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He always wants to brush his teeth and use a mouthwash after oral sex!!!!!

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Question - (5 March 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 6 March 2010)
A female United States age 51-59, *ickivonvicki writes:

My boyf of 18 months has always wanted to brush his teeth or use mouthwash after performing oral sex on me. I have never been with a man who does this and I always come away feeling very offended and undesirable. Why does he do this..... help!!!! Keep in mind no other men have wanted to do so, so I dont think there is anything wrong with me.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2010):

No he's just hygenic. if there were something wrong with you, he probaly wouldn't go down on you in the first place. relax, he just likes a fresh breath and clean mouth once he's done.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (6 March 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntHe is the hygienic and health conscious type. It is better to do that to prevent any STI's.

He could be allergic to sore throat from oral sex. Or he could feel that oral sex is dirty.

Perhaps ,he may not like the lingering odour in his mouth.You should not feel offended .

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A female reader, MonksDaBomb United States +, writes (6 March 2010):

MonksDaBomb agony auntMaybe he's slightly OCD? I wouldn't worry too much about it.

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A female reader, 1sincere1 United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2010):

I don't see anything wrong in him brushing his teeth straight after! Give the guy a break! Your are too sensitive!

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A female reader, funkilla United States +, writes (5 March 2010):

Maybe he doesn't like the taste in his mouth afterwards. I try to brush my teeth eventually/soon after oral sex, especially if he finished in my mouth, or at least pop a mint. There's nothing wrong with no enjoying the aftertaste or to not want it lingering, and its not a shot against your personal hygiene.

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A female reader, Angzw Zimbabwe +, writes (5 March 2010):

Are you clean and freshly showered when he goes down on you?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (5 March 2010):

It might be that he has had a bad experience before. Ask him.

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A male reader, weparley United States +, writes (5 March 2010):

Honestly. You may be undesirable down there?

Just because he was the (ONLY) guy that does this. doesn't make him strange. "Let's turn the tables a little bit."

maybe it was the men that NEVER said anything after performing oral who was strange? You can't think it strange because he doesn't want to walk around with 40-50 yr old pu**y breath. "I wouldn't either"

Why don't you just ask'em?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010):

Maybe he was raised in a home to believe that anything sexual was "dirty" and even now he still believes he is "dirty" and that is why he does it. Try taking a shower or bath together so you are both clean and maybe he'll feel better.

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