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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He calls and text's constantly until we have sex then he goes quiet on me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - I've been dating this guy on and off for nearly four years. We don't see each other regularly because we live in two different cities. We try to hook up at least twice a month, we have an awesome attraction towards each other and I believe that I'm in love with him. Before we ... (185 words)

My partner doesn't give me any love since the baby was born!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

18 October 2006 (M) - My partner just rubishes everything i do. No love since the baby 22 months ago. I work hard and give all my time and money to us, but I feel the one left out. she has two children to a previous relationship and one we have together. I treet them al the same. What AM I DOING ... (58 words)

I have long hair and it seems that most women find this a turn off!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

18 October 2006 (M) - I'm 23 and have had long hair (past my shoulders) since I was 17. Is it just me or do all women, apart from a small sample of goth/metal/rock followers, dislike, or more intensively are turned off by, long hair on a guy. For me my hair has always been part of my adult image and ... (145 words)

We don't love each other anymore....is getting back together the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - I don't love my ex boyfriend anymore and he doesn't love me (i don't think), however I want to get back together as I still feel SOMETHING for him, even though i'm not entirely sure what it is, and we still get on so amazingly well, the sparks are still flying and we sometimes ... (76 words)

I made it come across I was too busy to see him...should I be honest about my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - Hello, I ran into a friend from college, that lives out of state. He stated he always had a crush on me and we went out. We both really liked eachother and started talking on the phone for a month. I never told him how much I liked him eventhough he told me several times. ... (151 words)

I think this guy is just using my friend for sex and people are laughing at her! How do I break this to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6396 days ago

18 October 2006 (F)

- ok everyone i need some advice my friend is...or should i say was having a casual relationship with this guy since last year they didnt see each other all the time but she was definetly ok with that but now he doesnt want to see her anymore unless hes wanting "u know what" ... (132 words)

It never seemed such a big thing when I was younger but now I worry if I will ever get married!

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18 October 2006 (F) - i am already 35 years old and never been married. before it was simply ok for me to be with a man without getting married. but now in my age im desperately hoping for getting married thinking that at least before i get old or before i die, i will experience to be married.of ... (107 words)

I wanna know how to ask him out!

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18 October 2006 (F) - i want to go to the pictures with this lad....... and i wanna take it a step further with him how do i 1) ask him out ... (30 words)

His behaviour tells me he doesn't love me anymore and I know I don't love him!

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18 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my husband for five years and married for two. At first our relationship was great and had a lot of respect and love for eachother, but soon he started taking advantage of me financially and this year he started to act violently towards me. He has a quick ... (161 words)

He's abit of a player and flirts alot so I don't know if his flirting with me if more than just that!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - I guess I'd like to know if this guy is attracted to me. He's kind of a player so flirting with girls isn't that meaningful, I think. It seems like he does things without thinking about them to me. He was comparing my hair color to someone elses and instead of just saying it ... (167 words)

He wouldn't marry me and make us a family but he is making me feel guilty by saying leaving him split up his family!

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18 October 2006 (F) - im with this man for long 9 years and we have one son,our relation is not that bad only im hoping for him to marry me but he never did since he is married still in his wife.after long years i decided to separate thinking that i am hoping for nothing. we are now separated for ... (281 words)

Ladies do you prefer to masturbate alone or with a male partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

18 October 2006 (M) - ladies do you prefer to masturbate alone or with a male partner? ... (12 words)

I like this older girl but her friend is setting her up with another guy. I have no chance, do I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (M) - hi basicly i like a 15 year old girl and im 13. im not particulary good lookin and iv never had a gf before. i was trying to get to know her better but have just recently found out that her friend is trying to set her up with someone that she likes. i have no chance, do i? p... (69 words)

Worried that when people see my husband's horrible head shots, next to his arcticles, they won't give him credibility.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

18 October 2006 (F)

- My husband posts pictures of himself online (he works for a prominent news site and they have headshots next to articles) and he picks the most awful images of himself - like images that have been distorted because of a camera angle so his head looks extra fat at the top and ... (286 words)

Update on why the unhappily married man asked me for "a happy ending'. Advice appreciated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - p. Don't forget the happy ending ! Your readers asked for more background into why an unhappily married man had sent me a letter asking me for a happy ending . The answer ....he was my Doctor and I was temporarily his patient when I had glandular fever . He told me that lif... (91 words)

He has issues with trust from his past...so how do I get him to trust me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

18 October 2006 (F)

- Any advise on how to get a guy to gain trust in you? I havent done anything to ruin his trust in me we have recently met. We both like each other but he says he has issues with trust due to his past. Im nearly 15 and he's 17. I dont want to be lectured about going out with ... (99 words)

How can I stop myself getting hurt by every lad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

18 October 2006 (F)

- how can i stop myself gettin hurt by evry lad?... (10 words)

I really like her...she likes someone else but he likes someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6469 days ago

18 October 2006 (M) - OK, so over the last week I have come to realise a fancy a friend of mine. We've been good friends for about 6 months now, her name's Amy and we're in sixthform together. Up till recently I've been happy with our freindship and thought that was all I wanted from her. We get on ... (157 words)

I don't feel like I am a big enough part of her life....Am I wrong for thinking this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

18 October 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for about 3 years now. We have had on and off periods. The other day when I was at her apartment I counted 24 picture frames about, however I am only in 1 frame. I have told her many times I dont feel like I am a big enough part of her life, or I ... (76 words)

I'm 13 and I like a 15 year old girl....have I got a chance with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (M) - hi, im 13 the girl i like is 15 have i got any chance with her or should i not get into things??... (24 words)

My partners son and his mate went out on a night out with me and my mates....he reports everything back to his mum!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F)

- my parners son went out with me and my mates and his mate and one of his mates kept trying it on i no my partners lad tells his mum everything ,plus my friend got off with my parners lad what do you think his mum will say .... (49 words)

I want out but he says I am taking his family away from him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - Hi, Well I have all sorts of things going through my head. First of all I am married and I have not been for years. I have been married for 5 years and now we have two kids and I believe that I am only in it for them. I am having an affair and can not stay away from this guy, ... (340 words)

I want to know why he keeps masterbating!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - my boyfreind keeps masterbating to playboy we have sex but i want to know whyhe keeps doing this... (18 words)

I'm attractive and work hard at pleasing my husband...so why is our sex life the pits?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - My husband and I are in our late twenties. I am 27, he's 28. Married two years and I guess I have been denying many things about our marriage/relationship for too long. I dont believe i am a supermodel but I have been told by other men, male friends and associates, i am... (577 words)

Does my boyfriend's brother have a "crush" on me or am I paranoid? How do I handle this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - Does my boyfriend's brother have a "crush" on me or am I paranoid? Ok, Here's some background: I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 6 years now- and he is my first real love. There are definate issues in the relationship, ones that I have been trying to address and he h... (217 words)

I'm 17 years old and he left me for a 14 year old! How can I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - i have a really big problem im 17 an i split up with my ex bout 7 months ago who is 19 cuz he left me for a 14 year old who is now 15 but no matter how hard i try i cant get over him i work woth my dad at nites an he works there 2 an i like him more an more each day i neva got ... (102 words)

I slept with him and now...he ignore me! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - I really like this guy stu he has been asking for my number for months i finally gave him it and we started texting he was being dead sweet, i went round his and we slept together and every friday when we are out i go back to his. but now he never texts back and ignores m... (141 words)

How can I make him realise that his ex has something up her sleeve? I don't want to sound jealous or possessive.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - I think my boyfriends ex wife is trying to get back with him. I met my boyfriend 2 yrs ago when he had been asked to leave his family home by the police whom his exwife called when they were having an argument over their little girl and the fact that his ex wife had bitten ... (620 words)

How do I impress guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - heyy im 14 and a freshman in highschool i take the train to and from school i go to an all girls school. on the train home alot of guys from an all boy school get on i no some of them but not well how do i impress them? it is hard because im alone and there in groups o... (66 words)

I love him, but his ex is still a big part of his life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - hi, i have been seeing a guy for the past four months, everyhting was going great for the first month, then his ex got in contact with him telling him that she absolutely loves him and wants him back, he told me that he doesn't want her and that he's convinced that she only ... (365 words)

I asked if he's go back to his ex-he said 'probably' not! Why does this word 'probably' bother me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - I've been dating a guy for about a month now. It's been going really great but about 2 days ago he talked to is ex of maybe 6 months on msn. Supposedly they were not talking no more but out of the blue there she was. She just broke up with her boyfriend and was telling my ... (170 words)

Sex has waned between us..so why do I feel frustrated and inadequate, as a result?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (M) - cI am a musician(35) currently in a relationship with a woman, a circus performer(31) whom I have known for some time but only been going out with for 5 months. We met in a whirlwind kind of way, and I was completely swept off my feet, for the first time in years I felt in ... (640 words)

What attracts my boyfriend, vulnerability or nudity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for about 3 months and things have been going really well. Last night, though, I was a bit confused. We were lying in bed watching tv and started kissing, then he started to remove all my clothes, but he wouldn’t let me touch him or remove any ... (194 words)

What defines friendship from attraction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - I've never been able to have a friendship with any guy properly because I always become atttracted to them, or think I'm attracted to them. What defines friendship from attraction? Is it just the sexual stuff? How can I stop myself from repeatedly falling into this pattern?... (47 words)

Can my relationship still be saved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F)

- My ex and I have been broken up for almost 3 months now but we still remain friends. The reason we broke up is because he's battling depression and anxiety. He's finally going to start seeing a doctor for it. He told me last night on the phone that he does want a family one ... (124 words)

Does he expect me to chase him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - Right where to begin?, i really like this lad i have only really knew him for a month or so and well i slept with him last week! He seen me in the pub after and never spoke and then he txt me later and said sorry i dint speak everyone would start saying stuff anyway every time ... (125 words)

Does he actually want a relationship, or is it the sex he wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - Its been 2 months since my ex-bf broke up with me because of stress in the relationshp, space etc. We're still talking after that since he wants us to keep in touch and promised me that he'll come back to me when he finishes college (in 3 yrs). Thing is he's been asking me t... (251 words)

I've realised that the guy I am seeing I only feel for him as a friend what is the best way to deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - I have been seeing a guy in a long distance relationship for approximately 2 months now. However, in the last few weeks I have realised that my feelings for him are for nothing more than a friend, and I need to tell him this. He is a decent and kind, intelligent pers... (171 words)

He loves me, he loves me not! He changes his mind constantly...what is really going on with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - i was with this man for over 4 years and he was my first bf ever and the only person i have been with....even a kiss. at the moment i am 22 and he is 30. at two years into our relationship he cheated on me and i didnt wana give him a second chance. he wouldnt take no for an ... (727 words)

My son got a case of cold feet after being with her 10 years now she is due to re-marry and I want to wish her the best!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - my son called off his wedding 15months ago after being with his girlfriend for 10 years. A case of cold feet I think. He realised soon afterwards that he had made a mistake but she wouldn't have him back and she is now getting married to someone else in three weeks time. S... (120 words)

How can someone you know so well...hurt you so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F)

- I broke up with my husband coming up 12 weeks,ive been a complete wreck as i wasnt expecting it. I was prepared to try and work on our problems which to me were fixable but the major problem is I would like to have a family and he just isnt sure its what he wants. I thought ... (183 words)

What does having a great emotional connection indicate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (M) - hi everyone,if you and your girl have a great emotional connection what does that indicate?... (15 words)

He cheated and I'm trying to forgive him but he didn't call after I left him a note to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - Hi,my boyfriend cheated,im trying to forgive him and we are in the process of working things out again,yesterday was his birthday,i didn see him at all and i couldnt call him because he recently lost his phone,i went to his place in the morning thinking il catch him before he ... (141 words)

He has changed into not only a bad boyfriend but a truly evil person!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - I met my boyfriend in MD. Within 2 months time span we fell in love and he separated from the military and moved himself and I to where his family lives in AZ. Everything was perfect as we were trying to start a new life for ourselves. We've been here for about 6 months. ... (233 words)

He lives with another woman but promised he's come back. How long do I wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - i am 42 years old with two children. first child from my previous marriage. 8 years ago ( i was 34 ) i met a 24 year old guy. we have a child and is now 7 years old. we've lived together until last year when he started cheating and finally he moved out and lives with another ... (232 words)

I am having problems with my wife and the only thing that makes me happy is my lover!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

18 October 2006 (M) - Hi everyone: I (age 28) have been married for 3 years and never cheated on my wife before. 2 months ago, I kissed one of my co-workers who is 21 years old. AN unbelievable romance started with that kiss. I first started liking her and now we are madly in love with each other. ... (161 words)

Do you think this is the real him or should I look into getting him some help?

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18 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend, whom I live with, just recently started putting his hands on me for small nothing fights and calling me names and talking down to me. He wants to control all the money even though he says it is our "money". He says he acts like this because of depression. Do ... (74 words)

Why would you still have feelings for someone that cheated on you and hit you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (M) - Me and my gf just broke up 1 month 8 days ago. (im 21, she's 20) My life seems to be meaningless ever since she told me she has lost feelings for me... My life just isn't the same without her anymore, i have tried to forget her and concerntrate on my studies or go to the gym... (411 words)

He asked me to get rid of all my male friends when we got married but now he is taking womens number!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - Well I was looking in my husbands cell phone and found a female co-worker number in the phone and I asked him about it...he tells me it's just for them to keep in touch but why does he need to be friends with another women....he asked me to get rid of all my male friends when ... (87 words)

I'm not attracted to my boyfriend anymore and think this is why I can't orgasm with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - hi, I have trouble getting an orgasm. I always end up dessapointed. I think is because i'm not attracted to my boyfriend anymore. I broke up with him and there's this guy that works with me. A lot of my co workers told me that he likes me and that the first day he saw me he ... (237 words)

He was already in a relationship but said he wanted to be with me but when they split he didn't come to me and eventually went back to her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6607 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - Hi, ok me and this guy talked for a really long time even though he was already in a relationship. He told me that he wanted to be with me and he loved me, not long after he ended it with his girl. I thought that he would come to me but obviously that was the last thing on his ... (232 words)

My husbad had an affair with our 17 year old babysitter!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6608 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - my husband and i were married 2 years when he cheated on me with our 17 year old babysitter. this affair was on going 6 months before i found out. we went to marrage counciling to save our marrage. now almost 2 years later i still can not deal with what happened. and the... (171 words)

Should I ask him if he likes me more than a friend or...is the sex we have, just too convenient? Which is it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6609 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - Here goes...I have to give a little background with this so I am sorry if it is too long. I have known this guy since we were in highschool. Were really good friends through highschool and into college. Nothing romantic ever came about, but I always really liked him. Fa... (358 words)

We hardly ever have sex and when we do he has to drink first!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my partner now for almost 5 years. He was married for 23 years previously to meeting me, and says he never had this problem with her. Even from the start of our relationship (which we are married now for over a year and a half) we hardly ever have sex, and when ... (128 words)

I'm having an affair...I don't feel the same about my husband and never want to leave my lovers to go home!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

18 October 2006 (F) - I am married and im having an affair with a woman. we started out as friends then we became lovers. I dont know what to do our relationship started 18 months ago, i dont know if i should leave my husband. I've been married for 23 years lately i don't feel the same way about ... (78 words)

I still love her and want her but I don't just want to be a sex buddy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

18 October 2006 (M) - Hi, I have put myself in an interesting position and I'm not sure what to make of it. I am 31 years old and my ex is 30. We broke up about 2 months ago after a 2 and a half year relationship. Before breaking up, we hadn't has sex in a year...I know crazy, eh. She felt ... (365 words)

I'm crazy about this girl who's got a boyfriend and I don't know what to do!!!

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18 October 2006 (M) - i'm crazy about this girl who's got a boyfriend. and i know a part of her likes me and is interested in me too, but she's still with her guy. and i don't know what to do. i feel like i should wait to see how they turn out in order to be polite and respectful. but i also ... (131 words)