I want to wait, but his sex drive is becomming a problem
Q. Okay so I have a really weird situation. My boyfriend and I have been going together for about a month and I am head over heels for him. It was basically love at first sight (and I didn't believe in that until him). However, I am still a virgin ...
A. 3 April 2010: Sorry to hear that. I hope that you will get over it quickly and start a new chapter in your life.... (read in full...)
He calls me his "woman" but he wont call me his "girlfriend"
Q. I have been seeing a guy for a little over a month. I have known hi for two years prior to dating as we are in our doctoral program together. Since our first date we have spent every day and night together except three. We text all day from wor...
A. 8 March 2010: His woman or his g/f ? Do they mean the same thing ?
It could mean different things to different persons and subject to different interpretations.
I feel that his woman has a higher status than his g/f. His woman ,means that he has unofficia... (read in full...)
My parents have rules but my boyfriend thinks I am treated unfairly
Q. So I have a curfew. Tonight was my boyfriends birthday, so I went out. I told my parents I would be home by one, not knowing if that would happen or not. My boyfriend knows my parents are strict too, and that I had to be home. So, Im at the party ...
A. 7 March 2010: Don't worry or be sad over such episodes in your life. It is just one of those things . It is not an earth shattering issue.
You have made a mistake and next time try to keep your promise to your parents. Next time tell them that you will be late ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my boss's wife
Q. I'm 29 yrs old unmarried female. My plight is that I wanted to be in good books of my boss so, for that I became friendly with his wife. We became good friends but, over the period of time I realised that I liked her a bit more and we got into ...
A. 7 March 2010: In your Muslim country , a man can marry 4 wives. Have you thought of being his wife and it will make your case stronger and legally right.
Otherwise , you should walk away because if you are found out , you will suffer the terrible conseque... (read in full...)
I want to let my teacher know I am in love with him
Q. I'm really into my floral teacher from my 4th period class,and I'm actually planning at some point,to get him to notice me. Ok first, I understand that it's illegal, not because I'm underage, cause I'm 19 and he's 25, but because its against ...
A. 7 March 2010: Thanks hkchick for viewing that article and I have given my reply below your comments.... (read in full...)
My ex has a girlfriend but they always fight. And he says he loves me. What should I do?
Q. My ex bf keeps telling me that he wants to marry me and have me in his future and that he loves me and everything however he has a girl friend that he says he loves too but they always fight. What should i do about this situation?...
A. 7 March 2010: Your ex b/f is also your best friend ! This is a peculiar situation. You can still have an ex b/f as your best friend.
If you are still friends with him , it means that your love is still on or you were not in love with him at all.
You hav... (read in full...)
We've been dating for 8 months but never met
Q. I have been dating someone for around 8 months and met them online about a year ago. We haven't met yet and it is starting to worry me. We talk every day for hours, so there is that human connection, but as time goes on and I fall for them more and ...
A. 7 March 2010: To be in love is to be vulnerable .
If you are scared of pain , you can never be truly in love.
Give your all if you think you truly love that person .
Half hearted love will never win any heart.
You should meet her if you want to go up anothe... (read in full...)
She's out of my league. Does she want to be more than friends?
Q. This girl I know is way out of my league. Everybody thinks she is seriously hot. I have noticed her staring at me a lot. When I look over she laughs. It's usually because I'm doing something stupid, but I do notice her staring at me al...
A. 7 March 2010: You are feeling intimidated by her beauty. She maybe the most beautiful and gorgeous girl in the world but she is also a human being and have faults and weaknesses too.
Not all attractive women are shallow or judgmental . You need to see what's i... (read in full...)
Sexually frustrated virgin!
Q. Sorry this is so long but I really need help! (and to vent!) I am a healthy, slim, attractive girl in her mid twenties. I have been with my fiance for two years now and everything is great but the only problem is that he will not have sex with me...
A. 7 March 2010: I think your fiance have a fear of getting you pregnant or he has commitment problems.
Two years is sufficient time to tie the knot unless he has solid reasons not to.
You should give him a time frame otherwise you will be in a timeless black h... (read in full...)
My wife has a hidden PO Box and massive debt
Q. What do you do when you find out that your spouse of thirty years has a private post office box and over 47 thousand dollars in credit card bills? When I asked her about them she said I did not give her enough grocery money. However, I told her ...
A. 7 March 2010: Are you liable for her credit card debts? If you are, there is no running away from them even though you left her.
You could cancel all her credit cards , get a personal loan to pay for those credit card debts.
The chickens have come home t... (read in full...)
He wants to have a baby and forced me to have unprotected sex
Q. hello, im writing here because i have a problem with my boyfriend. i am about to turn 16 in a few weeks and he will be 20 in a few months. everything started off great,we`ve been together 4 months, but last night we were talking about our futures ...
A. 7 March 2010: Quickly go to your doctor or pharmacist to get the morning after pill which is effective for 60 hours. The earlier you take ,the more effective it will be.
Your b/f has crossed the line and you should stop seeing him. Having babies is not a one si... (read in full...)
An older girl just wont back off from my boyfriend
Q. im an 8th grade girl who is currently dating an11th grade guy in my school. Ive known him since 2008.we stared dating in the begining of february and hes relationships usually last even though hes a playa. He flirts alot with girls older than me and ...
A. 7 March 2010: The ship has sailed. It is time to move on .You could fight for him but will it be worth it ?
From the look of things, he has given you up. Time to meet new friends and enjoy your new life.... (read in full...)
How can I learn to ignore how other woman look and what my boyfriend thinks of them?
Q. I'm not a very attractive female. I'm 21 years old and I guess nature wasn't too kind with me when I was created, lol. It's not a weight issue. I have a healthy BMI. I won't get into details. But my face isn't attractive. And it's not like I can get ...
A. 7 March 2010: Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder. If there is love, everything is beautiful. It is love that makes a woman beautiful.
Every person is unique and special and you simply cannot compare beauty because beauty is abstract .
I would rather loo... (read in full...)
I'm stuck because I'm scared he'll hurt himself if I leave
Q. I having been married to my alcoholic depressed husband for almost 14 years. We have two children, hefty debt, and he has lost 3 jobs in 3 years. He refuses to get proper help ( he was in and out of AA). He doesn't drink everyday, but when he does ...
A. 7 March 2010: Domestic violence and abuse are used for one purpose and one purpose only: to gain and maintain total control over you.
An abuser doesn’t “play fair.” Abusers use fear, guilt, shame, and intimidation to wear you down and keep you under their th... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and now really sick. I can't work, but my finacee says he no longer wants to support or marry me.
Q. I am 3 months pregnant. Since I have been pregnant I have been very ill and unable to work as much as usual. I have found this very frustrating as I like to be financially independent. I have been with my faience for 6 years, and since I have been ...
A. 7 March 2010: You could call pregnancy counseling for help . Your husband is inhuman and very mean and he has no more love for you .
You should try to seek help from his mental and emotional abuse.
Have you thought about moving back to your parents place ? ... (read in full...)
I like him but he's confusing me with his back and forth
Q. there is this guy i really like but i bearly know him , he is new to my 6th form and he is the best looking guy i have ever seen in my life!! but he seems really weird and acts like he don't like me, but keeps comming up to me telling me that he ...
A. 7 March 2010: He is practicing reversed psychology on you . Outside , he wants to act cool and feign uninterested while inside he is interested to know more about you.
Maybe , he has got a split personality like Dr.Jekyll and Mr.Hyde.... (read in full...)
I told him I like him, so why wont he say it back?
Q. I have this guy friend who never tells me how he feels and I always tell him. I've been really sick lately. So I don't feel like talking to him? But he never seems to talk to me anymore. I tackled him oneday to give him a back hug and he smiled big. ...
A. 6 March 2010: Maybe , he does not know how to handle you and he is afraid of hurting you .Furthermore, he could not verbalize his thoughts and hence, he acts nonchalantly.... (read in full...)
I don't understand why she would prefer to watch TV than have sex
Q. I've been with my gf since dec of 08. We had sex before we got together and and after only 2 weeks knowing each other. I love her dearly but lately we don't have sex like used to and as much. I always was the one givng the hints for sex then we ...
A. 6 March 2010: You could be flexible a bit and choose another time .She may not be in the mood for love due to some reasons.
Maybe, you need to be more attentive to her , compliment her more and do not criticize or complain about her.
During the world cup fo... (read in full...)
How do I win him back with this girl around?
Q. i really want to be with him back. the reason why we havent been meeting for three weeks is that the last time we met, i got really jealous and told him how much it hurt me to see him texting girls every night. although i was convinced that theyre j...
A. 6 March 2010: To win him back , you need to do more. More love, more understandings, more givings , more compassion's and kindness.You need to do better than the other girl.... (read in full...)
How can I get my kids back?
Q. ok so i have kind of alot of question. i am going thru alot right now and i just want some advise if u know what i should do .. i was in a 5 year relationship and now i have 2 kids but the we were never married or living together althoug. since my...
A. 6 March 2010: I think you should talk to her first before you go to the lawyer.
Discuss with her about the children's future .It would be good if you can come to an amicable solution to that problem.
Going to the lawyers would be a costly and long drawn o... (read in full...)
I am in love with my friend's mom, how can I seduce her?
Q. I know this is going to sound wrong but I need your help. I’m 16 years old and a sophomore living in CT. I’m in love with my friends mom who is 45. I know this sounds wrong but I’m really in Love with her. She’s beautiful, smart, wise and funny. ...
A. 6 March 2010: You are not in love with your friend's mom . What you call love is in fact LUST!!.You want to seduce her and have sex with her. That is not love.
At 16, you don't really know what love is. Your love is either infatuations or puppy love .... (read in full...)
Is my teacher into me?
Q. well i feel like an idiot for asking this just because it's probably nothing but i'd like to know regardless... so anyway here's my question, so i kind of have a crush on my teacher, he's in his 20's but literally passes as a student. he's adorable...
A. 6 March 2010: You are looking at him through rose tinted glasses and everything about him is sweet and fragrant.
Teachers are being trained to watch out for such love traps.They are just being decent, friendly and helpful and this could be misunder... (read in full...)
How should I deal with paying the mortgage in my marriage?
Q. in a marriage should the man pay the mortgage? how do you feel about it is are hous we split the mortgage...
A. 6 March 2010: Depending on the circumstance and other factors .
Normally , it is expected of the man to pay the mortgage . Both of them can discuss this issue and come to a compromise.
There are no hard and fast rules. Rather it should be a consensus . ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a cheater who is accusing me of cheating. What do I do?
Q. Ok i've been dating this guy for 11 months now. He's 18 i'm 15. He's about to graduate and boy is that driving me crazy. But he cheated on me awhile back and i'm doing better with trusting him, but now he's all worried that i'm cheating on him?? I ...
A. 6 March 2010: Love must be blind.
You better opened your eyes wide and see what he is or you will regret it big time.... (read in full...)
She doesn't want a relationship until we are in our twenties. What should I do?
Q. I know this may seem very... Immature... But i find myself thinking about this girl ALOT! And the thing that makes her unique is that... I have had girlfriends in the past and i have been able to say what i want or mean to them, and also act how...
A. 6 March 2010: Those are just sugar coated words or excuses that she only views you as a friend for now.You are not her prince charming .
If you are meant for each other , your destiny will meet again.
Move on and go catch other fish in the ocean.... (read in full...)
She won't tell anyone about our relationship until it improves. But it can't improve because I am unhappy she won't tell anyone!
Q. OK, me and my girlfriend been dating for 3 years. The only thing is that no one, not her friends or parents know we are dating. Thats the way she wants it. This situation makes me unhappy and we end up argueing over it. The arguments make h...
A. 6 March 2010: She feels insecure when there is nothing to bind you together. She is careful about her reputations and thus do not want others to know that she is dating you .
Unless you can give her some form of security like an engagement or a proposal... (read in full...)
What does he mean by hanging out?
Q. i asked my ex boyfriend if he sees us being together in the future and i meant me being his girl and he said yes hanging out. So what does that mean?...
A. 6 March 2010: For the moment , it is just friends and it is anybody's guess as to what will happen in the future.
If you are hoping that he will change his mind and accept you back, there is still a chance.
It is up to you whether you still want to go for i... (read in full...)
What he said to me makes me fell bad about myself
Q. Here is my question...i am a down to earth laid back country girl, and the last guy that i dated tried to change a few things about me before we broke up and he made me feel bad about myself. Now when a guy ask me for my number or flirts with me the ...
A. 6 March 2010: You have low self esteem, low self image and low self confidence.No thanks to your ex b/f who abused you .
You need to change your image and grow some confidence and self esteem. You can Google for those tips on how to increase your self esteem a... (read in full...)
I want to wait, but his sex drive is becomming a problem
Q. Okay so I have a really weird situation. My boyfriend and I have been going together for about a month and I am head over heels for him. It was basically love at first sight (and I didn't believe in that until him). However, I am still a virgin ...
A. 6 March 2010: He could always seek self release and making you feel guilty is wrong. He should not pressure you into sex.
You should not venture there as you cannot predict what will happen and he may one day lose control and force it upon you.Do not tempt hi... (read in full...)
Girlfriend nervous with anything sexual.
Q. I am 14 and my girl is 13 and she is scared to even look at me when i take my shirt off and we have only kissed but she is nerves about sex what do i do? ...
A. 6 March 2010: You are both too young and she not ready yet.Do you understand what sex means and what if she is pregnant? Can you handle that ?... (read in full...)
I want to let my teacher know I am in love with him
Q. I'm really into my floral teacher from my 4th period class,and I'm actually planning at some point,to get him to notice me. Ok first, I understand that it's illegal, not because I'm underage, cause I'm 19 and he's 25, but because its against ...
A. 6 March 2010: I wrote an article on my site and you could go there and read it . It may help you to understand your problems.
http://laura1318.wordpress.com/2008/01/03/help-i-am-falling-in-love-with-my-teacher/... (read in full...)
Is the friend the reason our relationship crumbled???
Q. i went out with my boyfriend for 5 months it was brilliant for the first month and everything was going really well until i met his friend, his friend started ringing me every night and i stupidly ended up talking to his friend rather then my ...
A. 6 March 2010: If you want him back , you should cut off all contacts with his friend and try to get back into his world.
Try to keep your communications lines open.
If he does not respond, you will have to move on .
If you want to know the truth , you ... (read in full...)
We're trying to work it out, but his Facebook status isn't helping
Q. My husband and I were seperated....We are trying to work things out and have been back together for about 2 months. His facebook status is its complicated.Im upset because we are trying to work things out so he should change it am I right???? Its ...
A. 6 March 2010: Don't split hairs on minor issues. Don't miss the forests for the trees.
Don't focused on the minor details or intricacies of something that you miss the big picture or the main point.
It can be complicated to a man and that is his honest op... (read in full...)
I want to let my teacher know I am in love with him
Q. I'm really into my floral teacher from my 4th period class,and I'm actually planning at some point,to get him to notice me. Ok first, I understand that it's illegal, not because I'm underage, cause I'm 19 and he's 25, but because its against ...
A. 6 March 2010: Sometimes , there are things which are better left unsaid because, once when the cat is let out of the bag, the magic maybe gone and you find that the situation will changed.
You may mean well but that person may take it in another way and may ... (read in full...)
My ex has a girlfriend but they always fight. And he says he loves me. What should I do?
Q. My ex bf keeps telling me that he wants to marry me and have me in his future and that he loves me and everything however he has a girl friend that he says he loves too but they always fight. What should i do about this situation?...
A. 6 March 2010: Do you believe and trust what he tells you ?
How can he love you and want to marry you when he loves another girl?
Don't listen to empty promises.
He has to decide and choose either you or that girl and not both.
Until then have nothing... (read in full...)
Why are parents happy when a son loses his virginity, but not the daughter?
Q. why when a son lose his virginity, the parents are so happy and proud? But when a daughter lose her virginity, the parents are so upset and mad?...
A. 6 March 2010: There are reasons for this tradition and custom.
Sleeping around is easier for women.
Women do more harm by sleeping around than men do.
Men have evolutionary reasons to be programmed to sleep around.
These three reasons are proba... (read in full...)
Need some adult input on sex and pregnancy
Q. My mom wont talk to me about sex. today i asked her over 30 times about different thing but she just walks away from me and tells me not to follow her and to leave her alone. so i have no other choice but to ask the people on this site. So here is ...
A. 6 March 2010: Today with the internet and Google, you can ask anything and get more info's online. It is like a big library.
Just go online and key in your key phrases in Google search window i.e, pregnancy, periods, conceptions etc . You don't have to ask anyo... (read in full...)
I don't want to love him anymore and he doesn't want to love me.
Q. I've been with this guy for exactly 1 year and 6 months today. I'm crazy about him. But that’s the problem. I don’t want to love him any more and he doesn’t want to love me. We've got into random fights our entire relationship, and about a year...
A. 6 March 2010: Give your reason for staying in that relationship?
Is his positive points more than his negative one's?
Make a list of his good and bad points and focus on his good points if you intend to stay with him.
Nobody is perfect and he comes in ... (read in full...)
Everything was fine, but after an argument over something minor, she wants her stuff back
Q. Hello, My girlfriend and I had an argument two days ago. She called me and I ended up calling her back. She answered jokingly and I played along by joking back with her.Prime example; the old commercial when everyone was calling each other up sa...
A. 6 March 2010: Great! If you are meant to be together ,nothing will separate you .
Give and take some and everything will be O.K!... (read in full...)
Help!!! I don't know what to do about him any more... any ideas?
Q. We met about 2 years ago i was 17 and he was 25, we dated 4 over a year, we loved each other a lot, we broke up about 6 months ago he said he wasnt happy with me but we was still hanging out and having sex, he wanted 2 be friends even though i didnt ...
A. 6 March 2010: Kick him to the curb and find someone who is more deserving of you .
Cut your losses and run. He is just behaving like an animal and a stud.
He does not know what is love, commitments and faithfulness.... (read in full...)
He always wants to brush his teeth and use a mouthwash after oral sex!!!!!
Q. My boyf of 18 months has always wanted to brush his teeth or use mouthwash after performing oral sex on me. I have never been with a man who does this and I always come away feeling very offended and undesirable. Why does he do this..... help!!!! ...
A. 6 March 2010: He is the hygienic and health conscious type. It is better to do that to prevent any STI's.
He could be allergic to sore throat from oral sex. Or he could feel that oral sex is dirty.
Perhaps ,he may not like the lingering odour in his mou... (read in full...)
He used to be so passionate! Why is he resisting me now?
Q. I was wondering if you could help. I have been seeing my other half for 5 months, but it is recently i have noticed he dosent kiss me the same anymore. Its like he always pulls away first and does not use tongues anymore and there is no passion. I ...
A. 6 March 2010: It has to do with man's psychology. They will go all out at first and then they will slack because they cannot maintain that pace.
While the girl will be slow at first and later will want more of it.Her expectations are high and when she gets les... (read in full...)
Everything was fine, but after an argument over something minor, she wants her stuff back
Q. Hello, My girlfriend and I had an argument two days ago. She called me and I ended up calling her back. She answered jokingly and I played along by joking back with her.Prime example; the old commercial when everyone was calling each other up sa...
A. 4 March 2010: The storm came and the bridge went down . Now is the time to build bridges and repair your communication lines.
You are the man .As you have already done your part, move on and act like nothing happens .
Don't keep those harsh words in your he... (read in full...)
Everything was fine, but after an argument over something minor, she wants her stuff back
Q. Hello, My girlfriend and I had an argument two days ago. She called me and I ended up calling her back. She answered jokingly and I played along by joking back with her.Prime example; the old commercial when everyone was calling each other up sa...
A. 2 March 2010: You tried to resolve it there and then but she was not in the mood to compromise.
Maybe, she was so angry at that time that she did not really paid attention to what you said or she felt that you need a more severe reprimanding...LOL!
Maybe a... (read in full...)
Everything was fine, but after an argument over something minor, she wants her stuff back
Q. Hello, My girlfriend and I had an argument two days ago. She called me and I ended up calling her back. She answered jokingly and I played along by joking back with her.Prime example; the old commercial when everyone was calling each other up sa...
A. 2 March 2010: Everything happens for a reason.
If each were to stand on their side of the divide,then the twain shall never meet.
It would be a contest of wills and who loves whom the most.
In the end, the one who loves the most will realize that it is ... (read in full...)
Everything was fine, but after an argument over something minor, she wants her stuff back
Q. Hello, My girlfriend and I had an argument two days ago. She called me and I ended up calling her back. She answered jokingly and I played along by joking back with her.Prime example; the old commercial when everyone was calling each other up sa...
A. 2 March 2010: Too bad, Hitler was not a woman...LOL!
You may have your doubts but it has been proven many times and it works because she is a woman.
“Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will li... (read in full...)
Everything was fine, but after an argument over something minor, she wants her stuff back
Q. Hello, My girlfriend and I had an argument two days ago. She called me and I ended up calling her back. She answered jokingly and I played along by joking back with her.Prime example; the old commercial when everyone was calling each other up sa...
A. 2 March 2010: Make love and not war...
Seek peace with yourself and your surroundings.
Don't wish for troubles ,for troubles will find you .
Think positive always .
And your life will have happiness and tranquility...... (read in full...)
Everything was fine, but after an argument over something minor, she wants her stuff back
Q. Hello, My girlfriend and I had an argument two days ago. She called me and I ended up calling her back. She answered jokingly and I played along by joking back with her.Prime example; the old commercial when everyone was calling each other up sa...
A. 2 March 2010: As you said this is a minor issue and you should clear them up as soon as possible .
The crux of this problem is not deciding who is in the right or wrong.
It is about solving the problem and doing the right things to return the relationship... (read in full...)
Everything was fine, but after an argument over something minor, she wants her stuff back
Q. Hello, My girlfriend and I had an argument two days ago. She called me and I ended up calling her back. She answered jokingly and I played along by joking back with her.Prime example; the old commercial when everyone was calling each other up sa...
A. 2 March 2010: If you want to end it quickly , go to her and apologize even if it is not your fault.Be a big man.
Eat humble pie. She knows she is wrong inside her heart but because of pride and vanities as most women do not like to be told that they are wron... (read in full...)
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