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*mmize15
writes:My ex bf keeps telling me that he wants to marry me and have me in his future and that he loves me and everything however he has a girl friend that he says he loves too but they always fight. What should i do about this situation?
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reader, ammize15 +, writes (7 March 2010):
ammize15 is verified as being by the original poster of the question ok thank you both for helping me with this situation
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (7 March 2010):
 Your ex b/f is also your best friend ! This is a peculiar situation. You can still have an ex b/f as your best friend.
If you are still friends with him , it means that your love is still on or you were not in love with him at all.
You have two options, accept or reject his feelings.
If you think , he loves you more than that girl and you cannot live without him , then accept him but with certain conditions.
If you think he does not have what makes a husband material ,then reject him.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (7 March 2010):
He is a best friend? This guy is also telling you he loves another woman, a woman who is his ex. That is not the act of a boyfriend or a best friend.
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reader, ammize15 +, writes (7 March 2010):
ammize15 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHow can i have nothing to do with him when he is also my best friend?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 March 2010):
Leave him. He doesn't love either of you. There is only room in the heart for one, and it seems to me like he's using you as second best. You're better than that.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (6 March 2010):
Do you believe and trust what he tells you ?
How can he love you and want to marry you when he loves another girl?
Don't listen to empty promises.
He has to decide and choose either you or that girl and not both.
Until then have nothing to do with him.
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