Should I tell my teacher how I feel even though he has just moved in with his girlfriend?
Q. I love my teacher so much. The other day I found out that he has moved in with his girlfriend I didn't think that this would affect me but it did .I can't stop thinking about him should I tell him how I feel?...
A. 31 March 2010: Don't make it an obsession.I think you should tell your mom about this problem.She may take you to see a therapist or a counselor.
... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher how I feel even though he has just moved in with his girlfriend?
Q. I love my teacher so much. The other day I found out that he has moved in with his girlfriend I didn't think that this would affect me but it did .I can't stop thinking about him should I tell him how I feel?...
A. 18 March 2010: I am sorry if your teachers are not allowed to go to your house in your country. I will retract that statement.
In my country, after school hours ,it is no more the domain of the school. The teachers are free to do anything they want.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher how I feel even though he has just moved in with his girlfriend?
Q. I love my teacher so much. The other day I found out that he has moved in with his girlfriend I didn't think that this would affect me but it did .I can't stop thinking about him should I tell him how I feel?...
A. 17 March 2010: If you love your teacher , you don't have to say those words. You can be nice to him and treat him well. Study hard and listen attentively and score high marks in his tests.
During teacher's day, you can send him a very special card or you can ... (read in full...)
How do I tell her that I love her? And will we have problems due to her religion?
Q. Hi everyone, I am a non Muslim guy, I met this Muslim girl. and yeah, I fell in love with her; I know it is not infatuation, because I never felt like I feel with this girl. I am not sure what to do, she does not know I like her and I am afraid ...
A. 16 March 2010: Some parents may demand that you become a Muslim while some do not.If you do not have any problem becoming a Muslim , there should be no problems.
You could talk to the girl and what is her parents perspective and find out more about this issue be... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 16 March 2010: marriedlady,
Thank you for your beautiful post and for pointing out my errors.
If anyone felt offended ,outraged or upset,it was unintentional and my regrets and apologies to you all.... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 16 March 2010: I get the feeling that it is wrong to tell people like OP to have more love, more compassion's, more understandings and more kindness for their moms who have failed or unable to carry out their duties as a mother.
If I am wrong ,I stand to be co... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher how I feel even though he has just moved in with his girlfriend?
Q. I love my teacher so much. The other day I found out that he has moved in with his girlfriend I didn't think that this would affect me but it did .I can't stop thinking about him should I tell him how I feel?...
A. 16 March 2010: Your intentions maybe good but your actions could destroy his career and ruin him.He not only cannot teach you , he would be banned forever from teaching.
If the story comes out that he is in love with a student, whether it is true or not, his... (read in full...)
How do I tell her that I love her? And will we have problems due to her religion?
Q. Hi everyone, I am a non Muslim guy, I met this Muslim girl. and yeah, I fell in love with her; I know it is not infatuation, because I never felt like I feel with this girl. I am not sure what to do, she does not know I like her and I am afraid ...
A. 15 March 2010: Do you have problems with her religion?
If you can accept her . you should be able to accept her religion.
If you think there is a religious difference, then you should find out where she stands on this issue.... (read in full...)
What are my chances of being pregnant?
Q. Okay well.. Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex on either 3/11/10 or 3/12/10... im not on birth control or anything. we've been having unprotected sex for the past 2 years and he ALWAYS pulls out. it's never been a problem. Well we had sex at ...
A. 15 March 2010: Depending on your type of pregnancy kit,usually 3 to 7 days after your missed period . You could be late due to stress and worries about being pregnant.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher how I feel even though he has just moved in with his girlfriend?
Q. I love my teacher so much. The other day I found out that he has moved in with his girlfriend I didn't think that this would affect me but it did .I can't stop thinking about him should I tell him how I feel?...
A. 15 March 2010: Keep this secret to yourself and never let the cat out of the bag.
Can you imagine what would happen if you were to tell him ?
If the news gets out , your teacher may be reprimanded or in the worst scenario, be investigated and suspended from t... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 15 March 2010: Some mothers are bad mothers in a sense because they come from a culture which followed their traditions.
They treat their daughters badly and they learned it from their mothers and grandmothers.
Off course, there are some mothers who neve... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 15 March 2010: Vintage64
What makes a good mother ?
"Good mothering is often measured by the method of parenting rather than the results. Therefore, the definition of ‘good mother’ has come to mean different things to different people."
Who wants to be... (read in full...)
I don't know how to express my love.
Q. so I'm trying to figure out how to express my love for this guy. I'm writing him a letter but I don't know how to start it or anything I know what I want to say but I don't know how to put it on paper. can anyone help me ? please .. ...
A. 15 March 2010: You can Google for those tips about how to write romantic love letters to him.
Men are simple creatures. Tell them you love them and it would suffice.They will understand simple English.
http://www.po... (read in full...)
Did he give me too simple an answer for too big a question?
Q. In one of my previous questions I wrote about me falling in love with a younger guy and about him pushing me away after telling me he loves me. Well here is the up date. I got tired of waiting for him to give me some type of response to why ...
A. 15 March 2010: I guess your guy is a miser with words. He gave you a straight forward answer without adding anything extra...
The next question to him would be 'Does he love you ?'
Either he is too busy or too lazy or inexperience or a man of few words.... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 15 March 2010: It is a funny thing, when you do not have love for a person , you will see that person in a negative light .
Whatever that person does, it will come out negatively in your mind.
You may even see her as a devilish person .
Love bears all ... (read in full...)
Impotent man who has completely lost his sex drive.
Q. My husband is impotent. The doctors don't know anything wrong with his health. He does not know why. He never wants sex,and he gets limp,when finally we have some. I don't know what to do anymore. It goes on like this 5 years ago. I can't...
A. 15 March 2010: Erectile dysfunction can take a toll on a relationship. It is important to show support and offer encouragement to your loved one with ED.
You can encourage your loved one to seek medical treatment for his condition, you can help your partner ... (read in full...)
Ready for marriage. Why is he holding back?
Q. Help Please. I've bee with my boyfriend for 11years now. We moved in together about 5 years ago. and been engaged for 6years. Now here's mt problem he won't set a date. He says we are soon. But then he says its just a piece a papper and that he ...
A. 15 March 2010: The problem is that he is already living a married life with you and he does not see why you need to get married now.
You need to convince him why you need to get married and to have that paper to legitimize your marriage for legal purposes... (read in full...)
How often on average to people have sex?
Q. Just another question out of interest. but how many times a week is it considered normal to have sex? I heard a guy at work the other day say He and his partner had sex at least 4 times a day. I thought that sounded pretty excessive? I realise...
A. 15 March 2010: It depends on the sexual drive of a person. If he is highly charged, he could do it 3 or 4 times a day but for the normal average couples , it is 3 or 4 times a week.... (read in full...)
Can men with high sex drives remain faithful?
Q. Is it possible for an alpha male man with a super high testosterone amd charged up high sex drive to be in a committed loyal relationship for a long time? Or are they not capable of being faithful? ...
A. 15 March 2010: I think with those conditions , most of them would tend to stray and only those with high moral and religious backgrounds would remain faithful.
Girls would be throwing themselves at their feet and with all those money and power, anyone would be... (read in full...)
Just friends with benifits.
Q. i am in a physical relationship with a boy who has recently come out of a 3 year relationship. We see each other and are intimate but he claims we are just friends however aspects of our relationship are those that couples have it has been 2 months ...
A. 15 March 2010: You are in a rebound situation.He could be using you as a band aid for his pains of separations from his ex.
Your partner could still be dealing with those issues.
There's a very real chance that once he has worked through his emotional pa... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my husband or take a chance at happiness?
Q. I am married, and while I deeply love my husband he ignores me and I just feel like I'm falling out of love with him. He hasn't done anything wrong...I'm just not happy anymore. I don't want to hurt him, and I don't want to go through a divorce, ...
A. 15 March 2010: The grass may look greener on the other side. It is because they water it and took care of it.
You need to water and take care of your own lawn and discover the diamonds in your compound.
Find the ways to add sparkle to your marriage.If you ... (read in full...)
Get back together or no contact - did I make the right decision?
Q. My ex boyfried dumped me about a month ago, I don't know why, and has been texting me recently whilst I've been sticking to NC (Mod note: No Contact). I replied to the first few just incase he had changed his mind, but after realizing he was just ...
A. 15 March 2010: You were more matured and you did the right thing to stop his nonsense.
I am of the opinion that when reality sinks in , he will try to contact you again.
He replied in haste without thinking and probably committed a mistake here.... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my parents or move out and get a room-mate?
Q. Here's my dilemma? My boyfriend and I are 23. We live in different states, 800 miles apart. Right now I'm living with my parents, making $2,000 a month. I have $3,000 saved. But, I have $10,000 in credit card debt and $10,000 in student loans. I ...
A. 15 March 2010: Life is short. I would choose the 1st option. Be happy now than be happy somewhere in the future. Who knows what will happen in the future?
Your debts will never finish. If you can pay them , there is no worries.
Live for the present .... (read in full...)
Inlaws are making my life hell!
Q. the problem i have is the age old problem of the in-laws. My sister in-law is the main one i have problems with. recently my husband an i had a breif separation. she rang him up to ask why and like a mug he told her. she then rang my home and ...
A. 15 March 2010: You are married into his family and he comes in a package. Some people have loose family ties but unfortunately yours have a close knit one and your hubby still has many strings attached to his family.
To keep the peace in your family and his , yo... (read in full...)
How do I get over an ex?
Q. I have blogged here several times about someone I was involved with last summer and into the fall. I ended it in October of 2009, but some reason I cannot get over it, I still see him when I go out, and we look at one another, I feel his eyes on me ...
A. 15 March 2010: The link below has many articles about getting over an ex.I hope it will help you.
http://www.buzzle.com/articles/relationship-breakups/... (read in full...)
How can I make things less awkward?
Q. Ahhhh. Ok, so last night my best guy friend was having a huge party, after we both had a lot to drink we started dancing. We went from one dance party to another in separate rooms. When we got to the second he kissed me. HE initiated it, but I ...
A. 15 March 2010: It is not easy for a boy and a girl to be best friends without feeling the sexual tensions between them.
Can they be friends only ?
We have heard that sex may change the equation and the friendship will not be the same anymore.
That... (read in full...)
What's wrong with wanting to marry a woman others might call a slut?
Q. I am an older gentleman. Raised in a religious family but never made the connection. Over the years, I have known people from all walks of life, but, other things being equal, have felt most comfortable with people who are open-minded about sex. ...
A. 15 March 2010: If you can love her and accept her, you will not see her imperfections. You do not have to follow the social norms .
Marriage is between two individuals who share the same ideals and what others think is irrelevant.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got annoyed with me when I told him his relatives were coming on to me...
Q. I am seeing an asian lad, i met him through working somewhere and some of his relations also work there. some of his relatives ask me out even though they are married with children. I find them disgusting and tell them to get lost! nobody knows we ...
A. 14 March 2010: He may have felt that you did not show some respects to his relatives. I think that could be the probable reason he was annoyed with you . Asian people are concerned about losing face or honour.... (read in full...)
Why is he asking me for money? Is he using me or what?
Q. Please i need an urgent answer. My ex and I have been dating for 3 years. It was a long distance relationship. during this time he was in school and i was working so whenever he had any financial need i was there to help him financially. Until the ...
A. 14 March 2010: You have been conned of your money. It is your hard earned money and you should not give it to him or anyone with a 'sob'tale.
He took advantage of your kindness and love.... (read in full...)
Why do guys look at other girls?
Q. why do boys when going out with girls look at other girls? does this mean that they do not truly love their girlfriend?...
A. 14 March 2010: It is their nature.They are born that way.
No! They still love their g/f. It is like going window shopping. They can see but cannot touch or own it.... (read in full...)
How can I cope with everything that is going on in my life right now?
Q. im 15 and a girl who said she was my bestfriend going out with da boy i personally tole her myself i like; nd my dad is in jail; my b/f nd I are on and off, but we know we love each other. my other suppose to be bestfriend spreaded a rumor a/b me. ...
A. 14 March 2010: Getting pregnant and having a baby will only add more troubles to your current state of affairs. It is ill advised to have babies at this time of your life.
You are still young and you need to go out with your friends to have fun.... (read in full...)
How can I cope with everything that is going on in my life right now?
Q. im 15 and a girl who said she was my bestfriend going out with da boy i personally tole her myself i like; nd my dad is in jail; my b/f nd I are on and off, but we know we love each other. my other suppose to be bestfriend spreaded a rumor a/b me. ...
A. 14 March 2010: I am sorry that your dad is in jail and you are going through a difficult time in your life.
Focus on God and keep your hopes and faiths in Him.Pray daily for His strength and grace to help you overcome those obstacles and live one day at a tim... (read in full...)
Graduated and now engaged to my former teacher. How do I tell the world?
Q. In a nutshell, my junior year of high school I had an intense "crush" on my English teacher. My senior year I didn't have him as a teacher but we still talked every day. Towards the end of the year things seemed weird between us. He was upset a lot ...
A. 14 March 2010: You will need to let your parents know about your actual situations in your life. Pick a suitable time to talk to them.
Be prepared for their shock but if you are firm and persistence, you will win them over to your side.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend kept his ex's panties. Should I do something? What does it mean?
Q. Hi everyone, I just found this sight and was hoping for some advice. I've been in a serious relationship for 18 months and we are talking marriage here. My guy is terrific, thoughtful, giving, considerate and sweet. BUT today as we were doing ...
A. 14 March 2010: He may have forgotten about it and it has no more sentimental value. He threw it away. Perhaps , he does not want to be reminded of his ex wife.
Well! Throw them back into the bin of history.... (read in full...)
He said he can't leave his girlfriend for me. Should I continue what we have?
Q. Over a year ago I met my boyfriend. We are both divorced with kids. We slowly started dating (I was afraid to start because of the difficult previous divorce)after a half a year we became serious and then he announced to me that he has a live-in ...
A. 14 March 2010: He is not going to leave the other woman. He wants the cake and eat it as well. Don't listen to all his lies and deceits.
If you find the situation untenable , you should walk out unless you want to share that man with some woman.... (read in full...)
Does she want me to wait for her? Should I just move on?
Q. So its been 3months after the breakup, after the breakup i tried so hard to get her back and all i got was i needed space and i dont want a relationship.So its been 3 months. I kept close to her, and everything is okay i guess? We text at night, and ...
A. 14 March 2010: If it is real love, you will wait for her.
Tell yourself how long you will wait for her and if there is no change in her stand , then you can move on.
What she wants to see is your care and love for her. If she can feel it , your ship will b... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't want me anymore.
Q. Hello every one ,I have some problems with my husband, he doesn't want to come home anymore .We had a big fight, and he left me alone in the house for 2 days and didn't give any phone calls. After that fight, he make me a ticket ,and he want me ...
A. 14 March 2010: A person who immigrates to the United States based on a marriage that is less than two years old at the time of his/her admission will receive conditional permanent residence.
If the marriage is still intact at the second anniversary, then the... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 14 March 2010: It is very unfortunate that you were not brought up in a normal loving family environment by your parents but by your grandparents who have fulfilled those roles marvelously and raised you up to be what you are today.
There are quite a number o... (read in full...)
After a 6 month relationship, I found out he has a live in girlfriend. Is he playing me or does he really love me?
Q. I met my boyfriednd over a year ago. We are both divorced with kids. We slowly started dating. After a half a year relationship he announced to me that he has a live-in girlfriend (we live in different cities)for 2 years!he told me that he wants to ...
A. 14 March 2010: Would you be satisfied with having half a man or would you want to have 100% or none at all?
It's your call. ... (read in full...)
She prioritises her friends over me!
Q. Ok me and my girlfriend have been dating for 7 1/2 months now. The first couple months were great and everything was perfect we spent all the time together that we needed we did tons of stuff together and we were very serious about each other. ...
A. 14 March 2010: That was some excitement, huh! Sometimes, people can go astray after some time.They need to be shooed back to the right path. Well done!... (read in full...)
How do I apply for a marriage license so that I can marry him in my country?
Q. Hi, I am a Canadian citizen. I want to marry someone in Canada.... who lives in Saudi Arabia but he is in Canada with me on a student visa. How do I apply for a marriage license so that I can marry him in my country? Thanks in advanced!...
A. 14 March 2010: I think this link may help you .
http://www.glad.org/uploads/docs/publications/canada-marriage-faq.pdf... (read in full...)
I want him to propose to me SOON!!!
Q. I am 28 and in love with a man of 30. At times, he behaves as if he's talking to his wife but sometimes he seems distant. He had relations with a girl for 7 years before they broke up last year (6 months before he came into my life). At the same ...
A. 14 March 2010: Yours is a rebound case and beware .It is not to say that your chances are slimmer but it can also succeed.
If you are looking for love and longing for a committed relationship you probably won’t find what you desire from someone on the rebound.... (read in full...)
It was going so well but now I am being ignored.
Q. I have been speaking to this guy online, on the phone and via text for the past 4 months, things became very strong and I went to meet him last week. We had two dates which lasted for four hours each time, we laughed had fun, flirted, hugged and ...
A. 14 March 2010: He could have been slighted by something you said or did not do.He felt the coldness from you and withdrawn back into his shell.
Maybe , you should ask him what have you done wrong ?... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 14 March 2010: I apologize if I have made you out to be bad. I have given you another view from another angle.
Things are not what they seemed to be to your young mind. Sometimes, what you see is not what you get.
Your mother's problem is your grandparent... (read in full...)
How can tell my man that I'm not cheating or doing anything wrong???
Q. Hi just quick advice from u would help i been dating my boyfriend over year now and we actually live together and everything is so beautiful between us. i dont hide anything from my man becuz we trust each other. the other night an old friend c...
A. 13 March 2010: It is just a single incident and it is beyond your control. If he calls again tell him to stop because you have a b/f and he won't like it.... (read in full...)
Will the distance be too much?
Q. I'm 30 year old man she's 19 year old woman. I have 2 kids (girls) 8 and 6 years old. We started to be serious right away 3 months ago. She's going to university in 6 months. Now she lives only 1 1/2 hours away but then she will be 6 hours away! She ...
A. 13 March 2010: True love knows no barriers. Age is just a figure because what counts is maturity , understandings and most important of all love.
I wish you all the best.... (read in full...)
I bit him a little too hard and now he's really angry with me and I don't know how to sort this?
Q. I've done something silly. Last night, I was absolutely hammered, and was spending the night with my boyfriend, and we were having sex and I bit him a bit too hard, all in the heat of the moment, and I honestly misjudged it... so he roughly pushed ...
A. 13 March 2010: You have to act normal and try to joke and make him laughs.
Your storming off is certainly a cause of his anger. He may give you the silent treatment because the cat got his tongue.
... (read in full...)
He literally erased me from his life...
Q. Hi aunts. So I've been here before because I'm a 15 year old guy and I confessed to my best Guy friend that I was bisexual. Not only that; I was also confessed to him that I was attracted to him for a long amount of time.. and made a stupid move by ...
A. 13 March 2010: Learn from your mistakes and move on .You cannot control others and tell them what to do.
Sometimes, they have stereo type thinking's and do not understand about your sexuality . They are bias and prejudiced and there is nothing you can do for h... (read in full...)
I bit him a little too hard and now he's really angry with me and I don't know how to sort this?
Q. I've done something silly. Last night, I was absolutely hammered, and was spending the night with my boyfriend, and we were having sex and I bit him a bit too hard, all in the heat of the moment, and I honestly misjudged it... so he roughly pushed ...
A. 13 March 2010: You have apologized to him and the ball is at his feet. He may sulk for a few days and when he is rational again , he will come around.
Treat him nice and pamper him .This will be like a balm for his injured ego.... (read in full...)
Will the distance be too much?
Q. I'm 30 year old man she's 19 year old woman. I have 2 kids (girls) 8 and 6 years old. We started to be serious right away 3 months ago. She's going to university in 6 months. Now she lives only 1 1/2 hours away but then she will be 6 hours away! She ...
A. 13 March 2010: It's a tough call. She is leaving for the U and it means that you are only an option to her.
It is a different world and it may change her outlook.
If you are fated to be together, your path will meet again.
Time and distance can be a da... (read in full...)
She prioritises her friends over me!
Q. Ok me and my girlfriend have been dating for 7 1/2 months now. The first couple months were great and everything was perfect we spent all the time together that we needed we did tons of stuff together and we were very serious about each other. ...
A. 13 March 2010: Maybe, it has become too routine, stale, predictable and uninteresting . You need to make your hangouts more interesting and exciting ,that she would want to hang out more with you than her friends.... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 13 March 2010: You cannot change the fact that she is your biological mother even if you don't want to admit it.
Your mother may not measure up to your standards as compared to your grandparents or perfect in your eyes.
She may not be a good daughter to her ... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 13 March 2010: You cannot change the fact that she is your biological mother even if you don't want to admit it.
Your mother may not measure up to your standards as compared to your grandparents or perfect in your eyes..
She may not have given you the lo... (read in full...)
I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 13 March 2010: You cannot change the fact that she is your biological mother even if you don't want to admit it.
Your mother may not measure up to your standards as compared to your grandparents or perfect in your eyes..
She may not have given you the lo... (read in full...)
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