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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have this guy friend who never tells me how he feels and I always tell him. I've been really sick lately. So I don't feel like talking to him? But he never seems to talk to me anymore. I tackled him oneday to give him a back hug and he smiled big. What I don't get is if he likes me then why won't he just tell me. My friend Lisa asked him and he never replyed to her. I try getting my friends to ask him but hes just not interested in telling me! I told him how I felt about him and he doesn't repay the favor. I even let him sit with me on the bus and we talked like we were close. I don't get him anymore? It feels like I'm connected with him one day and then he doesn't want to see me or talk another day. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich +, writes (6 March 2010):
Maybe he dont really like you in a 2nd level of relationship. Maybe he is only content being good friend to you. Why put your stress and time with this? he can be a good friend to you always, but you can find another man who can really show you what love is. That you dont need to be the one who do the first step. Man always like to chase Women, it makes them feel more like they are the Man, so let them chase you. Goodluck.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (6 March 2010):
Maybe , he does not know how to handle you and he is afraid of hurting you .Furthermore, he could not verbalize his thoughts and hence, he acts nonchalantly.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 March 2010):
If after all this time of trying to get him to open up he hasn't said anything, it means he's not interested in you as anything more than a friend.
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