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*eather016
writes:i really want to be with him back.the reason why we havent been meeting for three weeks is that the last time we met, i got really jealous and told him how much it hurt me to see him texting girls every night. although i was convinced that theyre just friends, i wanted to know what we really were because we've been doing things other couples do. we were so close to be an item until that day he finally said he didnt want to confuse himself nor hurting me anymore and decided that we should be best friends but still remaining close with me.i was obviously thinking, well, "are you suggesting that i ll have to endure the pain seeing u dating other girls while us engaging in romantic activities?" anyway i told him, you know what, i never want to meet you again. this is the end of it.see, earlier in the relationship he asked me to be his gf but i refused bcz i believed it wasnt for the right intention. he wanted sex but at the same time to learn to love me. i thought it was wrong so i gave that offer a pass. and when i got so attached to him, thats when i asked him on the last time we met, where did we stand.he still texts those girls, no doubt. i do know for sure, he told me he liked one of the girls but when he was with me, that was his "old target". but anyway i know they're still keeping in touch.i really want him back. the reason why i include this specific detail about this girl is that, how do i win him back with this girl around? i know, i cant change how he feels but he obviously felt something with me. if this girl is not around, people would be saying "give it a breather. ignore him. wait for him to come back to you". but there's a girl around. so is it wise to wait for him to come back because i m afraid he wont when he's got this girl around. they say "if u love something let it go and if it comes back, it's love". but what if it's like romeo and juliet. they both love each other but there're obstacles.anyway, my main point is that how can i win him back?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 March 2010):
 To win him back , you need to do more. More love, more understandings, more givings , more compassion's and kindness.You need to do better than the other girl.
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reader, heather016 +, writes (6 March 2010):
heather016 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah.. but i want him back!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2010): i was obviously thinking, well, "are you suggesting that i ll have to endure the pain seeing u dating other girls while us engaging in romantic activities?" anyway i told him, you know what, i never want to meet you again. this is the end of it.
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