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writes:I am 3 months pregnant. Since I have been pregnant I have been very ill and unable to work as much as usual. I have found this very frustrating as I like to be financially independent. I have been with my faience for 6 years, and since I have been sick he has had to pick up the pieces and pay for most things. Tonight however he told me I was useless and being a free loader from him and his parents. He said he no longer cared about me, no longer wanted to get married and wanted to kick me out.Since I have been pregnant he has become distant, spending many nights away from home and I do not know where he is. When I question his where abouts he becomes aggressive and tells me to "get some f*****g respect you useless stuipid b***h. He constantly makes me feel guilty for not working enough, but I have been so sick I even forget what day it is. I don't know why he is acting like this, and I am scared because I am stuck financially because I assumed he would be happy to support me. What should I do? Why is he treating me like this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (7 March 2010):
 You could call pregnancy counseling for help . Your husband is inhuman and very mean and he has no more love for you .
You should try to seek help from his mental and emotional abuse.
Have you thought about moving back to your parents place ?
reference;-
http://www.pregnancycounselling.com.au/pregnant_needadvice.htm
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (7 March 2010):
 For now that you cant work by your self and the fiancee doesnt wanna do anything about this baby i would suggest, get out there, Go to your parents and try to start all over again. dont depend on this man again. leave him, you and your baby dont deserve this man. can you go to your mother and ask a little help at least untill you are already able to help your self, i know its going to be hard to your parents too, but this is the time you really need help. if not with the parents what about brother or sister of best friend. find somebody.leave this man. Dont let him hurt your feelings again. You will make it.. i wish you goodluck..
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2010): Be glad you found this out now. Not after you were married.
Was this pregnancy planned? Did you both want the baby? You mentioned his parents. Do you all live together? Or do they support you too?
Why not treat this as a decision-making time. YOu can decide whether or not you want to keep the baby - its not too late.
But definitely decide to give up the boyfriend/fiance. He does not sound like a keeper.
You say you like being indepdendent. Do you have money to support yourself for the next few months if you stay ill? In any case, move out of this space (find friends who can help) and then think about what to do.
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