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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We were together 17 years but she found someone else and doesn't seem to be sad about us not being together!

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5 October 2006 (M) - Its been about 4 months since I split up with my ex-girlfriend. We have been together for 17 years, I recently proposed to her, after a couple of days she changed her mind and three weeks later she said that she had found someone else. She has not contacted me since. Is this ... (97 words)

14, got really drunk, and fooled around with my best friends man while my BF and her were downstairs...

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5 October 2006 (F) - Fourteen, and in major trouble. Saturday night i got really drunk, like really out of it. And i ended up in a room with my best friends boyfriend. She was downstairs with my boyfriend talking about me, while i was getting licked out and giving her boyfriend head. I dont rem... (124 words)

I'm 16, my BF is 18 and he is complete asshole when he goes out drinking!

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5 October 2006 (F) - I am 16 and my bf of 4 months is 18. He occasionally goes out and gets drunk. More recently it's become a regular thing, and he'll ring me or i'll ring him, and he'll start being a complete asshole after a while. Am i overreacting to be pissed off with him as he is 18?... (56 words)

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5 October 2006 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl. I'm quite popular with the boys and a lot of boys fancy me. Everytime i get a boyfriend it only lasts a couple of months the longest has been 4 months.. This is because they always want sex. I'm scared to try it and panic and end the relationship. I ... (78 words)

Is it normal to have crushes on other people when you're happy in a relationship?

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5 October 2006 (F) - I've been completely crazy about this one guy for a year now. We've been going out on and off since December, and i've not really been interested in anyone else since. But over the past week or so i've started developing crushes on some of my new guy mates at college. Is it ... (66 words)

I didn't like him before and I cast him aside. Now I am having huge regrets!

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5 October 2006 (F) - hi im feeling really guilty and i just cant get over this guy. This guy used to secondary school who really used to to like me but i could never see him in that way i suppose im a perfectionist and kept finding things wrong with him for example he was really shy although he ... (163 words)

We had sex the night I finished my period - could I be pregnant?

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5 October 2006 (F) - dear cupid me and my boyfriend for 2yrs we had sex the night that i came off my period is there a possibilty that i could be pregnant? we didnt use a condom and he did cum inside me.... (39 words)

Met a new guy on a chat site--is it a good idea to meet him?

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5 October 2006 (F) - i have just ended a 4 weeks relationship with a man who drunk a lot.tried to help him but didnt do any good. near end of relationship i met a lovely man on a chat site. have exchanged numbers and chatted alot. he wants to come up and see me. i am attracted to him. want to know ... (83 words)

He says hes tired of being in a relationship

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5 October 2006 (F) - Well me and my boyfriend have been together for 13 months and we love each other to death .. but he broke up with me becasue he says hes tired of being in a relationship because of all the stress (which is not true because we rarely ever fight) and i told him i would wait till ... (111 words)

He told me to wait until he becomes single

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5 October 2006 (F) - he said he likes me and he told me to wait until he becomes single. he has a live-in gf of 10 years. i waited for almost a year but he said he can't leave her yet because it's complicated and he has financial burden with her. for the last week i just ignore his calls and i ... (115 words)

How can I get his attention and show him I like him

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5 October 2006 (F) - There's this guy in my year at school and I really like him but I don't know how he feels about me! I've never spoken to him properly until today, we were having a laugh about something random. I sent him a meaage the other day on myspace but he didn't reply but he like told... (105 words)

I dont want to be with a "male slut"

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5 October 2006 (F) - im seeing this lad but because i go to boarding skool we have an open relationship! hes reallys likes me more than anyone i can tell! but the trouble is hes always having sex with so many girls! and its not thast im jealous so much it doesnt mean anything its just i dont want ... (71 words)

i need to get over him

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5 October 2006 (F) - Hi I am a normal fourteen year old, thing is i think im in love. I've known him [barney] for over a year now.. and we have always had a thing going on. From june to march we were together, and did most of the oral sex, but i was happy because i really liked him and h... (468 words)

what he does wiv me he does wiv other girls

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5 October 2006 (F)

- hiya evyone, i am 15.i dnt reali no how to word this but im gonna try my best. there is this lad at my school he is in the yr below me. He seriously flirts wiv me we hug all the ime and he has tryed to kiss me, he puts his hands up my top and on to my thongs (which i dnt mind) ... (129 words)

How can I catch him out?

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5 October 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, Lately he's started to not accept any affection from me and he keeps buying me things.I only see him on weekends (i stay over, and he takes his calls and texts outside then deletes them !?!?!)I ring him every night and for the past... (138 words)

This will be the first time for both of us!

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5 October 2006 (F)

- Hi, I've been seeing this boy for about four months now and we are really mad about one another and are thinking about having sex (this will be the first time for both of us!) We have basically done everything else already and both really love the experience - so far it has ... (113 words)

Is it ever right for a woman to make her husband choose

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5 October 2006 (M) - Is it ever right for a woman to make her husband choose between her and his mother?... (17 words)

help i am 14

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5 October 2006 (F) - i am 14 i havent started my period i have really small boobs what should i do help... (24 words)

I do not want to stand in the way of his future

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5 October 2006 (F) - Please help, I'm 19 and desperately in love with a guy of 18. The problem is he is still in school and I am finished, I am afraid that he will decide not to go to College in favour of staying near me. So i'm thinking of ending things. It is hurting me to think this way but I ... (79 words)

How can I choose a birthday card for my boyfriend? His parents do not know about us, so I don't want to hint at love.

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5 October 2006 (F) - I have been trying to pick a birthday card for my boyfriend and it is proving difficult. He lives with his parents but hasn’t told them we are together yet because he wants to see how long it takes to suss us out as they have been trying to get us together (either that or he’s ... (152 words)

My ex GF's journal told me she still had feelings for her abusive ex.I don't understand why

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5 October 2006 (M) - I really need some adviceon what to do... I've been dating my gf for a little over a year now, and she just broke up with me 2 weeks ago. I love her so much, and i really want her back. She says she lost feelings for me... we were staying together when we dated, when i wa... (437 words)

Me and BF are on a break after 2 years. How do I get him back?

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5 October 2006 (F) - my boyfriend and i are on a break after being together for two years. How do I get him back? ... (22 words)

I am a shy guy, how do I ask this girl to a school dance?

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5 October 2006 (M) - Hey! I am a shy 17 year old guy and i want to ask this girl to a school dance. how should i approach her and what should i say? we get on fine at school and she seems to be a plesant person.... (46 words)

Why do I keep messing up with girls? Now I am told I might be gay!!

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5 October 2006 (M) - Hi i am needing some help the problem i am having is i am finding it easy to get girlfriends but i never can seem to keep a girlfriend for long because i have a problem with the way i say things. It seems to keep messing up every relationship i get into i say stupid things w... (207 words)

How can I tell my best friend that I have always loved her?

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5 October 2006 (M) - i know someone for for 3 yeears, we are the best of friends , like very very close , know everything about each other, but i have always loved her , and i think she likes me to, but i don`t have the guts to say anything , just watch while others steal here away??? plz help... (57 words)

I argued the case of homosexuality in ethics, now my entire year think I am gay.

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5 October 2006 (M) - Hi, I'm 13 In school it's kind of "evil" to be gay or a gay sympithiser. But In an RE lesson under ethics this boy went on about how homosexuals are sick and wrong ect. So I publicly argued with him over it and now my entire year thinks I'm gay...HELP? By the way, I'm a symp... (76 words)

He says he is going to leave her but he hasn't! I'm starting to feel mad at him! What should I do?

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5 October 2006 (F) - i have been freinds with a boy for two years, recently he come in to a club with his girlfreind. i got extremley upset and left, the week after my freind told him the sittuation and he asked me. i told him it was true, he said he wouln never cheat on his girlfreind, then we ... (120 words)

Anyone got any ideas what we can do the weekend to make it special as we have just got back together!

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5 October 2006 (F) - my guy and me have just got back together after 2 months break. We are spending the weekend together, anyone got any good ideas of nice things to do, since we have just got into old habits of sitting watching tv in the evenings. We cant go out because we have children and no ... (57 words)

Male Opinion please! Why do men still insist on looking at porn at the risk of a relationship when their partner is more than happy to have sex!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6155 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - Looking mostly for guys opinion. Thank you... I have a problem. I caught my man watching porn and I am very upset. Let me start from beging. 5 years ago, when I started to go with him, our sex life was good. We would watch porn together and to be honest I used to enjoy it... (314 words)

She finished with me out of the blue, then her mum called the police, I was arrested for harrasment, I didnt do anything.. please help!!!!!

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5 October 2006 (M) - My ex girlfriend finished with me out of the blue so i called her but he mum got me arrested for harrasment for leaving 7 missed calls. Now i can't talk to her until she talks to me or i get arrested and i know she wont talk to me. I have done nothing wrong. There is no way of ... (87 words)

I feel like im on the back burner.. How do I deal with it ?

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5 October 2006 (F) - I am dating a divorced man with 3 teenagers that live with him. He has a very demanding job and hardly emails me as he's so busy. I feel like I'm on the back burner. How do I deal with this? ... (41 words)

I knew I would only ever be sex to him, but I have feelings for him, though not in love and want to be his girlfriend!!

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5 October 2006 (F)

- I am an 18 year old A level student and I have become involved with a 29 year old man. I have been seeing this guy for a while now and we are "bed buddies." Over time I have become attached to him and want us to be more than that. It would make me very happy if he could be my ... (448 words)

Ive fallen for a girl young enough to be by daughter! Nothing can come of it, Im married etc..but how do I get her out of my mind ??

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5 October 2006 (M) - I'm an older man who has fallen for a young women with whom I work. I'm married. While my wife was overseas this lady ... young enough to be my daughter ... and I went out for dinner, coffee etc several times. I'm now suffering limerence because of her. I know that there is no ... (173 words)

Why am I still thinking of him and getting upset, after he beat me and trashed my flat!?

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5 October 2006 (F) - i had been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he beat me up recently - he cracked 3 ribs and i had to have stitches above my eye. he also trashed my flat. i got out and have moved into new flat, new number and havent seen him since. why am i still cryin and thinking of him ... (70 words)

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5 October 2006 (M) - Me and my Girlfriend have been living together now for almost 3 months and one day she came down to my work with my and the place was completely empty and no one was expected to arrive either, so i wanted to have sex (you kno something exciting keep her interested) but she ... (103 words)

Did I sleep with him to early ? We are still together, but wonder if he would feel more for me had I waited ?

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5 October 2006 (F) - Hello, I had not slept with a man for five years until recently. After 3 very intense weeks of dating we slept together, do you think this was too soon and that he will think of me as easy? Im quite naive about everything. He made me feel that there was nothing wrong with ... (116 words)

When you find the right girl, will you always feel like that towards her, dispite dating others ?

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5 October 2006 (M) - hi everyone, If you have say your 1,2,3 g/f when you find that right one will you alwayz have feelings for her weather it's your 1st,2nd or 3rd one ... (29 words)

I lost my best friend and my lover 5 months ago due to illness, Im struggling to let go ... its so hard...

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5 October 2006 (F) - I don't need relationship advice, but maby friendship advice. I've lost my best friend 5 months ago due to illness. It was very traumatic for me and still is today. I'm not coping well with him not being around anymore, because we used to be lovers, but financially we never had ... (170 words)

We broke up as hes off to Oz tomorrow!!! Im not going to see him for 2 months and he says see how we feel then!!!!

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5 October 2006 (?) - Ok update on my story so far… As ye all already kno my boyf is off to Australia for 2 months 2morro. And the reason I wrote in the first place was that he wanted to break up before goin and I didn’t want that to happen… So the outcome of it all is we are breaking up fro... (364 words)

I had a strop with my man for no reason, hes in the army, I feel really sad now!! Whats wrong with me ??

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5 October 2006 (F) - my bf is in the army and last night i got in a really big strop with him, i was saying things like i want you to love me as much as i love you, you never make any time for me. i really dont know why i did this but i ended up crying myself to sleep. i woke up at about 9 this ... (102 words)

My online girl says shes loves me, how do I know this is true ?

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5 October 2006 (M) - i have met some one online she says she loves me but i dnt know if thts true cause i have bad experience in past and i worry to much cause i love her too i ring her she does not answer or when i try to talk 2 her she talk and thn makes an excuse saying she has to go i dont... (76 words)

My friends behaviour is very unsavoury and unfair, I want to tell her, but not to lose her!

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5 October 2006 (F) - Over 2 yrs ago I left my BF of 13yrs cos I found out he was cheating on me for over 2+yrs. 1yr later my best friend Ruthie (who's married) told me she was seeing another man it's been a year and she's still seeing him, now she's met yet another man who she is now seeing as well ... (186 words)

He can be thoughtful and loving, but also tells me im in his face! I want to settle down and be in a loving relationship!!

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5 October 2006 (F) - I have posted here before but my problem has developed and I would really appreciate any advice. I have been with my partner for 2 years. We did live together but he felt that I was in his face too much, did his head in. I had to find somewhere else to live which I did and I fo... (260 words)

Decided to break up as he was looking for work overseas.. But I want him back!!

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5 October 2006 (F) - i have recently split with my boyfriend, who i want back. it was not a usual break up, he's looking for a job overseas and so thought it would be better to do it now rather than later down the line and we have agreed to stay friends, but i want him back but don't really know ... (72 words)

I find it impossible to break away from him! Hes my best friend but I love him!!!

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5 October 2006 (F) - Hi all, sorry this is long. Well I am in love with my best mate, he is amazing he is kind, funny and caring. He knows how I feel about him but has always stated to me that we are just friends not because he is not attracted to me but because he wants to enjoy single life after ... (238 words)

Im to be married this christmas, but I have met someone else!!

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5 October 2006 (M) - I am to be married this xmas the unreal thing or im up front more i met another woman and 8mths later we are trying to find peace with ending this relationship we both love each other.i know i shouldve know better but it was like the universe attracted us together, what do you ... (55 words)

My ex is pregnant, but Im really happy with my now relationship!! What should I do ??

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5 October 2006 (M) - My ex is pregnant, but I am in a wonderful relatinship until now. What should I do? Dear Readers, My ex(17) who I (19) was with for about a year is 4 months pregnant from me, but have been in a relationship now for about 4 months too with a very wonderful girl (17) she tre... (225 words)

Im marrried but still kept the intimate emails going, hes getting married next month, but I think he has feelings for me!!!

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5 October 2006 (F) - Hi I am married for 2 years, before I got married, I had a intimate session with one of the guys, which turned out to be my husband's cousin. Even now I am married, this guy keeps contact via email and we have intimate emails, and whenever we together we get naughty excludin... (87 words)

Ive been having unprotected sex with my Bf since we have been together, do you think I could be pregnant!!!

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5 October 2006 (F) - Since my boyfriend and i have been going out, we've had unprotected sex. Now the thing thats concerning me now is that my monthlys were due on saturday saw my bf and did it sunday, and its thursday, and still hav'nt got them yet. Im 6 days late, and they've never been this late ... (70 words)

Gf broke up with and I want to sort things out. Who should make the first move?

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5 October 2006 (M) - hi, if your girl friend breaks up with you and you want to sort things out who should approach each other first... (22 words)

I like this girl who's not into guys, yet--so what can I do?

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5 October 2006 (M) - i like a girl named ashton but shes not into guys yet what should i do?... (16 words)

Telling him I want to date him might mean rejection and it scares me! Any advise?

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5 October 2006 (F) - well i like my best friend's cousin and i think thats weird but she doesn't.i don't think he likes me though we are friends and i don't want to mess that up and i am so scared of rejection.what do i do plz help me!!! ... (45 words)

Its driving me crazy that were just friends and I want something more! What should I do?

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5 October 2006 (F) - i ok....have this guy freind (weve known each other for about a month or so, but have been hanging out literally 24/7. there hasnt been one day we havent hung out for exleast 7 hr.) so ne ways im really starting to like him a lot and it seems like he likes me too. every one ... (262 words)

He doesn't want that much sex--is it me or the stress he's under?

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5 October 2006 (F) - Hi, Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now, Everythin always goes so well, we get on so well n i love him to bits but recently he's not been as interested in sex as i have, there was a short period a while ago where he 'didnt work' but that was because i was ... (134 words)

Horrible thoughts about something I did as a kid. Any advice on how to cope?

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5 October 2006 (F) - Ever since my ex boyfriend i have been getting unwanted sexual thoughts about anyone. I would never ever act on it but i even get them for a kid i babysit who is 1. I think i only get them for him though because when i was 5-7 i got on top of another kid who didn't know or was ... (212 words)

What is the best way to break up with her without causing too much pain?

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5 October 2006 (M) - I have been going out with this girl for a little over a year. She's great, I love her, would hate to hurt her. The relationship has been great, we very rarely even argue and have never raised our voices when arguing. In most of our first year it was amazing, I spent more ... (348 words)