly picky? I am 16. I have had my heart broke by some really hot guys that end up dumping me (and I only kiss them, nothing else) I've met this kid in one of my classes. He is kinda cute, and he is really nice. He definately seems to like me. The thing is, ... (155 words)

I am a female who enjoys porn. Why do so many women have hang ups?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

6 October 2006 (F)

- Is it me thats just broad minded or why is it that so many women have so many hang ups over porn sites videos or sex in general and they thinks its dirty.?? please answer cos is it me thats strange cos i am female and i enjoy porn Lol... (53 words)

My ex still really likes me and I never got over him. I have a boyfriend, but I need space. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - Okay, My boyfriend is three years older then me, so he has just started driving. So he has started picking me up from school. Demanding to see me everyday. I really need some space, i mean we have only been going out for a month. But ex boyfriend who is my age, claims he lik... (85 words)

I'm dating this guy but can't stop thinking about my ex! what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - dear cupid, i am going out with a 16 yr oldand recently have been thinking about my ex-boyfriend i dont no what to do help me plz xxxxxx... (45 words)

How can I bring spontaneity back into our sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

6 October 2006 (M) - My wife and i have been married for three years,we are like best friends but with no sex life and its really tearing me apart as i love her so much and want to be with her for life. Before we where married sex was spontainious and good then it went to regular once a week,now ... (222 words)

I broke up with my untrusting boyfriend, but I am addicted to him. How can I stay firm with my decision to finish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - I have decided to break up with my boyfriend. i can no longer stand his constant distrust. he gets angry at me for missed phone calls even though i call him right back. he questions male voices in the background even though it's my dad he's hearing. he even used to call me ... (144 words)

I want to be with the younger guy, but dont know what to tell my older bf ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6620 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - i've been with my b/friend for nearly 4yrs on/off, thing is when we split up earlier this year i started going with a new guy. when i told my current b/friend about this he then admitted his undying love and we got back 2gether but on saturday nite my current b/friend walked ... (160 words)

How do you understand a mans mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - Help!!!! I need help understanding a mans mind if thats possible. I have a male friend who I have know about three months, I pulled him in a club and we ended up being mates. He stated from the start he wasnt ready for a relationship and just wanted to be friends. I sort of ... (242 words)

I am almost 14, how do I tell my boyfriend I am ready for sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

6 October 2006 (F)

- im ready to have sex with my boyfriend he has done it be4 but the thing is he now lives in a different state but its not that far away and i don't know how to tell himwe been together for a while now and i really love him i know he wants to have sex with me but he told me that ... (106 words)

We love each other, things are great, but the sex sucks!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6619 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - help me please i am 22 i just got married about 4 months ago my hubby is 27 my prob is that he is very very bad at sex . i would never cheat on him i love him with all my heart and we have talked about this and i tried to help him and every thing but he still is awfull i hate ... (229 words)

Things are all messed up and im now confused, but he now wants me to be his military wife!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6618 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - hey,ive been with my boyfriend 10 months now,an things are really messed up!before we started going out we were best mates,i was in a 6yr relationship,which i came out of at christmas,cause i was cheated on,then after that we started going out,im 20 and his only 18,anyway,a ... (219 words)

My army bf says he's changed his cheating ways..do I believe him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriends in the army,he's cheated on me before,but said that his changed now and he wants to get more serious,what should i do?... (24 words)

I moved country and thought I would forget the guy I met before I left.. we are in contact alot and hes coming to see me.. but we are not exclusive!??

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6 October 2006 (F) - Moved to a different country recently. Before i left (3 weeks) met this guy. Thought i'd forget bout him when went away, but it seems that i havent. He rings everyday regardless of cost. Coming to see me soon too. However we're both unwilling to call ourselves boyfriend and ... (88 words)

We live together but he still is in contact with her and he won't let me see the e-mails!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend just moved to the US to be with me from the other side of the world. We were dating last year when he had to move back home and he has just moved back one year later to be with me. We have been having issues since he got back though. He has this friend and she is ... (199 words)

We seem to be rowing alot and I seem to always be the B*st*rd! What can I do I really love my wife!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

6 October 2006 (M) - I am having severe problems in my marriage, my wife and I seem to argue most of the time, but I'm not solely blaming her. There are quite a few problems, but one which seems to crop up more often than not is due to my lack of forward planning. My wife is always organise... (455 words)

Should I take the plunge and ask him out ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - I've meet this great looking guy,he works at a club i go to as a barman,i went there other evening and when i went up to the bar his eyes lit up when he saw me. my friends started calling my name out when he came round to collect our glasses.so i think he knows i like him.i saw ... (113 words)

Feeling lost and not sure where to go from here, im real sad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

6 October 2006 (F)

- Where to start…. Im feeling rather lost and not sure what to do about my whole situation, im feeling very upset and I guess hurt at times and don’t know how to get this all to where I want.. here goes… I have been with partner 3 years (living together) Things were alwa... (1381 words)

Please help, I cheated on my girl last night, but it was a mistake!! I feel so guilty what should I do!??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

6 October 2006 (M) - Please advise! Last night I cheated on my girlfriend with my ex. We have been together for a couple of months, and due to current circumstances I am living with my ex, which I am trying to change. I have cheated in the past, which I am not proud of, but this time is diffe... (175 words)

Hes demanding more outrageous things to do sexually after watchin porn all the while!!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - My husband stays up every night after I'm in bed looking at internet porn. I know why. I'm 46, size 14, with a body that looks like it's borne and breastfed 4 children. We are mismatched in our sex interests. He thinks I am old and boring because I want to make love in the ... (255 words)

Hes looking at porn, but why, I try to do everything he wants, so why does he still want these other naked women ??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my husband for 6 years, and last december we got a computer. I have found several times that he has looked at different porn sites. I have never seen this behavior from him, or excpected it, So I was shocked. I have approached him everytime I caught him, and he ... (374 words)

I stopped dating him as was just out of a relationship, Id like to date him now but hes dating someone else!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6620 days ago

6 October 2006 (F) - I dated this guy back in feb. but then ended it shortly after because I wasn't ready to date him or anyone since I just broke up with my boyfriend. He flipped out and called me over and over, which scared me. But we recently started talking again, he told me he's dating ... (84 words)

Im comforting her as a friend, and am happy to do so, but I do fancy her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

6 October 2006 (?) - i have a very close friend she's a girl. she tells me everything, all her problems etc. i'm a good listener. she also has a boyfriend. me and my friend go to same school whereas her boyfriend goes college. were all same aged. anyway i usually walk my friend home once or twice a ... (318 words)

She want see other people, she lies to me, treat me like crap and expects me to just take it! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6619 days ago

6 October 2006 (M) - my girlfriend has confessed to me that she wants to see other people because she has been with me and only me for 4 years.she was 14 when we met and now she is 18.it has been very difficult because she has confessed to making out with a guy in a bathroom and secretly talking to ... (122 words)

She claims to not speak to her ex but I have caught her glancing at him. What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

6 October 2006 (M) - I am currently dating a girl and have been with her for about four months now. While it may seem crazy, we are already very close and have both discussed the good chance that we will share a future together. She plays golf at my school, but has to travel to a nearby course to ... (153 words)