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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Ran into an old friend who told me I am his dream girl but I'm getting mixed messages!

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3 October 2006 (F) - I ran into an old friend from 3 years ago, and he told me I was his dream girl. Sometimes he doesn't call me though for days after I see him, whats going on?... (35 words)

My 26 year old BF lied and said he was 36 (I'm 41) - is this age difference the problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6651 days ago

3 October 2006 (F) - i am 41 years old, i am with a man 26 years old. When i met him he told me he was 36 and i believed him. A year down the line, through his actions, i worked out he was not 36. Anyway i feel he is not ready for a relationship or at least not with a mature woman. He gives tw... (132 words)

He isn't allowed to date and is moving away, how do I keep him close but not too close?

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3 October 2006 (F) - I'm in love with someone who is not allowed to date, or even consider dating for almost 2 years. I think he might like me, but I'm not completely sure. we have a lot in common, which for me, is rare. The big problem is that he'll be leaving soon and chances are, I'll never see ... (87 words)

He is chatting to other women online and looking at disgusting sites!

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3 October 2006 (?) - I met my partner 16 months ago and up until recently i thought we had a good relationship that was honest and open. About two months ago we brought the computer and he started to get obsessed with it. I realised that something was really wrong with our relationship when every ... (204 words)

Worried I'm going to shoot my load in seconds!

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3 October 2006 (M)

- I've started seeing a girl who I really fancy. I mean really, really fancy. Right up my street. My problem is this. We are going to screw very shortly, we've already been intimate. My worry is that I am going to shoot my load in a matter of seconds and or have a heart attack. ... (106 words)

I can orgasm through masturbation but I don't think I can during sex - it doesn't feel the same!

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3 October 2006 (F) - How do you know that you're having an orgasm? When having sex it feels really great but i don't seem to reach a definite point in which i reach an actual climax. It gets really good and them i sort of peak and it feels like i've had an orgasm. I am fine with having one when i ... (104 words)

How can I convince my Mum to let my BF stay while he sorts himself out?

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3 October 2006 (F) - My bf is going through a rough patch, and though our relationship is strong it is having an effect. He is unemployed and will be kicked out of his house soon for not being able to pay the rent. He's asked if there's a chance he can stay with me for a while and do chores e... (298 words)

I left horrible msgs on his phone thinking he was cheating, I was wrong, now he won't answer my calls!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6653 days ago

3 October 2006 (F) - Hi there. Friday night my man went out with the boys so when i called his house his brother told me he had gone out. I tried his mobile but it was not being replied. Next day he called to apologize. Saturday same thing happened ( i had missed his call so maybe he wanted ... (240 words)

I always thought we would get back together, but now she is engaged to someone else!

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3 October 2006 (M) - Help! My ex-fiancee and I have been broken up for the last 3 years. We still keep in touch, (both sides) and there is 100% a special deep connection (she agrees). I realize it is too length to mention all the particulars, but in a nutshell, I broke her heart, and I've ... (251 words)

I go on and off the pill - does this mess with your hormones?

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3 October 2006 (F) - I go on and off the pill! is this dangerous as it messes with your hormones or is it fine!?... (20 words)

My sister has big exams coming up and a new BF and I'm scared he will take her mind off her study!

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3 October 2006 (M)

- My sister has just started her A_Levels and she has also recently started going out with a boy who she was friends with to begin with. I'm worried she's going to mess up in her exams because she's in a relationship. I know what people will say, but not one person in my sixth ... (83 words)

The guy I like is engaged but he likes me - how do I get him to leave her for me?

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3 October 2006 (F) - I met this guy who was engaged and we were good mates. He told me wasn't happy with his girlfriend and didnt really want to marry her, he told me he really liked and kissed me said he couldnt leave her coz he will lose his house. I really like him alot and i know he likes me ... (82 words)

He left me because I couldn't let go of a past mistake he made, now I want him back!

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3 October 2006 (F) - My ex left almost 3 weeks ago - he had lived with me for 2 yrs. He said i pushed him away. Its hard b/c i work with him and see him everyday. I held on to a mistake he made when we first got together and i became insecure and jealous. I have now accepted it and have full tru... (88 words)

I was offended when this guy told me I had big breasts!

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3 October 2006 (F) - hi im 16 and i told my boy mate that i fancied one of his mates for a joke lol. and my boy mate went up to his mate and said will you go out with her? Then he said no cos it was all sorta like a joke between us. Then my boy mate asked another boy out for me just cos he likes ... (183 words)

What happened to the theory that males liked sex more than females? I like sex..a lot..so what's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6550 days ago

3 October 2006 (F)

- I think I want sex more than my b/f does. But I thought guys loved sex. What happened to that theory? Most of the time, if I make advances, my b/f turns me down, so I try to be patient and wait for him to call the shots but that seems one-sided to me. When we do have sex, ... (122 words)

I am a 14 year old boy and think I might be gay. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

3 October 2006 (M) - hi im am a 14 year old boy from kent i not sure if iam gay wot should i do because i fancey a boy in my class ... (28 words)

How can I stop being overly paranoid about my bf?

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3 October 2006 (F)

- Hey everyone My problem is that im being majorly over paranoid and im not sure what to do My bf is away at the moment and will be for roughly another 3 weeks He is great and sometimes sends me really sweet texts but if i dont here from hm i begin to worry Not sure what ... (154 words)

I like him but he already has a gf! How do I let him know how I feel?

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3 October 2006 (F) - I currently work with a great guy- friendly, easygoing, great manners, etc. I used to just be friendly with him but now my feelings for him have started to change, and I don't know what to do. The hitch is that one of my co-workers told me he has a live-in girlfriend. I think ... (149 words)

I am am so emotionally unstable lately..what is wrong with me?

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3 October 2006 (F)

- I don't know what's happening with me. I'm so emotionally unstable lately. I talked to my bf on the phone yesterday and he wasn't paying much attention to me so I decided not to say much. We did the whole silent thing for at least 30 minutes with an occassional "babe, are you ... (165 words)

I'm a lesbian and like 2 women at work! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

3 October 2006 (F) - I am in a predicament at work. Im a 17 and seem to like two friends. I am a flirt at work and flirt with all the women there (By the way… I’m a lesbian!) I started working there a year ago and found myself liking two women. Both are four years older than me and they have grown ... (552 words)

Update on the AdultfriendFinder fake account I set up to catch my cheatin' gf!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

3 October 2006 (M) - I've written on here before about setting up a fake AdultFriendFinder account to set up my girlfriend, and it worked, as sad as it is to say. She planned her whole day around meeting my alter ego, skipping class, getting something to wear, the whole 9 yards. When s... (193 words)

Can someone who has cheated repeatedly, be able to change? What should I do?

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3 October 2006 (F) - i am 25, my boyfriend of 2 years has just gone on i trip to dubai, the day he left i found out (by looking through his old phone) he has cheated on me not just once but many times and also uses escourts. I havent confronted him yet as he is away but even though i am angry and ... (96 words)

New relationships after long time out of the game... Is it worth it and do you have any tips for me?

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3 October 2006 (M)

- I'm in my late 20's, I've been single for around 2 years following a 5-year relationshp. Meantime I had a couple of flings but nothing serious. I have pretty much been content being single. I have met a number of really smashing girls recently one of whom I have embarked on... (205 words)

Hes a bad kisser, but I really like him, how do I tell him ??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

3 October 2006 (F)

- I've been going out with this guy for about a month now, and it started out fine. He's really nice, we get on well and have loads in common. But the problem is, he's a rubbish kisser. It's like he's trying to choke me with his tongue whilst simultaniously biting my lips off. I ... (112 words)

His ex gf hounds him a lot and now he's not sure about us! Should I just end this?

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3 October 2006 (F)

- I have been with partner for 14 months, before I met him,HE had been in a on/off relationship for 6 years with (S)3mth on/3off they tried livin tog for 1 year it didnt work,he left.that was four years ago and he has had three other short term relationships in between on /of ... (161 words)

I like the thought of being with another woman, but I like men! What should I do ?

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3 October 2006 (F)

- Hi I am a 23 year old women! I have watched Porn and i get really turned on when i see Two women together and i would not mind in tryin to be with a women for a nite! I like men! But i would really would like to see what it would feel like to be with a women! I am too... (85 words)

How do I shave it ?

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3 October 2006 (F)

- I want to shave my vagina but im not sure how to do it or anything...can anyone give me some advice?... (21 words)

He didnt remember our anniversary, when I told him he just acted like normal, and then went bed earlier than usual!!!!

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3 October 2006 (M)

- Do people normally make a special time of an anniversary? My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. I deemed it to be a very special day and put in a lot of effort. He had completely forgotton. I was okay with him forgetting as he's had a lot going on, but was imme... (87 words)

Ive been getting on with my ex really well, was thinking of doing something nice for our anniversary!!??

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3 October 2006 (M) - Me and my ex's annivesary is coming up. We have been getting a long really well lately, talking a lot and hanging out together just me and her for the first time in many months. She is dating a guy, but she started dating him right after we broke up, so it's probably just a ... (106 words)

Why has he started being so controlling ?

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3 October 2006 (F) - I am 22 yrs old, and my fiance is 39. Im white/indian, and he is black. Lately he has been very controlling, no talking on the phone, or seeing my male friends. What is his problem?... (36 words)

I miss the excitment in our relationship, how can we get it back ?

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3 October 2006 (F) - hi...i really don't understand what has been happening to my realtionship lately..but it just seems like the flame is dying. i am in love with him but i want him to just slam me aganist a wall or something or bring me roses out of the blue. how do i hint this to him without ... (73 words)

Why does my husband tell his mother everything?

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3 October 2006 (F) - My husband talks to his mother about our problems first and does what she says. He tells her all negative things about me and now i fell she dislikes me.... (31 words)

My ex wants me back.I forgive him for cheating, but I can never forget.

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3 October 2006 (F) - My ex bf sort of cheated on me ONCE. He had a good explanation for what happened so it only appeared less cheating and just lying. The thing is he broke up with me, but now wants me back, and he is willing to do everything to make me trust him again. I really love him an... (192 words)

After me and my gf broke up, I feel like my life is falling apart. Please give me some advice.

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3 October 2006 (M) - Hey guys, My life is slowly falling apart, i'm depressed and really don't know what to do from here, hope u guys can give me some advice... I just broke up with my gf of 2 years, im 22, shes 21. She says she lost feelings for me, that her feelings for me just went away like t... (369 words)

How can I move forward after my relationship ended? What should I do?

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3 October 2006 (M) - Please help me think straight. Myself and my Girlfriend broke up 2 weeks ago - i moved to my mothers, she moved to friends and then back to the home. She decided it was time to end the relationship because the 'spark' had gone - We have seeing each other for 7 years and we ... (774 words)

How can I break the ice and get chatting with my ex again?

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3 October 2006 (F) - I have recently split from my boyfriend over a stupid drunken arguement. Needless to say i really want to get back together with him but don't even know where to begin. We are barely talking at the moment which is really difficult as we live in the same town and share the sa... (100 words)

My girl cheated, I really love her! Was it really a genuine mistake ?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6449 days ago

3 October 2006 (M) - My girlfriend has cheated on me and I dont know what to do coz I luv her and I cant let go despite what she has done. She says she luvs me and she does not want this to end thats whats confusing me. my question, can one cheat on someone you really luv? What are the chances that ... (76 words)

Shes been having an affair for the last 6 months, shes also continually having a go, I feel so worthless, please help!!

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3 October 2006 (M) - for the past 6 mths my wife has been having an affair, she has now left her boyfriend,and says she wants to be with me,i feel like im being used!! after going away for the weekend together hotel shopping etc,,she has turned around and said to me that i had STOLEN HER MONEY ,w... (204 words)

Im really scared of being on my own, I want someone to love me and me love them for keeps!

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3 October 2006 (F) - I just need someone who can love me and care for me.Well where do i start,i left home 18 and set up home with my boyfriend,the relationship was very rocky but i carried on.five years down the line i had a baby girl unplanned but i was over the moon,i dovoted my life to the ... (340 words)

My so called friend is very manipulative and is now up to tricks again! Should I tell her man exactly what shes up to ??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6610 days ago

3 October 2006 (F) - I need help in deciding what I need do about my friend. My friend, 25 years old, I'll call her SAMMIE, is a very manipulative girl. I don't mean to sound judgmental. Infact, I don't want anything about her to bother me... but it does. And I don't know how to deal with this. I'm ... (306 words)

Im 20 and have feelings for the guy who was my teacher at 14, I havent seen him since, but I do love him!

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3 October 2006 (F) - dear cupid i am 20 i met this guy when i was 14.he was my teacher.he only worked in my school for one year so i have not seen him since.He must be around 30 now.Trouble is i have fallen in love with him.it sounds stupid obviously nothing ever happened between us.i have not seen... (85 words)

Would it still be okay for me to be a virgin at 25 ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6648 days ago

3 October 2006 (F) - Me and my friend were talkin the other day(we are both girls) and she said how long do you think you'll be a virgin for and i said until i'm like 25 and she goes you wont last that long. So I'd like to know if it OK to be a virgin till then.... (54 words)

He constantly accuses me of lying and it simply isnt true!!

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3 October 2006 (F) - my partner constantly accuses me of lying which causes me to hurt quite painfuly as i hate lies and everybody whom knows me would say im so truthful i can offend without purposly knowing but atleast you know where you stand with me,and im respected more by this.... (48 words)

I think ive grown out of my partner and have thoughts all the time for someone else!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

3 October 2006 (F) - i've been in a long relationship but think i've out grown my partner! i've met someone else who recently started work with me.(i'll call him X) it was very much an instant attraction and it has led to much more to the point X is all i want! but X is married with child!! X tell... (111 words)

Ive tried including myself in his porn antics, but he still doesnt have a healthy sex life with me and im feeling very down!!

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3 October 2006 (F) - I'm (usually) a very happily married, middle aged woman (my husband is about a decade older than I); we're both highly educated and very open and liberal in our sexual relationship. I do anything he asks, suggest things I think he'd like but won't ask (many well outside the ... (402 words)

I keep having really bad dreams!!

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3 October 2006 (F) - ne1 awake? keep having really bad dreams and i need cheering up.i just awoke in a cold sweat again any words of wisdom?my dreams r of nuclear bombs going off wierd i know but they scare the life out of me!... (41 words)

I think is is bored during sex, is it what Im eating ?? what can I do to change it ?

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3 October 2006 (F) - i have been with my bf for 4 years and we enjoy sex together.. but sometimes i don't cum too much and i think he gets bored.. maybe you could help me please.. why i'm having that problem.. is it the food i eat or anything..please help me... I want him to be more excited.. ... (57 words)

Did he only come back because the grass wasnt greener ??

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3 October 2006 (F) - my boyfriend left me for another girl but now hes back does he like me or hes just back because it went bad ?... (24 words)

Hes angry and feels that because I moved back home Im taking away his baby!!

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3 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I are going to have a baby. He and I live about 4 hrs apart. I moved in with him so we could be together and he had a good job. I missed my home and family too much so about a month after I left I came back home. He is mad because I want to have the baby in ... (186 words)

I didnt think I would ever see him again, and still care but dont know how to approach or tell him about all thats happend!

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3 October 2006 (F) - Can a long-distance relationship last for FOUR years....or more??? Hi I have a problem.....which I was wondering whether I could ask your advice on. Can you possibly offer me any advice?I am nowyears old but i have got myself into the most horrible situation of whic... (1208 words)

Should I be mad that he slept with his ex before we dated ??

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3 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I were pretty close before we dated. We didn't have sex but did other stuff. We were at college and we were leaving for a holiday. I told him to do whatever he wanted I didn't want to stop him. He said he wasn't going to do anything. He ended up sleeping ... (148 words)

My GF claims Im holding on to the past and I treat her as more of a "Gal-Pal" Could I be holding on to my ex ?

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3 October 2006 (M)

- Three years ago I went though a bad break up with my live-in girlfriend, that left me financially broke (she took everything) and emotionally bankrupt. I tried desperately to get her back. I kept in contact with her and her three small children, even sending them birthday ... (448 words)

The girl I like is moving to Australia...to be with another guy! What should I do?

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3 October 2006 (M) - I met a girl last week and really want things to go far. The only problem is that she is going to work in Australia for a few months. I have also heard from her flat mate she is going there to be with someone else. I really dont know what to do.... (53 words)

Is losing your virginity as bad as people say??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

3 October 2006 (F) - is losing your virginity as bad as alot of people say??? i am a virgin and the things people say extremely puts me off sex, but i really hate been a virgin at 17!!! ... (34 words)