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writes:I've been with my gf since dec of 08. We had sex before we got together and and after only 2 weeks knowing each other. I love her dearly but lately we don't have sex like used to and as much. I always was the one givng the hints for sex then we would ingage, by that it shows she likes me being in control. Now when I give her hints, she doesn't react to them. This morning I started to mess and play with her and she ask what I was doing and I said im taking you to the bedroom. She ended up saying, "but I watchin tv" and gave me a funny look and that pissed me off a lot. What does this mean? What should I do about this problem? Break up? Any advice wil appreciated,thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, Accountable  +, writes (6 March 2010):
 Maybe her responding to your hints at first but not anymore doesnt "show she likes you in control".. she may just have felt like she had to do it whenever you wanted at first, but now she'd rather just do it when she actually feels up for it.
Have a frank conversation with her - there might be some reason shes more reluctant at the moment, like stress, and its best for both of you to find out whats actually going on before you try to "fix" it.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 March 2010):
 You could be flexible a bit and choose another time .She may not be in the mood for love due to some reasons.
Maybe, you need to be more attentive to her , compliment her more and do not criticize or complain about her.
During the world cup football season, most men would rather watch football than have sex.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 March 2010):
Don't break up. Instead go back to basics and start making her feel loved and desired again. Maybe there is a lot of stress in her life, maybe she needs a bit more wooing. So start there and see what happens.
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