My b/f doesn't seem to appreciate me anymore
Q. I feel like my Boyfriend dont appreciate me anymore.. ;( whenever i call him he talks to me for like 3 mins and sometimes he just ignores my calls and he blames everything on me..when we fight he just hangs up on me and it hurts idk what to do becau...
A. 3 March 2010: "If you ever want something badly, let it go. If it comes back to you, then it's yours forever. If it doesn't, then it was never yours to begin with."
Bless him and forgive him.
This article may interest you .
Learn to let go..
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Is it possible to be so obsessed and still be in love?
Q. I have been married for 20 years, up until now I always thought I had a fairytale story. My husband is a great guy who always is there for me, and a fantastic father.Our sex life is great and exciting. Since december, he has been telling me that he ...
A. 2 March 2010: A man has many compartments in his mind.He can think of one thing and it has no connections to another compartment.
I.E He still love you in one compartment and his wanting to perform all those is another different thing.
It is not related t... (read in full...)
My partner wont stop ogling other women even though he knows how much this hurts me!
Q. my partner and father of my 2 children for the past 25 years ogles women but he does it in such a sneaky way and i have caught him many times he has cheated on me in the past and it really hurts me. i have spoken to him about how much this hurts me ...
A. 1 March 2010: There are things you cannot change in a man . You have to accept that certain things will never change in them before and after marriage.
All you can do is to change your perceptions of them and understand what goes through their minds.
... (read in full...)
I love him but his past bugs me! What should I do?
Q. ok i know why this guy cheats well i think i do. his dad used to abuse him as a child and and his father cheated on his mom A LOT. now that doesnt mean i agree with his behavior. (cheated twice). but ive also seen how much pain he went through after ...
A. 1 March 2010: You either have to accept him, warts and all or you set him free.
None is perfect and don't judge him or set too high a barrier for him.
He is from that kind of background and if you cannot agree with it,you should walk away and save yoursel... (read in full...)
I'm really hurt that she has moved on to someone else so I have been logging into her Facebook account to see what she is doing
Q. hi thanks for reading my other questions here the latest i recently just got dumped by my ex girlfriend *jasmin* and she told me before she thought it would work but it didnt and that i didnt show enough feelings for her and that i ignored her. she ...
A. 1 March 2010: You have been cut off by her and have become an unwanted guest.Stay out of her life and walk away from her.
Refocus on your important things in your life .Stop logging into her Facebook a/c. It's illegal and wrong.... (read in full...)
He's having performance problems, and I want to help him relax
Q. So recently my boyfriend of 8 months confessed to me that within the last couple of months he has been getting really nervous about having sex with me because hes worried he cant stay hard anymore. A couple of months ago it happened a couple of ...
A. 1 March 2010: Overcoming his fears will take time and it is best to stay of sex for the time being until he is ready to try again.
Let him initiate it when he is ready.You should allow him to lead you on and play a passive role.In this way , he won't feel pre... (read in full...)
My b/f doesn't seem to appreciate me anymore
Q. I feel like my Boyfriend dont appreciate me anymore.. ;( whenever i call him he talks to me for like 3 mins and sometimes he just ignores my calls and he blames everything on me..when we fight he just hangs up on me and it hurts idk what to do becau...
A. 1 March 2010: After 2 years , the relationship has lost it's sparkle. You need to work at your relationships.
You have to give him some space and yourself too. Go out with your friends and explore your world.
Do not be clingy because it is a turn off.... (read in full...)
What should I do? give him space? wait for him to reach out?
Q. My boyfriend and I were discussing past relationships when he stopped me and started to yell at me stating that i did NOT tell him about one of the guys. I know for a fact that I did, i remember the conversation clearly but he is so set saying that ...
A. 1 March 2010: Sometimes , it is not about who is right or wrong. It is about getting back on track like the good times.
Whatever you do becomes unimportant if it can bring your relationship back on track.
The wise and the mature will do anything to get ... (read in full...)
Are there any ways that I can use to see if a guy likes me, besides for just asking?
Q. Are there any ways that I can use to see if a guy likes me, besides for just asking? I'd like to have that as a last resort. Also, any ideas on how to convince your parents to go with your friends to the beach for a whole day? Cause the guy i ...
A. 1 March 2010: If you like a boy, don't be afraid to let him know: Make eye contact, smile back at him and be friendly.
If he doesn't pick up on your interest, be blunt and tell him you like him.
Just invite your parents openly in advance to the beach... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be so obsessed and still be in love?
Q. I have been married for 20 years, up until now I always thought I had a fairytale story. My husband is a great guy who always is there for me, and a fantastic father.Our sex life is great and exciting. Since december, he has been telling me that he ...
A. 1 March 2010: He is obsessed with lustful thoughts and not in love. He could have OCD(Obsessive, compulsive disorder).Google for more info.
Like a needle getting stuck on an old record, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) causes the brain to get stuck on a par... (read in full...)
If I don't have sex with my boyfriend will he go elsewhere?
Q. I'm afraid that if i dont have sex with my boyfriend he will go somewhere else.Help?...
A. 1 March 2010: If you don't give him sex and he goes somewhere for it ,then he is not a worthy b/f.
He is not really in love with you but only have lust for the sex.After he had enough or bored with you , he will dump you and go after another.
In the end is... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he would have me sign a prenup. What do you think of this?
Q. My BF if self-employed and his business is booming. He's also very ambitious. He tells me a lot about his work and the other day was talking about a client of his whose wife 'cleaned up' when they got divorced. He's also got a friend who recently ...
A. 1 March 2010: It is not about being selfish or cold ,it is about buying insurance just incase it does not work out.
It is about being a realist and being prudent.
Nobody knows what will happen some where down the road in a few years time.
If you marry fo... (read in full...)
He's using her for money!
Q. Me and my fiance have been together for four years. Where both seniors in high school. My fiance was layed off from his job and his money situation has always been tight growing up. Food, utilities getting turn off etc. My fiance is very good ...
A. 1 March 2010: Nothing is ever certain in this world except for death and taxes.
You have not crossed the finish line yet and the race is still open . Until that day when he puts the wedding ring on your finger,then you can truly say you have won the race.
... (read in full...)
I hit him, he hit me -- should we try to work it out?
Q. My boyfriend and I got into a petty arguement which esceladed and then he ended up tossing me around the house. Although I hit him first I still feel its wrong what he did to me. He was abused as a kid and abandoned by his mother. He cried to me and ...
A. 1 March 2010: Learn from your mistakes. Next time when someone is very agitated, walk away and don't let the tension boil till it explodes into violence.
Learn to deal with your angers.If he is willing to seek help, this relationship is worth saving.
You hit... (read in full...)
My b/f says it's the baby or him
Q. Hi I am 14 wks pregnant and been in my relationship with my boyfriend for 8 years and we have a 5 year old son together. My boyfriend is not happy about this pregnancy and says he doesnt want anymore kids and is forcing me to choose between him and ...
A. 1 March 2010: Do not fear about the custody of your son .The law is on your side.Children below the age of 8 is normally awarded custody to the mother.
There is no way he can get the custody of your son unless you are proven to be incapable of looking after hi... (read in full...)
He says he can no longer be faithful because of my weight
Q. Is there a way to get a man to accept that you're big? He says that he really loves what we have together it's the best sex he has ever had but he feels like he can no longer be faithful because of my weight is there anyway to change that I have ...
A. 1 March 2010: If you can brainwash him that big is beautiful.
Otherwise , you will have to watch what you tuck inside your mouth or reduce those portions .
Eat more fruits and vege's because they are more filling and low in calories.
Going to the gy... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell my boyfriend I don't want to take birthcontrol anymore.
Q. I don't know how to tell my boyfriend I don't want to take birth control anymore. I don't want to get pregnat. I'm no where near ready for that. I been taking for a year and a half and its starting to make me feel sick. And weak. In reality I never ...
A. 1 March 2010: Just tell him straight to the point and in simple English that you do not want to take those pills because of the inherent side effects that it has upon you .
Be firm about it.
Do not be afraid. If he loves you and cares for you , he will acco... (read in full...)
Dry humping... Is she pregnant?
Q. Can my gf be pregnant? today we dry humped but we were naked, we didn't have protection to go any further, we did it for a short time then we stopped, and i never ejaculated during this time. I'm just worried that maybe the pre-cum can get her ...
A. 1 March 2010: There are no safe days in the woman's cycle. The probability of getting pregnant is very very low unless you are most unlucky.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he would have me sign a prenup. What do you think of this?
Q. My BF if self-employed and his business is booming. He's also very ambitious. He tells me a lot about his work and the other day was talking about a client of his whose wife 'cleaned up' when they got divorced. He's also got a friend who recently ...
A. 1 March 2010: The laws of the country are sometimes bias towards men. After the divorce, irregardless if the men were at fault or not,the women gets the house , the kids and 50% of his cash and assets.
There is now a rise of the "Gold diggers." We can read the... (read in full...)
My husband is in prison and I don't miss him, but I have strong feelings for another
Q. Hi,ive been married now for 11 years and i'm a proud mom of 2. My husband recently got himself into some legal trouble and got 2 years imprisonment. I also discovered that i have strong feelings for a mutual friend of ours. I'm not sure what his...
A. 1 March 2010: Why would any woman risk everything for an affair ?
Some women want it all, to have the cake and eat it but there are other women who have no intentions to cheat but cannot prevent themselves from being swept away by the emotional tidal waves be... (read in full...)
A disturbing confession by my friend's 11 year old daughter
Q. Last night i babysat my mates little girl who is 11 and found out something im really not happy about.... Now heres the situation. They have hardly any money-Her partner works part time and she doesnt have a job-basically they are l...
A. 1 March 2010: You are their tooth fairy godmother.You are generous , kind and good natured. God bless you.
That child is innocent and it is not wrong to give to the poor.If you want to help them , you should not be judgmental.... (read in full...)
A disturbing confession by my friend's 11 year old daughter
Q. Last night i babysat my mates little girl who is 11 and found out something im really not happy about.... Now heres the situation. They have hardly any money-Her partner works part time and she doesnt have a job-basically they are l...
A. 28 February 2010: If the state were to dispense you money and you reject it because it is below your dignity to accept such money , I don't know whether to laugh or cry at your sense of self worth.
When there was a flood in my place, the govt. gave out $300 per... (read in full...)
A disturbing confession by my friend's 11 year old daughter
Q. Last night i babysat my mates little girl who is 11 and found out something im really not happy about.... Now heres the situation. They have hardly any money-Her partner works part time and she doesnt have a job-basically they are l...
A. 28 February 2010: To quiet-echo,
It is not that they do not want to find jobs, but those jobs that are available does not pay well.
They are looking for better paying jobs which are scarce. With the world's economy in a slum, many are laid off and searching fo... (read in full...)
A disturbing confession by my friend's 11 year old daughter
Q. Last night i babysat my mates little girl who is 11 and found out something im really not happy about.... Now heres the situation. They have hardly any money-Her partner works part time and she doesnt have a job-basically they are l...
A. 28 February 2010: I sympathized with those who worked hard for a living and get taxed to the hilt.
She is lazy because she is a product of your country's F**ked up socialist system. Always expecting the state and those who are rich to give them money like the stat... (read in full...)
My mum is offering me money NOT to have sex. What should I do?
Q. i really love this guy i know for 2 years. i want to have sex with him, he does too. but my problem is that my mom will give me $950 if i keep it till i'm 17 or 18. wat should i do?...
A. 28 February 2010: There is a win-win solution . Tell your b/f about your mother's offer. If he wants to have sex with you , he will need to compensate you $950.00...LOL!
If he cannot come up with it , he may either pay by installments or no sex please.
Either ... (read in full...)
A disturbing confession by my friend's 11 year old daughter
Q. Last night i babysat my mates little girl who is 11 and found out something im really not happy about.... Now heres the situation. They have hardly any money-Her partner works part time and she doesnt have a job-basically they are l...
A. 28 February 2010: Blame it on your crazy granny state.She gets more by not working than out looking for a job.
The state gives aids to those unemployed and those mothers with children and it is more than what she can get by working.
You cannot judge them being... (read in full...)
Separated, not divorced. Another guy in the picture.
Q. I left my husband 5 years ago but we've never gotten divorced. He doesn't want to and I'm in no hurry. I became involved with another man and we've been living together for 4 of those years. I love him but I don't know about our future. He doesn't ...
A. 28 February 2010: The man you are now living with is only taking advantage of you, a nice and convenient arrangement without any legal entanglements.
He has no intentions of committing in this relationship.When he gets tired of you, he will leave for some younger ... (read in full...)
He's got someone else, but I'm in love with him
Q. Hi, I've been good friends with this guy, he's so sweet and charming. But the problem is, he's already committed. I know all his secrets because he told me that he "love" me, but when I confessed that I love him, he told me to just let my feeli...
A. 28 February 2010: This man was not serious from the beginning and he played a cruel joke on you .
You cannot trust his words and actions. He has conned you off your love.
Wake up!! You are being cheated.... (read in full...)
My husband is in prison and I don't miss him, but I have strong feelings for another
Q. Hi,ive been married now for 11 years and i'm a proud mom of 2. My husband recently got himself into some legal trouble and got 2 years imprisonment. I also discovered that i have strong feelings for a mutual friend of ours. I'm not sure what his...
A. 28 February 2010: You are welcome! Glad that you can see what is in store if you take that dark road.
Keep your focus on God and do not lose faith and hope. It will pass.... (read in full...)
My husband is in prison and I don't miss him, but I have strong feelings for another
Q. Hi,ive been married now for 11 years and i'm a proud mom of 2. My husband recently got himself into some legal trouble and got 2 years imprisonment. I also discovered that i have strong feelings for a mutual friend of ours. I'm not sure what his...
A. 28 February 2010: You have two options, to walk the brightly lighted road or to walk that dimly lit road where anything goes.
Think of the consequences if you choose to walk that dimly lit road.
Having an affair is not only a sexual event,it is also an emotiona... (read in full...)
My friend says he fancies me, but I'm not so sure
Q. If a friend told you that every time you both sat in a coffee shop together that the guy serving kept looking over at you and staring and she believed that he fancied you, would you believe her. My friend keeps telling me this is happening and ev...
A. 28 February 2010: When a man keeps looking at you , it could be either he may fancy you, or he likes to look at you only because you are beautiful .
If he fancies you and he is the Don Juan type, he would approach you for your name and telephone number.
If he i... (read in full...)
My wife wont share all my sexual fantasies and called me a bully
Q. My wife and I have been married for over 20 years. Sex life has been a bit hit and miss down through the years, mostly due to her low sex drive. Leading up to Christmas, we'd been arguing a bit and hadn't had sex for about 6 weeks. The argue...
A. 28 February 2010: It takes two people to agree and if she does not want it , there is nothing you can do about it.
If you insist on it, you are not respecting her decisions but also rejecting her . She feels rejected and she will have no mood for sex.
She nee... (read in full...)
Separated, not divorced. Another guy in the picture.
Q. I left my husband 5 years ago but we've never gotten divorced. He doesn't want to and I'm in no hurry. I became involved with another man and we've been living together for 4 of those years. I love him but I don't know about our future. He doesn't ...
A. 28 February 2010: You have freedom to do whatever you want and meet any man you like.
You could be experiencing your new found freedom and enjoying it but will you find contentment and fulfillment in your new life?
You may drift in and out of relationships bu... (read in full...)
A guy took advantage of my girlfriend at a party, I don't know what I should do...
Q. Recently at a party my girlfriend of nearly 3 years had too much to drink and says she blacked out and when she came to she was being taken advantage of and got the guy to stop and she left immediately. I know she's not to blame completely but i do ...
A. 28 February 2010: You can only offer her your ears to listen and a shoulder to cry on. You have done all you could and let this incident be buried once and for all. She will be wiser next time.
Do not confront that perpetrator as it will only prolong her agonies.... (read in full...)
Why does my husband feel the need to lie to me about silly little things?
Q. its been like 1 year for my marriage and now for few months i have come to my moms house for some work and i talk to my husband daily over phone and we chat online also but sometime he lies to me. Like, if i ask him what are you doing now he says ...
A. 28 February 2010: Why do men lie and their reasons?
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/8868/why_men_lie.html?cat=41... (read in full...)
Why does my husband feel the need to lie to me about silly little things?
Q. its been like 1 year for my marriage and now for few months i have come to my moms house for some work and i talk to my husband daily over phone and we chat online also but sometime he lies to me. Like, if i ask him what are you doing now he says ...
A. 28 February 2010: Men and women don't think alike. They view things differently and talk differently. Men are simple creatures and when there are uninteresting things or unimportant things, they do not mention it and lump is as nothing important to talk about , unl... (read in full...)
Should I protect other women from him?
Q. I let my self get used, played, hurt by this man. This man picks women that have sworn off men for years and gets them to fall for him. He has a way to make you want to believe him. When you show any distrust he'll tell you its because of the way ...
A. 28 February 2010: Save your breath . Would other women believe what you tell them ?
There is karma. He will reap what he sows.... (read in full...)
How do we deal with an unlabelled relationship?
Q. Although we aren't "dating", my friend and I are definitely exclusive. We trust each other and care about each other. We never established a label on the relationship, so calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend all of a sudden is a bit strange ...
A. 28 February 2010: Whether it is a labeled or unlabeled relationship or not , it is just only a name sake. The important thing is, you are happy and he is happy and you trust each other.
One day you will redefine those parameters when the time comes.... (read in full...)
How come when I do sexy stuff he doesn't get an erection?
Q. I love my boyfriend very much , and he loves me. So when I try to do sexy things for him , or sit on his , lap or kiss him , he doesn't get a boner , or anything. Is this normal ? Does he still find me attractive ? What to do ??? =(...
A. 28 February 2010: His mind have to be in the mood or feel horny to have a hard on. Or he is the type that needs more physical and mental stimulation's. Sit longer, kiss longer and stroke more .
It could perhaps be other reasons like , he is tired , too much mas... (read in full...)
Before you all roll your eyes, I love my teacher like a father
Q. You all are probably so bored of hearing this topic! I am in love with my teacher! But before you Scream out in anger, its not in the way you think. A teacher at my school who has been here for about a year and a half maybe two years, taught ...
A. 28 February 2010: This teacher is an extension of your father's personality and that's why you have such close rapport with him.
Friends come and go in our life. Those who are good will leave footprints in our heart.
Enjoy each day as it comes and leave as muc... (read in full...)
If he cheats and lies about it does he really love you?
Q. Does a husband who cheats,lies,watch porno and never admits cheating really loves his wife?...
A. 28 February 2010: What do you mean by cheating ?
Having an affair is cheating but many women have classified, flirting with other women, ogling women, watching porn , thinking of other women while masturbating Facebooking with another woman and texting women as... (read in full...)
How can I find out if he is still interested without seeming desperate?
Q. I started dating a guy about 2 months ago and he asked me out a week after we met. We got really close very quickly after we met but then he had some family and health problems going on so he was distracted so we didn't really get to see each other, ...
A. 28 February 2010: Just invite him out and have a chit chat over coffee. If he is interested in you ,he will accept. If not , move on .
Or you could just text him and ask how he is and see how he responds to your message.... (read in full...)
Body image questions
Q. im 15 years old girly girl (im puerto rican and chinese) and i weight 100 pounds i have a six pack lately some people been saying that sexy and some say that is a turn off because im a total girly girl and they wound expect a girly girl that wears ...
A. 28 February 2010: Those who say it is a turn off could probably be jealous of it. If you like it , it does not matter what others think.... (read in full...)
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