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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Her new bf and her seem so mismatched! I would love to get back together with her..think she and I will have a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6634 days ago

22 October 2006 (M) - I'm still in love with my ex girlfriend and we hang out on occasion even though she has a boyfriend and has for like 8 months or so (I still think he's a rebound). We get along great when we hang out and laugh and joke and give eachother long hugs when we say goodbye (at first ... (324 words)

She just graduated and I'm still in high school. Should I date her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

22 October 2006 (M) - is it okay for a 16 year old guy who's still in highschool to date a 18 year old girl that just finished highschool?... (24 words)

We slept together and I really like him but we don't want to hurt our friend who likes him too!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6633 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - i have just started uni and made some quite good friends.most of the group i am with travel to uni every day exept me and one lad over the last 5 weeks we have become realy good mates.and on thursday we ended up sleeping together.now i dont no what to do as i cant stop thinking ... (173 words)

Why would he plan his bithday party and not want his gf (me) to attend it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of a month was organising his birthday and planned to have a meal with his family/friends followed by the younger ones going out to a night club afterwards. When he said to me a few days before his do ‘I’m not sure when I will see you again’ I assumed that it was ... (840 words)

The age old question...What Is Love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - what is love... (3 words)

What kind of teasing do boys do when they fancy you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6634 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - hiya i wanna know if this boy fancies me, he brushes past me delibratly in the corridor, he pokes my cheek for some reason hehe when i pass him, he teases me constently (by the way what kind of teasing do boys do when they fancy you???) ... (49 words)

Jack or Max?? Which one do I risk my future with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6635 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend Max for 4 years now. I've always thought he was the one I was going to marry and I've never thought of anyone else in that way since we got together. but recently I've started to have feelings for my old friend jack. Jack is leaving for Iraq in ... (107 words)

He doesn't love me but I want him back. How can I do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - i was wit my bf 4 6 months, he told me he wants to single n dosent love me anymore but i really want him back,he still texts me and i know i could make him want me again,but how????please write back to tell me wat i should do n say wen i c him,guide me xxxx... (57 words)

How do I let him know I want to date him with being in his face? Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6635 days ago

22 October 2006 (F)

- Any advise how to get things moving a bit without being too in your face. I really like this guy been talking to him online for about 3 weeks and i've met him once before. We hugged a few times and talked for about 3 minutes before i had to go. As i left in the car he winked at ... (118 words)

When he fingered me..he missed the right hole and it hurt, badly. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - bit embarrising but i must ask lol i got fingered the other day by my boyfriend (for the first time) and it didnt hert really, but i happend last night again and it hert!! :S but this was because he like "poked" slightly lower than the hole lol is it normal tho hert lower down ... (56 words)

How do I stop from flirting/cheating with others when my bf is away? Advice needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - at school i was always the ugly girl and i had really bad spots, i never got any attention from the boys. when i was 16 i met someone and i love him dearly we have been together almost 3years now. as i have grown older i seemed to have got prettier, im not stunning but im not ... (171 words)

Why is it that the women I try to talk to..are so cold and rude to me? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

22 October 2006 (M)

- why is it that i find that many girls are so cold towards me...can someone ( preferably female) tell me if these scenarios are normal ? 1)I like to say hi or smile to girls in the street, but they rudely walk by without saying hi back. 2)Or if i hold doors open for women, ... (159 words)

With a new baby and back to work fulltime...my partner is doing nothing to help! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6635 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - I have recently returned to work after having a baby, I was pleased to get back to work and am lucky to have a wonderful childminder. However I have now found that I am a fulltime worker and housewife, my partner does nothing to help me and it is realy starting to get me down. ... (114 words)

I like her and she doesn't like me! Any tips on how I can stop liking her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

22 October 2006 (M) - please help. Im 16 and i like this girl but i really don't want to! i don't want to like her because i no that she doesn't like me that way so there is no point in liking her otherwise i will just get hurt. Can someone please help me and i mean it it is really geting on my ... (69 words)

Not sexually active but my bf is making plans for us to do things, next weekendI am scared!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - i am 17 years old, i am not sexually active yet, however my boyfriend has invited me round to his next weekend...and i think he is planning for things to happen which i want but im worried! i dont know wat im doing! Will it hurt getting fingered etc...? ... (49 words)

Do you think she's being shy with me or is she not interested? Any opinions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6635 days ago

22 October 2006 (M) - I met a cute girl in class about 2 weeks ago. I had checked her out since day one of course but the teacher finally put us together. This was a Monday. I finally got to know her name but I was SHY. I listed her as a friend on facebook (College networking site) and we ... (515 words)

My relationship with my ex has caused me to become cyncial and mistrustful! Is this normal and will I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

22 October 2006 (F)

- i need some advice i just broke up with my boyfriend he's being very depressed and changed alot when he dumped me it was like we didnt even know each other now thats fine ive accepted its over hes not the person i wanted to be with anymore. basically im only 21 but lifes be... (274 words)

I'm 15 and don't like hugging anyone except the guy I have a crush on! Why am I this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - hi im a 15 year old and first question: all my mates at school hug ppl. basically if they see their boy mates they hug them to say hello. my boy mates hug me sometimes to say hello to me as well but i just dont really like it. i mean i dont mind, but i dont feel as though i ... (260 words)

Invited to two parties! Which one do I choose?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

22 October 2006 (M) - hey, about 2 or 3 weeks ago i was invited to a girls halloween party and i said i would go... but yesterday i found out that my best friend was having a party on the same day for his birthday. what should i do?... im going to have to pick one but i don't no which. Please help ... (75 words)

I left him and now I regret what happened...but he won't have me back! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

22 October 2006 (M) - I have a problem that I hope some of you can help with. I have been seeing a guy for over a year and a half now. We went through alot together, job changes, travelling, graduations etc, and loved each other dearly. About 5 weeks ago, I told him that I had enough. You see, I ... (384 words)

I get overly emotional after we spend time together!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

22 October 2006 (F)

- Hi, This is probably nothing something silly, but whenever i stay at my boyfriends house or have an intense, intimate evening/day with him. I cant help getting emotional. For example last night I was really close to him and I just burst into tears and this has happened... (188 words)

He doesn't want to be with me but he doesn't want anyone else to have me!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - I want to get back with my ex boyfriend (lets call him S). We're good friends and we have sex, but he's made it clear that he want's to be single for a while, and doesn't know for how long. He wanted me to be exclusive to him because he got incredibly jealous of some guy that I ... (549 words)

I'm eating loads but losing weight and my hair is falling out more than normal!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - I need help.. I have no idea what to do... I have notice that I have lost a lot of weight even though I'm still eating lots? My hair is also falling out- more than normal... but I'm only 17 years of age... what’s going? I'm scared! xx ... (53 words)

I keep trying on my wife's underwear!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

22 October 2006 (M) - Hello, I'm wondering if i could have some advice. It's quite unusual and I don't want to talk to my family about it because I fear they won't accept it. I have been married for 16 years to a woman I love very much. I don't want her to find out but I keep trying on her und... (153 words)

I went out with some friends now I'm getting emails from a guy that says he danced with me that night!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - I sometimes go out clubbing on a friday /saturday night with 1 of my friends, but anyway i recieved an email back a few days ago and it said " i danced with u in town one night" from a male from the singles who click site. And i dont know this person at all and so im wondering ... (92 words)

I need some tips on what he is wanting me to do for him!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6633 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - hi! my husband prefers to have handjobs without me retracting his foreskin i am not sure how to do this and he wants to ejaculate over my breasts. i want to do this for him but how?... (40 words)

I've resenting found out he has registered on a site to meet a shemale!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6275 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - I have been married for 3 years and have two young children. We have a very happy marriage and I know that my husband loves me however i have recently discovered that he has been registering on certain websites in order to meet a 'shemale'. Having accidentally discovering this ... (240 words)

My husband works away and he's just informed me that he is having an affair!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6629 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - Hi my husband of 11 years has just informed me he is having an affair with a woman where he works, he works out of the country and has done for the last 2 and half years, he is away for 6 weeks at a time and only home for 2 weeks. I think the affair started because he got ... (136 words)

I can't keep friends or boyfriends and all I want is someone to be a real friend to me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - i feel like everything in my life was misirable, ever since i never get love from my own parents and this maybe the reason im always longing an attention from others, boyfriend that i thought would work but its look like im not lucky. i tried to get it from friends but still i ... (163 words)

I have nowhere to go and no money yet my partner is violent I don't know what to do!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

22 October 2006 (M) - hi i feel stupid doing this but need to tell someone, im living with a woman who i met about ten year ago she has 3 children ,ever since i met her she has been voilent towards me just last night she attact me with a knife and smashed a plate over my head reulting in aa 2 inch ... (173 words)

Every girl I've been involved with continues to be in contact with their ex...why??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

22 October 2006 (M) - I've always have this problem in my relationship. Why do girls Always keep in contact with their ex's? Even when they are in a relationship with someone they would still always hang outwith their ex. I'm not saying every girl does that, but alot do... I mean, why are they sti... (290 words)

He is everything I look for in a man but I'm not attracted to him!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6635 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - Hello, I have a bit of a problem. There is a man I've been friends with for a very long time, there has always been that "relationship" aspect of it, and it's become more apparent. His personality suits me well, most of the things that I look for in a husband are in him, bu... (151 words)

She got her period but could she still be pregnant??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 October 2006 (M) - hey, me and my girlfriend had sex, about 3 weeks ago, and she got her period a few days after.. but she complains about her stomach hurting and thinks it's getting bigger...can she be pregnant...i've read up, and heard it is next to impossible to get pregnant after you've had ... (58 words)

Do men need to ejaculate after being aroused???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - After fooling around, meaning no sex, my boyfriend always wants me to give him a handjob. he says that sperm have gone into his penis and it hurts if not relieved meaning he has to cum. so my question is do men need to ejaculate after being aroused/having an erection or it ... (55 words)

I really try to make this relationship work is it really worth it??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - I really dunno y this keep happening to me.i try to make this relationship work , i work really hard i have never ever complained but he never seem to understand me.is it really worth it? if he leaves me i have literally no where to go and he knows it too. what should i do?... (56 words)

When we are together I don't like her but when we are apart I can't stop thinking about her!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6634 days ago

22 October 2006 (M)

- I dated a girl about a year ago. We dated for about a month then she broke up with me. I didn't learn till about four months later that she thought we were going to fast and that she liked me still. Instead of fogiving her I ended up going out with another girl. I like this ... (257 words)

Will he come back after walking out on me???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - Is it most likely for my ex boyfriend to come back wanting me after he walked out on me?... (19 words)

He dropped off two dozen red rose for everyone at work but he doesn't have much to do with anyone but me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - I work at a tanning salon and i've became pretty friendly with customers and got to know a lot. One customer, is very sweet and loves to talk to me, and helps me when i need advice, and the other day i went to get my paycheck and he walked in and we said hey whats up and then ... (148 words)

I trust her and know she loves me but will the situation cause her to be tempted to someone else???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

22 October 2006 (M)

- Hi, I am asking this question to help my own mind about this, and I'd love any ideas! My girlfriend who i trust has gone to Mexico with her girlfriend(who is in love with someone). It is a company trip with 40 people at a 5 star resort. I didn't complain, as i do trust her, ... (198 words)

We never have anything to talk about!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - we never have anything to talk about.... is that a bad thing???... (12 words)

He has a girlfriend but says he doesn't want a real relationship!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6634 days ago

22 October 2006 (M) - Ithought that I was messing with a boy because we were meesing but yesterday I faund out that he was going out with a girl. The thing is that he told me that he didn't want a real relaishionship put yet, he is going out with her. He wouln't kiss me infront of no one exsept for ... (107 words)

I woke up in the middle of the night to find him texting his ex girlfriend!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - My name is Amanda and I just left my husband after 9 1/2 years.I was talking to another man but wasn't having anything sexual with him intill me an my husband split up.I am growing closer to this man.He is going threw alot2,he just left his girlfriend.She got pregnant by ... (185 words)

I still love him but he doesn't feel the same...since we split I have noone and I'm failing everything!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - i'm 17 and eversince my bf of a year broke up with me 2 months ago, my life has went downhill. i've flunked all my tests because i don't get the urge to study, i have no inspiration now that he's gone.(i was a high school valedictorian!) i've turned into this bad girl, ... (247 words)

His penis won't stay hard

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - Why every time we try to have sex his penis won't stay hard?... (13 words)

She says she is not the type of person that has affairs

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - Any help would be appreciated. I am in love with my best friend, who is a woman and a lesbian She is in a relationship but is very unhappy. I was recently in a relationship but have broken up. I have known her for 7 years and we are very close. I think she fancies me but I... (108 words)