Should I tell my teacher how I feel even though he has just moved in with his girlfriend?
Q. I love my teacher so much. The other day I found out that he has moved in with his girlfriend I didn't think that this would affect me but it did .I can't stop thinking about him should I tell him how I feel?...
A. 31 March 2010: Don't make it an obsession.I think you should tell your mom about this problem.She may take you to see a therapist or a counselor.
... (read in full...)
What goes through someones mind after a breakup?
Q. Hey everyone, my girlfriend broke up with me a little over two months ago. Im a lot better than what I was after it happened. She wont talk to me now for some reason. I would just like to get a better idea what goes through a girls mind after they ...
A. 22 March 2010: I am sorry for what you are going through now. My sympathies to you .
Life is not always rosy and there are up's and down's .This door may have closed on you but another door will open soon.
You have to accept reality and move on.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher how I feel even though he has just moved in with his girlfriend?
Q. I love my teacher so much. The other day I found out that he has moved in with his girlfriend I didn't think that this would affect me but it did .I can't stop thinking about him should I tell him how I feel?...
A. 18 March 2010: I am sorry if your teachers are not allowed to go to your house in your country. I will retract that statement.
In my country, after school hours ,it is no more the domain of the school. The teachers are free to do anything they want.... (read in full...)
I love her and want to forgive her for cheating
Q. Well my ? to everyone is.. i have a girlfriend that ive been with for about 10 months.. and she had cheated on me in the begining of are relationship and soon stoped when she relised we had something seriose.. but she has told me she is sorry and ...
A. 17 March 2010: Apparently , your love is not deep enough to trust and forgive her .
If you love her truly , you would not care at all about what she has done.
You need to wipe her slate clean and start all over again and let the past go.
Time is a great... (read in full...)
I feel like I've lost my daughter
Q. Hi Guys, I'm posting in a real state of distress re one of my daughters. She has been going out with in appropriate guys since she was 16 and is onto her third boyfriend now who is pleasant enough but unemployed and seems to depend on her for ...
A. 17 March 2010: You cannot shelter her or protect her for ever.
There comes a time when she has to learn about the rudiments of life . She needs to understand that the world does not owe her a living and she must learn to survive through hardships, mistakes... (read in full...)
Are we having an affair?
Q. This man I work with is very sexy to me. We are both married so everything is off limits. We became cool and we talk about our sex life which is boring on both parts. My husband doesn't do some things I like and vice versa on his end. Anyway, I ...
A. 17 March 2010: What is a love affair ?
An intimate sexual relationship between two people. It could be in the real world, virtual world or your dream or fantasy world.
Anything that is intimate emotionally or sexually with some one who is not your spouse or b... (read in full...)
I love my mistress but I feel bad for leaving my wife and kids
Q. I am 35 years old, married for 9 years with 3 kids relatively young - 7 and twins of 4 years old. I met a girl 4 years ago (Kelly) but we really started to see each other more often like twice a week over the past 4 months, before it was once a mo...
A. 17 March 2010: This reasons is enough to make you want to forget about having a mistress.
9)You could lose your car, home, boat, motorcycle, dog, health insurance, children's college fund, inheritances, credit rating, etc..
Think of how much you will lose an... (read in full...)
Is it harmless or should I be moving on?
Q. My boyfriend of several years is looking at online dating sites and "classified ads." I have caught him emailing some of the girls and when I confront him he says he is "just looking" and would never do anything. Is it harmless or should I be ...
A. 17 March 2010: That should be a red flag. You should let him know where are your limits and boundaries. I am sure you can work it out with him over this issue.
Talk to him about this issue and tell him your feelings.
Tell him that it is confusing you and if h... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher how I feel even though he has just moved in with his girlfriend?
Q. I love my teacher so much. The other day I found out that he has moved in with his girlfriend I didn't think that this would affect me but it did .I can't stop thinking about him should I tell him how I feel?...
A. 17 March 2010: If you love your teacher , you don't have to say those words. You can be nice to him and treat him well. Study hard and listen attentively and score high marks in his tests.
During teacher's day, you can send him a very special card or you can ... (read in full...)
Didn't want to appear clingy, which backfired
Q. So me and this girl are getting rather serious. Today she asked the question "If i kissed another guy would you be jealous" I didn't know what to say. So i decided to say "No i wouldn't mind" because I didn't want to appear clingy. But now she is ...
A. 17 March 2010: Most young girls are under the mistaken notion that you need to get jealous to show your love.
If you are not jealous, it means that you do not love them. Jealousy is a love language to them.
Some males may not show any jealousies as th... (read in full...)
Do you think he is using me to take care of him since no one else will?
Q. Well...I have a question and I'm hoping someone can help me by answering it or giving me suggestions. To start things off my boyfriend (to whom I have been with for almost 6 months) He has been living with me for the past 2 months, he is in school ...
A. 17 March 2010: You will have to look deeply into your heart to see how much is your love for him ?
Can you see a future with him ?
Is he worth investing your time and money ?
If the score is below 50%,then you will need to walk away from him.
In the... (read in full...)
Can't climax in missionary
Q. hi i am 24.my problem is whenever i do sex in normal position i am not satisfied.my boyfriend is able to arouse me but while fucking i lose intrest and don't know wht to do. but when i am on top i know how to reach orgasm so i satisfy myse...
A. 17 March 2010: Your solution would be to include masturbation in your sexual act.
Show him how you pleasure yourself and lead him by the hand and when you have come, to let him do his thing.... (read in full...)
B/f is secure but I don't love him; other guy now wants me
Q. I have a boyfriend of 5 yrs whom I live with, I also have a friend that I met around the same time. I chose my boyfriend because of the stability he provides me with, but honestly I don't love him. If he did not take care of me I would not be with ...
A. 17 March 2010: Your b/f is a good provider while the other is a great lover.
How good it would be if you can have both those qualities in a man !
Unfortunately for you , you will need to choose which is more important to you, financial security or love... (read in full...)
My ex texted wanting another chance
Q. Well to make a long story short I have been on and off with a guy for about 2 years and he is in college he has done me wrong before and made plenty of mistakes so I ended it and was plannin on endin it for good... Well I started liking someone new ...
A. 17 March 2010: Keep him on hold while you get to know the new guy and then you can choose who is the better guy for you.
... (read in full...)
My ex wont move on....should I stop contact for a while?
Q. My ex broke up with me nearly 4months ago and we still stayed very close afterwards but I realised 3weeks ago that it was not helping me get over him and I was only ended up upset after talking with or meeting up with him even tho we would have a ...
A. 17 March 2010: Sometimes,there is no right or wrong. If you think this relationship deserves another chance, you should give it another try.
Who does not make mistakes ? No one is perfect. We are only human.... (read in full...)
Should I get an abortion of let my boyfriend think the baby is his?
Q. I am in a relationship and I have been messing with a old flame. He is also in a relationship and has a new baby. I found out I am pregnant by him (my old flame). I have had sex with my "boyfriend" so he will think he is the father when I prepare ...
A. 17 March 2010: State your reasons for and against keeping your pregnancy. That way , you can decide if you want the baby or not.
I think it is inadvisable to inform your old flame because what you have both done should never come into the open. It will create m... (read in full...)
Help! How long is too long to wait for my ex who is currently living with a woman he is unhappy with???
Q. How long is too long to wait for my ex who is currently living with a woman he is unhappy with and clearly in love with me?????????? So my ex and I remain very close friends after dating for over a year and agreeing that we had a great relations...
A. 17 March 2010: If you were meant to be together, it will be very fast. within one or two years.
If your destiny is different , it will be eternity.... (read in full...)
Help! How long is too long to wait for my ex who is currently living with a woman he is unhappy with???
Q. How long is too long to wait for my ex who is currently living with a woman he is unhappy with and clearly in love with me?????????? So my ex and I remain very close friends after dating for over a year and agreeing that we had a great relations...
A. 17 March 2010: The reason he is ex is because he belonged to the past. It will be a very long long wait and I hope that you won't turned into a statue by the seaside.... (read in full...)
Is it worth apologizing and clarifying things, or is he clearly not interested and should I just move on?
Q. I hooked up with a friend recently and I want to keep doing something no-strings-attached, but he's sending mixed signals. He's always seemed interested, but for most of the time we knew each other I had feelings for other men and basically ignored ...
A. 17 March 2010: He has been hurt and he has build walls around his heart.I think he does not have a good perception of you and will avoid you if he can.He has decided that you are not the one for him.
If you think that he is worth the relationship, you would ha... (read in full...)
Can I ever trust my wife again...after her affair?
Q. I found out my wife was having an affair at the early stages by accident. That was 3 weeks ago. I was shocked and heartbroken - my world collapsed, partly due to the fact that she told me that she did not feel anything for me anymore after I ...
A. 16 March 2010: She may decide to give up that man but will she become a serial cheater or will she get back again with that man sometime in the future?
Those are the unknowns in this relationship.
You may get her back for sometime but if nothing changes ... (read in full...)
How do I tell her that I love her? And will we have problems due to her religion?
Q. Hi everyone, I am a non Muslim guy, I met this Muslim girl. and yeah, I fell in love with her; I know it is not infatuation, because I never felt like I feel with this girl. I am not sure what to do, she does not know I like her and I am afraid ...
A. 16 March 2010: Some parents may demand that you become a Muslim while some do not.If you do not have any problem becoming a Muslim , there should be no problems.
You could talk to the girl and what is her parents perspective and find out more about this issue be... (read in full...)
My life has always been controlled by my parents and now my husband. How can I break free?
Q. I grew up with very strict parents, I was not allowed to go out with friends or be independent. My day ran on a schedule, from school to various music, dance, and etiquette lessons. My parents determined how I would dress, wear my hair, and who I ...
A. 16 March 2010: In life, we go through certain phases . It is a cycle of human life.
From the ,
1)Egg
2)Embryo
3)Baby
4)Child
5)Adolescent
6)Adult
7)Old age.
Sometimes, we may skip one phase in life and then we find that we are... (read in full...)
How can someone who wants to marry you turn around and find someone else immediately?
Q. How can someone who wants to marry you turn around and find someone else immediately? It's been two months after almost three years. I'm still hurting and she started dating someone else almost immediately. ...
A. 16 March 2010: It is obvious that you loved her more than she loved you .Different people have different stress levels.
Probably, she adapted better to the breakup than you and unfortunately for you someone came into her picture.
Sometimes, they missed the ... (read in full...)
Could this get me pregnant?
Q. Me and my boyfreind were dry humping, he asked me to relieve him and I let him cum over my breasts and stomach and there was loads of it, I cleaned it up with toilet paper and had a bath about an hour later, my friend said that was silly because I ...
A. 16 March 2010: If kept warm at body temperature (like on the skin or in a warm test tube), sperm remain motile for several hours.
Inside the female reproductive tract, they can live for up to 7 days.
Sperm are very sensitive to temperature and moisture and... (read in full...)
He says premarital sex is wrong and we need to wait...is he gay??
Q. Hello. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I have been telling myself he is just a late bloomer and inexperienced. He had sex for the first time in college and then found religion. He is a born again christian and since then he says ...
A. 16 March 2010: What he knows is premature sex is wrong according to his religion. It is concerning oral sex or other form of sex where the boundaries are blurred. He is not sure if it can be considered as premature sex.This is a grey area.
He cannot touch yo... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 16 March 2010: marriedlady,
Thank you for your beautiful post and for pointing out my errors.
If anyone felt offended ,outraged or upset,it was unintentional and my regrets and apologies to you all.... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he call when he says he will?
Q. this guy ive been chatting to.. i really like him.. i gave him my number...we flirt alot..hes got my number... he use to text me often but not anymore.. hes only called me once..and after the convo he texted me and told me i sound nice. we dont...
A. 16 March 2010: When the man says they will call, they don't mean to call. It is just like saying 'Good morning or Good Night! ' They are just being courteous .
If they don't call, it means one thing, they are not interested.
If they are interested in yo... (read in full...)
Remembering my ex....It's as though I'm living in my own fantasy world. It's not good, is it...?
Q. Should I remember the things I've done with my ex? I constantly flash back those moments when I am about to sleep. Sometimes I feel it's not healthy because I tend to act as though what we had is still going on. But just merely the thoughts were so ...
A. 16 March 2010: Our minds cannot help remembering those eventful moments. You need to refocus your mind back on your priorities in life or on God.
What do you want in your life? What are your plans ? What do you want to do for tomorrow ?
Keep your min... (read in full...)
My ex wont move on....should I stop contact for a while?
Q. My ex broke up with me nearly 4months ago and we still stayed very close afterwards but I realised 3weeks ago that it was not helping me get over him and I was only ended up upset after talking with or meeting up with him even tho we would have a ...
A. 16 March 2010: Your ex has remorse and regrets and is trying to connect back with you.
If you think that you want to move on , just ignore his msg.
If you think that you want to give this relationship another chance, give him a reply .
... (read in full...)
Could I still be pregnant or am I immediately protected because of the pill?
Q. I started the combined pill on the 2nd day of my period last wednesday. I took it Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and Saturday at exactly the same time of 7:30. On saturday nite i had sex without a condom with my boyfriend and he came inside me could i ...
A. 16 March 2010: The length of time it takes for the birth control to become completely effective as a sole contraceptive varies depending on the type of pill you use and when you start the packet of pills.
You will usually need to use an alternative form of ... (read in full...)
Is this true?
Q. My girlfriend's mum told me... a woman sleeps with a man, has an orgasm and thinks shes in love. The man just thinks he had a wonderful night. Is that true?? ...
A. 16 March 2010: In the traditional role, a woman needs to feel loved before she can have sex with her man. If she had sex with the man , it means she was in love with him. If she can't feel his love,she would be unable to have sex with him.
While the man may ... (read in full...)
Can I ever trust my wife again...after her affair?
Q. I found out my wife was having an affair at the early stages by accident. That was 3 weeks ago. I was shocked and heartbroken - my world collapsed, partly due to the fact that she told me that she did not feel anything for me anymore after I ...
A. 16 March 2010: You cannot be expected to hold on indefinitely because you will only lose in the end.
You need to give her a time period to tie up those ends. It is either you or him . Give her some time to decide. If she cannot , you must decide your own dest... (read in full...)
Tempted to sleep around with a lot of men, as I have a high sex drive! Will I regret doing this?
Q. I would like some advice from fellow adult females. I have just got out of a long relationship and don't want to get into another one for a good while. I have a high sex drive and miss that aspect of relationships. At present, I am tempted to sleep ...
A. 16 March 2010: Protection is not 100%. The only safe protection is to stay away from sex completely. You can still get STD's or STI's from sexual or oral sex.
You run a higher risk of getting them when you have multi partners.
You will leave a very long trai... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 16 March 2010: I get the feeling that it is wrong to tell people like OP to have more love, more compassion's, more understandings and more kindness for their moms who have failed or unable to carry out their duties as a mother.
If I am wrong ,I stand to be co... (read in full...)
Could this get me pregnant?
Q. Me and my boyfreind were dry humping, he asked me to relieve him and I let him cum over my breasts and stomach and there was loads of it, I cleaned it up with toilet paper and had a bath about an hour later, my friend said that was silly because I ...
A. 16 March 2010: There is a probability but it is very slim.Your hands touched those sperms and if they come into contact with your vagina, some of those sperms may enter and if you are very unlucky , conception may happen.
Those sperms are so tiny and you can'... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I gave him chlamydia?
Q. It All Started a couple years ago, when i met this really nice boy richard, he gave me his number and we started talking more, we got really close then we started going out this boy was my "first love" we was going out for almost a year!. when we ...
A. 16 March 2010: You tell him that you were tested positive for chlamydia recently and request him to go for a test. Skip the other details.
... (read in full...)
What goes through someones mind after a breakup?
Q. Hey everyone, my girlfriend broke up with me a little over two months ago. Im a lot better than what I was after it happened. She wont talk to me now for some reason. I would just like to get a better idea what goes through a girls mind after they ...
A. 16 March 2010: Here is a good article about what happens when a couple breaks up.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Relationship_breakup
Just give her some time and space . If you are meant to be together, you will come back again . If not , you will have to be ... (read in full...)
Cut short on pleasure.
Q. Okay, ive been with my boyfriend for a year now. I love him more than anything and am 'head over heels' as they say. However i feel like im being cut short when it comes to sex. Im definetely an oral type of girl and i orgasm every time, dont get me ...
A. 16 March 2010: If you think you have an issue , you should communicate with him and let him understand your feelings. I am sure you can work something out with him.He would probably be willing to do what you want or requested.
It is hard for a man to be a mind r... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher how I feel even though he has just moved in with his girlfriend?
Q. I love my teacher so much. The other day I found out that he has moved in with his girlfriend I didn't think that this would affect me but it did .I can't stop thinking about him should I tell him how I feel?...
A. 16 March 2010: Your intentions maybe good but your actions could destroy his career and ruin him.He not only cannot teach you , he would be banned forever from teaching.
If the story comes out that he is in love with a student, whether it is true or not, his... (read in full...)
I am still sleeping with my ex, and he is happy with the way things are
Q. Ok so I need some advice – am I being a complete idiot here?? Me and my ex got together in July 2004, and we split up in March 2009. He had cheated on me a couple times early in the relationship and I forgave that, we broke up because we just ...
A. 15 March 2010: Tell yourself what have you gained from him in those six years ?
Is there a future with him?
If you want to build a house, you would need a plan. Without any plan, there will not be a house.
He is just sowing his wild oats and when he is... (read in full...)
What am I doing wrong? None of my relationships last
Q. i am completely useless in relationships and really need your help. I did go out with a guy for 4 years and he ended up cheating on me and i stayed single for a few years until i got over him. BUt lately i met this guy 3 months ago and we hit it off ...
A. 15 March 2010: Everything happens for a reason . You met the wrong guys and you learned who are the bad guys to avoid from now.
Don't be afraid to fall in love. It is better to have loved and failed than not to have loved at all.... (read in full...)
How can I learn to trust him?
Q. i have been with my partner for a year now, we get on so well, have a laugh, have a good love life, always telling one another we love each other... everything is perfect apart from one thing, i have really bad trust issues. before him i got hurt ...
A. 15 March 2010: You will have to learn to trust him like a baby learning to walk. Sometimes , the baby falls down and you need to give him a helping hand.
He may not know where are your limits and boundaries as you cannot explain everything in one go. So you w... (read in full...)
Should I tell a friend about to get married that I have feelings for her?
Q. im in love with my best friend but she is getting married in a few months. i feel jelouis when i see them together or hear about what they have done. do i risk our friendship by telling her? and how do i get over my feelings for her and move on?...
A. 15 March 2010: If you love her, let her go . She is obviously not meant for you . You are fated to be only best friends.Accept the reality and move on.... (read in full...)
How do I tell her that I love her? And will we have problems due to her religion?
Q. Hi everyone, I am a non Muslim guy, I met this Muslim girl. and yeah, I fell in love with her; I know it is not infatuation, because I never felt like I feel with this girl. I am not sure what to do, she does not know I like her and I am afraid ...
A. 15 March 2010: Do you have problems with her religion?
If you can accept her . you should be able to accept her religion.
If you think there is a religious difference, then you should find out where she stands on this issue.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher how I feel even though he has just moved in with his girlfriend?
Q. I love my teacher so much. The other day I found out that he has moved in with his girlfriend I didn't think that this would affect me but it did .I can't stop thinking about him should I tell him how I feel?...
A. 15 March 2010: Keep this secret to yourself and never let the cat out of the bag.
Can you imagine what would happen if you were to tell him ?
If the news gets out , your teacher may be reprimanded or in the worst scenario, be investigated and suspended from t... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 15 March 2010: Some mothers are bad mothers in a sense because they come from a culture which followed their traditions.
They treat their daughters badly and they learned it from their mothers and grandmothers.
Off course, there are some mothers who neve... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 15 March 2010: Vintage64
What makes a good mother ?
"Good mothering is often measured by the method of parenting rather than the results. Therefore, the definition of ‘good mother’ has come to mean different things to different people."
Who wants to be... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 15 March 2010: It is a funny thing, when you do not have love for a person , you will see that person in a negative light .
Whatever that person does, it will come out negatively in your mind.
You may even see her as a devilish person .
Love bears all ... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 14 March 2010: It is very unfortunate that you were not brought up in a normal loving family environment by your parents but by your grandparents who have fulfilled those roles marvelously and raised you up to be what you are today.
There are quite a number o... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 14 March 2010: I apologize if I have made you out to be bad. I have given you another view from another angle.
Things are not what they seemed to be to your young mind. Sometimes, what you see is not what you get.
Your mother's problem is your grandparent... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 13 March 2010: You cannot change the fact that she is your biological mother even if you don't want to admit it.
Your mother may not measure up to your standards as compared to your grandparents or perfect in your eyes.
She may not be a good daughter to her ... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 13 March 2010: You cannot change the fact that she is your biological mother even if you don't want to admit it.
Your mother may not measure up to your standards as compared to your grandparents or perfect in your eyes..
She may not have given you the lo... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 13 March 2010: You cannot change the fact that she is your biological mother even if you don't want to admit it.
Your mother may not measure up to your standards as compared to your grandparents or perfect in your eyes..
She may not have given you the lo... (read in full...)
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